Jupxter:



Justify or not, who has the disease now?

the man own dey come soon so make him continue

Yawns...

TimeMod1:
Na your way, you never disappoint. Mr Laadi, lol.


#NoBitchAttitude

Na wa for u oo

shaybebaby:
How dem wan take do am, teleport come my house?

I guess so

GWAM!!! Serves her right! I wish it would always work out that way.

You'd be surprised how frequently that craps happens. A number of my friends have been propositioned. And one of my friends who's a part-time Private Investigator (PI) took it upon himself to investigate the case and tried to convince the woman that the man wasn't cheating. But guess what? She still insisted in going ahead with the "revenge fvck". Pathetic


O pari

ubunja:

i once met a woman who got revenge on her man in SA and started fvcking left right and centre anyman who crossed her path WITH NO CONDOM; got hiv/aids.
best part?
her man didnt get it coz he never touched her since he himself cheated and before she went on her fvck spree.

when women cheat for revenge they do it on the lowest degree of slutiness possible.she figures the sluttier the more its gonna hurt u her man. its so fvcked up coz its true.it does hurt. but a pained heart will always be better than an incurable disease

Icon79:
GWAM!!! Serves her right! I wish it would always work out that way.

You'd be surprised how frequently that craps happens. A number of my friends have been propositioned. And one of my friends who's a part-time Private Investigator (PI) took it upon himself to investigate the case and tried to convince the woman that the man wasn't cheating. But guess what? She still insisted in going ahead with the "revenge fvck". Pathetic


O pari

u dont say!
then its about sex.not revenge. the revenge is the story she feeds her conscience as an excuse to silence it. all she wants is to get laid.

Exactly!! And the other one claimed that her husby hasn't related with her in whatever number of weeks, so she "decided to get it elsewhere"

Talk about no/zero sense of shame


O pari

ubunja:

u dont say!
then its about sex.not revenge. the revenge is the story she feeds her conscience as an excuse to silence it. all she wants is to get laid.

Aadibros:

I agree with you biko. I was doing a lot of chores when I was living with my natal family. I didn't hands off in my conjugal family. A man is married to a woman to build a home with. Husband wey do chores no mean say him dey weak. Make him help out too because in a lot of cases the woman dey help you too with money matter for house. Except say the man dey too busy dey make billions like Jeff Bezos, at least the woman go hold her side. It is a different thing if your doing the chores makes her dump it all on you. Best case, do chores together and you will enjoy the companionship. From the chores, una go begin gist, from there wiping fit happen and na that unplanned type dey sweet pass.
I dey tire for men wey dey halla say woman no sabi cook when them no even know how to pluck leave comot from the stem

The women dey respect that type as they believe those kind of men are rare to find.To me it takes nothing from you as a man,you build a happy family by doing that.Mark zuckerberg with all his money took paternity leave to help his wife,even prince William of England took paternity leave to help Kate.It takes nothing from you,your wife would respect and appreciate you for being a rare gem.

[quote author=TimeMod1 post=63393528]Go get laid on your gutter mat by your pussy hubby & get glued to a gutter life, that is all life could offer you.

#StopBitchAttitude[/quoteTalking like a baby.#stop being a barbarian.

ImaIma1:


Very lovely couples. Couples that do things together always last. A lot of immature men these days feel getting married means sitting down and crossing their legs while the wife slaves around the house. Men that help around are more respected and valued contrary to what they say that it makes the women disrespect them.

People are just giving marriage a bad outlook by following some village standards. The men don't want to be seen as weak by family and friends. So they try to act the alpha and omega.

Thank you.

emmie14:

Am not your type of man if you're man at all

I hope you ever grow up or wise. Remain your type of man ok. You think there is anything good about treating a woman less. Anyways, maybe I am truly not your type of man sha cos your own type get as e b. As u believe say wife shouldnt be treated as good as you want to be treated

Ladyhippolyta88:
The women dey respect that type as they believe those kind of men are rare to find.To me it takes nothing from you as a man,you build a happy family by doing that.Mark zuckerberg with all his money took paternity leave to help his wife,even prince William of England took paternity leave to help Kate.It takes nothing from you,your wife would respect and appreciate you for being a rare gem.

we are same page. Helping in everything in the house as much as you can doesn't make you less a man. No mind the children wey dey waste their data on childish comments. Most are still waiting to buy jamb form and are here making comments on marriage matter

Aadibros:
we are same page. Helping in everything in the house as much as you can doesn't make you less a man. No mind the children wey dey waste their data on childish comments. Most are still waiting to buy jamb form and are here making comments on marriage matter

You are really funny.May God keep you and your family from evil eyes.Thank you sir,nice learning from you.

Aadibros:
I hope you ever grow up or wise. Remain your type of man ok. You think there is anything good about treating a woman less. Anyways, maybe I am truly not your type of man sha cos your own type get as e b. As u believe say wife shouldnt be treated as good as you want to be treated

You are a man woman. Advocates of women. Practically I assure you that I manage my woman and home perfectly more than you and what you shallowly represent. Am a man of my house. There is no way you can keep a happy peaceful home without respect for your wife and children alike but that doesn't mean that I cannot uphold taboo as African and draw limits where necessary. A woman claiming equality with the husband is totally unacceptable. It can exist and tolerated by your type...not me meen. I have a wife, in her I found a perpetual friend and sister sometimes mother because of me in her.

emmie14:

You are a man woman. Advocates of women. Practically I assure you that I manage my woman and home perfectly more than you and what you shallowly represent. Am a man of my house. There is no way you can keep a happy peaceful home without respect for your wife and children alike but that doesn't mean that I cannot uphold taboo as African and draw limits where necessary. A woman claiming equality with the husband is totally unacceptable. It can exist and tolerated by your type...not me meen. I have a wife, in her I found a perpetual friend and sister sometimes mother because of me in her.

Abeg no make me laugh you this young learner. When has speaking the truth mean that I am a man woman? You be serious olodo o. About advocacy, yes, it is high time men sat up in taking responsibilities seriously. Are you following the topic at all? Where and when did a man helping out with chores at home or loving his wife unconditionally mean that the woman is agitating for equality? O gbeni receive sense abeg. African man ko Bill Gates ni. If you treat a woman right, the story about her fight for equality will only arise when you try to make her feel less human. So as alagbara wey you be, use your African man anti-taboo brain and power take subdue your wife you hear. Abi no be person beloved pikin, sister, aunt, cousin, niece, friend, relative, colleague wey she be abi? Your comments so far impairs your claims about your unconditional love for your wife (if you have any). We dey talk of wife o not GF or baby mama. So read the topic well before you begin comment. Your yapping my speaking the truth wont change the truth.

Radiant1020:


It'll be difficult for a woman to please you

Funny enough I want to be the one to please her and not the other way round.

Let her just be pleasing to my eyes and let her love GOD...I will cope with the rest...

I'm a ridiculously simple person.

Toks2008:


Funny enough I want to be the one to please her and not the other way round.

Let her just be pleasing to my eyes and let her love GOD...I will cope with the rest...

I'm a ridiculously simple person.

Same as me. But why do simplistic people find it hard to find simple women like this?

Jupxter:




Same as me. But why do simplistic people find it hard to find simple women like this?

My issue is not really with difficulty but the way these ladies go about it.

At this stage of my life I know what I want and I don't need to even waste time courting but these ladies want to be wooed like nothing else...they want you to put up with their drama but I'm just too tired for such.

As a man with no kids and unmarried in a new land and of course one who sincerely wants to settle and build a life, I seek for an unmarried lady with no kid or maybe one with a kid as long as she is still hot but guess what? I mostly get wooed by single mom's of 2,3,and so on and I just sit down and wonder why these single ladies are so full of shakara even when they deeply want a man.

Honestly it's crazy for me at the stage to be pursuing a lady upandan.

Toks2008:


My issue is not really with difficulty but the way these ladies go about it.

At this stage of my life I know what I want and I don't need to even waste time courting but these ladies want to be wooed like nothing else...they want you to put up with their drama but I'm just too tired for such.

As a man with no kids and unmarried in a new land and of course one who sincerely wants to settle and build a life, I seek for an unmarried lady with no kid or maybe one with a kid as long as she is still hot but guess what? I mostly get wooed by single mom's of 2,3,and so on and I just sit down and wonder why these single ladies are so full of shakara even when they deeply want a man.

Honestly it's crazy for me at the stage to be pursuing a lady upandan.

Bro we're in the same boat. The drama with ladies is something they don't know is an emotional baggage and a stressor on a man. Just a laid down lady that's down to earth is what some of us yearn for. Have you tried arranged dating? Have you tried some of your female friends hooking you up with females here back home?

I'm am beginning to come to terms that simple ladies don't exist for me, or may not find one. I don't want one with single kid here. If you want ladies with just a kid that are cool, you could easily have friends here hook you up, you do e-dating and see how things goes...How bout this?

Jupxter:





Bro we're in the same boat. The drama with ladies is something they don't know is an emotional baggage and a stressor on a man. Just a laid down lady that's down to earth is what some of us yearn for. Have you tried arranged dating? Have you tried some of your female friends hooking you up with females here back home?

I really believe in seeking out a lady of my choice by myself but another issue is that I'm very picky...I can't imagine sleeping about after marriage so I really need to be with a lady that pleases my eyes as in very sexual pleasing to my eyes.

Don't get me wrong...I really have lots of ladies who likes me but due to location problem,we can't be together and many are just a mismatch but those who I really desire are drama queens so it's a crazy situation.

The best bet is just to try more and be optimistic.

Toks2008:


I really believe in seeking out a lady of my choice by myself but another issue is that I'm very picky...I can't imagine sleeping about after marriage so I really need to be with a lady that pleases my eyes as in very sexual pleasing to my eyes.

Don't get me wrong...I really have lots of ladies who likes me but due to location problem,we can't be together and many are just a mismatch but those who I really desire are drama queens so it's a crazy situation.

The best bet is just to try more and be optimistic.

We're exactly in the same boat, got me some 8 ladies, all mismatch. Damn, like you said the other day, the older the higher the mismatch.

Toks2008:


I really believe in seeking out a lady of my choice by myself but another issue is that I'm very picky...I can't imagine sleeping about after marriage so I really need to be with a lady that pleases my eyes as in very sexual pleasing to my eyes.

Don't get me wrong...I really have lots of ladies who likes me but due to location problem,we can't be together and many are just a mismatch but those who I really desire are drama queens so it's a crazy situation.

The best bet is just to try more and be optimistic.

We're exactly in the same boat, got me some 8 ladies, all mismatches. Damn, like you said the other day, the older the more difficult the search.


Losing the desire to search and passion altogether


O may just suppress my desire and passion permanently under work...

Jupxter:



We're exactly in the same boat, got me some 8 ladies, all mismatch. Damn, like you said the other day, the older the higher the mismatch.

There is something crazy about fate...

Most times the ones you want are usually unavailable and the available ones are not what you want.

Now in most cases,guys go for what is available due to pressure of "when you go marry?"

And most times just after marriage,his choice starts popping up from different corners like a planned work and infidelity sets in and wahala starts.

Toks2008:


There is something crazy about fate...

Most times the ones you want are usually unavailable and the available ones are not what you want.

Now in most cases,guys go for what is available due to pressure of "when you go marry?"

And most times just after marriage,his choice starts popping up from different corners like a planned work and infidelity sets in and wahala starts.

Hahahah, this is so true @ Most times the ones you want are usually unavailable and the available ones are not what you want.

Vut some come and one doesn't recognises it till the moment is gone too...


I rather be single than marry a chick that's less. I'm selective, sophisticated and just way above average to settle for a second fiddle..I rather pull off an Oprah Winfrey !

Jupxter:



Hahahah, this is so true @ Most times the ones you want are usually unavailable and the available ones are not what you want.

Vut some come and one doesn't recognises it till the moment is gone too...


I rather be single than marry a chick that's less. I'm selective, sophisticated and just way above average to settle for a second fiddle..I rather pull off an Oprah Winfrey !

There are 3 nairaland ladies I would have loved to be marrief to(If they let me) without second guessing cos they are so pleasing to my eyes at least from their pics (I know pictures lie these days but I kinda believe they are what I see)

Due to location issue I can't be with 3 of them and one is located where I am but she is still young to be serious about commitment.

Toks2008:


There are 3 nairaland ladies I would have gotten married to without second guessing cos they are so pleasing to my eyes at least from their pics (I know pictures lie these days but I kinda believe they are what I see)

Due to location issue I can't be with 3 of them and one is located where I am but she is still young to be serious about commitment.

Choose one, sponsor her trip....why r u dulling bro ?

Jupxter:



Choose one, sponsor her trip....why r u dulling bro ?

It's not that easy bro but if there is one nairalander I won't mind to sponsor it will be a certain one that is so calm and sweet looking...Though an African but not a Nigerian...I just like that lady.

The second one is American and can sponsor herself but fear is her problem.

Toks2008:


It's not that easy bro but if there is one nairalander I won't mind to sponsor it will be a certain one that is so calm and sweet looking...Though an African but not a Nigerian...I just like that lady.

The second one is American and can sponsor herself but fear is her problem.

Fear is usually their fear... As for we guys our own fear is their calmness...WIll they be calm. As we're caught around the same position, what options are you considering personally given the situation of things?

Jupxter:



Fear is usually their fear... As for we guys our own fear is their calmness...WIll they be calm. As we're caught around the same position, what options are you considering personally given the situation of things?

Well one just has to try and hope to see the one I desire and will also want me too without drama or hiccups.

If I am in naija it will be easier but right here it is a herculean task...trust me it is.

Toks2008:


Well one just has to try and hope to see the one I desire and will also want me too without drama or hiccups.

If I am in naija it will be easier but right here it is a herculean task...trust me it is.

Hahaha, hilarious. I'm in naija it's difficult for me too. Almost all the ones i find no connection at all..No passion for them. It's more or less the same sh*t bro

Jupxter:


Hahaha, hilarious. I'm in naija it's difficult for me too. Almost all the ones i find no connection at all..No passion for them. It's more or less the same sh*t bro

Should be easier in Nigeria.The point is that it is not about lacking the company of ladies where I am but it's about doing things right.

I'm a believer in christ and I have no excuse to sleep around. If I want to sleep with as many ladies as possible that is no problem but I'm talking about getting that particular lady that makes you fly without wings...that lady whose unclothedness will make you thank God for a good work.

Toks2008:


Should be easier in Nigeria.The point is that it is not about lacking the company of ladies where I am but it's about doing things right.

I'm a believer in christ and I have no excuse to sleep around. If I want to sleep with as many ladies as possible that is no problem but I'm talking about getting that particular lady that makes you fly without wings...that lady whose unclothedness will make you thank God for a good work.

The same thing. I'm Christlike too- perhaps we have similarities due to our generational experiences....I share the same ideologies....I'm looking for this same kind of lady. Found one, but i didn;t know it was her until after it ended...Not easy finding that woman that makes a man feel that way....What do we do o? Give up and move on being single.. 40 Will be around within the next few years oh