See you peepu. Jazzyjazz the cost of sending to abuja reach to buy one pack

enque:


biko, gimme back our diaper

Sansa143 welldone, your boy is looking so fresh

Sansa143:
Hello mamas,hope we and babies are doing grt.So we are eight months old 2day.It hasn't bin easy and it still isn't but all thanks to God.He no wan make una c him face,he refused to stay put 4 a shot so make una manage dis one.Just crawling but can scatter for africa

sweet baby. see as him fine like babe. Weldon mama

Tnks dear!Lol at babe,some people still think say na girl.

Arihodo:


sweet baby. see as him fine like babe. Weldon mama

hunniesuzie:





Sansa143 welldone, your boy is looking so fresh

Thanks Dear,God has bin faithful.

Tnks dear,how is our namesake doing?

realtalk19:


sweet jay. future mr nigeria
lol#oyinbobabyrocks#

Realtalk19 my initial instinct was to wakapass but e no go good

I need you to clarify what kind of advice you are looking for? I can deduce 2 things from your post:

1. You want to leave and you need advice on how to do it
2. You need to know whether to stay or go

Please state which one is accurate so mamas wey sabi go fit put mouth

Ammy5565:
Please o mamas, help your girl. Our birthday is tomorrow but the party will be on Sunday, i'm trying hard to put a plan together but a few hitches here and there. Pardon me if some sound ridiculous like the first nw. We plan to go for our photoshoot tomorrow(shebi any good studio like studio 24 can do it, i'm in ph) as he will be exactly one tomorrow but tomorrow is also his 12 months immunization and we have to go in the morning. The question now is will he be in a good mood ans and smile well seeing that the 12months immunization plenty no be small? Or do i schedule it another way? Because we need to drop the pics with the printer to start work on the customized exercise books same tomorrow.
Second question : Please any ideas for things we can add to the gift pack apart from the exercise books, very very affordable things please.
Third question : Ideas on fun games they can play that day. Its a small party, with just few kids but i really want them to have a good t

your baby's reaction at 9months immunization would give an hint. The shot isn't as bad as previous ones. Just to cry at the point and that's all so I think the photoshoot can still be done. The picture shows the things I included in the party pack

Handsome bobo! You cut im hair?

Sansa143:
Hello mamas,hope we and babies are doing grt.So we are eight months old 2day.It hasn't bin easy and it still isn't but all thanks to God.He no wan make una c him face,he refused to stay put 4 a shot so make una manage dis one.Just crawling but can scatter for africa

jazzyjazz:


I'm about to go down this road
But I won't be doing anything of these things you listed here

It's only the photoshoot that i will do

Party and others will come on his second birthday

My sister i understand o. Its not easy at all but its gonna be a sacrifice. I'm nt even planning 2nd birthday sef bt till then.

Pls what ideas do u have for the photoshoot?

TIA

hunniesuzie:
Happy birthday in advance. I never reach this stage but let me add my 2 kobo

Studio 24 is fine but I suggest you go with a few props or confirm what props they have.
Do the immunization after the party
small drinks (like ribena), biscuit, small plate/feeding bowl (see this thing is a charm, I have not bought 1 single plate for my baby, all our feeding bowls came from various party packs), pencil, colouring book.
Fun games depends on age range. Musical chairs is always a hit, dancing competition, if you can afford a bouncy castle go for it

Jazzyjazz respect yourself oh, Ilan wants a party, he told me himself
Enque where is my party pack?

Hi everybody, hope you and LOs are good? It's like it's only me babyhugg doesn't work for. The last one I bought is gathering dust in my house

Thanks sis
Please what props can i go along with?
Biko which one is musical chair? I know that dance competition and dats the only idea i have. Bouncy castle ke? In this buharific times. Na just inside sitting room party o.
Thanks so much for the gift pack ideas.

Ps The party is on Sunday (24th) but his birthday is tomorrow. Are you suggesting i immunize next week after the party?

Tnks dear,just trimming nee.How is our wife?

Naomi14:
Handsome bobo! You cut im hair?

realtalk19:
hi mums.plz i nid ur opinion on an issue.

i and hubby reconciled after 2yrs last year june wit seriouz begging and promises dat he has changed nd wil bcome more responsible of which after d initial incidence of domestic abuse which made us seperated my mum made me understand that d only reason she is wanting me to go back is to give him a second chance nd also av all my kids in one place( i already have a 5 yr old daughter)

on reconciling, despite my doubts about him changing i got pregnant sept last year nd gave birth tru CS in june
ever since we reconciled hes not bin stable with source of income which was a burden on me coupled with my daughter. hubby kept on pleading that i should b patient dat tins wil b okay nd it continued till november when he eventually gota job.
meanwhile all tru my pregancy i used evry penny i get to sustain the family to d xtent of debt which i pay back month end.

my mum and her family paid for my delivery nd did d naming with only hubby mum attending.ever since my mum has bin helping in her own little way ever since my hubby had bin insulting and keeping malice with my mum. he got a job nd stil dosnt do his neccessary responsibility as expected rather he hides mont nd kip telling me he dosnt av nd i end up using my mony as usual.i can count how many times he bought formula nd pampers which is always with quarrell

am tired and depressed from taking responsibility nd his toxic attitude,constant verbal abuse and humiliation from him.

now my mum nd family has decided i move on with my life. hubby isnt remorseful at all nd he has bin insulting my mum . i av lost evry feeling i have for him ever since we seperated nd i see him as a threat to my life.


what do i do with my life with 2 kids(5yrs & 7 months).

thanks for ur response.

I have many questions to ask before I can give my opinion.

@ bolded. . . why should it be your mum and family to decide that you should walk out of your marriage and move on? are they the decision makers in your life/marriage?

what has triggered the constant insults on your mum? what led to your husband keeping malice with your mum?

does your mum and family interfere with your marriage? does she come to your home often?

I feel this family interference is the crux of the issue in your marriage. once there is undue third party interference either from the husband's or wife's family, that marriage can't be a happy one.

your husband probably feels you update your mum and family on every single thing that happens in your home and your mum is the one 'teaching' you what to do, hence the reason he has so much resentment against her.

that said, are you still facing domestic husband from your husband? do you know how much he earns monthly? does he take financial responsibility for some household bills (e.g. feeding) or he does absolutely nothing at all? do you attend the same church?

Ammy5565:


Thanks sis
Please what props can i go along with?
Biko which one is musical chair? I know that dance competition and dats the only idea i have. Bouncy castle ke? In this buharific times. Na just inside sitting room party o.
Thanks so much for the gift pack ideas.

props like helium ballon, regular happy birthday balloons etc..Maybe u shld go see the studio first and see the setting and then that'll determine what theme/props u will be needing

musical chair na dat one wey u go set chair, dem go come de dance...if music stop and u no siddon, U don commot

lightedpath:
your baby's reaction at 9months immunization would give an hint. The shot isn't as bad as previous ones. Just to cry at the point and that's all so I think the photoshoot can still be done. The picture shows the things I included in the party pack

Thank you so much.
Is that a pack of crayons i see? Wats that pair of lemon green stuff at the middle pls?

During courtship did he exhibit such behaviour? I know people hide their true character but one way or another, they will show it.

What is the essence of having all your kids in one place and you are not happy and no peace. You don't even have feelings for him anymore and you went back. That's the mistake you've made.

Domestic violence is a big issue, men that beat their wives hardly change except by God's grace. With all the ish about domestic violence on social media abi you no dey read am. Nigerian celebrities advocating for victims. Women love thyself!

May God give you the right solution to what you seek.

realtalk19:
hi mums.plz i nid ur opinion on an issue.

i and hubby reconciled after 2yrs last year june wit seriouz begging and promises dat he has changed nd wil bcome more responsible of which after d initial incidence of domestic abuse which made us seperated my mum made me understand that d only reason she is wanting me to go back is to give him a second chance nd also av all my kids in one place( i already have a 5 yr old daughter)

on reconciling, despite my doubts about him changing i got pregnant sept last year nd gave birth tru CS in june
ever since we reconciled hes not bin stable with source of income which was a burden on me coupled with my daughter. hubby kept on pleading that i should b patient dat tins wil b okay nd it continued till november when he eventually gota job.
meanwhile all tru my pregancy i used evry penny i get to sustain the family to d xtent of debt which i pay back month end.

my mum and her family paid for my delivery nd did d naming with only hubby mum attending.ever since my mum has bin helping in her own little way ever since my hubby had bin insulting and keeping malice with my mum. he got a job nd stil dosnt do his neccessary responsibility as expected rather he hides mont nd kip telling me he dosnt av nd i end up using my mony as usual.i can count how many times he bought formula nd pampers which is always with quarrell

am tired and depressed from taking responsibility nd his toxic attitude,constant verbal abuse and humiliation from him.

now my mum nd family has decided i move on with my life. hubby isnt remorseful at all nd he has bin insulting my mum . i av lost evry feeling i have for him ever since we seperated nd i see him as a threat to my life.


what do i do with my life with 2 kids(5yrs & 7 months).

thanks for ur response.

enque:


Jesu Oluwa oooo!!
how did u forget that?

Naomi14:
20k? Abeg rush go! Na Preggy brain make you forget.

Thank you so much, I just got the items I left it in one of the shops I, thank God they kept it.

Ammy5565:


My sister i understand o. Its not easy at all but its gonna be a sacrifice. I'm nt even planning 2nd birthday sef bt till then.

Pls what ideas do u have for the photoshoot?

TIA

Normal photos o with props
Dress baby in cute outfits
Then maybe you can do cake smash

helovesme:


its best to get the jabs after the birthday party. last thing you want is a cranky baby added to the stress of planning a party.

Activities:
*you can get a bouncy castle (not sure if they come cheap in PH but there is no harm asking/shopping around/negotiating). bouncy castle is usually well loved by kids at parties and it keeps them very occupied.
*face painting for kids (and maybe agbaya adults ) is another favourite for kids. again, i do not know how much this will cost but shop around, check instagram and negotiate as well
*you also have to keep the parents entertained, so it is a good idea to get a DJ (or buy DJ mixtape CDs) to play music non-stop.
*musical chairs competition for both kids and adults is also very exciting.
*sack race competition for both kids and adults is another good idea.
*splitting the kids into two teams and have each child take penalty kicks (an adult that act as the goalkeeper). the team that scores the most goals wins. this activity can also be done by the adults.

party packs:
plastic whistle, pencil, eraser, small notebook, assorted lollies, small plastic rulers, key holder, colourful hair bands/ribbons, fashion hand bands, plastic combs, sharpener, crayons, small colouring book. .. .

Thanks so much. But its a little sitting room party o. I'm nt quite sure how we can make these games happen.
Please if you know other games that can be done indoors, i'll appreciate. Thanks.

ebony13:



Say what?!

hunniesuzie:
See you peepu. Jazzyjazz the cost of sending to abuja reach to buy one pack




Sansa143 welldone, your boy is looking so fresh

Chei

Issokay

I wish I can see the diaper here in Abuja

enque:


props like helium ballon, regular happy birthday balloons etc..Maybe u shld go see the studio first and see the setting and then that'll determine what theme/props u will be needing

musical chair na dat one wey u go set chair, dem go come de dance...if music stop and u no siddon, U don commot

Oh ok, thats the same with the dance competition. Thanks for the props ideas.

Ammy5565:

Thanks so much. But its a little sitting room party o. I'm nt quite sure how we can make these games happen.
Please if you know other games that can be done indoors, i'll appreciate. Thanks.

hmmm. musical chairs will work well indoors. same with face painting.

you can also come up with current affairs questions or simple maths questions (quiz) and have the kids answer within a given timeframe.

you can also play character games. eg. pretend to a kangaroo and jump around like one and have them guess what animal you are.

for all the games/competitions, you will have to hand out a prize (no matter how small) to each winner.

helovesme:


hmmm. musical chairs will work well indoors. same with face painting.

you can also come up with current affairs questions or simple maths questions (quiz) and have the kids answer within a given timeframe.

you can also play character games. eg. pretend to a kangaroo and jump around like one and have them guess what animal you are.

for all the games/competitions, you will have to hand out a prize (no matter how small) to each winner.

Thank you very very much. Love these games.

Sansa143:
Tnks dear!Lol at babe,some people still think say na girl.

u see what I mean. I get eye be DAT. kiss Jay for me o oo

Bloomingbud:





Thank you so much, I just got the items I left it in one of the shops I, thank God they kept it.

thank God o.
in this recession fa!

jazzyjazz:


Chei

Issokay

I wish I can see the diaper here in Abuja

no worry, I go soon apply for Abuja Distributorship for baby hugg...
shey una go patronise me?

winningbt:
hello mamas please help me chook mouth for this Mata o,my sis has a baby of 3 months but this baby refuse to suck her mum breast anytime she put her to breast she will be crying as in serious cry o, her mum said she was expressing since she gave birth to her but her milk isn't flowing well to sustain her so she got a formula and her baby has been taking that since then,when I went to visit her yesterday she was so sad about it that she doesn't know if her baby is getting enough nutrient she needs and her mother in-law is always making jest of her that she is a bad mother,even when she tries it when I was there the girl was just crying so much,my sis said she has been to the hospital several times and they said she should starve her and she said after seeing her cry so much she won't know when she will give her formula, she said her in-laws said there are insects in her breast lol,please help me chook mouth for this matter because she said she is feeling more embarrassed

I have a sister in-law (my BIL's wife) whose baby refused to suck from her breasts. she did everything possible yet no positive result. she resorted to pumping and feeding. her baby girl is almost two now and she is expecting.
She should just ignore her in-laws. They can never love that baby more than her and they don't know what she's going through because of this.

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realtalk19:
hi mums.plz i nid ur opinion on an issue.

i and hubby reconciled after 2yrs last year june wit seriouz begging and promises dat he has changed nd wil bcome more responsible of which after d initial incidence of domestic abuse which made us seperated my mum made me understand that d only reason she is wanting me to go back is to give him a second chance nd also av all my kids in one place( i already have a 5 yr old daughter)

on reconciling, despite my doubts about him changing i got pregnant sept last year nd gave birth tru CS in june
ever since we reconciled hes not bin stable with source of income which was a burden on me coupled with my daughter. hubby kept on pleading that i should b patient dat tins wil b okay nd it continued till november when he eventually gota job.
meanwhile all tru my pregancy i used evry penny i get to sustain the family to d xtent of debt which i pay back month end.

my mum and her family paid for my delivery nd did d naming with only hubby mum attending.ever since my mum has bin helping in her own little way ever since my hubby had bin insulting and keeping malice with my mum. he got a job nd stil dosnt do his neccessary responsibility as expected rather he hides mont nd kip telling me he dosnt av nd i end up using my mony as usual.i can count how many times he bought formula nd pampers which is always with quarrell

am tired and depressed from taking responsibility nd his toxic attitude,constant verbal abuse and humiliation from him.

now my mum nd family has decided i move on with my life. hubby isnt remorseful at all nd he has bin insulting my mum . i av lost evry feeling i have for him ever since we seperated nd i see him as a threat to my life.


what do i do with my life with 2 kids(5yrs & 7 months).

thanks for ur response.

It's better you leave before you loose your sanity cos it's so clear he cannot change from those behavior and to crown it all his keeping malice with your mum, who does that?
May God bless you and enrich your pocket to take care of your children ma'am.... Stay put

omotolanibaby:
my son was like that too, he only suck from bottle until we find out he was tongue tie, and as soon at it was cut. he resumed breastfeeding wit full force

thanks mama I will tell her

The next immunization day. So if it's the day after the photoshoot it's fine, no matter how bad immunization fever is, in 24 hours it should be gone

Helium balloons, banner, cake if you have one. There's a PH mama that sells birthday props. Feddy27? Can't remember
musical chair they turn chair facing different directions and the kids dance around till the music stops. You can google parlor party ideas for kids for more inspiration

Ammy5565:


Thanks sis
Please what props can i go along with?
Biko which one is musical chair? I know that dance competition and dats the only idea i have. Bouncy castle ke? In this buharific times. Na just inside sitting room party o.
Thanks so much for the gift pack ideas.

Ps The party is on Sunday (24th) but his birthday is tomorrow. Are you suggesting i immunize next week after the party?

Check justrite if there is one in abuja

jazzyjazz:


Chei

Issokay

I wish I can see the diaper here in Abuja