I'm not the type of guy who share their problems, especially not on social media. But these is getting out of hand. I'm a porn and masturbation. I've tried breaking the habit couple of times but still relapse at the end of everything. I really need help, a support group, or something, I don't know. I can't continue living like this.

bipolarMe:
I'm not the type of guy who share their problems, especially not on social media. But these is getting out of hand. I'm a porn and masturbation. I've tried breaking the habit couple of times but still relapse at the end of everything. I really need help, a support group, or something, I don't know. I can't continue living like this.

how old are you?

IT IS EASY TO BREAK SUCH HABIT WHEN U FIND THE UNDERLYING FACTOR THAT MAKES IT HAPPEN------- JOBLESSNESS- you have too much free time no your hands that's y u watch porn n masturbate. when U start REAL WORK 8am - 5pm then you will NOT even be able to hold you deeq talk more of stroking cos only two things will be on your MIND..... FOOD n SLEEP.

HABITS have character supports.... porn n massturbation are usually on LAZY, UNEMPLOYED, STUDENTS, BORED, because its their "Getaway" fantasy that takes them out of the consciousness of the reality of their environment- simply put.... THEY HAVE NO LIFE.


so bro... get a JOB or GET BUSY with something very engaging and ensure you are under constant monitoring... u cant do it alone. THEN after 21 DAYS OF NON OF SUCH STUFF your life will reset and your values will change... else if you continue doing it you would soon loose value for progress n life and self improvement will not appeal to u again.

U need christ bro, without the Holy Spirit u cannot break loose frm masturbation.

I masturbated for 13yrs, but today i am a free man. All because i gave my life to Christ, read the bible daily and prayer daily too.

Reading 5 chapters of the scripture daily coupled with prayer, u will gallantly walk over masturbation. Anyrhing aside this, u can never be free

You are not alone in this trust me.. I don't know about girls but 95% of guys are in the same situation...

BTW I'm here for some advice too.

bipolarMe:
I'm not the type of guy who share their problems, especially not on social media. But these is getting out of hand. I'm a porn and masturbation. I've tried breaking the habit couple of times but still relapse at the end of everything. I really need help, a support group, or something, I don't know. I can't continue living like this.

hello.
how old are you?

bipolarMe:
I'm not the type of guy who share their problems, especially not on social media. But these is getting out of hand. I'm a porn and masturbation. I've tried breaking the habit couple of times but still relapse at the end of everything. I really need help, a support group, or something, I don't know. I can't continue living like this.

Na one chance u enter so

internationalman:
You are not alone in this trust me.. I don't know about girls but 95% of guys are in the same situation...

BTW I'm here for some advice too.

I know girls that do it bro.

It'll surprise you to know that there are so many girls and boys that have this bad habit. Solution? Get busy. You're in it because you have plenty time on your hands like someone said earlier. Good luck.

nelsonebby:

I know girls that do it bro.

I said so bcoz guys are open about it..

Nairaland boys admit to doing it.
But I have yet to see a nairaland girl admit it.

there are certain habits which one can not break from easily but with the help of God and persistent trying, n other words 1 Corinthians 9:21-28 would help you

internationalman:

I said so bcoz guys are open about it..

Nairaland boys admit to doing it.
But I have yet to see a nairaland girl admit it.

exactly what I have wanted to say.



anyway the op is doomed if he's addicted.

Addiction cannot be stopped.

greatnaija01:
IT IS EASY TO BREAK SUCH HABIT WHEN U FIND THE UNDERLYING FACTOR THAT MAKES IT HAPPEN------- JOBLESSNESS- you have too much free time no your hands that's y u watch porn n masturbate. when U start REAL WORK 8am - 5pm then you will NOT even be able to hold you deeq talk more of stroking cos only two things will be on your MIND..... FOOD n SLEEP.

HABITS have character supports.... porn n massturbation are usually on LAZY, UNEMPLOYED, STUDENTS, BORED, because its their "Getaway" fantasy that takes them out of the consciousness of the reality of their environment- simply put.... THEY HAVE NO LIFE.


so bro... get a JOB or GET BUSY with something very engaging and ensure you are under constant monitoring... u cant do it alone. THEN after 21 DAYS OF NON OF SUCH STUFF your life will reset and your values will change... else if you continue doing it you would soon loose value for progress n life and self improvement will not appeal to u again.

Baba stop saying what you don't know joblessness is not the underlying cause of anything...joblessness just give you more time to masturbate...if you like go and do bricklaying work to wear yourself out...have masturbated in class before in sec skool
Underlying cause of masturbation is sexual urge and everybody has it...lemme stop here...

@op masturbation and social awkwardness go hand in hand...the only solution is to have a babe that is sexually active,the only reason why you are masturbating is because you can't get a babe...if you enter pvssy five times you will never think of masturbating in your life again,and you will start feeling pompous to the act(its for small boys jhor)..
So get this area of your life handled

Please this solution is not applicable to girls.o..if a masturbating girl gets her first d!ck that's when her demand for cucumber and cassava will increase

nelsonebby:

exactly what I have wanted to say.



anyway the op is doomed if he's addicted.

Addiction cannot be stopped.

True but it can be limited.

Hmmm,,,nawa oh,,have nothing to say shaa


Only by Grace

Get a job.
By the time you go to work by 7am and return by 6pm, you will be so tired that you won't remember you have a preek

loneatar:
how old are you?

I'm getting old. I'm 23

Woah. I think I'm doomed. Because I actually have a job. I do it as something which I use to relief stress. Like once in two days on the average. Sometimes 6 times in a week.

You can overcome the addiction. You need to beg God to help you out and believe he will do it and make a firm resolve to honour God with your body, that way, you start getting conscious of every unholy act against your body. I hope this helps.