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How Do I Get Help Or Come Out Of This ? by Emvico34: 8:25pm On Dec 11, 2017 |
Good day n.landers. Pls i need your advice on this isue. On the 13 October this year my wife gave birth to a bouncing baby girl through cs at a particular hospital in ikotun lagos state. I was billed 200k, i was able to raise 40k, which i gave to the doctor. I meet my pastors and explain everything to them but they said they don't have money. Now my wife has spent 2 months at the hospital and i don't know what do to bring them out. Pls my fellow n.lander what do i need to do now? pls help |
Re: How Do I Get Help Or Come Out Of This ? by Emvico34: 8:29pm On Dec 11, 2017 |
Pls note: i work as a block industry operator but the work is not stable.
Pls i need your advice |
Re: How Do I Get Help Or Come Out Of This ? by Emvico34: 8:33pm On Dec 11, 2017 |
Pls if there's anything i can do to raise this money, pls tell me |
Re: How Do I Get Help Or Come Out Of This ? by Nobody: 9:07pm On Dec 11, 2017 |
2 months in hospital because of CS? |
Re: How Do I Get Help Or Come Out Of This ? by keepingmum: 9:36pm On Dec 11, 2017 |
Oga sorry for your dilemma however childbirth isnt an emergency. You had 9 months to plan for God sake...the baby gave you almost a years notice before her arrival. The security man, nurses, labtechnitican, cleaners working in the hospital need to be paid their salaries. They have children sch fees to pay, house rent, feeding etc. The hospital relies on patients using their services to pay the fees in order for their staff to be paid ..let me tell u a story and its a true story... [/i]This woman gave birth in my friend's hospital via Caesarean section. Because of the emergency (she was unbooked, with breech presentation and placenta previa and already in labor) the doctors had to rush into the theatre without them making any deposit. She spent the next one month in the hospital because they "could not afford the bill". And during this period, their church members were always coming to fire prayers for her, disturbing the peace of the hospital yet contributing nothing to their bill. After a while, my friend got tired of seeing them and asked them to go. Last Sunday they had child dedication. They were in church with plenty gifts and offerings for the pastor. The wife gave a testimony of how "Daddy" was used by God to give them a child. Of course there was reception after the service. Is this not wickedness?"[i] I suggest you speak with your family members to assist you and whilst at it, ensure your wife has a long lasting Family planning administered before shes discharged from hospital.....this should remain till your familys circumstances improve. 10 Likes |
Re: How Do I Get Help Or Come Out Of This ? by Emvico34: 9:36pm On Dec 11, 2017 |
Mindfulness:no be small thing oo |
Re: How Do I Get Help Or Come Out Of This ? by Nobody: 9:39pm On Dec 11, 2017 |
Emvico34: You must be kidding. Unless she suffered from severe complications, she has no business staying in hospital for two months. A friend of mine left the hospital after a few days. |
Re: How Do I Get Help Or Come Out Of This ? by keepingmum: 9:43pm On Dec 11, 2017 |
Mindfulness: Shes in hospital because he hasn't settled her bill 5 Likes |
Re: How Do I Get Help Or Come Out Of This ? by Nobody: 9:45pm On Dec 11, 2017 |
keepingmum: She is held hostage there? What a country! |
Re: How Do I Get Help Or Come Out Of This ? by Emvico34: 10:04pm On Dec 11, 2017 |
Mindfulness:she is there because of the money. The cs was done successfully |
Re: How Do I Get Help Or Come Out Of This ? by Emvico34: 2:21am On Dec 12, 2017 |
keepingmum:thanks for your advice. Is not that i was not working, i was working as a ( block industry operator) and the work was not stable, besides things are not the Way it use to be. Even my family members could not send me money because they are also facing a hard time. My church members are also like your friend's church members, all they could offer was prayer. Of a truth i need serious help not prayer cos i have prayed and fasted on several occasions yet no answer. |
Re: How Do I Get Help Or Come Out Of This ? by Emvico34: 2:43am On Dec 12, 2017 |
Lala and co pls help move this thread to front page, help might come. Tnx |
Re: How Do I Get Help Or Come Out Of This ? by keepingmum: 1:21pm On Dec 12, 2017 |
Send me a mail 4 Likes |
Re: How Do I Get Help Or Come Out Of This ? by ladycomfort(f): 1:40pm On Dec 12, 2017 |
![]() difrerent stories for this december ![]() everybody wan buy Lamborghini ![]() ![]() 3 Likes |
Re: How Do I Get Help Or Come Out Of This ? by ladycomfort(f): 1:45pm On Dec 12, 2017 |
Emvico34: yes , go to apapa or idumota and do "alabaru" |
Re: How Do I Get Help Or Come Out Of This ? by olashas(f): 3:38pm On Dec 12, 2017 |
Re: How Do I Get Help Or Come Out Of This ? by Emvico34: 4:16pm On Dec 12, 2017 |
keepingmum:i have sent u an email sir |
Re: How Do I Get Help Or Come Out Of This ? by Emvico34: 4:17pm On Dec 12, 2017 |
keepingmum:i have sent u an email sir |
Re: How Do I Get Help Or Come Out Of This ? by Emvico34: 4:53pm On Dec 12, 2017 |
ladycomfort:keep your advice to yourself. No condition is permanent . One day you will need help, and God will send u mockers ijn amen |
Re: How Do I Get Help Or Come Out Of This ? by Emvico34: 4:59pm On Dec 12, 2017 |
ladycomfort:do you want me to send u the hospital address? You guys are not matured at all. Little children of this "indomie generation" commenting rubish on every post u see. |
Re: How Do I Get Help Or Come Out Of This ? by ladycomfort(f): 5:00pm On Dec 12, 2017 |
Emvico34: God doesnt send mockers o.. were you not the one that asked where you can work and get paid immediately in lagos ![]() ![]() thieves.. you cant go and work.. you are looking for people to scam on nairaland ![]() ![]() the time you have spent today on nairaland could have fetched you at least 1k in idumota market ![]() it shall never be well with you... go and see how people are carrying very heavy load in idumota.. women o ![]() . you are here looking for who to scam.... thief ![]() ![]() 4 Likes |
Re: How Do I Get Help Or Come Out Of This ? by ladycomfort(f): 5:01pm On Dec 12, 2017 |
Emvico34: go to hell ![]() |
Re: How Do I Get Help Or Come Out Of This ? by ladycomfort(f): 5:03pm On Dec 12, 2017 |
less than one month of opening this account, you are looking for who to scam ![]() 3 Likes |
Re: How Do I Get Help Or Come Out Of This ? by Emvico34: 5:19pm On Dec 12, 2017 |
ladycomfort:that shows the level of your immaturity, my wife spent two months at the hospital, was she eating sand or grass? Out of 200k i paid 40k, how did i get the money? Just like i said before, guys are not matured. Must u comment? Did you even read the post at all ? I am an operator. Am not a begger 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: How Do I Get Help Or Come Out Of This ? by Acidosis(m): 5:27pm On Dec 12, 2017 |
Your wife has been in the hospital for 2 months, and within the past one month, you got to know about Nairaland, opened an account and posted over one hundred comments already, and your darling wife is being held hostage in the hospital? Are you serious right now? You mean my wife will be at the hospital for 2 months and we will remain on Nairaland posting comments? Go back to the hospital, and present yourself. Let your wife leave that place in peace while you remain there. Your family will come for you soon. 7 Likes |
Re: How Do I Get Help Or Come Out Of This ? by ladycomfort(f): 5:28pm On Dec 12, 2017 |
Emvico34: okay... send your account number make i wire the remaining 160k into your account.. ![]() ![]() thief.. na me Bleep your wife...or na me give your wife belle ![]() you better use your tiny tolotolo go do rituals so you can pay up the remaining 160k ![]() |
Re: How Do I Get Help Or Come Out Of This ? by Emvico34: 5:38pm On Dec 12, 2017 |
ladycomfort:baby comfort, how did u know that my d!ck is tiny? Have u seen it before? Are u a ritualist? |
Re: How Do I Get Help Or Come Out Of This ? by Nobody: 5:42pm On Dec 12, 2017 |
Scammers everywhere. |
Re: How Do I Get Help Or Come Out Of This ? by Emvico34: 6:33pm On Dec 12, 2017 |
Acidosis:what is wrong with u ? Who told you that i am new on nland ? I have known nland for over 5 years. I lost my phone and my login details, i opened a new account using my old name Emvic34 and here u are telling me rubish. I pity the man/woman that will marry a trouble maker like u |
Re: How Do I Get Help Or Come Out Of This ? by ladycomfort(f): 6:41pm On Dec 12, 2017 |
Emvico34: like i said earlier... go to hell ![]() |
Re: How Do I Get Help Or Come Out Of This ? by Newboss(m): 8:42pm On Dec 12, 2017 |
***Singing*** Living things. 1 Like |
Re: How Do I Get Help Or Come Out Of This ? by LewsTherin: 3:22pm On Dec 13, 2017 |
If you are really real, you can be sure this is the wrongest way to get sympathy or support. Which makes me question your story 1 Like |
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