lionlee216:
Bought today at an African store

BlowJobs:


hahaha.. it is the knuckles bro. i no dark like that oo. Also, you are directly comparing me with my wife.

you need to see her cousin tho. She be like ghost . She is so white she is blank.

Bede2u:
So I met this woman on a social forum. Early 40s, 4 kids lives in southern America. She is African American.
We have become good friends. I live in Gulf region and she is talking of coming to visit me next year. I am late 20s. We are also talking possibility of marriage when she comes. I work in construction in the Gulf while she works as home care nurse in Southern America.

Problem is she has been married 3 times. All to foreigners.

Now the lady feels that Men Always Leave. I have promised I wont leave if she gives me kids. (I intend to keep that promise) I know she dont believe me though.

Questions
1. If we marry and i come over on spouse visa, can i work on the visa
2. Can i study also on the visa
3. How long can i stay on the visa without applying for green card (incase she gets cunny and refuse to file for me based on her past experience with the African guy)
4. Seeing that she has married 3 times, will it complicate and delay the greencard process if she eventually agrees to file for me

noblealuu:



I like your spiritedness. There's a very patriotic fellow virtually everybody here might refer you to for a well-thought answer to your questions, line upon line and precept upon precept.

His name is TW. oods. He can help you graciously.

ennyscongy:


Here is you need brother. http://www.visajourney.com/content/k1guide

Impulse80:


Why are you mentioning that guy now? Someone genuinely needs help and you're mocking him. Smh!

noblealuu:



I like your spiritedness. There's a very patriotic fellow virtually everybody here might refer you to for a well-thought answer to your questions, line upon line and precept upon precept.

His name is TWoods. He can help you graciously.

Bede2u:
thanks for this. I read it...but it seems to be talking about fiance who wants to come to u.s to marry his/her u.s spouse.
I intend to marry this lady in middle east if she comes. My question is after we marry, she goes back to u.s....what type of visa will i need to join her permanently, and what can i do with that visa until i can get a greencard

Bede2u:


Problem is she has been married 3 times. All to foreigners.

First husband...from caribbean country...had two kids but divorced b4 green card can be given. (He remarried and living in same state with her. Now a citizen)

2nd husband.....a Nigerian who paid her for papers. No strings attached. No love.

3rd husband....another African who she married for love. They married for 4 years. The guy got his papers and left without saying good bye. No kids

Questions
1. If we marry and i come over on spouse visa, can i work on the visa
2. Can i study also on the visa
3. How long can i stay on the visa without applying for green card (incase she gets cunny and refuse to file for me based on her past experience with the African guy)
4. Seeing that she has married 3 times, will it complicate and delay the greencard process if she eventually agrees to file for me

Bede2u:
thanks for this. I read it...but it seems to be talking about fiance who wants to come to u.s to marry his/her u.s spouse.
I intend to marry this lady in middle east if she comes. My question is after we marry, she goes back to u.s....what type of visa will i need to join her permanently, and what can i do with that visa until i can get a greencard

lionlee216:


1. Has far as I know, You will need work authorization to work in the US in order to work legally but you dont need papers to work under the table.

2. Well if you want to study in the US, As an international student you need F1 Visa but as a domestic application, You need resident permit.

3. I think K1 Visa says you must get married within 3 months of entering the US. Well, as for the funny part, she may act funny cos she might have trust issues as thats not her fault, she has been through some sh*t

4. It MAY raise suspicion at the immigration and which guys might be thoroughly subjected to further investigation and at that point, your best bet is to consult with an immigration lawyer, they are in best position to give you guys advice..

My Advice, search your heart thoroughly and ask yoursef if you want to get married to her. You guys will sure have issues maybe after you get married and comes to filing of green card. she might hesitate at first due to experience but you keep pushing her, she will think otherwise. Marry for love and not for papers(getting married to an american for love is the best because the papers will be an added advantage). True American love is the sweetest thing after fried plantain

If you marry for papers only, you might not really enjoy the relationship with her because your mind will be focused on papers only and you might be blinded to other things BUT I tell you, American love sweet, I swear and their bitterness no be here if she knows you are deceiving her.

Shalom

lionlee216:


I will rather advice she comes to you, spend some time together, take like 1 million pictures as gather evidence your relationship is for real. let her go back to the state and apply for k1 Visa.. AOS through K1 Visa seems more faster(My opinion though).

Bede2u:
Thanks a milli. It seems from ur replies that coming to America as the spouse of a citizen does not gurantee u can work and study?
It seems ur saying I would need f1 visa again even if i come on spouse visa (if i want to study).
It also seems u saying i cant work on spouse visa too.

What can i do on spouse visa then....while waiting for her to file for greencard processing



Ok u say its best we dont marry in middle east but in America. Ok i will do that.

I dont intend to marry her if i know i would hurt her. Not in my nature

Bede2u:
Thanks a milli. It seems from ur replies that coming to America as the spouse of a citizen does not gurantee u can work and study?
It seems ur saying I would need f1 visa again even if i come on spouse visa (if i want to study).
It also seems u saying i cant work on spouse visa too.

What can i do on spouse visa then....while waiting for her to file for greencard processing

Ok u say its best we dont marry in middle east but in America. Ok i will do that.

I dont intend to marry her if i know i would hurt her. Not in my nature

ennyscongy:
Mackynaija i sight you. Congrats on your results man, how is your morning going?

MackyNaija:

My morning is smooth...

I am having naija pepper stew rice, come n eat.

lionlee216:



Spouse Visa is k1 Visa.. its for marriage. so after marriage. you file for AOS, within 3 or 4 months, you get your work authorization and start working and when your green card comes in the mail, I believe your wife will put you through how to get US education by students loan and you will be fine.

For marriage, Use K1 Visa

ennyscongy:


Abeg I deh come now, abeg goat meat deh?

Bede2u:
So I met this woman on a social forum. Early 40s, 4 kids lives in southern America. She is African American.
We have become good friends. I live in Gulf region and she is talking of coming to visit me next year.i am late 20s. We are also talking possibility of marriage when she comes. I work in construction in the Gulf while she works as home care nurse in Southern America.

Problem is she has been married 3 times. All to foreigners.

First husband...from caribbean country...had two kids but divorced b4 green card can be given. (He remarried and living in same state with her. Now a citizen)

2nd husband.....a Nigerian who paid her for papers. No strings attached. No love.

3rd husband....another African who she married for love. They married for 4 years. The guy got his papers and left without saying good bye. No kids

Other 2 kids are from a boyfriend...never married.

Now the lady feels that Men Always Leave. I have promised I wont leave if she gives me kids. (I intend to keep that promise) I know she dont believe me though.

Questions
1. If we marry and i come over on spouse visa, can i work on the visa
2. Can i study also on the visa
3. How long can i stay on the visa without applying for green card (incase she gets cunny and refuse to file for me based on her past experience with the African guy)
4. Seeing that she has married 3 times, will it complicate and delay the greencard process if she eventually agrees to file for me

I ask these cos i know she is now paranoid and thinks i would leave after i get papers. I dont mind staying with her after my papers...but i wanna be sure I can live, work and study in America on spouse visa for a long w until she feels confident and trustful enough to file for green card for me. Dont wanna come to America on visa type that wont allow me to work and study

MackyNaija:


No worry, I deh go find lion to kill for you.

I wanna share my small rice and you also want to chop flesh??

Bring money make I buy chicken.

error4040:

the Bolded tho,
bro 40yrs with 4kids no be joke o as to a guy of 27-29.
no go enter wetin to commot no go easy ni o.

make my ogas come reply you sha

cc
blowjobs.w
lionlee.
Twoods.
lagosismyhome.

Bede2u:
So I met this woman on a social forum. Early 40s, 4 kids lives in southern America. She is African American.
We have become good friends. I live in Gulf region and she is talking of coming to visit me next year. I am late 20s. We are also talking possibility of marriage when she comes. I work in construction in the Gulf while she works as home care nurse in Southern America.

Problem is she has been married 3 times. All to foreigners.

First husband...from caribbean country...had two kids but divorced b4 green card can be given. (He remarried and living in same state with her. Now a citizen)

2nd husband.....a Nigerian who paid her for papers. No strings attached. No love.

3rd husband....another African who she married for love. They married for 4 years. The guy got his papers and left without saying good bye. No kids

Other 2 kids are from a boyfriend...never married.

Now the lady feels that Men Always Leave. I have promised I wont leave if she gives me kids. (I intend to keep that promise) I know she dont believe me though.

Questions
1. If we marry and i come over on spouse visa, can i work on the visa
2. Can i study also on the visa
3. How long can i stay on the visa without applying for green card (incase she gets cunny and refuse to file for me based on her past experience with the African guy)
4. Seeing that she has married 3 times, will it complicate and delay the greencard process if she eventually agrees to file for me

I ask these cos i know she is now paranoid and thinks i would leave after i get papers. I dont mind staying with her after my papers...but i wanna be sure I can live, work and study in America on spouse visa for a long time until she feels confident and trustful enough to file for green card for me. Dont wanna come to America on visa type that wont allow me to work and study

ennyscongy:
uncle justwise, easy lol, the dude could be in love,could be a sham marriage.

justwise:


Love? Yea for American passport definitely.

ennyscongy:


lol honestly will advice him to go for love, Americans are the sweetest lovers in the world and getting the passport is not free, you gotta pay even for the application and to file. almost 800$ to file alone, to get the passport is 1,114$.

justwise:


I blame the woman who has decided to turn herself to embassy dishing out visas to foreigners on regular basis.

justwise:


I blame the woman who has decided to turn herself to embassy dishing out visas to foreigners on regular basis.

Bede2u:
I have read the moral advice the Twood guy gives

I am not against him....i know CIA monitors this nairaland. It would be good for them to see that nigeria has principled people.

However the guy is missing some important concepts.
First of all, what is morally wrong can be legal. Its legal for people to marry for whatever reason they want...from reasons like social mobility, family ties, class and religious considerations to issues such as obtaining a greencard or becoming ur dying spouse's heir. I have never met somebody who willingly married someone who wont better his/her life in some way.
Whites marry for green card too. While u.s immigration officers turn a blind eye to that (cos they want America to remain white) they make issues of Africans and Asians who do same. Many Europeans who come to America through marriage, only to divorce later claim their divorce is because of 'irreconcilable differences'. Doing anything LEGAL to exploit the system is allowed and last time I checked, marriage is legal. Check the difference btw tax evasion and tax avoidance. Slavery wasnt moral but it was legal and through it, these whites we are now seeing as custodians of morality sent so many blacks to early, agonizing graves. The atomic bomb at Hiroshima wasnt moral but that didnt matter cos the powers that be (the whites) judged it legal. Innocent people suffered and are still suffering the after effect.

Another important issue he is missing is the fact that visas where introduced by the west to keep Africans and to lesser extent, Asians out of their countries. The rest of the world just copied this without seeing it makes no difference to whites. They find it easy to travel to most countries of the world yet they deny non whites same opportunity. These were the people who exploited (and still exploiting) our natural resources without recourse to morality or legality.
Let me tell u all something...whites dont gv a damn whether u stick to their immigration rules or not...if Africa quota for a given year reach, they stop issueing visas. Funny, Africa never get to reach there quota since most visa applications are denied (including genuine applications). Australia, canada and u.s was made for whites. They only tolerate other races in order to be politically correct. Truth is, the same situation which guarantees u a visa denial in Lagos is over looked for a poor white migrant coming into u.s from czech republic or any other European country. U can be blinded by your self righteousness and not see what the whiteman thinks of the blackman and the Asian man. However ur self righteousness wont change their views. U can only try and beat them at their own game...by exploiting the very idiotic rules they create to keep u out of a country which isnt theirs in the first place. Blacks were the slaves who literally built America...so a whiteman has no moral standing to keep u out with rules which he would gladly bend to accomodate another whiteman

lionlee216:



Spouse Visa is k1 Visa.. its for marriage. so after marriage. you file for AOS, within 3 or 4 months, you get your work authorization and start working and when your green card comes in the mail, I believe your wife will put you through how to get US education by students loan and you will be fine.

For marriage, Use K1 Visa

Fish123:
Good advise,nice one bro
the boss has spoken,grab your copy papi

Infamous:

I respect lionlee216 advice but i will go with justwise on this. as a man, never married before, i cannot begin to imagine myself getting into something this messy. whatever happened to younger american girls. if i was to be in his shoes, assuming i have the funds, i will get a work or student visa. e no get as i no go fit find a very go oyinbo or akata wey go suit me wella, wey i go also fit marry.
To the brother that originally asked this question, i will advice you to do like i suggested above.