Jackson042:


I don't know whose telling you all these bullshit!

Everyone is proud...

Male & female...

Isn't it the guy who humbles himself & makes the first approach to a girl they like?

Ask any girl to do the same... she'll tell you that "any girl who makes the first move is cheap & desperate"

Now tell me, isn't that pride?

Because I know that my American babes... if they see a guy they like, they approach him & start a conversation...

But African girls will stick to their "green light" bullshit!

Praiseamazing:
SIGNS OF IMMATURITY IN MARRIAGE FOR MEN:

1. Rejecting food when there's an issue:

Mr husband, you gave your wife money for food and after it was prepared you refused to eat because you are angry. It's one of the greatest signs of immaturity, it's time to grow up! You should not even abandon your home for any reason. You could go somewhere when angry but ensure that you don't allow it to linger unnecessarily because that is enough for the devil to build on even though some women can be really troublesome.

2. Telling your wife severally that you are the head:

May I let you know that even when your wife disobeys/ disrespect you she still knows that you are the head. You need not shout or scream it daily. Or do we need to get you a slot on CNN? It's important for you to know when and how to be firm and put your feet down over issues, however don't become a nagging husband just to prove that you are the head.

3. Issuing threats:

beating, verbally abusing your wife, issuing threats of divorce or bragging about marrying another wife does not make you a man. An EMPTY barrel makes the loudest noise. Your strength is in your ability to tame your tongue and control your fist. When she is acting her "childish woman" part, play the "matured man."

4. Reporting your wife to friends and family:

When your wife offends you, correct
and talk things through. You don't have to tell everyone about her mistakes, that will paint her black and sell her cheap such that you will not be able to redeem her back.
By the way, are you a reporter? Answer my question.

5. Keeping malice:

is it not funny to know that some men keep malice? Some of them even nag, criticise, abuse and call their wives names in public. It may make you look like a "big boy" who's in control but you are not going to gain anything good from it, your home will only be a den of insults and confrontations.

6. Not helping with house chores:

I must say here that it is the sole responsibility of a woman to tend and manage a home when she chooses to be a full time house wife. However, it's not a bad thing if a man lends a helping hand when necessary. Watching football with newspaper in your hand every evening, not caring how stressful the house chores are will only increase the pressure on your wife and if you truly care you'll help, just checking on her while busy could encourage and sooth her, this also makes you a good example to the kids especially the boys. Some men don't even say "thank You" to their wives after eating, all they do is compare her with other women. It's a shame that after having 3-4 kids some men cannot change a simple diaper or
prepare cereal meals; a big shame.

My point?

A REAL man is a pillar of support to his wife, not a hole of depression.

newbornmacho:
You can be the neck or even the tail while your wife is the head who cares?. Stupid article

Jackson042:



You don't even understand what they mean by "boys don't cry" OR "big boys don't cry"

Of course they do cry.. but they don't cry in public like a baby... except if they are physically beaten... men are naturally strong minded while women are fragile...

that's why any small thing, women will start crying...

a man will misplace his phone.. it will pain him.. but he won't cry.. instead when he's alone, he might feel sad..

but if a woman misplaced her phone, she'll cry from morning till night... and continue the next day...

Mollyallex:



African girls wait for you to approach them because they 've been taught that a woman who approaches a man is too forward and cheap.

Jackson042:


My dear... by right, the man is meant to be the bread winner of the Family... it has been like that since ages...

His wife can never take up the role of a man.. instead, she can only support him.. but that does not make her the bread winner...

Go back to your Bible... Why did God create Eve?

Wasn't it to be Adam's companion & to support him in looking after the Garden of Eden?

Ashley86400:

Men are physically stronger while women are emotionally stronger.
Most ignorant niggers here don't know tears are a way for the body to reduce stress and pent up emotions. Wether you're in pain or you lose someone or something, once you cry, you feel better.
So your idea of fragility makes no sense. .what's the point of being physically strong when you're emotionally weak?
Women might cry over a lot of things, but the day they stop crying ,know that you're fucckked.

Women might cry over a lot of things, but the day they stop crying, know that you're fucckked

know that you're fucckked

Ashley86400:

Religious zombie spotted.

Ashley86400:

Religious zombie spotted.

daylife7:


Nigerian women believe a man must pay them after sex.....

Hedonistically:


Thank you very much. Let the stupid Nairaland feminists provide a sensible response to this.

I would go and steal money to fund one yeye long marriage/wedding process and afterwards I would still be expected to bring bring bring, spend spend spend, yet you want to question my right to relax with other women? Because I came to this world to suffer for you alone. Nonsense. Out of all this nonsense, the idea that a man should stick to just one woman for the rest of his life is the one I consider most provocative.

InyinyaAgbaOku:


How many people do you now want to suffer for?

mrkunlex:


https://www.bellanaija.com/2017/11/6-problematic-things-nigerian-men-raised-believe-truth/

theapeman:
what manner of rubbish have I read that irritated my eyes!

Hedonistically:


More like how many people I want to enjoy myself with... I suffer to make money in order to enjoy myself. That's the point.

blackbeau1:
That a man who shows love or helps out with the household chores is weak.

Temitharyo:
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iRepNaija1:
OP, you shouldn't have bothered with this write-up. The only thing you managed to do was bring out NL members who want to insult you, tell you that you hate all men, call you a feminist/say this is about feminism, distract the conversation by pointing at women's "faults" in response, and make comments that don't contribute to the discussion. If your write-up didn't apply to these naysayers, they wouldn't have bothered responding in the first place.

The fact of the matter is that there is truth to the what the OP is saying and the responders, not matter how much they try, can't negate that. They can look our society and see for themselves, if they want to. Smh. This site used to be a cool place to come to.