Daeylar:


Can she really win?
Well till they get to court

Daeylar:


Can she really win?
Well till they get to court

Audray:
What'd you think? That he wanted to adopt you into the family?

DWJOBScom:


She will cart home the trophy as well as records

SlayQueenSlayer:


I am disappointed in you, poco. If it is possible for a man to rape his wife, then we shouldn't just dismiss her allegations like that. Do you know that consent can be withdrawn even when you're are about to cum? Now I don't know what you really stand for.

DWJOBScom:
She can still win the case and yes send the man to prison.

She will have to bear a lot of stigma as there's going to be a division on both sides(support for and against her plight)

It's simple
i. She can't leave the hotel room as the man holds the transportation back and remember she said she doesn't know anyone in ABUJA making it impossible for her to knock him off.
ii. She never knew the man was married and if she can provide an evidence where she kept asking , that will be taken.
iii. The man still loves and respects his marriage enough not tell his wife the truth of his location so she should sue and will definitely reveal a rogue husband and if she's for compensation should settle out of court.
iv. She said NO and that's the mute word and evidence from virginal injuries can be taken.

The truth remains that the man wasn't honest and the lady was clearly in love so i won't call her a prostitute as the popular chorus out there. I also think the lawyer is not competent or probably has his hands full

SlayQueenSlayer:


I am disappointed in you, poco. If it is possible for a man to rape his wife, then we shouldn't just dismiss her allegations like that. Do you know that consent can be withdrawn even when you're are about to cum? Now I don't know what you really stand for.

queenfav:

Bros i am a lawyer working with a firm that specializes in Criminal. Asides that my final year project was in rape so i extensively researched on it. She cannot win this case.Firstly, no where did she say she the man locked her indoors or kept her against her will. She had free enter and exit so much that she wad going to the hotel poolside. If she was deeply convinced that she just suffered rape, what immediate steps did she take to leave the hotel? Did she go to a hospital? Rape case cannot survive on the mere allegation of "I told him no, yet he forced himself". The law and Courts do not give judgment based on emotions, you need evidence to verify the cold hard facts!Did she call for help? Her phone was with her, did she open up to a family member or anyone. Can she say nobody would have been able to give her fare back home? Secondly,the fact that the man is married doesn't change anything. Most wives know their husbands are not faithful. Infact in most cases the wife would appear with the husband in court till judgement is delivered! Even if she decides to divorce him afterwards, do you imagine she would want her husband to go to jail? Thirdly there is no financial compensation for rape victims... The only justice you get is seeing the accused behind bars. Lastly, whatever evidence of vagina injuries she had has already been compromised due to lapse of time. A medical examination is recommended immediately after the incident, that way the doctor can get proof of semen, blood from the bruises caused by forced entry. You can't win a rape case without a valid medical report corroborating your case!

queenfav:

Bros i am a lawyer working with a firm that specializes in Criminal. Asides that my final year project was in rape so i extensively researched on it. She cannot win this case.Firstly, no where did she say she the man locked her indoors or kept her against her will. She had free enter and exit so much that she wad going to the hotel poolside. If she was deeply convinced that she just suffered rape, what immediate steps did she take to leave the hotel? Did she go to a hospital? Rape case cannot survive on the mere allegation of "I told him no, yet he forced himself". The law and Courts do not give judgment based on emotions, you need evidence to verify the cold hard facts!Did she call for help? Her phone was with her, did she open up to a family member or anyone. Can she say nobody would have been able to give her fare back home? Secondly,the fact that the man is married doesn't change anything. Most wives know their husbands are not faithful. Infact in most cases the wife would appear with the husband in court till judgement is delivered! Even if she decides to divorce him afterwards, do you imagine she would want her husband to go to jail? Thirdly there is no financial compensation for rape victims... The only justice you get is seeing the accused behind bars. Lastly, whatever evidence of vagina injuries she had has already been compromised due to lapse of time. A medical examination is recommended immediately after the incident, that way the doctor can get proof of semen, blood from the bruises caused by forced entry. You can't win a rape case without a valid medical report corroborating your case!

Daeylar:

DWJOBScom
See this.

donnaD:
lwkmd chai serious raping indeed.she enjoyed the rape and the guy enjoyed the rape chikinna.she wan chop osho free and clean mouth.U dated a guy online for only four months and u are so eager to travel that far just to have sex with him and u don't have the uncommon sence to have sum money with u even if it's ur tfare back,u foolishly went there empty handed and u cud not find out he was married tru out ur chatting period.I bet u were carried away by the shopping that is y u cud not leave.abeg let me hear word.sum ladies are so fucking dumb,she is so jobless that all she has to offer is her body.u are lucky u were not turned to suya or for ritual den in ur next life u will automatically have enough sense .

Daeylar:


Well, till they get to court, let's see.


Just sounds like she made the whole thing up though.
But the man should better have sense, as soon as she said she won't have sex he should have sent her home and not tried to bribe her with shopping.

Angy55:


Abi oooo my sister, she should thank her God she got home alive.
She travelled to Abuja without a dime in her account I don't believe that line, Abuja to PH is 7000 naira if she was serious about leaving the hotel room she would have made some calls to source for her TP.

She enjoyed the whole show.

Drinokrane:
There was a heated argument on Facebook after unidentified Nigerian lady who was lodged in a hotel by a married man for 5 days and was going for shopping with him after multiple non-consensual sex, threatened to sue him for rape.

As shared by Facebook user, E. Onoriode,
He wrote;
Based on my yesterday post on rape, a girl inboxed me to know if she can sue a man for rape because according to her story, she didn’t consent to the sex.

Read our chat;
“She: “Good evening sir, pls, I read ur update abt rape and it got me so confused. I will like to knw if I can sue for rape if a man forced his way to have sex with me without my consent? ”

Me: “Yes, you can sue for rape if a man force his way on you without your consent”

She: “Thank u sir. Can I explain wht really happen to me so that u can advise me on how to go abt it?”

Me: “You’re free and I’m reading.”

Me: “Should in case I stopped replying you as we’re chatting, just know that I’m busy. I will attend to your messages once I’m less busy.”

She: “Ok. No problem sir”

She: “Abt four months ago, I met a guy on Facebook and we became close friends. He was a very nice guy to me all throughout the period of our online relationship”

Me: “…..he ‘WAS’ a very nice guy to you… That means he stopped being nice to during or after the relationship?”

She: “Hmmmm let me finish the story. You will understand what I mean.”

Me: “It’s ok. I’m reading”

She: “Somehow I and the guy started dating and exchanging nude pictures and we also had phone intimacy on several occasions. The guy is based in Abuja while am based in PH.”

She: “One day, he invited me to see him at Abuja where he’s based, that’s after about four months of our online relationship. He paid for my flight ticket frm PH to Abuja.”

Me: “Wow! This is getting interesting. Before you left PH for Abuja, was there any agreement between the two of you?”

She: “I don’t understand sir”

Me: ” I mean before you traveled to Abuja, did you guys discuss anything about sex or was the visit a mutual visit?”

She: “Yes, we do have phone intimacy and he always tell me how he will handle me if we see. Truth is that I know he wants to have sex with me that’s why he invited me to Abuja. And I do wish same too. But what happen was that when I got to Abuja, he lodged me in an hotel. I became worried because that’s not what we agreed before I left PH. I then asked him why he lodged me in an hotel instead of taking me to his house. That’s when I realized he’s a married man. I became so disappointed and angry. We quarried seriously that day for concealing his marital status to me. He begged me seriously to forgive him but I was too angry to look at his face. The whole love I have for him died immediately. Sir, I have not dated a married man in my life and I never wished to date one. But I was surprise he didn’t tell me he was married until that day.”

Me: “So all through the four months of your relationship with this man, you didn’t ask him of his relationship status?”

She: “I’ve asked him severally but he always ignore the question with various excuses that am too inquisitive”

Me: “So what happened in the hotel”

She : “That day at the hotel when I discovered he’s married, he told me he told his wife that he’s traveling to Lagos for five days seminar. That means he want to spend the five days with me in the hotel. I became more angry because if am in his wife shoes, I won’t be happy that another woman is spending time with my husband in an hotel room. So I told him to go back home to his wife but he refused that he had already paid for the hotel room for five days and he had packed his luggage’s to be with me for five days and that he can’t go home until after five days”

Me: ” I’m still here reading. Just continue.”

She : “Ok. So that night, after taking my bath, as I was applying cream on my body, he came to me that he want to have sex with me but I refused and we argued about it till mid night. When he realized I was serious, he respected my decision and went to bed angrily. The following day, he took me out for shopping to clam me down but I was still angry with him. In the evening, he told me he want to share the bathroom with me and I refused. He went to the bathroom and took his bath alone. After I had taken my own bath, immediately I stepped out of the bathroom, he grabbed me, and told me he will break my hand if I don’t allow him to have his way. I was so scared due to rge look in his eyes. His behavior was frightening so I allowed him have his way. As he was having sex with me, I kept begging him to stop but he refused. Truth is that, I didn’t consent to the sex but he forced his way and raped me. I bruised seriously in my vagina. I was crying when he was on me but he didn’t stop. That night, I wasn’t myself.”

Me: “So what action did you take after that incident? ”

She: “I couldn’t do anything because I don’t know anywhere in Abuja. Though, he apologized to me that night but he still repeated it again in the morning. And that was how he kept raping me till I left for PH”

Me: “So during this period where he was raping you, were you tied in the hotel room? Did you have access outside the hotel room? Why did you remain in the hotel with your rapist? Who did you inform in the hotel that you’re being raped by one of their customer? Who paid for your TF back to PH?”

She: “Am confused sir. Actually, I have access outside the hotel and I do go to the pool daily to swim and we go out to the supermarket on few occasions together to buy things. But why I remained in the hotel was because I don’t know anybody in Abuja and I don’t have TF to take me back to PH from Abuja”

Me: “I’d tell you the truth, as long as we are in Nigeria, you can file for rape if you so wish but if what you told me is what you’d tell your lawyer or Police, you won’t win the case. In fact, the Police and lawyers will laugh at you. This is because you claimed the man raped you yet, you remained with your rapist in the same hotel room for days for him to keep raping you. You can’t tell me that in that hotel, there’s nobody to complain to. Yet, you kept quiet and remained in the hotel with him even though you’re not tied or locked in the room. You have free access to and fro the hotel yet, you still went back to the room to meet your rapist. My advise is that you should learn from this incident because you don’t have a genuine case. That’s the painful truth”

Well, I had to leave other conversation to shorten the post. I asked for her permission to share and she gave me a go ahead. So friends, can this girl sue for rape?”

Read some of the responses below:



http://www.torimill.com/2017/12/nigerian-lady-lodged-in-hotel-by.html

I doubt this gals side of story, from my comprehensiveness she is is one trying to rape the man! Al this slay queen roaming around looking for men to devour

DWJOBScom:


She will win the case

i may not be able to beautifully come up with an analysis as good as yours BUT i think she will win.
We must do something about rape and the girl child.

You forgot she wasn't aware HE was married

queenfav:
lol... These your cross examination questions will even be giving her time to think and explain. If she meets someone like me, my boss or any lawyer that had worked with him, after the cross-examination she would not hesitate to withdraw her case against the man. In my firm, we ask closed questions couched in a way that you would even unknowingly implicate yourself. She should not bother suing else she would be slaughtered in Court. Most lawyers have zero chill!

donnaD:

don't mind the attention seeking girl.she was damn lucky that she was only raped and she cud swim in the hotel's pool.I just can't imagine what is wrong with sum ladies,they get easily carried away with thinking of the consequences of their actions.

DWJOBScom:
She can still win the case and yes send the man to prison.

She will have to bear a lot of stigma as there's going to be a division on both sides(support for and against her plight)

It's simple
i. She can't leave the hotel room as the man holds the transportation back and remember she said she doesn't know anyone in ABUJA making it impossible for her to knock him off.
ii. She never knew the man was married and if she can provide an evidence where she kept asking , that will be taken.
iii. The man still loves and respects his marriage enough not tell his wife the truth of his location so she should sue and will definitely reveal a rogue husband and if she's for compensation should settle out of court.
iv. She said NO and that's the mute word and evidence from virginal injuries can be taken.

The truth remains that the man wasn't honest and the lady was clearly in love so i won't call her a prostitute as the popular chorus out there. I also think the lawyer is not competent or probably has his hands full

mpowa:

Hogwash! If she's truly a sincere girl who wants a proper relationship with an unmarried man, she will leave immediately or at least within the the first day the man didn't touch her.


It's all about what pain she was willing to bear, will she rather rally and find her way home, call anyone to help or will she stay with a married man whose obvious interest in her is just sex,

but she stayed, she went shopping, she went swimming, she received first round, no complain to anyone, second and more rounds, she did not cry out to anyone, she didn't leave, Ole!

Mind you they've been sending nude pics to themselves, so sexual tension had built very well - She wanted it, she wanted everything.

DWJOBScom:
She can still win the case and yes send the man to prison.

She will have to bear a lot of stigma as there's going to be a division on both sides(support for and against her plight)

It's simple
i. She can't leave the hotel room as the man holds the transportation back and remember she said she doesn't know anyone in ABUJA making it impossible for her to knock him off.
ii. She never knew the man was married and if she can provide an evidence where she kept asking , that will be taken.
iii. The man still loves and respects his marriage enough not tell his wife the truth of his location so she should sue and will definitely reveal a rogue husband and if she's for compensation should settle out of court.
iv. She said NO and that's the mute word and evidence from virginal injuries can be taken.

The truth remains that the man wasn't honest and the lady was clearly in love so i won't call her a prostitute as the popular chorus out there. I also think the lawyer is not competent or probably has his hands full

rawpadgin:
[/b]A rape case between a guy & a girl[b]

JUDGE: man Collins, miss bola here claims on the 27 of July u forcefully had carnal knowledge with her. Are u guilty or nor guilty?

ACCUSED: my lord, i am not guilty but b4 i say anything i want her to pay for my bed sheets which she stained with her dirty shoes

ACCUSER: my lord, i didn't stained his bed sheets with my shoes o! I removed my shoes, my clothes & even my underwear b4 i climbed on top the bed where he raped me

JUDGE..............