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Re: UBUNJA's MISEDUCATION: post removed by ubunja(m): 11:02am On Dec 07, 2017 |
NightHound:noone goes to the Club and complain the volume is too high if its too high just leave the club. if im writing hogwash then exit the thread why are u still reading a thread that upsets you and u clearly dont agree with.arent u better supporting threads that align to your world view? my brother? 12 Likes 1 Share |
Re: UBUNJA's MISEDUCATION: post removed by snakebeat: 11:10am On Dec 07, 2017 |
Rubbiish:Well said |
Re: UBUNJA's MISEDUCATION: post removed by ubunja(m): 11:12am On Dec 07, 2017 |
Rubbiish:input appreciated. the Nice Guy origins story is very broad and deep.i only touched the points i can explain. but there is so much to say.and so many sides to the Nice Guys/Badboys concept. here are a few i will explore in future posts: 1.why boys raised by single fathers rarely grow up to be Nice Guys. 2.why boys raised by their sisters with no parents present usually become the biggest Players of them all. its all very interesting. cheers. 6 Likes 1 Share |
Re: UBUNJA's MISEDUCATION: post removed by NightHound(m): 11:13am On Dec 07, 2017 |
ubunja: It's not about support - threads can easily be supported by clicking the 'like' button. And isn't that a boring and unnecessary thread when you are only preaching to the choir? I'm not upset by the thread. People who hold a different opinion from me don't upset me; they challenge me. Especially when they can back up their opinions intellectually. Differing opinions are the basis of an argument. That's the justification to have this topic extend beyond the original post. The club analogy doesn't apply here. It would apply to a no-reply post, because in that case you're expected to either like it or leave it instead of making it a discussion. 3 Likes |
Re: UBUNJA's MISEDUCATION: post removed by ubunja(m): 11:23am On Dec 07, 2017 |
NightHound:i hear you.u are not upset. and the Club analogue is whack. but u did say you dont mind Old Horses. and that on its own sets you on the highway to Nice Guy City. the essence of this post is for men to move away from this "Act Nice Expect Sex" mentality thats hurting them so much. coz women will take their Nice but withhold the sex. its not fair. 9 Likes 1 Share |
Re: UBUNJA's MISEDUCATION: post removed by Belafonte(m): 11:45am On Dec 08, 2017 |
NightHound: You can have the right values, live by them and still not be nice. It is not bad to not be nice. The only thing anybody owes anybody is to be fair to them. You can respect women and not be nice. If I refuse to stand up for a woman to sit, it doesn't mean I dont have the right values. I just don't give a shit. 12 Likes |
Re: UBUNJA's MISEDUCATION: post removed by Belafonte(m): 11:55am On Dec 08, 2017 |
Rubbiish: Personality is majorly shaped by life experiences from about a year old. One would need a major jarring experience for them to have a lasting change of perosnality. |
Re: UBUNJA's MISEDUCATION: post removed by Nobody: 1:27pm On Dec 08, 2017 |
Ladies like bad guys or averagely nice guys with bad boy tendencies. It is true good guys carry last and many times the crumbs of the bad guys this is because good guys lack an excitement most ladies crave nice boys get so good that they leave some unpredictability behind and it makes the ladies just like them and not reciprocate the gesture. A little of niceness and fierceness makes a guy stable lover though 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: UBUNJA's MISEDUCATION: post removed by Nobody: 1:46pm On Dec 08, 2017 |
If u being nice cos u want to sleep with a lady then in actual fact u not nice.as for me i am nice guy and i respect ladies...though i have a weakness for twerking sha.. Cc thornapple. 1 Like |
Re: UBUNJA's MISEDUCATION: post removed by MissJoy29(f): 8:35am On Dec 09, 2017 |
NightHound:Spot on! 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: UBUNJA's MISEDUCATION: post removed by ubunja(m): 8:43am On Dec 09, 2017 |
lefulefu:actually being nice is not natural. being nice is like offering someone nice food you know has poison.but the niceness of the food will trick one into eating. niceness is tempation. thats how the devil works. pretend to have your best interest at heart then stab you at the back when u turn around. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: UBUNJA's MISEDUCATION: post removed by ubunja(m): 8:50am On Dec 09, 2017 |
splinx:i love how u keep tampering and softening the truth. LOL the truth is women love badboys. no centreline of being bad but with a little goodness. just pure undiluted bad. anything less will get you put on the Nice Guy shelf that gets attention only when a girl reaches 35 and wana settle with her 2 kids with no fathers. be a badboy or dont bother.Go bad or go home. coz u really cant be both just like a woman cant be a Good Woman and a Slut at the same time. choose a side and stick with it for better for worse. 4 Likes |
Re: UBUNJA's MISEDUCATION: post removed by MissJoy29(f): 8:51am On Dec 09, 2017 |
NightHound:I don't get as well. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: UBUNJA's MISEDUCATION: post removed by ubunja(m): 8:54am On Dec 09, 2017 |
Belafonte:very true. the hand that rocks the craddle controls the world. no man grows into something his mother didnt intend or wish. and single mothers raise most Nice Guys coz they are forever saying to their sons :" dont grow up to be like your father." " respect women" . and from that time a boy's mind is biased to seek the welfare of women above his own. 7 Likes |
Re: UBUNJA's MISEDUCATION: post removed by Nobody: 8:56am On Dec 09, 2017 |
ubunja:so in actual fact nice guys are not really nice. 2 Likes |
Re: UBUNJA's MISEDUCATION: post removed by ubunja(m): 9:01am On Dec 09, 2017 |
lefulefu:LOOL thats the truth of the century. Nice Guys are just using a strategy to get sex.Act Nice Get Sex. thats all there is to it. use Pretence to get laid.badboys go the other route: use Dominance to get laid.Act Macho Get Sex. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: UBUNJA's MISEDUCATION: post removed by MissJoy29(f): 9:02am On Dec 09, 2017 |
Well it's either I'm not a female at heart or something is wrong with the notions of most men that women like "bad boys". And I have been trying in all sincerity to remember all the guys I have ever been attracted to for keeps. They are never " bad guys"! Why would I be attracted to someone everyone knows is bad? What does that even make me? Now, being nice shouldn't be a bad thing. Just that people take advantage of them a lot. I would know cos I have been there. But it doesn't mean that I would start trying to get attracted to a "bad guy". It's good to be good. 2 Likes |
Re: UBUNJA's MISEDUCATION: post removed by ubunja(m): 9:05am On Dec 09, 2017 |
MissJoy29:no one cares about your life story. keep that for your diary. 7 Likes |
Re: UBUNJA's MISEDUCATION: post removed by MissJoy29(f): 9:12am On Dec 09, 2017 |
ubunja:Ok sir. |
Re: UBUNJA's MISEDUCATION: post removed by Nobody: 10:08am On Dec 09, 2017 |
lefulefu:You are truthful here i must say. you are nice but twerking seems an incurable vice for you. |
Re: UBUNJA's MISEDUCATION: post removed by Belafonte(m): 12:05pm On Dec 09, 2017 |
ubunja: Exactly. |
Re: UBUNJA's MISEDUCATION: post removed by Belafonte(m): 12:12pm On Dec 09, 2017 |
Let me just leave this quote by Sheryl Sandberg here: When looking for a life partner, my advice to women is date all of them: the bad boys, the cool boys, the commitment-phobic boys, the crazy boys. But do not marry them. The things that make the bad boys sexy do not make them good husbands. When it comes time to settle down, find someone who wants an equal partner. Someone who thinks women should be smart, opinionated and ambitious. Someone who values fairness and expects or, even better, wants to do his share in the home. These men exist and, trust me, over time, nothing is sexier. After doing all sorts of freaky shît with her bad boy lovers, she will stingily sprinkle vapid, missionary sex in the relationship upon her slack pûssy 3 Likes |
Re: UBUNJA's MISEDUCATION: post removed by Marcelo290(m): 2:19pm On Dec 09, 2017 |
Post contains an atom of truism...preach on bruv |
Re: UBUNJA's MISEDUCATION: post removed by ubunja(m): 3:25pm On Dec 09, 2017 |
Belafonte:this is one of the passages that woke me up fully. Mark "Facebook" Zukerberg's wife put the truth so plainly its a wonder why most guys dont get it. women give their best 10 yrs (17 to 27) to the Badboys and their worst 10 yrs (27 to 37) to the Nice Guys they marry just before they hit 40. but men are trained to give their worst 10 yrs to porn as they struggle to get laid while building their lives in their 20s; then they must give their 10 best years to the women they will marry at 35 when everything in their life is finally coming right. guys in their mid 30s are at the prime of life. career,flat, car. instead of seeking a fresh 19yr old gal to enjoy they are bullied (by being called Pedophiles or too chicken to deal with women their age) into hooking up with used up, tired mid 30s women with boobs that touch the floor and bums that are porridge. women dont want men at their worst during their 20s but want them at their best in their 30s. its not fair.no man under 35 must marry, and when he marries he must not marry a girl over 21. teenage to early 20s girls and mid 30s guys are a match made in heaven. each has what the other wants.the man needs a fresh body for his babies ,and the girl needs a matured man who can provide. its a blessed union.a union that makes older women mad as hell and want to kill a man.LOL 15 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: UBUNJA's MISEDUCATION: post removed by usermane(m): 4:07pm On Dec 09, 2017 |
^^^^ Dude, it is not all women. There are at least women that remain abstinent untill marriage. And there are women out there that reject 'bad boys'. They are minority but they exist. Another thing, I think women are better in their 30s than 20s. Of course, there are exceptions. But women in their 30s are more confident, responsible and mature. Women in their 20s are immature, have no goal, don't even know what they want. At this age, they just want adventure and fun. That is why the appeal of the 'bad boy' is strong for them. At this age, they don't want responsibilities, are highly driven by emotion and really naive and superficial. 2 Likes |
Re: UBUNJA's MISEDUCATION: post removed by Belafonte(m): 4:36pm On Dec 09, 2017 |
ubunja: My new motto is, "catch dem young". Anything above 23 is a problem for me now. I need standing, stubborn breasts in my life right now. 1 Like |
Re: UBUNJA's MISEDUCATION: post removed by ubunja(m): 4:43pm On Dec 09, 2017 |
Belafonte:Age before Beauty. thats how we roll. if a woman is beautiful but at 40 she is disqualified. a 19 yr old avarage-looking girl is far more prefered. time is a woman's biggest enemy. and any female that hasnt been conquered by time is pure gold. 11 Likes 1 Share |
Re: UBUNJA's MISEDUCATION: post removed by Nobody: 5:43pm On Dec 09, 2017 |
Being a nice guy has it's advantages and disadvantages, niceness is a turnoff. Ladies appreciate guys with razzness that nice guys lack. In the school of reasoning, it is why nice guys carry last. They are despised by ladies who take the nice treatment but never reciprocate the niceties they get from nice guys. 2 Likes |
Re: UBUNJA's MISEDUCATION: post removed by tania28(f): 5:52pm On Dec 09, 2017 |
splinx:so which Category do u fall into? |
Re: UBUNJA's MISEDUCATION: post removed by Nobody: 5:54pm On Dec 09, 2017 |
tania28: It depends. I can be anyone any good lady wants. Which do you want? |
Re: UBUNJA's MISEDUCATION: post removed by tania28(f): 6:05pm On Dec 09, 2017 |
splinx:hoping u are a nice guy |
Re: UBUNJA's MISEDUCATION: post removed by ubunja(m): 6:27pm On Dec 09, 2017 |
splinx: this is the same mindset we are trying to correct in men. this " i will be what you want me to be" thing. its a weakness. you are like the number "3" that can be a "W" if it faces up, and an "M" if it faces down and an "E" if it looks the other way. STOP BEING A CHAMELION. be what you are and let those girls that like that type of person come to you. dont aim to be everything to everyone hoping someone will like you and make you her special someone. know what you have to offer to a woman so you can promote yourself to her. guy. 8 Likes 2 Shares |
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