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Re: My Fiancé Broke Up With Me Because I Refused Him Sex by Preciousseed(m): 10:37am On Dec 12, 2017 |
I see a lady that knows what she want but is desperate to be in a relationship out of low self esteem. My dear, you are better than this. Stick to your values. If you ask me, both guys is not worth holding you at ransom. Go about your normal life, except for the doctor. Eject him from your system because he is a toxic substance and contradicts your value. For the Canadian based guy, just maintain a friendly relationship with him while you keep your mind open as you are bound to meet other guys! 1 Like |
Re: My Fiancé Broke Up With Me Because I Refused Him Sex by ronaldbecky(m): 10:41am On Dec 12, 2017 |
savvy12:JESUS CHRIST OF NAZARETH!!!!!!!! |
Re: My Fiancé Broke Up With Me Because I Refused Him Sex by victorazyvictor(m): 10:41am On Dec 12, 2017 |
buffalowings:simple question, is she a virgin. plz ask her. 1 Like |
Re: My Fiancé Broke Up With Me Because I Refused Him Sex by deafeyez: 10:43am On Dec 12, 2017 |
savvy12: Why are you not attracted to the doctor. I know it is not the age alone. Other things might be involved despite being secretive. Maybe he does not make you comfortable in your skin. Or you don't see a future with him. |
Re: My Fiancé Broke Up With Me Because I Refused Him Sex by Acidosis(m): 10:44am On Dec 12, 2017 |
If you give in to the Doc, he will chop you and clean his mouth afterwards. He wants the sex ONLY |
Re: My Fiancé Broke Up With Me Because I Refused Him Sex by Cyrilpac(m): 10:46am On Dec 12, 2017 |
Abi na one them.? Forget about the doctor and look for another one and add , at least two more |
Re: My Fiancé Broke Up With Me Because I Refused Him Sex by tonero230(m): 10:48am On Dec 12, 2017 |
savvy12: Life is cunning.Sometimes,the one you want may not come.ladies that expect their ideal man don't always get it but those ladies that don't expect it get it.Pray obey it.Don't hope on that abroad guy.Meanwhile,what type of guy do you want. |
Re: My Fiancé Broke Up With Me Because I Refused Him Sex by popcykaylah(m): 10:50am On Dec 12, 2017 |
One of..well I didn't even bother to read the rest..n.a. so e dey start. .you go taay for your papa house.. |
Re: My Fiancé Broke Up With Me Because I Refused Him Sex by Cyrilpac(m): 10:50am On Dec 12, 2017 |
Cyrilpac:you are already a smart woman putting your eggs in one basket is dangerous |
Re: My Fiancé Broke Up With Me Because I Refused Him Sex by Rompio(m): 10:51am On Dec 12, 2017 |
mrvitalis:Abi ooo I don't even know that they av spent a year together.... You av been dating someone for the past 12month still you are telling me you don't want him to av sec with you......... Just tell me what he as gained from the relationship when you don't even trust him........ You too self we need to scan you.... 1 Like |
Re: My Fiancé Broke Up With Me Because I Refused Him Sex by imahascott: 10:51am On Dec 12, 2017 |
Mm.. Gurls,also confused at all times..The problem is that ya not ready to define what you want and how you want to go by it.. Smbody u barely meet or chat with,u saying he is a nice guy,wats so nice about d guy? Is it the fact that he lives in America? As for the Dr,u said u dnt like him,wats is still keeping you around him? Is it his nice car? Involve ya creator,He is the supreme consultant# 1 Like |
Re: My Fiancé Broke Up With Me Because I Refused Him Sex by SlayQueenSlayer(m): 10:53am On Dec 12, 2017 |
thatsincerechic: Don't you think she should at least, fucckk him for the money? |
Re: My Fiancé Broke Up With Me Because I Refused Him Sex by freemile2ru: 10:54am On Dec 12, 2017 |
I really don't understand what you guys are saying here, she noted that they have been dating for over a year now and the guy started feeling that he has the right to the cookie let's assume it is his only relationship. I don't think the guy is a bad person because he has been with you for almost a year and also he is not a kid 37 to stay in a no sex relationship for more than a year? You guys should please be realistic here. As for the Canada guy, the devil you know is better than the angel you don't know. That's all I have to say |
Re: My Fiancé Broke Up With Me Because I Refused Him Sex by thebestest: 10:54am On Dec 12, 2017 |
savvy12: You said one of your fiances? So how many of them you be get? #plentyFiances |
Re: My Fiancé Broke Up With Me Because I Refused Him Sex by Next2Bezee(m): 10:55am On Dec 12, 2017 |
ndidibabe: Because she is lying. She claims not to love him. She claims to refuse money from him. She even doubts the age he told he he was. So why see him in the first place? She makes it feel like she has no feelings for him at all but somehow, she is still afraid that he will dump her. Too much lies. I believe she's just a gold digger that's with him because he's a doctor. |
Re: My Fiancé Broke Up With Me Because I Refused Him Sex by olatemmie13(m): 10:56am On Dec 12, 2017 |
Alaye don marry sharp guy ![]() ![]() ![]() savvy12: |
Re: My Fiancé Broke Up With Me Because I Refused Him Sex by DrTims(m): 10:56am On Dec 12, 2017 |
You dated him because you had no option?? Most you date? What if the doctor later propose and you end up marrying him. Later you will start cheating on him because you were never attracted to him in the first place. Let's learn to do things the right way. You better free that man. You will find someone that you are really attracted to. You don't need to rush.. savvy12: |
Re: My Fiancé Broke Up With Me Because I Refused Him Sex by Nobody: 10:56am On Dec 12, 2017 |
cruchenutii: You dont have to marry a Canadian to become a citizen.There is an immigration program through which anyone of us can immigrate to Canada,have permanent residency there and work towards become a citizen before it was after 4years of staying there now it 3years.Alot of our people;Nigerians,have immigrated to Canada through this route.There is a thread on it in nairaland. That been said let her open her eyes,do her home work well.That Doctor hmmm she should be very careful with him.l dey suspect........hmmmm 1 Like |
Re: My Fiancé Broke Up With Me Because I Refused Him Sex by thebestest: 10:59am On Dec 12, 2017 |
Ourown:She want wait for the Abroad Guy, and am sure the jando will have sex with her. |
Re: My Fiancé Broke Up With Me Because I Refused Him Sex by thebestest: 10:59am On Dec 12, 2017 |
Ourown:She want wait for the Abroad Guy, because He lives abroad, and am sure the jando will have sex with her. |
Re: My Fiancé Broke Up With Me Because I Refused Him Sex by tiwiex(m): 11:01am On Dec 12, 2017 |
savvy12:You said you are not attracted to him. So what's the point of this post? He left and you are worried over...? Pick a struggle and if you are not attracted to Canada too, then move on. Seems u are considering citizenship with him from your post too. |
Re: My Fiancé Broke Up With Me Because I Refused Him Sex by kambili999(f): 11:02am On Dec 12, 2017 |
pawesome:I used the word 'most' not 'all'. it's you who is generalizing not me |
Re: My Fiancé Broke Up With Me Because I Refused Him Sex by Nobody: 11:04am On Dec 12, 2017 |
Hipsofagoddess:My dear don't you think your quote is too emotional. I am not someone that is emotional and diplomatic with the truth. What best encapsulate a Virgin other than reservation and restraint. A Virgin that can't stick to one guy, is that one a Virgin. Where is our discipline, our reservation, our self control and principle. My dear I am not one of those boys you meet everyday, from my write up you should know better. |
Re: My Fiancé Broke Up With Me Because I Refused Him Sex by thebestest: 11:05am On Dec 12, 2017 |
freemile2ru: The truth is that she dont even know any of the devils |
Re: My Fiancé Broke Up With Me Because I Refused Him Sex by omoelerin1: 11:06am On Dec 12, 2017 |
savvy12:Don't be moved or be intimidated at all, as a result of the harsh reply you get from some people here. You are a good girl. you don't deserve to be ended in the wrong hand. Just have faith in God and be prayerful, your husband will locate you soon. Do not be desperate because of your age. 1 Like |
Re: My Fiancé Broke Up With Me Because I Refused Him Sex by seadesi1986: 11:06am On Dec 12, 2017 |
as for me PRAYER IS INVOLVED ask God to guide you there is a way that seems right in the eyes of men but the end there off is destruction. be wise |
Re: My Fiancé Broke Up With Me Because I Refused Him Sex by ameh99: 11:08am On Dec 12, 2017 |
Here you are double dating and you seriously expect the guys you date not to cheat on you?.... ![]() |
Re: My Fiancé Broke Up With Me Because I Refused Him Sex by tonero230(m): 11:09am On Dec 12, 2017 |
[quote author=savvy12 post=63204284] I have dated him for more than a year. I met him early last year when my dad was admitted in the hospital. yeah,I was in relationship with him when I was dating the other guy because I was having some doubts about him. The primary reason for refusing him sex is because I'm a virgin.I didn't say it here initially cos I know people will call me all sorts of name becos I'm a virgin at 27. what have I offered him? our relationship was never boring.we discuss everyday and encourage each other. He said he likes me and plans to marry me.But I told him to wait small. If you are really a virgin, God will really give you your heart desire.But I am surprise that you have god fearing for being a virgin and still confused about what to do.Meet your pastor to help you OK. Don't be cajoled into having sex with someone that is not your hubby.That doctor, has he made frantic effort to see your people or introduce you to his parents.... |
Re: My Fiancé Broke Up With Me Because I Refused Him Sex by Bombolistic: 11:11am On Dec 12, 2017 |
I'm surprised non asked if she's ready to marry. If she is, then talk to the doctor to do the needful if he's serious about the relationship. But if you don't have feelings for him, then find your level and let him know immediately. As the the one abroad, you don't know his life style, so above you to be careful. Terrible things are happening these days |
Re: My Fiancé Broke Up With Me Because I Refused Him Sex by Nobody: 11:12am On Dec 12, 2017 |
dannio: But that is permanent residency & not Citizen as it seems. You must not leave Canada between that speculated 3 years right? And I'm not entirely sure you have all the rights that a Citizen has. Please tell me if i'm wrong |
Re: My Fiancé Broke Up With Me Because I Refused Him Sex by AreaFada2: 11:14am On Dec 12, 2017 |
Archangel15: Surprisingly all the wise ladies advising her and getting likes for their comments see nothing wrong with dating several guys at the same time. The Canada guy thinks he has a babe in 9ja. Meanwhile the girls visit her doctor bf alone in his house. A less refined person could have forcefully had sex with her and due to stigma she'd not report to the police. Fact is....your bae is dating other guys. Until wedding day and beyond in many cases. ![]() ![]() The girl is very confused. But not unusual for modern girls sha. My only advise is keep dating several men as you already do. ![]() ![]() When you pursue many rats at the same time, you end up killing none. |
Re: My Fiancé Broke Up With Me Because I Refused Him Sex by Nobody: 11:16am On Dec 12, 2017 |
CHRISTIAN71: I would have loved to educate you but from your write up your are too dogmatic to understand. |
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