Good day n.landers. Pls i need your advice on this isue.
On the 13 October this year my wife gave birth to a bouncing baby girl through cs at a particular hospital in ikotun lagos state. I was billed 200k, i was able to raise 40k, which i gave to the doctor.
I meet my pastors and explain everything to them but they said they don't have money. Now my wife has spent 2 months at the hospital and i don't know what do to bring them out. Pls my fellow n.lander what do i need to do now? pls help

Pls note: i work as a block industry operator but the work is not stable. Pls i need your advice

Pls if there's anything i can do to raise this money, pls tell me

2 months in hospital because of CS?

Oga sorry for your dilemma however childbirth isnt an emergency. You had 9 months to plan for God sake...the baby gave you almost a years notice before her arrival. The security man, nurses, labtechnitican, cleaners working in the hospital need to be paid their salaries. They have children sch fees to pay, house rent, feeding etc. The hospital relies on patients using their services to pay the fees in order for their staff to be paid

..let me tell u a story and its a true story...

[/i]This woman gave birth in my friend's hospital via Caesarean section. Because of the emergency (she was unbooked, with breech presentation and placenta previa and already in labor) the doctors had to rush into the theatre without them making any deposit. She spent the next one month in the hospital because they "could not afford the bill". And during this period, their church members were always coming to fire prayers for her, disturbing the peace of the hospital yet contributing nothing to their bill. After a while, my friend got tired of seeing them and asked them to go.
Last Sunday they had child dedication. They were in church with plenty gifts and offerings for the pastor. The wife gave a testimony of how "Daddy" was used by God to give them a child. Of course there was reception after the service.
Is this not wickedness?"[i]


I suggest you speak with your family members to assist you and whilst at it, ensure your wife has a long lasting Family planning administered before shes discharged from hospital.....this should remain till your familys circumstances improve.

Mindfulness:
2 months in hospital because of CS?

no be small thing oo

Emvico34:

no be small thing oo

You must be kidding. Unless she suffered from severe complications, she has no business staying in hospital for two months. A friend of mine left the hospital after a few days.

Mindfulness:


You must be kidding. Unless she suffered from severe complications, she has no business staying in hospital for two months. A friend of mine left the hospital after a few days.

Shes in hospital because he hasn't settled her bill

keepingmum:


Shes in hospital because he hasn't settled her bill

She is held hostage there?
What a country!

Mindfulness:


You must be kidding. Unless she suffered from severe complications, she has no business staying in hospital for two months. A friend of mine left the hospital after a few days.

she is there because of the money. The cs was done successfully

keepingmum:
Oga sorry for your dilemma however childbirth isnt an emergency. You had 9 months to plan for God sake...the baby gave you almost a years notice before her arrival. The security man, nurses, labtechnitican, cleaners working in the hospital need to be paid their salaries. They have children sch fees to pay, house rent, feeding etc. The hospital relies on patients using their services to pay the fees in order for their staff to be paid

..let me tell u a story and its a true story...

[/i]This woman gave birth in my friend's hospital via Caesarean section. Because of the emergency (she was unbooked, with breech presentation and placenta previa and already in labor) the doctors had to rush into the theatre without them making any deposit. She spent the next one month in the hospital because they "could not afford the bill". And during this period, their church members were always coming to fire prayers for her, disturbing the peace of the hospital yet contributing nothing to their bill. After a while, my friend got tired of seeing them and asked them to go.
Last Sunday they had child dedication. They were in church with plenty gifts and offerings for the pastor. The wife gave a testimony of how "Daddy" was used by God to give them a child. Of course there was reception after the service.
Is this not wickedness?"[i]


I suggest you speak with your family members to assist you and whilst at it, ensure your wife has a long lasting Family planning administered before shes discharged from hospital.....this should remain till your familys circumstances improve.

thanks for your advice. Is not that i was not working, i was working as a ( block industry operator) and the work was not stable, besides things are not the Way it use to be. Even my family members could not send me money because they are also facing a hard time. My church members are also like your friend's church members, all they could offer was prayer. Of a truth i need serious help not prayer cos i have prayed and fasted on several occasions yet no answer.

Lala and co pls help move this thread to front page, help might come. Tnx

Send me a mail

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Emvico34:
Pls if there's anything i can do to raise this money, pls tell me

yes , go to apapa or idumota and do "alabaru"

ladycomfort:



yes , go to apapa or idumota and do "alabaru"

Omg!!!

keepingmum:
Send me a mail

i have sent u an email sir

keepingmum:
Send me a mail

i have sent u an email sir

ladycomfort:



yes , go to apapa or idumota and do "alabaru"

keep your advice to yourself. No condition is permanent . One day you will need help, and God will send u mockers ijn amen

ladycomfort:


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do you want me to send u the hospital address? You guys are not matured at all. Little children of this "indomie generation" commenting rubish on every post u see.

Emvico34:

keep your advice to yourself. No condition is permanent . One day you will need help, and God will send u mockers ijn amen

God doesnt send mockers o.. were you not the one that asked where you can work and get paid immediately in lagos

thieves.. you cant go and work.. you are looking for people to scam on nairaland

the time you have spent today on nairaland could have fetched you at least 1k in idumota market

it shall never be well with you... go and see how people are carrying very heavy load in idumota.. women o .
. you are here looking for who to scam.... thief

Emvico34:

do you want me to send u the hospital address? You guys are not matured at all. Little children of this "indomie generation" commenting rubish on every post u see.

go to hell

less than one month of opening this account, you are looking for who to scam

ladycomfort:



God doesnt send mockers o.. were you not the one that asked where you can work and get paid immediately in lagos

thieves.. you cant go and work.. you are looking for people to scam on nairaland

the time you have spent today on nairaland could have fetched you at least 1k in idumota market

it shall never be well with you... go and see how people are carrying very heavy load in idumota.. women o .
. you are here looking for who to scam.... thief

that shows the level of your immaturity, my wife spent two months at the hospital, was she eating sand or grass? Out of 200k i paid 40k, how did i get the money? Just like i said before, guys are not matured. Must u comment? Did you even read the post at all ? I am an operator. Am not a begger

Your wife has been in the hospital for 2 months, and within the past one month, you got to know about Nairaland, opened an account and posted over one hundred comments already, and your darling wife is being held hostage in the hospital?



Are you serious right now? You mean my wife will be at the hospital for 2 months and we will remain on Nairaland posting comments?


Go back to the hospital, and present yourself. Let your wife leave that place in peace while you remain there. Your family will come for you soon.

Emvico34:

that shows the level of your immaturity, my wife spent two months at the hospital, was she eating sand or grass? Out of 200k i paid 40k, how did i get the money? Just like i said before, guys are not matured. Must u comment? Did you even read the post at all ? I am an operator. Am not a begger

okay... send your account number make i wire the remaining 160k into your account..

thief.. na me Bleep your wife...or na me give your wife belle

you better use your tiny tolotolo go do rituals so you can pay up the remaining 160k

ladycomfort:


okay... send your account number make i wire the remaining 160k into your account..

thief.. na me Bleep your wife...or na me give your wife belle

you better use your tiny tolotolo go do rituals so you can pay up the remaining 160k

baby comfort, how did u know that my d!ck is tiny? Have u seen it before? Are u a ritualist?

Scammers everywhere.

Acidosis:
Your wife has been in the hospital for 2 months, and within the past one month, you got to know about Nairaland, opened an account and posted over one hundred comments already, and your darling wife is being held hostage in the hospital?



Are you serious right now? You mean my wife will be at the hospital for 2 months and we will remain on Nairaland posting comments?


Go back to the hospital, and present yourself. Let your wife leave that place in peace while you remain there. Your family will come for you soon.

what is wrong with u ? Who told you that i am new on nland ? I have known nland for over 5 years. I lost my phone and my login details, i opened a new account using my old name Emvic34 and here u are telling me rubish. I pity the man/woman that will marry a trouble maker like u

Emvico34:

baby comfort, how did u know that my d!ck is tiny? Have u seen it before? Are u a ritualist?

like i said earlier... go to hell

***Singing***

Living things.

If you are really real, you can be sure this is the wrongest way to get sympathy or support. Which makes me question your story