BlowJobs:


Okay, D guy just called me. There should be snow storm tomorrow till Wednesday. I don't know why but i said okay.

Chai!!!!, i too like money. Just the thought of making money dey always make me smile.

E hard for me to say "No" to work.

God help me!!!

I definitely will post pictures.

PS: i don reschedule my retake exam to sometimes in January. Been studying harder now.

Dremca:
please which exam

justwise:
[b]

If you have the ability to put your points across without insulting people then your post will stand.

BlowJobs:


Its a state licensing exam (occupational) working as Technician (in my field) before other steps that qualifies me for residency.

i completely flunked it. I absolutely own up to that. I was too over confident.

wormie:
I salute Blows_job for creating this thread. It takes courage,not a small one sef.
Haba,but people can be judgmental sha. Stuffs happen to people at different point in time that determine their decisions.

Stop forming abeg, almost everybody wanna relocate to America. Be it Nigerians, Mexicans, Chinese, Ghanaians etc. That people change status especially on B1/B2 visa isn't peculiar to Nigerians alone. In my few years of staying in the US, I have seen enough.

Can I encourage anybody to relocate/change status here,oh yes! My own personal opinion, I prefer to stay in a sane environment pls. Naija too hard and harsh. Naija is like jungle,survival of the fittest

My short story of getting here. Few years ago,I came for a family vacation, my husband and my 2 children. Hubby had a good job with take home of like 20k that time. I was also in academics,so my pay too was ok, like 120k. We applied based on that, truthfully oh, and we were granted B1/B2 visa. Hubby just got a mail on our third night in the US,guess what,na sack letter! Gobe leyi ooooo.

We were devastated, didn't know what to do next. We just decided to manage stay for the remaining vacation period and head back home. But I told my mum about my husband sack letter. She come remember that one of her long lost family friends(Mr A) dey Yankee. We got the man contact and link up with him. We explained our situation to him and the man said our best bet is to stay put for Yankee oh. Naija hard na, hubby will come back home come to join the endless ocean of job seekers.

But Mr A over try for us no be small. He engaged ones of his friends wey be immigration lawyer to put us thru. Mr A offered to do marriage with me and he arranged one white lady to marry my husband, all at no cost. I won't go too deep into it more than this so it won't look as if I dey encourage bad bad thing oh

We don get our Pali now,doing well in the US. We don't do crime or move with bad gang. And we be employer of labor.

My advice to anybody coming, be focus. It will be tough,no matter the means you come in with,it going to be tough. Naija work etiquette is quite different from Yankee own oh.

Now I'm waiting for supreme court judges to come judge this my matter now.....mchewwww.
Blows_jobs,I'm sorry for my long epistle on your thread.

Dremca:
better days ahead

Tarry:


Twoods, I understand your concern and I share the same to see a better Nigeria, but I think you are getting things the other way round. The situation in Nigeria is not a consequence of the behavior of the ordinary people rather the behavior of the ordinary people is a consequence of the situation in Nigeria.

You said you will NEVER come to Nigeria because of the level of insanity and you want some to remain here and go mad when they can practically do nothing to change the situation in the country even if they want to. It is the leaders that can fix the country and the righteousness of a few ordinary people will not change it rather they will become endangered species.

I see people engaging in unscrupulous activity and though I will never join them nor encourage them but I see them mostly as victim of the Nigeria situation. Not everyone will rather die than compromise. It unfortunate that Nigeria has turned many upright individual to law breakers. I know it is easy to blame them when one is not in their shoe but I have learned that he that wears the shoe know where it pinches.

Does it mean we embrace illegality, NO, but we must understand that the situation makes it very difficult for ordinary people in Nigeria to be upright unless we want to deceive ourselves.

I understand it is a vicious circle, the illegality will only worsen the situation and the bad situation will make people do more illegality

What do we do in this situation, I will rather tell people the value of uprightness than condemn them for illegality. I would not condemn but enlighten

veleta:
@Wormie,why don't you come up with something better than this your cock and bull story.As at 2015,you were asking on Canada visa thread how to get visa to deliver there,then,all of a sudden you have gotten US passport and you are now employer of labour.

error4040:
You guys should keep the beef rolling abeg I don laff taya .


they way Twoods take de type god this god that, I assume the man don go yankee come become Athiest!


Lol my Bad if am wrong tho

BlowJobs:


Its a state licensing exam (occupational) working as Technician (in my field) before other steps that qualifies me for residency.

i completely flunked it. I absolutely own up to that. I was too over confident.

TWoods:


Here is the fundamental disconnect you and I are having... you see the hunger and suffering, i do too. The problem is that you're seeing these problems in a vacuum but i am not. I see hunger and suffering as consequences of our own behavior. Behaviors such as his where no one cares for rules and we show zero concern for doing things right. The countries you are running to are not immune to suffering and hunger... they just learned to conquer those problems by exhibiting the behaviors that you think are of no concern to you.

THAT is the problem and until we solve it, you and i will simply pass on that legacy of hunger and suffering to the next generation.

wormie:
I salute Blows_job for creating this thread. It takes courage,not a small one sef.
Haba,but people can be judgmental sha. Stuffs happen to people at different point in time that determine their decisions.

Stop forming abeg, almost everybody wanna relocate to America. Be it Nigerians, Mexicans, Chinese, Ghanaians etc. That people change status especially on B1/B2 visa isn't peculiar to Nigerians alone. In my few years of staying in the US, I have seen enough.

Can I encourage anybody to relocate/change status here,oh yes! My own personal opinion, I prefer to stay in a sane environment pls. Naija too hard and harsh. Naija is like jungle,survival of the fittest

My short story of getting here. Few years ago,I came for a family vacation, my husband and my 2 children. Hubby had a good job with take home of like 20k that time. I was also in academics,so my pay too was ok, like 120k. We applied based on that, truthfully oh, and we were granted B1/B2 visa. Hubby just got a mail on our third night in the US,guess what,na sack letter! Gobe leyi ooooo.

We were devastated, didn't know what to do next. We just decided to manage stay for the remaining vacation period and head back home. But I told my mum about my husband sack letter. She come remember that one of her long lost family friends(Mr A) dey Yankee. We got the man contact and link up with him. We explained our situation to him and the man said our best bet is to stay put for Yankee oh. Naija hard na, hubby will come back home come to join the endless ocean of job seekers.

But Mr A over try for us no be small. He engaged ones of his friends wey be immigration lawyer to put us thru. Mr A offered to do marriage with me and he arranged one white lady to marry my husband, all at no cost. I won't go too deep into it more than this so it won't look as if I dey encourage bad bad thing oh

We don get our Pali now,doing well in the US. We don't do crime or move with bad gang. And we be employer of labor.

My advice to anybody coming, be focus. It will be tough,no matter the means you come in with,it going to be tough. Naija work etiquette is quite different from Yankee own oh.

Now I'm waiting for supreme court judges to come judge this my matter now.....mchewwww.
Blows_jobs,I'm sorry for my long epistle on your thread.

comradespade:
Oga fish123, comman see debate ooo...I'm learning.
This thread is just giving me one kind tingling feelings

TWoods:


And that is of importance to you how exactly?

wormie:
I salute Blows_job for creating this thread. It takes courage,not a small one sef.
Haba,but people can be judgmental sha. Stuffs happen to people at different point in time that determine their decisions.

Stop forming abeg, almost everybody wanna relocate to America. Be it Nigerians, Mexicans, Chinese, Ghanaians etc. That people change status especially on B1/B2 visa isn't peculiar to Nigerians alone. In my few years of staying in the US, I have seen enough.

Can I encourage anybody to relocate/change status here,oh yes! My own personal opinion, I prefer to stay in a sane environment pls. Naija too hard and harsh. Naija is like jungle,survival of the fittest

My short story of getting here. Few years ago,I came for a family vacation, my husband and my 2 children. Hubby had a good job with take home of like 20k that time. I was also in academics,so my pay too was ok, like 120k. We applied based on that, truthfully oh, and we were granted B1/B2 visa. Hubby just got a mail on our third night in the US,guess what,na sack letter! Gobe leyi ooooo.

We were devastated, didn't know what to do next. We just decided to manage stay for the remaining vacation period and head back home. But I told my mum about my husband sack letter. She come remember that one of her long lost family friends(Mr A) dey Yankee. We got the man contact and link up with him. We explained our situation to him and the man said our best bet is to stay put for Yankee oh. Naija hard na, hubby will come back home come to join the endless ocean of job seekers.

But Mr A over try for us no be small. He engaged ones of his friends wey be immigration lawyer to put us thru. Mr A offered to do marriage with me and he arranged one white lady to marry my husband, all at no cost. I won't go too deep into it more than this so it won't look as if I dey encourage bad bad thing oh

We don get our Pali now,doing well in the US. We don't do crime or move with bad gang. And we be employer of labor.

My advice to anybody coming, be focus. It will be tough,no matter the means you come in with,it going to be tough. Naija work etiquette is quite different from Yankee own oh.

Now I'm waiting for supreme court judges to come judge this my matter now.....mchewwww.
Blows_jobs,I'm sorry for my long epistle on your thread.

TWoods:


The ease depends on your perceived value to the society. If someone thinks you’re worth the effort, they will move heaven and earth for you. Many Nigerians get through the process in 2-5 years flat. I went through the process without paying a dime and I had paid lawyers do everything for me. I’ve got friends who went through the process even faster - usually highly qualified doctors/surgeons. Not everyone went through the backdoor or married to stay. This is why I encourage folks to aim high... you don’t have to be a genius neither do you have to sneak in, the door is wide open. The problem is our mentality is so often warped that we think the only way is the fraudulent way.

To your second point, the jibe about folks acting more American than the native born is a well worn insult, way past it’s sell by date. It’s the same stuff you hear in the African American community where you are accepted if you’re a high school dropout, or run off the mill baby mama, drug kingpin, layabout etc. Those who step out of that stereotype to go to college, get corporate jobs, move out to the surburbs etc. are often derided and accused of “acting white”. It says a lot that we think so low of ourselves that we think being above board is something reserved for whites, not lowly “hustlers” like us.

When you talk of folks who finished with phds having to move to Canada, I’d ask you: phds in what and from what schools/programs? A PhD in African studies from Lincoln university is quite useless to be honest.

Owols:
1st paragraph, we'll spoken.
But bros, I for one no know book like you, no matter how I try I may not be as good as you.
Try to be mild and diplomatic. Fingers are not equal you know, not everyone will finish with distinctions. What I would advise if I were you is that each person should be good at something and the world will open its gates to you.
And you sound too righteous, free guys and don't be so judgemental.
I'm just catching my fun with all the arguments. Immigration fraud, no be my thing. I like my freedom. I no get mind for risks.

BlowJobs:

snow storm

PS: i don reschedule my retake exam to sometimes in January. Been studying harder now.

Dremca:
People wants Twoods to be like Lagosishome. I believe he (Twoods) may have had an unforgetable experience with a Nigeria (Maybe he got scammed or something else) and perhaps sounds choleric and conservative in nature while Lagosismyhome is a good phlegmatic and open minded. Is an individual differences, you have to accept and appreciate it. Everyone cannot be the way you want them to be, what matters is "what do you have to offer" and I have alot from him irrespective of his manner of communicaton yet I care less. Pick the diamond and throway the mud.

Owols:
1st paragraph, we'll spoken.
But bros, I for one no know book like you, no matter how I try I may not be as good as you.
Try to be mild and diplomatic. Fingers are not equal you know, not everyone will finish with distinctions. What I would advise if I were you is that each person should be good at something and the world will open its gates to you.
And you sound too righteous, free guys and don't be so judgemental.
I'm just catching my fun with all the arguments. Immigration fraud, no be my thing. I like my freedom. I no get mind for risks.

BlowJobs:




I am Jobless

justwise:


A married couple that engaged in sham marriage for American passport is saying they did not commit any crime?

How morally low can we go and still claim that we are not doing anything wrong?

You lot can complain about Twoods approach as much as you want but truth must be told.

smh

TWoods:


Fingers don't necessarily have to be equal... however imagine a world where you and i did the right thing at all times, do you think we'd need a visa to go anywhere? The fact that we don't see that what limits us are he consequences of our own actions is why i think we are going no where anytime soon. Those who came here on the backs of fraudulent marriages are here crowing around, forgetting that they are the reason genuine couples now have to jump through hoops to convince a US VO that they have a legit marriage. A german won't have to go through that much.

That someone can feel so brazen to celebrate a clear breach of the law is astounding to me.

veleta:
@Wormie,why don't you come up with something better than this your cock and bull story.As at 2015,you were asking on Canada visa thread how to get visa to deliver there,then,all of a sudden you have gotten US passport and you are now employer of labour.

elfmann:

FBI is here... Kikiki