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My Former Boss Is Dating My Best Friend by Preciousgirl(f): 11:08am On Dec 09, 2017 |
Wonders will never end My demoted boss who is married is seeing one of our co-workers who happens to be my best friend. I know that this against our work ethics and will affect productivity Am I right to report this to our boss?? 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Former Boss Is Dating My Best Friend by swiz123(m): 11:09am On Dec 09, 2017 |
Aproko!!! 1 Like |
Re: My Former Boss Is Dating My Best Friend by Rutley(m): 11:09am On Dec 09, 2017 |
Mind your business Preciousgirl: 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Former Boss Is Dating My Best Friend by MhizzAJ(f): 11:10am On Dec 09, 2017 |
What is even your business You and this your boss story all the time 5 Likes |
Re: My Former Boss Is Dating My Best Friend by Preciousgirl(f): 11:17am On Dec 09, 2017 |
Re: My Former Boss Is Dating My Best Friend by nittroboy(m): 11:17am On Dec 09, 2017 |
Reading |
Re: My Former Boss Is Dating My Best Friend by Rutley(m): 11:19am On Dec 09, 2017 |
Preciousgirl: Dont mind your business den 1 Like |
Re: My Former Boss Is Dating My Best Friend by habsydiamond(m): 11:21am On Dec 09, 2017 |
even if it job is ur business....us Ur former boss job Ur business too. u know wetin dem dey call am for Yoruba land....onitukutu...dem no dey Tay for dem husband's house...let dem be and face Ur work... |
Re: My Former Boss Is Dating My Best Friend by Lalas247(f): 11:21am On Dec 09, 2017 |
It’s like u are vex he didn’t approach u Mind ur business hun ! It has absolutely nothing to do with u When last have you got promoted ? If this is what u are doing at work .. watching other 1 Like |
Re: My Former Boss Is Dating My Best Friend by littlewonders: 11:47am On Dec 09, 2017 |
Lalas247: You speak the truth. 1 Like |
Re: My Former Boss Is Dating My Best Friend by Nobody: 11:52am On Dec 09, 2017 |
Better mind your business. SayNoToAmebo |
Re: My Former Boss Is Dating My Best Friend by MyNewJackeT: 11:56am On Dec 09, 2017 |
Preciousgirl: is that what they program you in your work place to believe? I'm sure you've not had sex for a long time now because of that phrase. your boss doesn't care about your work ethic and your former boss is a good example. 1 Like |
Re: My Former Boss Is Dating My Best Friend by Preciousgirl(f): 11:58am On Dec 09, 2017 |
Re: My Former Boss Is Dating My Best Friend by Nobody: 11:59am On Dec 09, 2017 |
Preciousgirl: Madam why is it that most of ur post n topic centers around this particular boss of urs , dnt you have better tins to do than masturbating wid ur boss in mind?? The truth is that ur in love with him,both of u r shaggin or planning to and ur lookin for a way to justify ur deeds or escape from ur conscience that's if all this you type are true and not u sittin jobless ah home fantasizing abt a fictional boss n job |
Re: My Former Boss Is Dating My Best Friend by Xionez(m): 12:05pm On Dec 09, 2017 |
Advise her against it. He might be using her as a stepping stone because a demoted official needs to get serious on the job else he gets fired. There is always smoke before a fire. If she continues, you remove your hand and face your work. She should be old enough to make her choices. It is therefore up to her and her alone to guard her emotions. If you see fit, try and cover for your friend in work related matters. But if you can't, let it slide. Never go over the top to avoid her getting used to it and also to prevent a slowdown in your own productivity. She didn't employ you and you dont know the extent of favors she can pull to get her ars.e off the job market if she losses her job. If you go down with her, you are on your own. If it were me, i would be getting my popcorn ready and bales of tissue for whoever needs its. |
Re: My Former Boss Is Dating My Best Friend by Preciousgirl(f): 12:11pm On Dec 09, 2017 |
Xionez: Thanks for the advice |
Re: My Former Boss Is Dating My Best Friend by lastclaire4(f): 12:21pm On Dec 09, 2017 |
Preciousgirl:Did you just say the co-worker is your best friend? Let us assume you really mean what you typed. How can you call someone your friend and you can't tell the person what you feel. Now if you report, how happy will you be if your friend gets fired. The way you are saying this thing I don't think she is your friend cos from your statement you are pained. The highest you can do is to tell what you feel as a friend cos it is in the work place if anything happens she is the lady it is worse for her and the choice is hers to make. But stop using that productivity excuse cos I don't think it concerns you.If you are looking for promotion work hard and stop looking for desperate ways by reporting what is not your cup of tea. |
Re: My Former Boss Is Dating My Best Friend by Nobody: 12:27pm On Dec 09, 2017 |
@preciousgirl, a relationship in the office isn't agaisnt work ethics to the extent that it doesn't affect productivity. For instance, are they hanging out and chatting in the office instead of doing their job? If it doesn't affect their work, then going to report isn't the answer. And how do you intend prove they are romantically involved? Surely, it will take extra effort such as video clips of them or actual phone conversations. And if after you report , they deny it and you can't prove it, the gun might just be pointed at head and you might just get fired. |
Re: My Former Boss Is Dating My Best Friend by Nobody: 12:30pm On Dec 09, 2017 |
nna ehn You are onila |
Re: My Former Boss Is Dating My Best Friend by Nobody: 12:36pm On Dec 09, 2017 |
Op remove eyes, you were not employed as their watch dogs . Don't worry another boss will come for u. |
Re: My Former Boss Is Dating My Best Friend by EFULEFU1(m): 12:54pm On Dec 09, 2017 |
That boss has jammed op Congo before |
Re: My Former Boss Is Dating My Best Friend by Nobody: 1:23pm On Dec 09, 2017 |
You Again? After Demoting him You Are Still Monitorin Him... Are You This Bad? Whats Your Problem? Cant You Let Him Be?... He No Longer Wants You So Mind Your Business 1 Like |
Re: My Former Boss Is Dating My Best Friend by oodua1stson: 2:11pm On Dec 09, 2017 |
Preciousgirl:how's this any of your business, ogufe?
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Re: My Former Boss Is Dating My Best Friend by osazeeblue01: 2:17pm On Dec 09, 2017 |
see finishing...abeg make una pitty her na. But mind your business no be course. Mind your business young lady |
Re: My Former Boss Is Dating My Best Friend by bashbanks(m): 2:30pm On Dec 09, 2017 |
Anything for the D... Mind ur business 1 Like |
Re: My Former Boss Is Dating My Best Friend by YorubaMod(m): 3:25pm On Dec 09, 2017 |
Bad Belle Op...Go And Find Someone To Shine Ur Own Congo |
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