Will you marry her?

Your mum stepped on this chick while shopping in a convenience store, she rudes on your mum and lashed out at your mum with very offensive words, your mum felt bad and walks away feeling bad. Two years down the line, you approached your parents to let them know you wanted to get married, it turns out that as your mum sees the chick, she recalls she was the same girl that cursed her existence and made her feel miserable, now you're both seriously into each other and the relationship has travelled very far. Your mum refuses to accept her, that she's no good for you, you see things differently, what will you do? Call it quits, leave your mum's opinion to marry her behind, what would you do if it was you?

All you need is make amendment between your mum and the said gurl. Let. Your mum realised that nobody above mistake and there is no one without past. You're good to go

Jupxter irrespective that the lady screamed at your mom, it could be any body she does that. A person that's quick to embarrass an elder in public will not hesitate to embarrass someone he/she has seen naked in public. Except you're the walk away type

Blonchilli:
Jupxter irrespective that the lady screamed at your mom, it could be any body she does that. A person that's quick to embarrass an elder in public will not hesitate to embarrass someone he/she has seen naked in public. Except you're the walk away type

Thus, she has a flawed character and this is a sign of more terrible flaws if i go by what you mean right? So will you look away fromher flaws and marry this kind?

duduwest:
All you need is make amendment between your mum and the said gurl. Let. Your mum realised that nobody above mistake and there is no one without past. You're good to go

Is this not a red flag for more deeper flaws?

Damn, I really don't pray for this kind of iissh to happen to me. if I find myself in such, the lady must firstly and clearly apologize to my mum. But if I have also been noticing the lady rude behavior to strangers and me before the incidence. KICK HER ASS TO THE CURB!!! no time for future drama.

i pray for no such thing to me but if it were me i wont go ahead cos small girl like her that have the gut to insult elderly woman old enough to be my mum will one day poison me if we had any little quarrel..my life first

Jupxter:



Is this not a red flag for more deeper flaws?

Nehi. That may be her past that wanted to come back to hunt her, but do we know her mood that day? It can be anything, so let's move on afterall we are all human. Cast the first stone if it has not happen to yoU before

Jupxter:



Thus, she has a flawed character and this is a sign of more terrible flaws if i go by what you mean right? So will you look away fromher flaws and marry this kind?

Bro I know I may sound too African but there's a way you react in public to an elder. Yes at that time no one knows what she was going through but come on, her actions were so hurtful that the woman is yet to forgive. It's like hurling insults at a driver who turns out to be your boss. It was rude of her. But if she's remorseful and it's no where her attitude then carry on

Blonchilli:

Bro I know I may sound too African but there's a way you react in public to an elder. Yes at that time no one knows what she was going through but come on, her actions were so hurtful that the woman is yet to forgive. It's like hurling insults at a driver who turns out to be your boss. It was rude of her. But if she's remorseful and it's no where her attitude then carry on

Okay..

op try to understand how she treats total strangers that is one of the perfect way to know someone who has respect,for husband,in-laws etc
reconciliation between her and your mother will be ok too

Jupxter:

Will you marry her?

Your mum stepped on this chick while shopping in a convenience store, she rudes on your mum and lashed out at your mum with very offensive words, your mum felt bad and walks away feeling bad. Two years down the line, you approached your parents to let them know you wanted to get married, it turns out that as your mum sees the chick, she recalls she was the same girl that cursed her existence and made her feel miserable, now you're both seriously into each other and the relationship has travelled very far. Your mum refuses to accept her, that she's no good for you, you see things differently, what will you do? Call it quits, leave your mum's opinion to marry her behind, what would you do if it was you?

I will Investigate and possibly DUMP her.
It's very very difficult to find a MUM that's not interested in the welfare of her kids.

Even the so called "WITCHES" protect their kids.

Sooo dumping Loading..........especially now there are many fishes in the River