Dear FOB,
I don't want to bore you with my story but I need advice.
I met my boyfriend last year when I volunteered in a program which was meant for youths.

As a master degree holder then, I wasn't a speaker at the function, so I decided to serve as an usher. When the event started I noticed him, when he stood up to give his speech cus he was a speaker at the event and I said wow. I crushed on him immediately, I wanted him for myself.

When he was about leaving after the whole show I walked toward the aisle to where he was standing cus he was discussing with the organiser who happened to be my friend. I signaled my friend that I was leaving cus I had a meeting with my client later in the evening.

When I passed Bobo no gree look, so I left. I got home freshened up and forgot about the dude cus my ego was already out, after my attempt.

Few days later my friend told me someone wants my number, described him and in my mind I was like heeeeeeey. We connected after a week, when he finally called we talked. Met a few times, became friends and finally he asked me out and I said yes. We started dating. It was blissful at first, I noticed he was nonchalant about emotional stuffs but I overlooked it. 8months into our relationship, I can't bear it again. He make sure I am OK financially. I have never had a man that supports me financially like he does, even though i earn a fat salary.

But that's not all I want. He doesn't have time to hear me out, rarely calls, have lots of female friends but I can't say he is cheating, I need his care, time and attention. I miss certain things I need not money. Sometimes I feel shy telling people I'm in a relationship. I don't know what to do.
I feel I should walk away?

I need your advice.

My advice is very simple
I can't tell you categorically what to do cus I'm not you, I can't compare my shoes to yours.

I will advice you make out time, sit down and talk to him in the most mildest way. Remember communication is one of the vital tools needed in a relationship. Open up on how you feel, watch his reactions and make your decisions from the way he reacts, remember to be mild, don't run your mouth.

Thanks for sharing, wish you the best with it.

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YOUR POST CONTAINS both the issue and the solution.... WHEN YOU ARE COPYING FROM A SITE YOU HAVE TO BE CAREFUL TO POST ONLY THE PROBLEM. Your thread has its solution already.

greatnaija01:
YOUR POST CONTAINS both the issue and the solution.... WHEN YOU ARE COPYING FROM A SITE YOU HAVE TO BE CAREFUL TO POST ONLY THE PROBLEM. Your thread has its solution already.

I did not copy from a site. It's my blog and that's my opinion. Everyone is entitled to their own opinion which means u can advise her too

Faithola:
I did not copy from a site. It's my blog and that's my opinion. Everyone is entitled to their own opinion which means u can advise her too

why did u Crush on him the first time you saw him ? u be hoe ?

girls shaaa. u care 2 much dey tag u weak ass careless tag something else !! #obey Ebenezer z ryt

beardlessdude:
why did u Crush on him the first time you saw him ? u be hoe ?

Crushing on a guy for the first time doesn't make her a hoe? Guys that crush on a gal when they see her for the first time should be called what?

Side chic ehhhh

The guy is giving you money?.isn't that what you silly naija girls want?.And yet you are complaining.You lots are just confused and don't really know what you want

She should open her mouth and talk to the guy about it same way she opens her legs for him.

I'm out!

You would've quit that relationship, if not for the fact that he he's supporting you financially

STILESGANG:
The guy is giving you money?.isn't that what you silly naija girls want?.And yet you are complaining.You lots are just confused and don't really know what you want

Not every woman cares about your money.

Blackhawk01:
Side chic ehhhh

Sarafa wat happened to side chick sisterly?

Faithola:

Sarafa wat happened to side chick sisterly?

Sarafa?

Sisterly, darriz who you're...

Faithola:

Crushing on a guy for the first time doesn't make her a hoe? Guys that crush on a gal when they see her for the first time should be called what?

Shovel

ScotFree:


Shovel

So u have been a shovel b4? Lol

ScotFree:


And where's the girl i crushed on at first sight? You? Who?

Lol hunku it's a question

To me sha, acknowledging these emotional stuffs you're talking about is the gateway to drama. He knows this, and that is why he doesn't engage. The truth is he probably doesn't love you yet, but he will and he must! He neva see anytin. You can thaw his frozen heart by showing him just how awesome you are, that's if you think he's worth it.





Some men don't fall in love with their girlfriends until like the 8th month of dating. That is when he wakes up one morning and stares at her and goes like 'Oh shít! I swear I'm fûcking in love with this skele'. And the relationship dynamics change. And the power transfers to the woman. And then the woman begins to wonder what she even really saw in him anyway. In which case the man is screwed.

You can drag him into this bottomless pit of despair. Plan A - Use your feminine wiles. Plan B - Use juju.

That guy is not in love at all. I guess she serves other purposes for him