But that lady looks like she has passed menopause. My dear, even if it's me, I won't mind getting wedded in a 'wrapper' as long as I end up married.

gretblue:

You have simply made a good decision.

If not the best

She will be very lazy in bed

UbanmeUdie:




Africans have no mind of their own. Inferiority complex is still a plague amongst us with no vaccine nor cure for it yet.

For an African, white wedding is only a display of foolishness. The most important part of a wedding is parental consent and acceptance of bride price.

I think many Nigerian youth should do a little research on the history of weddings as obtainable in different parts of the world.

The subtle use of 'church wedding' instead of white wedding is what has affected the brains of Africans.

There is no such thing as church wedding!
Someone should please point it out from the bible. I think this is where we need Daddy freeze.

What is obtainable from Isaac and Rebekah, Jacob and Rachel is simply a traditional wedding. The wedding at Cana in John 3 where Jesus was a guest was a traditional wedding.

Now, I am not against exchange of marital vows in church and prophetic blessings for the marriage, however how we go about it is wrong!

We end up conducting two different wedding ceremonies for a couple.

I think the christian faith has got it all wrong as far as weddings is concerned in Africa. Because what we are suffering now is simply a conflict between the church and our tradition. Let everyone getting married invite their pastor to the tradition wedding to pray and lead them in exchange of marital vows after bride price has been paid or do so on Sunday in church during thanksgiving for the wedding.


The suit and the wedding gown is totally the white man's tradition and wedding ritual.

The couple above had it simple and worthy of an applause!

There's is no way you embrace foreign religion without adopting some elements of culture and tradition of the Originator of such religion.
Religion and culture/tradition Cannot be totally separated.
I think this is one of the root cause of Africa's plights.

To be Sincere, there are certain elements of European culture and tradition in the christianity that was handed over to Africa, which has nothing to do with christianity as a religion.

ajebuter:


I'm a Jehovah's witness and it's not 'our style as you said.

Jehovah's witnesses elders would tell you before you get married to do so according to your pocket

Family of the bride would even be told to be extremely moderate in their demand for bride price and bride wealth

They tell you to remember life begins after the wedding not before or during the wedding

You may even face judicial panel if you incur debt after wedding and people start dragging you for your indebtedness

So, basically in JW, if you have money, large wedding and if you dont, have small wedding

ANd congregation members would be told not to get offended if they are not invited, it simply means the couple is managing according to their finances and we all respect that.

.in addition, to
do not be pressurize into having expensive wedding. I know jw who had simple wedding, though they could afford elaborate wedding.

HeyCorleone:
Until we understand that this so called "white wedding" is nothing other than the traditional marriage of most European countries, then we would stop placing so much emphasis and hype on it..

.According to Bob Marley "emancipate yourself from mental slavery..."

May Allah bless your entire generation. Africans are real mugus. uncivilised yet claim to be most civilised by show of fashion and yeye celebrations. Benjamin and Donald said it all.

jericco1:
you can't blame them. that's what they could afford.

Not necessarily.

Investnow2017:

Not necessarily.

why that?

jericco1:


why that?

People may choose to be simple not necessarily because they cannot afford ultra-luxury, it may well be a principle they want to maintain. That is my point.

Investnow2017:

Not necessarily.

why that?

Have you ever read about a Christian celebrating Christ's birth in the Bible or any other birthday at all? Do some research, Christmas is very popular but that doesn't erase its pagan origin.
(quote author=kenny714433 post=62762426]Abeg which denomination is dat? Someone shld help me out.......

That was how one of their members came to me on Sunday, after a hot christ d king treck..... Telling me; celebrating Xmas and birthday is a sin....... If u see how i finished him... He forgot his Bible in my room and ran away. [/quote]

Investnow2017:


People may choose to be simple not necessarily because they cannot afford ultra-luxury, it may well be a principle they want to maintain. That is my point.

white wedding is not ultra luxury na.
maybe they have their reasons.

.r=Livefreeordieha post=62763132]true talk but when is time for u to marry offer cream color or orange to ur bride because u know about her abortions and exes and the escapades on Facebook...

If she agrees your negotiating prowess will be needed in yemen and Syria �����[/quote]

Oga I only gave little explanation on white dress for wedding and not in anyway condemning any color you or anybody chose
So, what's my bride, color, exes, abortion etc doing in this matter and the word of God gave pple like u opportunity to ask for wisdom o but u will never ask with faith and that's y u don't have.
James 1:5-6:

UbanmeUdie:




Africans have no mind of their own. Inferiority complex is still a plague amongst us with no vaccine nor cure for it yet.

For an African, white wedding is only a display of foolishness. The most important part of a wedding is parental consent and acceptance of bride price.

I think many Nigerian youth should do a little research on the history of weddings as obtainable in different parts of the world.

The subtle use of 'church wedding' instead of white wedding is what has affected the brains of Africans.

There is no such thing as church wedding!
Someone should please point it out from the bible. I think this is where we need Daddy freeze.

What is obtainable from Isaac and Rebekah, Jacob and Rachel is simply a traditional wedding. The wedding at Cana in John 3 where Jesus was a guest was a traditional wedding.

Now, I am not against exchange of marital vows in church and prophetic blessings for the marriage, however how we go about it is wrong!

We end up conducting two different wedding ceremonies for a couple.

I think the christian faith has got it all wrong as far as weddings is concerned in Africa. Because what we are suffering now is simply a conflict between the church and our tradition. Let everyone getting married invite their pastor to the tradition wedding to pray and lead them in exchange of marital vows after bride price has been paid or do so on Sunday in church during thanksgiving for the wedding.


The suit and the wedding gown is totally the white man's tradition and wedding ritual.

The couple above had it simple and worthy of an applause!

Nice "string" bro and boolean is true, this is pattern I am going to adopt.

Oga I only gave little explanation on white dress for wedding and not in anyway condemning any color you or anybody chose
So, what's my bride, color, exes, abortion etc doing in this matter and the word of God gave pple like u opportunity to ask for wisdom o but u will never ask with faith and that's y u don't have.
James 1:5-6:
James 1:5 If any of you lack wisdom, let him ask of God, that giveth to all men liberally, and upbraideth not; and it shall be given him. 1:6 But let him ask in faith, nothing wavering. For he that wavereth is like a wave of the sea driven with the wind and tossed


true talk but when is time for u to marry offer cream color or orange to ur bride because u know about her abortions and exes and the escapades on Facebook...

If she agrees your negotiating prowess will be needed in yemen and Syria �����[/quote]

na Jehovah witness them b now..

this one no be white wedding
na grey wedding

Igboblog:
These photos have got people talking after the lady who supposed to rock her white wedding gown to the alter decided to wear something simple. According to Facebook user who shared it...
'
''And someone just did what I've always imagined! Now i guess we have demystified white wedding. I love this! I wish I was there at the wedding.'' ladies can you wear this to your white wedding? Drop your comments
See photos below

Source : http://www.ndigbotvnews.com/2017/11/unbelievable-see-what-this-lady-wore-to.html?m=1

Beautiful

noskcid:
.r=Livefreeordieha post=62763132]true talk but when is time for u to marry offer cream color or orange to ur bride because u know about her abortions and exes and the escapades on Facebook...

If she agrees your negotiating prowess will be needed in yemen and Syria �����

Oga I only gave little explanation on white dress for wedding and not in anyway condemning any color you or anybody chose
So, what's my bride, color, exes, abortion etc doing in this matter and the word of God gave pple like u opportunity to ask for wisdom o but u will never ask with faith and that's y u don't have.
James 1:5-6:

i think you and your family will also need to meditate on those verses...Thank me later however..

Livefreeordieha:
i think you and your family will also need to meditate on those verses...Thank me later however..

e pain you abi

finally ur home is what u make of it. who says this wedding will not be as glorious as the couple desire. I spent money on my wedding again but e no matter. trust me this is as cool and as glamorous as banky and adesua's.

noskcid:



e pain you abi

see as your village people dey dance azonto with your destiny...U still dey jonz...I hail your commitment to your own daftness oooo...

Livefreeordieha:
see as your village people dey dance azonto with your destiny...U still dey jonz...I hail your commitment to your own daftness oooo...

Threebear:
She's better than most women, at least she respected herself and wore that colour.
I know some olosho's that their sex life can fill the pages of a note book, that still wore white to their wedding.

Sounds like you're subtly throwing some shade her way... wetin consine color of dress and her history?

Threebear:
She's better than most women, at least she respected herself and wore that colour.
I know some olosho's that their sex life can fill the pages of a note book, that still wore white to their wedding.

Jesu!

Igboblog:
These photos have got people talking after the lady who supposed to rock her white wedding gown to the alter decided to wear something simple. According to Facebook user who shared it...
'
''And someone just did what I've always imagined! Now i guess we have demystified white wedding. I love this! I wish I was there at the wedding.'' ladies can you wear this to your white wedding? Drop your comments
See photos below

Source : http://www.ndigbotvnews.com/2017/11/unbelievable-see-what-this-lady-wore-to.html?m=1

Extremist Organization.

makes sense na.
its not the wedding that matters but the marriage.

shobroy10:
That's the meaning of cut ur cloth According to ur size

I dey tell u my brother

kenny714433:
Abeg which denomination is dat? Someone shld help me out.......

That was how one of their members came to me on Sunday, after a hot christ d king treck..... Telling me; celebrating Xmas and birthday is a sin....... If u see how i finished him... He forgot his Bible in my room and ran away.

how did u
finished him
tell us

There is beauty in simplicity

kelechisblog:
Their church be jehova's witness nah (ama jehova).
Na their style

Na lie

Wow! I must say I am impressed by this. It shouldn't be mandatory for ladies to wear a white wedding dress to church. And if she wants to, she should be decent about it. Me, I love am die.