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Re: My Fiancé Broke Up With Me Because I Refused Him Sex by bigpicture001: 11:46pm On Dec 11, 2017 |
honestly,i would do d same if I were ur guy..he is a close person as close as a fiance,he must be thinking of keeping you as a wife..now tell me,what wil prove to him that you wouldn't use this ur senseless tactics in.marage during quarrels..we are here on nairaland nd read frequently, how marriages break up cuz of deliberate sex starvation by the women..you want him to see trouble and jump into it..for you,your ego is still tied to year waist..wen ur ready to settle down,we will all know 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Fiancé Broke Up With Me Because I Refused Him Sex by Ahmiee(f): 12:25am On Dec 12, 2017 |
savvy12:never settle for less than what you deserve. theres nothing like not having options, 1 Like |
Re: My Fiancé Broke Up With Me Because I Refused Him Sex by coolh3ad(m): 12:48am On Dec 12, 2017 |
savvy12: But wait first o. Why date someone you are not attracted to? . He is rich abi. Means you are attracted to his money.....that's why you immediately made it clear that you are not a gold digger. So what should we call someone who is not attracted to a person but dating the person because he is rich? . Would you have dated him if he was "managing'?.. Na wa for some ladies oo 17 Likes |
Re: My Fiancé Broke Up With Me Because I Refused Him Sex by djsalvation122(m): 1:05am On Dec 12, 2017 |
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Re: My Fiancé Broke Up With Me Because I Refused Him Sex by Gofwane(m): 3:00am On Dec 12, 2017 |
Op, so you are not attracted to the doctor yet you are dating him? Aren't you suppose to be happy for discovering his plans of wanting to vandalise your pussay and vamooze? See why we refer to ladies as fish brained? They don't even know what they want! 2 Likes |
Re: My Fiancé Broke Up With Me Because I Refused Him Sex by salmonkas178(m): 3:05am On Dec 12, 2017 |
The devil you know is better than the Angel coming from Canada ..he will also demand sex from you 4 Likes |
Re: My Fiancé Broke Up With Me Because I Refused Him Sex by Next2Bezee(m): 3:06am On Dec 12, 2017 |
You're seeing two guys at the same time and want to be happy in this life? Blood of Apostle Suleiman! 5 Likes |
Re: My Fiancé Broke Up With Me Because I Refused Him Sex by pussyeater(m): 5:36am On Dec 12, 2017 |
Gold Digger you are! You're not attracted to him, yet you are dating him. I hope he Demolishes your puzzay once he finds out your motive towards him (chop is money) 2 Likes |
Re: My Fiancé Broke Up With Me Because I Refused Him Sex by ogorwyne(f): 5:45am On Dec 12, 2017 |
shugamummy:Haba! Ease up jor. What's the fight for? |
Re: My Fiancé Broke Up With Me Because I Refused Him Sex by ferdvict2(m): 6:18am On Dec 12, 2017 |
roarik:some answers are so annoying.have she not being following heart and it seems it's not working before she requested for an advise? 5 Likes |
Re: My Fiancé Broke Up With Me Because I Refused Him Sex by Nobody: 6:21am On Dec 12, 2017 |
Daniel2289:Nothing like being harsh. He's just being blunt. The babe doesn't know what she wants. How can she claim she's not attracted to the doctor and she is dating him What nansense ! For me self, I can never marry a girl who is denying me sex. Say wetin happen 3 Likes |
Re: My Fiancé Broke Up With Me Because I Refused Him Sex by shugamummy: 6:38am On Dec 12, 2017 |
Here they come with that attitude 'less than what she deserves'. For your mind cos she possess some openings she deserves the best of bests.....what qaulity trait does op hold high apart from thinking from under her pants...she blvs all men wants that stuff and therefore she is priceless....stupidity still persisting in 21 century...less than what she deserves really.... Ahmiee: 12 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: My Fiancé Broke Up With Me Because I Refused Him Sex by pope191: 6:42am On Dec 12, 2017 |
You've really drove yourself to point of destruction, you can only get away unhurt if luck is by your side. Few questions to ask... How long have you been dating the doctor? If you are not crystal clear about his age, search for his original BC. Were you in relationship with doctor when you started the initial move with the Canadian guy? If yes! That's pure evil and greed. Ever since you've been in relationship with the doctor, what have you offered to make the relationship worth it while? If nothing! He have the right to demand for sex (let the almighty be the judge). Let's stop acting as if these things are new, majority of the people these days don't stay in relationship without sex and if he have been with you for more than 5 months without sex and you are not a virgin, pls give it to him. The guy that disvirgin you does not have 2 head. Is the Canadian guy aware of your relationship with him? Be honest with yourself, if the Canadian guy ask for sex next year, what will you do? Talk him out of it or start feeling all he want is sex? Sex in relationship is relative, there most be a reason for you to say no and please dating someone outside the country is a very tedious thing, in fact what commitment have you been seeing from the Canadian, that makes you thing he's the best bet for you? Just use your head well and don't let your emotions sway you. 13 Likes |
Re: My Fiancé Broke Up With Me Because I Refused Him Sex by sirusX(m): 6:52am On Dec 12, 2017 |
Being in a relationship with someone you are not attracted to can be a serious problem, cz it makes it sound like you are managing till the next best thing comes along...and that is what it seems right now as you are considering someone else It’s best you had been friends with those you intend going into relationship with and not do it out of pressure. Take time to talk, communicate and discuss so you understand more about each other and know if it’s right to go into a relationship with him. Learn from your past and also others around you and make an informed descision regarding your future...as dating in your case shouldn’t be for the funk of it but for the long run Find out what makes you happy |
Re: My Fiancé Broke Up With Me Because I Refused Him Sex by savvy12: 7:19am On Dec 12, 2017 |
shugamummy:Yeah,I'm a golddigger.Now,go kill yourself. what even made u think ur opinion matters to me? And how do you know I will stay till 30 without marrying? dude,you're not my God,you know! 9 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Fiancé Broke Up With Me Because I Refused Him Sex by bularuz(m): 7:21am On Dec 12, 2017 |
A bird at hand is worth two in the bush, I suggest you get serious with the guy you know and can see. |
Re: My Fiancé Broke Up With Me Because I Refused Him Sex by savvy12: 7:26am On Dec 12, 2017 |
sirusX:Yeah,I was dating him becos I had no option. We broke up sometime last year becos of this sex matter and he called last year November and begged me and I agreed to date him. Asides,the fact that I'm attracted to him,his secretive nature bothers me so much. I told him everything about myself but he doesn't open to me. The main reason I denied 1 Like |
Re: My Fiancé Broke Up With Me Because I Refused Him Sex by Nobody: 7:31am On Dec 12, 2017 |
if i were in your shoes I'll leave them both, give yourself time the right person will come along, right now you're playing a dangerous game. 3 Likes |
Re: My Fiancé Broke Up With Me Because I Refused Him Sex by savvy12: 7:38am On Dec 12, 2017 |
pope191:I have dated him for more than a year. I met him early last year when my dad was admitted in the hospital. yeah,I was in relationship with him when I was dating the other guy because I was having some doubts about him. The primary reason for refusing him sex is because I'm a virgin.I didn't say it here initially cos I know people will call me all sorts of name becos I'm a virgin at 27. what have I offered him? our relationship was never boring.we discuss everyday and encourage each other. He said he likes me and plans to marry me.But I told him to wait small. 6 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Fiancé Broke Up With Me Because I Refused Him Sex by idu1(m): 7:41am On Dec 12, 2017 |
savvy12: Leave the doc. Don't go and beg him shiit. Continue chatting with the Canada guy for friendship sake. Him too no serious for my face. Try and know a lot about him. Like what he's doing down there and any solid plan in getting married. Make he no come give you belle and zoom off. Don't be desperate because you are 27 o... 2 Likes |
Re: My Fiancé Broke Up With Me Because I Refused Him Sex by Nobody: 7:44am On Dec 12, 2017 |
Lol...guys no need to call her LovePeddler or something. She aint putting all her eggs in one basket. Well Aunth Savvy, no matter what, stand your ground. Thats your self worth and pride as a woman. Regarding the doctor that pesters you for sex, dont allow him. Its obvious he wants to use and dump you. Try knowing the canadian guy more. Ask him questions thag will make you understand him. If possible, browse google for things to know about a guy. There are over a 1000 of them |
Re: My Fiancé Broke Up With Me Because I Refused Him Sex by Chuks9000: 7:56am On Dec 12, 2017 |
savvy12: Believe me, even after 20 of marriage, you will still have doubts. His spirit n yours do not gel. Tell him what your fears are. Give him the chance to lie to you. Just before then, make sure you have a concrete fact. If his story blends with the fact, you might have a man with integrity. Its a 50-50 world. 2 Likes |
Re: My Fiancé Broke Up With Me Because I Refused Him Sex by Windflower(f): 7:58am On Dec 12, 2017 |
savvy12:First of all,you have to be firm when making decisions, when you knew the man was odd and you don't even feel attracted to him,you shouldn't have agreed to date him. Do not be surprised that the man is married with kids and if you are not careful,he might even rape you. I think its high time you start realising your worth,stop allowing the age factor weigh you down or worry if you would meet another kind of guy. I believe there is someone out there for you. I could remember when my relationship ended with my ex,its was something I could still hang on to but I said no and moved on,even when people looked at me like a fool for leaving a man they believe to be good,cos their believe was I might never meet someone as good as him,but of what's use is a good man when he can't keep our affairs personal,running to the mother at any slight quarrel. I have my self worth and I walked away without regretting or worrying that I was going to be single. Let the man go,focus on the abroad guy but be wise when doing soo cos you don't know what is going on over there. People say love is blind but its the people who are in love that are blind,not love itself. Never accept anything in a relationship if you know u won't compromise in marriage. 7 Likes |
Re: My Fiancé Broke Up With Me Because I Refused Him Sex by Nobody: 8:09am On Dec 12, 2017 |
My dear, from your write up, the contributions of people and your replies, it's obvious this is a script and it's not real and you are not involved in this relationship. But if you are, these are my views. If you are true to yourself and responsible, you will not be in two relationship. For God sake the issue of sex in a relationship is relative to most persons and you should not blame him for asking for sex after months of the relationship and you are at fault for accepting him after he begged for a comeback. When will ladies understand that when a guy says he want sex he meant it? That is not to say a guy can't be in a relationship without sex, I have been in a relationship without sex, that was when I was on my masters program at uniben, trust me when I say it takes alot of self discipline and maturity. You said you are a Virgin. My dear you are not chatting with you friends on Facebook or whatsapp, this is a forum with large followers. A Virgin is naturally reserved, a Virgin will not get involved with multiple partners. My dear don't be deceived distances relationship in Nigeria is difficult to keep, talkless of relationship of different countries. You don't know that young man My submission and conclusion is this End the relationship with both guys Get good relationship books, read them and understand them, get yourself engaged with something. When you are mature emotionally, the right guy will come, by then you must have known that every relationship must be defined at a point and issues of sex or no sex are things you discuss very early and it should be defined. Have a wonderful day. 5 Likes |
Re: My Fiancé Broke Up With Me Because I Refused Him Sex by Windflower(f): 8:13am On Dec 12, 2017 |
[quote author=pope191 post=63202895][/quote] Waow,so because sex and relationship is relative then a girl must give sex if he demands for it especially when she is not a virgin. Now my questions * A man that doesn't have self control,is that one a man * A man that allows his dick control him,is he worthy being called a man * will giving out the cookie guarantee that the man would never leave or cheat on his girl * If she eventually gives him,does it guarantee that she did it because she truly love him or she did it out of coercion * Does having sex in a relationship guarantee its would lead to marriage I must say am not surprised with your opinion,especially now when a 16year old girl would have sex and flaunt it on Facebook. Everyone is all about sex now but please stop misleading people,sex/lovemaking should be mutual,it should be because u feel connected to your partner and not just because you want to ease your sex drive. 1 Like |
Re: My Fiancé Broke Up With Me Because I Refused Him Sex by pope191: 8:25am On Dec 12, 2017 |
Windflower: I beg to differ ma, you don't know the man in question and I can feel some level of personal agenda in your post. Peace 1 Like |
Re: My Fiancé Broke Up With Me Because I Refused Him Sex by Nobody: 8:39am On Dec 12, 2017 |
Windflower:I believe you quoted me and I believe you did not read all my write up because you feel you can take an element from my compound to win cheap point. I never said self control by partners are wrong, note I generalized it that's because I know that in some relationship it's even the lady in rare occasions that initiate it, my dear I even cited myself as an example. I will not bring you to my level because I don't know your level of understanding but I will take you back to your days of adolescence when mumsi would always say, if you can't abstain, use a condom. That means our parents understand that weakness in us. Even God understand our weakness and that's why he said we should abstain from fornication and adultery. Haven said the above, we all can agree that our parents in most cases fail to teach the male child the need to be in control of their emotions and their hormones, things has gotten so bad that even our female children are no longer taught these norms. At this point, I would like to take a break on this topic. Sincerely, I would have loved to highlight more points to justify and bring out the truth about many things but I am busy at the moment. 1 Like |
Re: My Fiancé Broke Up With Me Because I Refused Him Sex by pope191: 8:41am On Dec 12, 2017 |
CHRISTIAN71: I'm so much loving this post. Relationship should be define from the onset and chaning of goal post should be with great understanding. I still can't figure out, how they have been in and out of a relationship for a year and yet to come in terms with sexual issues. |
Re: My Fiancé Broke Up With Me Because I Refused Him Sex by victorazyvictor(m): 8:51am On Dec 12, 2017 |
savvy12: Men and Sex is like 5&6. |
Re: My Fiancé Broke Up With Me Because I Refused Him Sex by CYBERWEAVER(m): 8:52am On Dec 12, 2017 |
u mst have many guys......................... .Please Observe The Following Rules: (skip) 1. Please post all threads in the right section, and don't derail threads by posting off topic. 2. Don't abuse, bully, deliberately insult/provoke, fight, or wish harm to Nairaland members OR THEIR TRIBES. 3. Don't threaten, support or DEFEND violent acts against any person, tribe, race, animals, or group (e.g. rape). 4. Discussions of the art of love-making should be restricted to the hidden sexuality section. 5. Don't post pornographic or disgusting pictures or videos on any section of Nairaland. 6. Don't post adverts or affiliate links outside the areas where adverts are explicitly allowed. 7. Don't say, do, or THREATEN to do anything that's detrimental to the security, success, or reputation of Nairaland. 8. Don't post false information on Nairaland. 9. Don't use Nairaland for illegal acts, e.g scams, plagiarism, hacking, gay meetings, incitement, promoting secession. 10. Don't violate the privacy of any people e.g. by posting their private pics, info, or chats without permission. 11. Don't create distracting posts with: ALL WORDS BOLD / huge font sizes / ALL CAPS / distracting imagesspaces, etc. 12. Don't insert signatures into your posts. Instead, add the desired signature to your profile. 13. Please report any post or topic that violates the rules of Nairaland using the (Report) button. 14. Please search the forum before creating a new thread on Nairaland. 15. Don't attempt to post censored words by misspelling them. 16. Don't promote shady investments like betting, HYIP, MLM, FOREX, binary options, and cryptocurrencies on Nairaland. 18. Don't spam the forum by advertising in the wrong places or posting the same content many times. 19. Don't use alternate accounts to access Nairaland after being banned. If you do, make sure we don't find out. 20. Complaints to or against moderators must be sent privately. Please don't disobey, disrespect, or defame them. 21. Please spell words correctly when you post, and try to use perfect grammar and punctuation. 22. Don't ask Nairaland members for contact details (email, phone, bbpin) or investments. Message: |
Re: My Fiancé Broke Up With Me Because I Refused Him Sex by Nobody: 8:53am On Dec 12, 2017 |
You are a greedy woman. Stop pretending. . . |
Re: My Fiancé Broke Up With Me Because I Refused Him Sex by Nobody: 8:53am On Dec 12, 2017 |
savvy12:run for your life from the doctor |
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