Happy married life guys wishing you a blissful marriage life ahead

Let me quickly go and reply that dude that have being sending me PM for the past one month

bibijay123:
https://www.nairaland.com/3309489/twine-drama-series

It alll started on this thread

On the 2nd of December I walked down the aisle with my personal 'bully", bestie, lover, fellow movie maniac and team mate . He's not only my bestie, he is my ride or never


A year ago I said I would never marry because I had a phobia for marriage and I didn't want to put any kid through what I had gone through as a child. I lost my dad when I was only six so I partly grew up with family members and whenever I thought of what they called " marriage' I feel a shudder run through me. I had seen so much ugliness that I vowed not to put the shackles called marriage around my legs... but that was until I met this crazy, fun loving guy with a tongue that could blow your mind off.. literally. Jeez nothing fazes him and he's always in my corner, yea he's my number one fan I can't believe it started from here...Nairaland

My pastor so much love how we met that he shares the story during love or relationship seminar in the church and even on the wedding day!

" Do you know that if you are hard working and you are good at what you do, you will be singled out of a million? " My pastor said, his gaze flickering around the faces of everyone seated. Of course the question was rhetoric so he went on." Do you know that you can find love even on the internet? Do you know Nairaland? Brother Crazygod was reading sister Bibi's stories on NL and he fell in love with her... "

Well this is my love journey...

I took note of everyone on my thread in the literature section so I can give them a mention when I start a new story. I took note of him on the second thread I created, a story about a call girl. Somehow I knew that he was the one liking all my posts even when I type 'lol'. He was on every thread I made and he always gave constructive criticisms about my stories. It was like I had an automatic 'like' button

Back to this thread

https://www.nairaland.com/3309489/twine-drama-series

He said he was falling for me...

I replied him that I had a parachute to catch him if he did fall.

It was all joke and fun to me.

I couldn't post on the thread for weeks because the transformer in my area got bad. When I finally got back online I got several mentions from the readers on that thread. They were all worried about the story! They wanted to know why the story was stopped. Some even called me names without asking if I had a valid reason for not posting. I decided within me that I won't complete the story but not until I scrolled further and I saw what Crazygod (m) and Dominic (f) posted. Crazygod kept asking about the ' writer' and he wanted to know if she was okay. He said he was alarmed because I didn't post anything on Facebook either (unknown to me he sent me a friend request on there and I accepted without knowing who he was.) He also left me several messages on Facebook and I was touched by what he said, "Bibi just let us know if you are alright,"

Dominic was also worried about me and she kept asking if anyone heard from me. I had a personal rule not to meet anyone online or give out my number but I broke them for these two people. I went through all his posts, read his comments and he seemed so mature to me. I gave him my number when he asked for it, he was so calm and polite when he called me. I also broke my personal rule that I won't meet any from online and I went to see a movie with him He was really persistent and patient. He didn't talk much when we met, he was so quite and I began to wonder if he was pretending This guy could really talk over the phone so don't blame me for wondering

We agreed that the first meeting wasn't a date and we also agreed that we won't see each other again.


Here's the difficult part; to say yes to a relationship or nay?

After communicating over the phone for months, he started asking for another date and this scared me. He was acting all serious with the whole 'toasting thing'. He said I had the qualities he needed in a partner and so on. This guy is so persistent that saying "no" "no' became a chore. I also noticed that he was a goal getter and he is focused. My kinda guy!

He was sweet, still is and he has a madt sense of humour. Yea I was doing my own tripping too but afraid was catching me. I could wake up one day and find a really nasty thread about me if I wasn't careful.

Although he is a great listener and he's got a heart of gold I was scared because he might have been pretending and acting all nice just to get cookies

But I had inner peace whenever I thought of him. My heart told me he was for real but this same heart has misled me before. I asked a few of my friends here what they think about dating a fellow Nairalander and I am afraid to say that the reviews were bad!!!!

I decided to grant the second date and it was awesome. Then the third, fourth and the rest becomes history....


This journey hasn't been easy but it has been worth it. I remember asking him if his family was aware that I wasn't a Nigerian and he said they were totally cool with it. I didn't believe him because my ex's family were not cool with me being a Togolese and whenever I visited the mom would say "Togo is too far.." anyway I got the message loud and clear. Then add a clingy ex into the mix and my phobia for marriage you will find that it hasn't been easy. But oh it's worth it!

My new mother loves everything about Togo, the language, people and she even insisted that a Togolese song should be played during the traditional wedding. I got three new siblings, a fantastic aunt, three cute nephews and a beautiful niece who was one of my flower girls How could I forget my new sister who is married to his brother, she is world best organiser and event planner She was my event planner and I got the wedding of my dreams

PS. Our entrance song was Gweta by Toofan from Togo. Great song!

Congratulations to both of you. The guy is one lucky dude. Ask him to share his anointing oil to others since he has already received his blessings

RoyalBlak007:
♤Splendid!

♤Congratulations! God bless your union

Hey,What's up ?

HML

makydebbie:
Bibiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiii

Awwn my ewe sister, quick question tho, do ewe girls dress this way for their weddings or it's just you?

Bibi you're so so beautiful! Oga crazygod get eyes biko. Your kids are going to be the bomb mehn! I wish you the best sis, that smile will be permanent on your face.
Marital bliss!! And we're waiting for Atta and Kuma.


So people still find love like this on NL?
This could be me and somebody but he's vexing for me.

_baby_it_could_be_me_and_you

makydebbie:
Bibiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiii

Awwn my ewe sister, quick question tho, do ewe girls dress this way for their weddings or it's just you?

Bibi you're so so beautiful! Oga crazygod get eyes biko. Your kids are going to be the bomb mehn! I wish you the best sis, that smile will be permanent on your face.
Marital bliss!! And we're waiting for Atta and Kuma.


So people still find love like this on NL?
This could be me and somebody but he's vexing for me.

_baby_it_could_be_me_and_you

Bibijay123, congratulations! I wish you a blissful marital life.

kajsa08:
Happy married life bibijay123, may the ability to add the right amount of salt and sugar in your marriage never depart from your home & God will give you the wisdom to make your home a good example to others in Jesus name, amen.

Amen! Amen! Amen! thank you sis

Lol. You need to see how serious I was reading this true life love story

I have smiled broadly just by reading. Such sweet love. People really find love in strange places sha
Nairaland too... lol. I will leave it at that. They say the internet never forgets.

Happy married life Bibijay. May your union be blessed with beautiful children around your table. May you both live happily.

Cheers!

Mariinee:
Bibijay123, congratulations! I wish you a blissful marital life.

Thank you ma

amicable09:
Lol. You need to see how serious I was reading this true life love story

I have smiled broadly just by reading. Such sweet love. People really find love in strange places sha
Nairaland too... lol. I will leave it at that. They say the internet never forgets.

Happy married life Bibijay. May your union be blessed with beautiful children around your table. May you both live happily.

Cheers!

Lol Thank you sis Amen to your prayers. Yea the internet never forgets

Enoma222:
_baby_it_could_be_me_and_you :D_baby_it_could_be_me_and_you

Okay.

Rukkydelta:
Happy married life guys wishing you a blissful marriage life ahead

Let me quickly go and reply that dude that have being sending me PM for the past one month

Lol tread with caution o

bibijay123:


Thank you ma

But you didn't invite me to the wedding. I am vexed.

missyQween:

Hey,What's up ?

♤ Hi, I'm still recuperating
♤Wassup with you?

bibijay123:


Lol tread with caution o

Sure I will
Thanks beautiful bride

My Bibijay123!
Happy married life, may your home be more beautiful than your wedding, heaven's blessing on you guys

Waow,this is lovely. Congratulations
I key into this testimony,hopefully will share my own nairaland romance story one day but wait oooh, its not fair,Togo babes be hooking our Yoruba guys but Togo guys are not making themselves available for the Yoruba girls. Errrm this is an injustice of the highest order

Wow. This is so beautiful. Wish you guys marital bliss.

makydebbie:
Okay.

_baby_whatsapp_ me 08093163827

Chommieblaq:
My Bibijay123!
Happy married life, may your home be more beautiful than your wedding, heaven's blessing on you guys

Awww Amen Amen Amen. Thank you my sister how are you doing?

makydebbie:
Okay.

If you try am..

Happy married life bibijay. From a literati to another literati, I'm truly happy for you.

To honour your union. There'll be no trolling from me for one week.

Enjoy life's fullest to the fullest. You're truly bae.

Crazygod. You're the man.

Windflower:
Waow,this is lovely. Congratulations
I key into this testimony,hopefully will share my own nairaland romance story one day but wait oooh, its not fair,Togo babes be hooking our Yoruba guys but Togo guys are not making themselves available for the Yoruba girls. Errrm this is an injustice of the highest order

Lol Amen ooo. You will share urs too before 2018 runs to an end. My brothers married Yoruba girls ooo

RoyalBlak007:

♤ Hi, I'm still recuperating
♤Wassup with you?

Okay,That's Good,Take enough rest

AfroSamurai:
Happy married life bibijay. From a literati to another literati, I'm truly happy for you.

To honour your union. There'll be no trolling from me for one week.

Enjoy life's fullest to the fullest. You're truly bae.

Crazygod. You're the man.

Lol What a great honour! Thank you sir!

ogorwyne:
Wow. This is so beautiful. Wish you guys marital bliss.

Amen thank you

missyQween:



Okay,That's Good,Take enough rest

♤Sure

♤Just thinking bout our Nikkai . Would you like it in Mumbai or Abu Dhabi

RoyalBlak007:


♤ Hi, I'm still recuperating

♤Wassup with you?

Pele Oya go rest joor

Mariinee:
But you didn't invite me to the wedding. I am vexed.

AWWW no vex. A Nairalander I have never met attended o he showed me our pictures on WhatsApp and I was so touched

bibijay123:


Lol What a great honour! Thank you sir!

you're most welcome, bibi.

Enjoy.

bibijay123:


Pele Oya go rest joor

♤Mrs ß !

♤I hail oóh! . I'm even tired of resting....Been stuck 3days

Congratulations sis may God bless your marriage