balmofgilead:

You are not wise at all! something you can handle diplomatically.slap her o and God will slap you HARDEST!

EMPEROR48:
My fellow nairalanders, please I really need a good advice on my actions, my wife saved a male so called sorcerer with a female name.

She left her phone to be with her sister at the hospital that was how I discovered a number calling her line saved with aunty grace, on picking the call I discovered it was a male voice, then he was asking after my wive's sister's health because my wife called him to tell him that her sister was rushed to the hospital this morning, and what really struck me most was that my wife deleted all conversations btw them before leaving the house for the clinic, if not that the said man was calling to find out how her sister was fairing I wouldn't know who aunty grace is.

Now I am alone and so angry, I planned giving my wife a hot slap when she returns.

Please advise me...

MrBottle:
You want to slap your wife for storing a male names with a female? You must be one hell of an overbearing louse for her to be doing something like that.

What even made you think of giving her a resounding slap, your wife because of mundane things like this. Has she ever cheated on you before to warrant this sort of negative thinking towards her?

Damianwest19:
You have to be tactful here;so dont jump the gun but just inform her that the said aunty Grace called and watch out for her reaction;if she gives you a clue of what you suspected then it's time for you to celebrate the christmas alone with less expenses

waywardpikin:


And why would you think giving her a resounding slap because of this is even an option? Is she an animal? That woman is not your child! Îdiot

waywardpikin:


And why would you think giving her a resounding slap because of this is even an option? Is she an animal? That woman is not your child! Îdiot

pcguru1:


Well divorce is not hard but in this context what is the man divorcing over ? She cheated ? where's the proof ? She stored a guy's name as a woman. But what if it's actually a woman, and someone else picked who happened to be male and also knew the sister wasn't feeling fine. But you're right the woman should divorce the guy, since he's already jumping to physical violence already.

jy2kbeyond:



See sissy.

enabledgoddess:
slap will only lead to more harm. I know it hurt but hold your anger and ask questions. such as why did you encode his name? what do you have with him? slapping her will push her farther from you. help your marriage work.

merahki:

I died too

EMPEROR48:
My fellow nairalanders, please I really need a good advice on my actions, my wife saved a male so called sorcerer with a female name.

She left her phone to be with her sister at the hospital that was how I discovered a number calling her line saved with aunty grace, on picking the call I discovered it was a male voice, then he was asking after my wive's sister's health because my wife called him to tell him that her sister was rushed to the hospital this morning, and what really struck me most was that my wife deleted all conversations btw them before leaving the house for the clinic, if not that the said man was calling to find out how her sister was fairing I wouldn't know who aunty grace is.

Now I am alone and so angry, I planned giving my wife a hot slap when she returns.

Please advise me...

EMPEROR48:
Ok, i will try and hold my anger inplace so i wont loose it on her....thanks alot

EMPEROR48:
My fellow nairalanders, please I really need a good advice on my actions, my wife saved a male so called sorcerer with a female name.

She left her phone to be with her sister at the hospital that was how I discovered a number calling her line saved with aunty grace, on picking the call I discovered it was a male voice, then he was asking after my wive's sister's health because my wife called him to tell him that her sister was rushed to the hospital this morning, and what really struck me most was that my wife deleted all conversations btw them before leaving the house for the clinic, if not that the said man was calling to find out how her sister was fairing I wouldn't know who aunty grace is.

Now I am alone and so angry, I planned giving my wife a hot slap when she returns.

Please advise me...

EMPEROR48:
@evacroft, i understand, but such secret is unbecoming of a married woman, i hate it when someone you call your wife will hid conversations from you thats an insult to my person. I am so pained ryt now

favourmic:



what if its was anty grace husband call to check?

sandland:
what made this woman begin to store nos in codes. Religion or infidelity?

Follysho707:

Guy, leave dat one alone joo.. She sef be Ashana

TEYA:

You are the idiot here, what she did is wrong and deserves five resounding slaps! No married man or woman should do that.

EMPEROR48:
[color=#000099][/color]My fellow nairalanders, or my good brothers and sisters I thank you all for your comment and good advice well to those who are yet to marry I will advice you stop making comments on marital issues because some of you are yet to format your brains on family life. Those who were spilling rubish by the time u ever get married you will know what life is all about. Those who said I shouldn't lay a finger on my wife may you always have great joy in all ur endeavours, those who thought my wife was cheating on me, well I didn't marry such a woman because were she came from, once you cheat its either she dies or I the man will fall sick if I ever eat her food. So creating was never an option, I was so much angry because at least she shouldn't have encode what I know about already, my anger is why would she ever do such a thing, what is she trying to portray?
Now to the main thing that happened on Sunday of 3rd December. I woke up in the morning around 5am I didn't even know how I managed to sleep but I saw myself in the morning on Sunday so I dash to the bathroom did the usual routine and ate a little akpo also known as 6to6, got dressed and off I go .... straight to the hospital to see my wife sick sister who was admitted the previous day and also my wife who was at her bed side although. When I got to the ward they place her, my wife greeted me and I answer her with a frowned face. Then she was like what s going on we were happy the previous day so whats this change of expression? So we were there till about 2pm when suddenly her sister demanded for lucozade boost then both of us went out to get it then I said this is my chance to confront her, suddenly she glanced at my finger and discovered I was not putting on my wedding ring, then she gave me the best opportunity to send my missile by askin me were is ur ring?

desmond2pk:
I 've been there. It is normal with married WOMEN. Don't think she will apologize or say that she is sorry. She would rather die on top of this matter than to accept any wrong doing on her side.
My advice is, complain to her people. Tell them what their daughter is doing. Insist to know who that aunty Grace is. She would rather die than to let you know.
If you have children, forget the issue because of your kids and continue the marriage.
It's normal with 80% of married WOMEN.