Kennitrust:
ur advice pls.

I first met her but she said my biz was not good enough to keep us going.

I tried hard but I loose her to a rich guy who impregnated her and then dump her.

but I still love this girl but her condition among others is that I will take full responsibility of a child whose father remained unknown to me.

just hard to decide.

Do not fan d cook that does not belong to u, let go

Kennitrust:
ur advice pls.

I first met her but she said my biz was not good enough to keep us going.

I tried hard but I loose her to a rich guy who impregnated her and then dump her.

but I still love this girl but her condition among others is that I will take full responsibility of a child whose father remained unknown to me.

just hard to decide.

second hand babe dey give u condition, just forget d babe and move on

Israeljones:
this op no want make this 9ja ladies marry at all,If every guy is to go by this list..
virtually every Nigerian lady has one or 2 of those quality up there......especially that no 5

My Girl Does Not Have Any Of What's Mentioned Above.. I Dont Know If Shes Pretending Oh But We've Been Dating For 5years Now.

Oh my God......u are wicked ooo guy.....
Y did u ask if she must have inherited it.....
Has anyone ever inherited foolishness before??
Please enlighten me o

HRHQueenPhil:
the red signs for men are d following
1. does not like to take responsibility
2. cannot keep to his words no matter how small
3. always ready to fight or yell esp wen in traffic or his car is scratched by anoda
4. sees going to church services esp mid week ones or bible study/house fellowship as a waste of time and agrees with FREEZE
5. often complains when u add weight and likes taking selfies of himself half naked
6. when you cannot seat and have a meaningful conversation for 1 hour without going for ur bra
7. when he dosent seem to value your opinion or ask for it
8. when he dosent like to hold ur hand, kiss you or touch u esp wen his friends are there (could be GAY)

It Sounds Meaningful To Me..

Kudos

Nice one...

All correct... Especially no. 4

HRHQueenPhil:
the red signs for men are d following
1. does not like to take responsibility
2. cannot keep to his words no matter how small
3. always ready to fight or yell esp wen in traffic or his car is scratched by anoda
4. sees going to church services esp mid week ones or bible study/house fellowship as a waste of time and agrees with FREEZE
5. often complains when u add weight and likes taking selfies of himself half naked
6. when you cannot seat and have a meaningful conversation for 1 hour without going for ur bra
7. when he dosent seem to value your opinion or ask for it
8. when he dosent like to hold ur hand, kiss you or touch u esp wen his friends are there (could be GAY)

Topccy007:

Open your own thread on this and don't counter the OP
Keep paying your tithe if you wish.... It's your biz

Sharrraaap

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johncallidon:

did Yhu inherited this foolishness or Yhu learn it?

My good man

You don't need anybody's advice don't deceive yourself you're not confused... You've just refused to accept the truth you already know...

Be wise

Kennitrust:
ur advice pls.

I first met her but she said my biz was not good enough to keep us going.

I tried hard but I loose her to a rich guy who impregnated her and then dump her.

but I still love this girl but her condition among others is that I will take full responsibility of a child whose father remained unknown to me.

just hard to decide.

Kennitrust:
ur advice pls.

I first met her but she said my biz was not good enough to keep us going.

I tried hard but I loose her to a rich guy who impregnated her and then dump her.

but I still love this girl but her condition among others is that I will take full responsibility of a child whose father remained unknown to me.

just hard to decide.

Nigger, do u love your life? If u do, forget about this girl and bounce

Meckzy81:



My Girl Does Not Have Any Of What's Mentioned Above.. I Dont Know If Shes Pretending Oh But We've Been Dating For 5years Now.

Congrats

Then you both are ripe for marriage... 5 years is too long for someone to pretend...

Kennitrust:
ur advice pls.

I first met her but she said my biz was not good enough to keep us going.

I tried hard but I loose her to a rich guy who impregnated her and then dump her.

but I still love this girl but her condition among others is that I will take full responsibility of a child whose father remained unknown to me.
just hard to decide.

In as much as I'd love you to follow your heart..Nigerian ladies of such nature and given the circumstances might take you for a ride in the nearest future..ko make sense...Pull out bro and be her good friend...Nothing more..Don't jump into troubled waters

My Ex girlfriend is completely number 1 to 8 of the list... Even thou I waited for her to change she was just getting worst day by day that she started carrying weapon like heavy stone and bottle plan to hit me wen ever we have a little quarrel..

She wud accuse me at the slightest of cheat wen deep down she know I am not, she can never say sorry and she doesn't care about ur goal, all she cares about is hers. Menh it was terrible I wasted allot of fund thinking I was building my future wife not knowing its just a drama queen

And the only thing she can offer is sex.. Nothing else

teewhydope:


3,4,5,8 doesnt make sense tbh

Of course they do make sense except 4. If a guy is guilty of 3, he's probably the violent type and lacks self control.

Kennitrust:
ur advice pls.

I first met her but she said my biz was not good enough to keep us going.

I tried hard but I loose her to a rich guy who impregnated her and then dump her.

but I still love this girl but her condition among others is that I will take full responsibility of a child whose father remained unknown to me.

just hard to decide.

If you believe inside your heart you love her,don't mind what people are saying.Go and marry her but if you don't love her ,leave her

u forgot to add cleanliness and submissiveness + respect very vital any girl ain't got this two can't even near me

HRHQueenPhil:
the red signs for men are d following
1. does not like to take responsibility
2. cannot keep to his words no matter how small
3. always ready to fight or yell esp wen in traffic or his car is scratched by anoda
4. sees going to church services esp mid week ones or bible study/house fellowship as a waste of time and agrees with FREEZE
5. often complains when u add weight and likes taking selfies of himself half naked
6. when you cannot seat and have a meaningful conversation for 1 hour without going for ur bra
7. when he dosent seem to value your opinion or ask for it
8. when he dosent like to hold ur hand, kiss you or touch u esp wen his friends are there (could be GAY)

Freeze is right. There is no biblical support for Christians to pay tithe

makky555:



Sharrraaap

Brainless B!tches everywhere..... The reason u won't in your life time find a good man.

Else she will gank you.

Kennitrust:
ur advice pls.

I first met her but she said my biz was not good enough to keep us going.

I tried hard but I loose her to a rich guy who impregnated her and then dump her.

but I still love this girl but her condition among others is that I will take full responsibility of a child whose father remained unknown to me

just hard to decide.

Simple!
She dumped you before, she'll dump you again...wen she finds another richer guy

HRHQueenPhil:
the red signs for men are d following
1. does not like to take responsibility
2. cannot keep to his words no matter how small
3. always ready to fight or yell esp wen in traffic or his car is scratched by anoda
4. sees going to church services esp mid week ones or bible study/house fellowship as a waste of time and agrees with FREEZE
5. often complains when u add weight and likes taking selfies of himself half naked
6. when you cannot seat and have a meaningful conversation for 1 hour without going for ur bra
7. when he dosent seem to value your opinion or ask for it
8. when he dosent like to hold ur hand, kiss you or touch u esp wen his friends are there (could be GAY)

seriously must we create a counter thread. these attitudes of women begin too feministic shd take a little hold. Men will always be superior no matter how hard we try. We just influence them with our woman power to be also submissive to us in a way not going all out for them.

#lines

mhizsuzzy:


seriously must we create a counter thread. these attitudes of women begin too feministic shd take a little hold. Men will always be superior no matter how hard we try. We just influence them with our woman power to be also submissive to us in a way not going all out for them.

#lines

You've spoken like a true daughter of ur parents...God bless you

Kennitrust:
ur advice pls.

I first met her but she said my biz was not good enough to keep us going.

I tried hard but I loose her to a rich guy who impregnated her and then dump her.

but I still love this girl but her condition among others is that I will take full responsibility of a child whose father remained unknown to me.

just hard to decide.

UNDILUTED FOOLISHNESS IN DISPLAY,..........................................perpetual BONDAGE........loading

Kcconcept:
8 RED SIGNS YOU SHOULD LOOKOUT FOR BEFORE TAKING THAT GIRL TO THE ALTAR

Research has shown that love can make partners look high or act madly in love especially earlier on into the relationship. But with all these powerful emotions happening, be careful, your judgment can be beclouded. Most importantly, how do you tell or identify that your partner is a good choice for you, well a lot of study and many therapists has found that there are a few general signs you should be aware of in a relationship. Some people otherwise call this red flags. If you are looking forward to building a relationship that would take you to the altar, then these are the 8 red signs you should look out for in your partner.



1. HOW COMMITTED IS YOUR PARTNER

Watch to see how your girl follows through on her commitment In all aspect of her life. It is important to study your girl, once in a while create a task for her and watch how she follows it up. Check out to see if she’s a flake.

2. HOW DOES SHE TREAT STRANGERS

You can glean important information about a person from how they treat strangers, especially those who work in public or social places. Waiters, staff etc. If she’s too nagging in a social environment or towards servers. Then this is a sure sign you should be careful.


3. SHES TOO VIOLENT

It can be quite worrisome to have a lady who is violent. In fact, a study has it that women are most likely to initiate domestic violence. If your girlfriend gets violent while you argue, then that should signal to you as a bright Red Sign that you need to halt the relationship immediately.

4. SHE ALWAYS LIKES TO BE TREATED SPECIAL (LIKE A PRINCESS)

Be on the lookout for subtle and overt clues that your partner has that princess mentality. When one person has a sense of entitlement and expectation that her needs should always come before any other person, resentment and anger are usually the results.

5.YOUR PARTNER ARGUES ALL THE TIME

There is nothing wrong with conflict In a relationship, it's completely normal and in fact healthy at times. But when all she does is argue then there is a problem. Especially when is slightly over little things like being late for dinner, etc. then all of a sudden she starts feeling her mind with the thoughts that you are not committed to her.

6. SHE NEVER APOLOGIZES

Psychology calls the ability to recognize and take responsibility for a bad behavior CONSCIOUSNESS. It's an important attribute in maintaining a relationship if you can’t even apologize for doing something wrongly then what’s the need of loving.


7. YOU DON’T SHARE THE SAME GOALS OR CORE VALUES

It doesn’t matter how much you love each other, when you and your girl aren’t on the same page when it comes to things like values and life goals. Just bear in mind that things are so going to be rocky.

8. LOOKOUT IF SHES THAT DRAMA QUEEN TYPE

Beware of women who not only proclaim themselves to be drama queen but also revel in the roll. Study has it that they also swing from one emotional extreme to another when life seems a little boring or flat. They will go out of their way to stare up controversy. Example, when both of you are together, you can see her lamenting over you checking out another girl which necessarily might not be true.

source:http://www.kraftypedia.com/2017/12/8-red-signs-you-should-lookout-for.html

wow, my girl should be the ideal wife, she passed all this points

Oyiboman69:
Love is blind

It's not true.

Abeg moderators permit me small..... Na desperation wey dey pursue me


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HRHQueenPhil:
the red signs for men are d following
1. does not like to take responsibility
2. cannot keep to his words no matter how small
3. always ready to fight or yell esp wen in traffic or his car is scratched by anoda
4. sees going to church services esp mid week ones or bible study/house fellowship as a waste of time and agrees with FREEZE
5. often complains when u add weight and likes taking selfies of himself half naked
6. when you cannot seat and have a meaningful conversation for 1 hour without going for ur bra
7. when he dosent seem to value your opinion or ask for it
8. when he dosent like to hold ur hand, kiss you or touch u esp wen his friends are there (could be GAY)

Showed this to my wife and ask her if l have any of these signs?

She replied: You have all of them and that is why you are so special, You will always be the love of my life and my King!

I was like when did you start drinking or do you need to see an optician? These are the "bad signs" that one woman posted online that you should never marry into?
She was like: so you still read what all them bitches write online?
Such nosense are the product of a female mind that has been left standing for years on end and any woman with a husband like you wont have time to write such.

Still cant stop laughing but 'am lovin'it

Kennitrust:
ur advice pls.

I first met her but she said my biz was not good enough to keep us going.

I tried hard but I loose her to a rich guy who impregnated her and then dump her.

but I still love this girl but her condition among others is that I will take full responsibility of a child whose father remained unknown to me.

just hard to decide.

You are stupid my brother. Let me be straight with u.

After sleeping with her your eyes will clear but you will carry responsibility that does not belong to you and when another rich man comes her way, she will still leave.

Whatt is difficult to take in that decision if not because you are just too stupid.

I think the worst sign for me is the last on the list....you wouldn't know what she really wants neither would you know her real person.

HRHQueenPhil:
the red signs for men are d following
1. does not like to take responsibility
2. cannot keep to his words no matter how small
3. always ready to fight or yell esp wen in traffic or his car is scratched by anoda
4. sees going to church services esp mid week ones or bible study/house fellowship as a waste of time and agrees with FREEZE
5. often complains when u add weight and likes taking selfies of himself half naked
6. when you cannot seat and have a meaningful conversation for 1 hour without going for ur bra
7. when he dosent seem to value your opinion or ask for it
8. when he dosent like to hold ur hand, kiss you or touch u esp wen his friends are there (could be GAY)

no .6 tho... if he doesn't go for ur bra... u will say he doesn't see u as a sexy woman