"If you no get money, hide your face".. Small doctor was referring to me in this hit track.
I'm broke, got sacked at work, can't pay rent, can't pay the bills at home any more. No respect for me anymore. I run errands at home now.
I want to beg my wife to divorce me. Poor man no suppose get wife. so I can leave Abuja and relocate to port harcourt or Lagos to do some menial job for now. I will be sending money to her monthly for my children.
I am not happy with this decision but whetin man go do na. Abuja landlords are not smiling. The man said he is coming to throw my loads out december 24. He said that will be my Xmas gift. Poverty na bastard!

Make i first laugh

I think you have been running away from your true calling which is comedy.

Hiannnn. Running errands is not bad na. If you are not employed and can spare some time to assist at home why do you find it hard to do or see it as an insult? Na me suppose run errands for you? Is it not your family? Many men start feeling small when they lose their source of income. Don't fret it. Be strong and even if you leave Abuja don't ask for divorce. Just take a break and send her money as often as you can.

Adjust to your level

fuckerstard:
Adjust to your level

How ?

At all it shouldn't be a reason to, but some women might agree that it is, but it shouldn't be

No, but an excuse to not commence one.

Afam4eva:
Make i first laugh

I think you have been running away from your true calling which is comedy.

I go MC your wedding b that

december7:
"If you no get money, hide your face".. Small doctor was referring to me in this hit track.
I'm broke, got sacked at work, can't pay rent, can't pay the bills at home any more. No respect for me anymore. I run errands at home now.
I want to beg my wife to divorce me. Poor man no suppose get wife. so I can leave Abuja and relocate to port harcourt or Lagos to do some menial job for now. I will be sending money to her monthly for my children.
I am not happy with this decision but whetin man go do na. Abuja landlords are not smiling. The man said he is coming to throw my loads out december 24. He said that will be my Xmas gift. Poverty na bastard!

this is what you get when you marry slay queens instead of someone who will support you for better for worse. God will have mercy on you. Goodluck

Staying in a marriage when you are broke no easy o. You can't eat anyhow, you must respect yourself. Even your manhood go adjust! No unnecessary erection like Rochas Okorocha. You become aggressive out of frustration and this is not good for the kids. I just want to walk away.....

I wanted to say calm down and and not divorce her,but on a second thought it wont be a bad idea as long as u know this thing might repeat itself with anoda woman,if u decide to marry again.
Do the needful which is dust urself up and go look for job. And what do u mean by errand boy? I hope it is not attending to ur family needs u call errand cos u will be so surprise some rich pple do it.

ifypromise:

this is what you get when you marry slay queens instead of someone who will support you for better for worse. God will have mercy on you. Goodluck

I no marry slay queen but body dey do me somehow. Shame dey cash me

december7:
"If you no get money, hide your face".. Small doctor was referring to me in this hit track.
I'm broke, got sacked at work, can't pay rent, can't pay the bills at home any more. No respect for me anymore. I run errands at home now.
I want to beg my wife to divorce me. Poor man no suppose get wife. so I can leave Abuja and relocate to port harcourt or Lagos to do some menial job for now. I will be sending money to her monthly for my children.
I am not happy with this decision but whetin man go do na. Abuja landlords are not smiling. The man said he is coming to throw my loads out december 24. He said that will be my Xmas gift. Poverty na bastard!

Giving excuses not to man up and get your game played well is childish.....

Oga, comot go look for job and build ur family!!

Evacroft:
I wanted to say calm down and and not divorce her,but on a second thought it wont be a bad idea as long as u know this thing might repeat itself with anoda woman,if u decide to marry again.
Do the needful which is dust urself up and go look for job. And what do u mean by errand boy? I hope it is not attending to ur family needs u call errand cos u will be so surprise some rich pple do it.

There are some errand you don't do normally but when one is idle, woman go stylishly turn you to a maid. You no fit understand and God no go let you understand

yanabazee:


Giving excuses not to man up and get your game played well is childish.....

Oga, comot go look for job and build ur family!!

You don't have to get angry over my own problem. Your own dey come, relax

pcguru1:


How ?

Since he's wife is taking care of the family financially I presume, he can make himself useful in other ways.
If he likes to eat fresh fish before, he can start eating ponmo and titus perhaps. and he should reduce the quantity of garri(eba) he takes

fuckerstard:


Since he's wife is taking care of the family financially I presume, he can make himself useful in other ways.
If he likes to eat fresh fish before, he can start eating ponmo and titus perhaps. and he should reduce the quantity of garri(eba) he takes

Yeah that's true

december7:


You don't have to get angry over my own problem. Your own dey come, relax

I've never had any problem but challenges and I tackle em like a man and I don't seek for people's opinion... I forbid you telling me my problem will come..

The only person having problem and acting childish here is you...

But wait oh, if you've got a wife and kid(s) and you have this kind of mentality, then you were never matured enough to go into marriage!!

yanabazee:


I've never had any problem but challenges and I tackle em like a man and I don't seek for people's opinion... I forbid you telling me my problem will come..

The only person having problem and acting childish here is you...

But wait oh, if you've got a wife and kid(s) and you have this kind of mentality, then you were never matured enough to go into marriage!!

Take it easy bro, you sound more frustrated than the man! You should see the humour in his post.

december7:
Staying in a marriage when you are broke no easy o. You can't eat anyhow, you must respect yourself. Even your manhood go adjust! No unnecessary erection like Rochas Okorocha. You become aggressive out of frustration and this is not good for the kids. I just want to walk away.....

Erection like Rochas, you are a mad man. Lol

You have lost your power! Pele

luxy44:


Take it easy bro, you sound more frustrated than the man! You should see the humour in his post.

There is no humour perceived!!.. A grown up man who can't even handle his family seems childish to me!!

yanabazee:


I've never had any problem but challenges and I tackle em like a man and I don't seek for people's opinion... I forbid you telling me my problem will come..

The only person having problem and acting childish here is you...

But wait oh, if you've got a wife and kid(s) and you have this kind of mentality, then you were never matured enough to go into marriage!!

Are you broke too?

december7:

Are you broke too?

Why should I be broke? when I can create jobs for myself?

december7:


There are some errand you don't do normally but when one is idle, woman go stylishly turn you to a maid. You no fit understand and God no go let you understand

I no fit understand because u be alien and i be human ba.the fact is u do what works for ur family as a man which includes droping ur ego and lead,Just like christ did,dont find an ewsy way out by abandoning ur wife and children and send them tokens and come here to say i cant understand.

OP has a future in comedy!

OP! Hang on and hold on, you will come out of your present predicament. If you don’t have a job, you should naturally help out more at home than you do when you are working. Don’t read meaning into that, that is very unfair to your wife. Your wife is probably going through tough times as well thinking of the uncertainty that can happen if she loses her job too. This is not the time for frustration but a time to value your wife and plan with her.

Also, try to keep busy by looking for office work and hand work in the mean time. God will pull you out of it soon. Trust me, there are many let downs in life. If you run from this woman and YOUR kids, what happens when you have another setback in life? For how long will you continue to run?

That your plan is to run away from your family during tough times is very disappointing. I will blame your frustration for this because you are obviously not thinking clearly. Goodluck!

delishpot:
Hiannnn. Running errands is not bad na. If you are not employed and can spare some time to assist at home why do you find it hard to do or see it as an insult? Na me suppose run errands for you? Is it not your family? Many men start feeling small when they lose their source of income. Don't fret it. Be strong and even if you leave Abuja don't ask for divorce. Just take a break and send her money as often as you can.

you don start ..
shey the grown man should now be a proud houseboy/Jacob?

fear God

Yes it is an excuse for divorce if money was a major reason for getting married rather than love.

Dcholeric:

you don start ..
shey the grown man should now be a proud houseboy/Jacob?

fear God

Is his wife Jacob/house girl? Are his kids little Jacobs/houseboys and girls? Okay since OP can not run errands for HIS home while he is unemployed and has the time to do so for now at least, you can go and help him run errands for HIS family maybe it will calm him down

baby124:

OP has a future in comedy!

OP! Hang on and hold on, you will come out of your present predicament. If you don’t have a job, you should naturally help out more at home than you do when you are working. Don’t read meaning into that, that is very unfair to your wife. Your wife is probably going through tough times as well thinking of the uncertainty that can happen if she loses her job too. This is not the time for frustration but a time to value your wife and plan with her.

Also, try to keep busy by looking for office work and hand work in the mean time. God will pull you out of it soon. Trust me, there are many let downs in life. If you run from this woman and YOUR kids, what happens when you have another setback in life? For how long will you continue to run?

That your plan is to run away from your family during tough times is very disappointing. I will blame your frustration for this because you are obviously not thinking clearly. Goodluck!

Thank you baby124! Nah, I no fit run. I was down/sad when I posted it. In fact, I did 4 interviews last month and they are all successful. My appointment letter or next stage is taking too long and it is weighing me down. I can't wait to be a man again.
This morning, I woke up in a buggati. I have a meeting with my landlord this weekend, I am sure he will cool it down.

delishpot:


Is his wife Jacob/house girl? Are his kids little Jacobs/houseboys and girls? Okay since OP can not run errands for HIS home while he is unemployed and has the time to do so for now at least, you can go and help him run errands for HIS family maybe it will calm him down

Thanks for the referral. I will be waiting for him to start work. Pls tell him he won't be working in the other room o