my friend recently came to me seeking advice coserning his relationship! He has a lovely girlfriend with whom he's been in a relationship for close to four years.. Their relationship has been really smooth as they were best friends before dating and even got closer as they started dating.. They had few ups and downs but did't stop believing in eachother... To cut it short.. It was almost 4 years when they both found out one of them was "AS" and the other "SS" (as in genotype). they've come a long way and are not finding it easy doing without each other... Now its close to five years.. They're still in love with eachother and are still holding on... Please people.. Advice..!!!

dam_007: my friend recently came to me seeking advice coserning his relationship! He has a lovely girlfriend with whom he's been in a relationship for close to four years.. Their relationship has been really smooth as they were best friends before dating and even got closer as they started dating.. They had few ups and downs but did't stop believing in eachother... To cut it short.. It was almost 4 years when they both found out one of them was "AS" and the other "SS" (as in genotype). they've come a long way and are not finding it easy doing without each other... Now its close to five years.. They're still in love with eachother and are still holding on... Please people.. Advice..!!!

So what do you want us to do? To ask you to tell your friend to marry SS or wat?
Next pleaaaaaaase...!

Lolaabokoku: So what do you want us to do? To ask you to tell your friend to marry SS or wat?
Next pleaaaaaaase...!

don't be so harsh.. He actually never knew until they got so deep +could have happened anyone......

Some stories are just so hard to beleive...at this age and time? Such things still happen. Afterall the awareness created on such health related issues?
Seriously, SS and no crisis for four years?
This is a big joke!:/

dam_007:
don't be so harsh.. He actually never knew until they got so deep +could have happened anyone......

Am not harsh ok but there are some question that doesnt need answers

They should get married but should not have biological kids

or better still they should get married
and then explain to their kids y they had to put them through such punishment
for christ sake love is about sharing ur life with somebody
and at this age, genotype are one of the thing ur close frnds especially of the opposite sex should know
before the relationship assumes another direction

dam007:
my friend recently came to me seeking advice coserning his relationship! He has a lovely girlfriend with whom he's been in a relationship for close to four years.. Their relationship has been really smooth as they were best friends before dating and even got closer as they started dating.. They had few ups and downs but did't stop believing in eachother... To cut it short.. It was almost 4 years when they both found out one of them was "AS" and the other "SS" (as in genotype). they've come a long way and are not finding it easy doing without each other... Now its close to five years.. They're still in love with eachother and are still holding on... Please people.. Advice..!!!

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Curious to know if your friend eventually married the love of his life?

missojugo:
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Curious to know if your friend eventually married the love of his life?

they split up few months ago. After so much drag.. They're really good friends now.. Which actually feels a little unhealthy..

dam007:
they split up few months ago. After so much drag.. They're really good friends now.. Which actually feels a little unhealthy..

Waoooo. I would have advised to get married but put measures in place not to have biological kids together rather they can adopt. They sound like a match made in heaven and may never get over each other even if they marry other people. Life is too short to be married to a second best partner.

Op I don't get d gist.....are they kids? Cos dats d only excuse u would give to me for not knowing their genotypes.....are u trying to tell me she never had any break down for d four yrs of relationship....I find ur story hard to believe

missojugo:


Waoooo. I would have advised to get married but put measures in place not to have biological kids together rather they can adopt. They sound like a match made in heaven and may never get over each other even if they marry other people. Life is too short to be married to a second best partner.

still can't call each other ex's.. Tho they both claim to have moved on..

They should think of the future,

bringing those kids to suffer wat they knw not..pls

The SS should go to any Bible believing church and explain the issue to the church,let them pray for him/her and He/she shall be healed. I can come over and pray for the SS for Healing. This is my advice.

"They are still in love wiv each oda,they are stil holding on"....."they broke up some few months ago" this story is confusing.Are they stil together or....they broke up already.Moreova,sickle cell carriers will always av crisis so how come sins d past four years,ur friend jst got 2no??

dam007:
my friend recently came to me seeking advice coserning his relationship! He has a lovely girlfriend with whom he's been in a relationship for close to four years.. Their relationship has been really smooth as they were best friends before dating and even got closer as they started dating.. They had few ups and downs but did't stop believing in eachother... To cut it short.. It was almost 4 years when they both found out one of them was "AS" and the other "SS" (as in genotype). they've come a long way and are not finding it easy doing without each other... Now its close to five years.. They're still in love with eachother and are still holding on... Please people.. Advice..!!!

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empressteemah06:
cant reply pm

thanks for the courtesy. you're a good one!

missojugo:


Waoooo. I would have advised to get married but put measures in place not to have biological kids together rather they can adopt. They sound like a match made in heaven and may never get over each other even if they marry other people. Life is too short to be married to a second best partner.

fast forward to December 2017, they' set to wed!

dam007:
fast forward to December 2017, they' set to wed!

Really?

lies from anywhere u bring it from baba

ss never knew he is a carrier ahhhhhhhhh mo GBE
no crisis from birth till his present age hunnnñn
liars are liable to ... .....

dam007:
thanks for the courtesy. you're a good one!

you welcome

medically if dem like demselves dey should leave eachother.....that's if they don't want to bury their own kids.....sorry to say ooooo....but spiritually they can marry......just kidding ooooo

Lolaabokoku:
So what do you want us to do? To ask you to tell your friend to marry SS or wat?
Next pleaaaaaaase...!

Lol

shinarlaura:


Really?

Really Really.. not without fights though

dam007:
Really Really.. not without fights though

Wooow. Not minding the consequences of their actions.

dam007:
fast forward to December 2017, they' set to wed!

Yay! Hope they are going great...Congrats to them!

There is no way someone will not know that they are SS. An SS person is always particular about who they date from day 1.

In fact, my friend asks for the genotype right after the name of the person.

Bringing up children with SS and the challenges involved is enough to suck out every love and passion they feel now especially if they lose their child due to it.

Except they have other alternatives asides bringing a child to suffer, they should break it off. It is not fair to bring a child and watch them suffer. It will be heart breaking.