safarigirl:
and end up as grumpy as you are? I think I'll pass

You still really need to grow up.

TimeMod3:
wait, na you go dey keep am for am & hand it back to him when he wan enter work abi?


#NoBitchAttitude

this is lost on me

TimeMod3:
She eventually knew.

PS: I edit.

of course she would know.

I doubt any parent in this century genuinely thinks any male child past teenagehood is a virgin

Many small boys on NL, I pity any girl that takes them serious.
See their long list of what women should do to please men but if a woman starts a thread about how men should please women they will rush in to bash her without reading first.

All these ppl that wanna keep women under their thumbs with their sneer-worthy lists...and the asinine comments that follow sef

This is rather too specific like it’s from your personal experience. Why don’t you discuss it with your wife instead? That’s better than putting it here unless you’re sure she’s reading.

Waste of time....they won't change.
Get another woman as substitute but make her a side chick

cococandy:
This is rather too specific like it’s from your personal experience. Why don’t you discuss it with your wife instead? That’s better than putting it here unless you’re sure she’s reading.

bitch read the title of the thread & stop the conjecturing.

#NoBitchAttitude

Watch this very funny video even the Eze-nmo ran away

https://youtu.be/Sbv2_9Ik_Tc

youngreezy:
Using the term weaker sex to dia advantage... Dis one na em dey reign now dem use am dey kill men..

Weaker sex ke!


U come back from work n sit back with d remote, or hang out with ur peeps. U claim to be tired.


She comes back from work, enters d kitchen, entertain d kids n still has to entertain u later. She claims to be tired.

Who do u think is weaker?

EmirOMENT:
This advise is good for both husband and wife and not only the women.
Creating this thread specifically for women means that you're subjecting them to mere objects/machines in their matrimonial home. I see no reason why a man can't also adhere to the above advise.

kisses to you dear.. you just said my mind. With his choice of words and other things,thus shudbt be on front-page sef

ashjay001:



Weaker sex ke!


U come back from work n sit back with d remote, or hang out with ur pips. U claim to be tired.


She comes back from work, enters d kitchen, entertain d kids n u still has to entertain u later. She claims to be tired.

Who do u think is weaker?

preach on brother..

hobermener:
Marriage is hella overrated!!
Why bring two different people from different backgrounds, who hold different values and possess different traits under one union, merging them as both one, leaving them with the life long struggle of reconciling their differences with time

I just taya

BIAFRA/NIGERIA MARRIAGE IS A CASE STUDY

Lexusgs430:
Oya, una dey hear so?

oga mi, you leave car talk come mark register for here?

hobermener:
Marriage is hella overrated!!
Why bring two different people from different backgrounds, who hold different values and possess different traits under one union, merging them as both one, leaving them with the life long struggle of reconciling their differences with time

I just taya

It's for mature minds and not by force. Like they say, 'if u can't stand the heat, don't enter the kitchen.'

queenfav:
Even the men a woman lies stark naaked in bed for, will still cheat if they want to.... It takes a lot of self discipline and the fear of God for a man to be a good husband, it's not a function of what his woman does or doesn't do!A woman should however try to stay attractive for her man.

If you lie stark nakid with body wey no make sense d guy go stay im own jeje na. Lol! But u know what? Social media and social tools like d gadget u used in typing, is what has made cheating more rampant. And it's applicable to both sexes.

He is still a kid

Endtimesmith:
Nwaamaikpe...You don sleep?

dumo1:

oga mi, you leave car talk come mark register for here?

LOL.... I go answer when you too tell me dey thing, you too dey find here......

Should the man always be the one paying bills on dates?

An inquiry that is winding up increasingly normal among men these days is: “who should pay bills on dates?” To help clear up the disarray, here are a few hints that will enable you to make sense of who pays for a date in specific circumstances.(987 more words)

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hobermener:
Marriage is hella overrated!!
Why bring two different people from different backgrounds, who hold different values and possess different traits under one union, merging them as both one, leaving them with the life long struggle of reconciling their differences with time

I just taya

You funny

I know i will never come across an endtime woman.say no to endtime wives.

Chuks9000:
Women (married) have their overwhelmingly great sides. But their are some behaviours that could be detrimental to the relationship.

1. Lack of sex.
Having sex once in a month! She will always
come up with excuses like: I have a headache, I'm not in the mood, you only come to me when you need sex...
Sex is one of the cheapest things to get out there! But when the man holds those quality time with his wife as sacred, lack of sex can be a spoiler in the relationship.
The funny thing is that most time when he presses on, you tend to submit. Why then make him labour?
The worst is when you never initiate sex. No words to describe this torture.
Again, why will your husband walk into the room just for you to begin to adjust your top to conceal your boobs or bum? If you can't display the resources for him freely, then don't fault him if he thinks you are having an affair outside.

2. 'Disrespectfulness'.
Not acknowledging your husband at appropriate moments.
Imaging not saying good morning when you see him in the morning. Maybe after a fight. But making it a habit. Hmmm.
She will say you are on leave and still you don't have time to call. But when she is on leave, she will pretend to be asleep until the man leaves the house. Sometimes, he remembers he left his phone or something behind. He comes back to get it and relises that she was only waiting for him to leave the house before she gets up. What a shame.
Your husband gets home, rings the bell. You go unlock the door and return to what you were doing without receiving him at the door.
Funny when you always think his going out to have a drink is a sin. It's part of a man's DNA. Please get use to it.

3. Love for money.
Money makes the world go round.
But if the only time you are happy is when your palm is greased with money or gift, then, there is an issue.

4. 'Rudeness.
This is a little different from number 2.
"Baby, it's not done that way. See how it's done." When you take offence anytime a correction is suggested, you create a gap in the relationship. The husband cannot even ask if you have seen his wallet without you taking offence.

5. Pouring your annoyance on the kids always.
No illustration needed here.
If you have an issue bothering you, why not discuss it amicably?


These have been the order of the day and I just need your mature contribution.

Please if you cannot relate with the topic, you should take your joke(s) else where.

Thanks in advance.

While I agree with some of what you have written. However, I have the following responses to share.

1. Men should be patient to truly understand why their wives give those excuses about sex. She could be stressed out or have hormonal issues. Also, women's urge for sex isn't same as men's - medically explained. Husband go do all the romantic stuff to him GF to arouse her but e go just command him wife like sacrificial lamb wey suppose just spread for bed. The question is, how sincerely has he tried to communicate with her to understand why there is a change in how she responds to sex compared to the early times of their marriage? She may be unhappy with the man or certain situations. Also, why wont she lose her urge if her husband only comes to her or becomes nice to her when he needs sex? All your yarns no be excuse for the man to begin go outside him marriage. Like someone correctly said, even when the wife give am daily, man wey go go outside still dey go.

2. I understand and have experienced that behavior but trust me, she is not happy about a lot of things. So if you know how you were so loving before you married her to get the best of her, do same and more to find out why she is happier when you are not around. You annoy her and don't genuinely repent and you think settling an issue ends in love making. Then look for a prostitute not a wife. Nothing justifies a man staying out to drink. It is not in a man's DNA!!!

3. Your third point no even clear.

4. Reactions are effects of earlier actions.

5. The man should learn to love his wife and family the way he need from day 1. I am against either of the parents taking out their anger on innocent children, but this doesn't apply to females alone so don't make it a female thing.

Bottom line, it is not a man's world!!! I don't know where that bull crap came from. Why should a husband treat his wife like he is doing her a favor to be married to him? What the heck do you think you give her or do for her that she cant get more outside too if she decides to go out the way men stupidly justify their reasons for going out? Some men annoyingly say it is to answer a man's name. which dirty name? you be Dangote or Jeff Bezos? How much you even pay for bride price or dowry? How much your best wedding even cost?
The earlier we start treating our wives as wives, the better. Happy wife, happy home!!! Why because they are the support. Nothing lasts long without good support system. Shikina!!!

MrHistorian:
6.)Total disregard for body/beauty maintenance.

I don't know if this is peculiar to Nigeria but once a woman is married,she pays little attention to her looks with the ridiculous belief that "Who is looking at me?".. Though a married woman is not expected to portray herself as a slut but at the same time must make herself presentable at home and in the public.

When your wife dresses very well, na still you go begin suspect whether she dey go outside. Na why some women go kuku relax.
Some also try to stay away from he goats wey full everywhere. so they rather play low.

Jupxter:
Halleluyah, it hits FP.


Lack of Trust

Nagging

Trying to Domineer the man

Emotional Abuse

Verbal Assault

Emotional Stonewalling

Lack of Restrain

Lack of Sensitivity

Lack of Care

Disrespect

Too Much Talk

Intolerance

Bad tasting Meals

Boring Sex

Rudeness

Disloyalty

Lack of proper Hygiene

Lack of Trust - same with men

Nagging - husband check yourself, you sef know say you don change.

Trying to Domineer the man - then there is something critical you are missing

Emotional Abuse - story. Men's highest definition of this is sex related

Verbal Assault - as them no too get physical strength, na the one dem get wey dem dey use. so you sef no dey too find their trouble.

Emotional Stonewalling - this one na story

Lack of Restrain - guy quiet abeg. where you dey copy all these fake ambiguous talk from?

Lack of Sensitivity - guy quiet abeg. where you dey copy all these fake ambiguous talk from?

Lack of Care - guy quiet abeg. where you dey copy all these fake ambiguous talk from?

Disrespect - same with men

Too Much Talk - baseless point

Intolerance - applies to both. also depends on how she has lost her patience over drawing your attention to same thing

Bad tasting Meals - you can work with her on this. Different women grew up in different family set ups and circumstances. As you feel say woman must suppose cook well, hope say you sef get better money to spoil her. We expect the world but give little.

Boring Sex - too much porn. Why not patiently teach her rather than jump at it the way you watch in porn. Abi you no know say them dey pay those people heavily just to act? Moreso, I hope you are even as good as the guys you watch to because some women may just give up on bringing out their all in bed because na the same men go say she be bad girl say she don dey hide herself since. While for some, maybe as she even decide to get fired up in the game, the guy go do him 1 minute come out. Nothing dey annoy women for even weeks like that...lol. Them go just kuku decide to lock up make the man do him 5 minutes press up comot :-(

Rudeness - applies both ways

Disloyalty - guy you just dey talk same thing with different words. where you copy all these things from? how old u b abeg make I ask?

Lack of proper Hygiene - not good but can be improved on

hobermener:
Marriage is hella overrated!!
Why bring two different people from different backgrounds, who hold different values and possess different traits under one union, merging them as both one, leaving them with the life long struggle of reconciling their differences with time

I just taya

you just said it all.

anonymuz:
you just said it all.

If only both of you wisely understand the institution. SMH :-(

Holysiner503:

Abeg u don marry? If no marry me. U too get enuf oil for ya head! As for the Op, one thing he must know is that, the human mind or behavoiur can never be known, it is always subject to constant change.

wetin this one dey talk again abeg?