hello Nls I'm Gona make this quick.... at the middle of 2017 me and my galfrnd of yrs talked about marriage and I told her that I will marry her but she should give me a Lil time....fst forward to this month...since we entered December she av been disturbing me to come and do some marital ryts, in fact shes pressuring me to make our trad this December.... I have always been beging her to just calm down alitle, perhaps by next year I'm coming to marry her than making all this expenses on this rough December but the problem is that she cant just understand rather all she does is to invite me to all her friends wedding, or to always talk about marriage anytime we see.... the type of trad she want cost 1.2m, so is abit high for me this Christmas but she thinks that I'm lying to her....my colleagues at work are all busy this December so they wunt attend much.... av told her all this but she just keep crying here... pls I know some of u here might av witnessed such too... pls how did u settle it cos I can't just jump into Wat dat will disturb my savings in 2017.

Never marry a woman who lacks understanding...

Arthurwinner:
hello Nls I'm Gona make this quick.... at the middle of 2017 me and my galfrnd of yrs talked about marriage and I told her that I will marry her but she should give me a Lil time....fst forward to this month...since we entered December she av been disturbing me to come and do some marital ryts, in fact shes pressuring me to make our trad this December.... I have always been beging her to just calm down alitle, perhaps by next year I'm coming to marry her than making all this expenses on this rough December but the problem is that she cant just understand rather all she does is to invite me to all her friends wedding, or to always talk about marriage anytime we see.... the type of trad she want cost 1.2m, so is abit high for me this Christmas but she thinks that I'm lying to her....my colleagues at work are all busy this December so they wunt attend much.... av told her all this but she just keep crying here... pls I know some of u here might av witnessed such too... pls how did u settle it cos I can't just jump into Wat dat will disturb my savings in 2017.

bro just pretend u didn't 't hear all she's saying. Don't jump into something that will distabilize ur finances in 2018. If she's willing to drop half of the money, then go ahead.

dingbang:
Never marry a woman who lacks understanding...

So he should leave her? Do you know what they have been through? What about appealing to her conscience, to be more patient?

Why are nairalanders so quick to advice others to leave their partners? Will you give them a "better" companion if they do??

Shebi you will still marry her , relax baba.. Dont do marriage nw if you dont want to trekk bck from village o. Have something worth to keep you and your wife after the t.marriage

dollyjoy:
So he should leave her? Do you know what they have been through? What about appealing to her conscience, to be more patient?

Why are nairalanders so quick to advice others to leave their partners? Will you give them a "better" companion if they do??

I would leave if I were in his shoes..

The medicine for her sickness is very simple! Tell her to leave you if she cannot be patient shikena!

What she sees in u that wants to make her quickly gum you would make her calm down till next yr when ure ready.

dingbang:
Never marry a woman who lacks understanding...

she's old enough to understand, I just don't know her pro

voyy:


bro just pretend u didn't 't hear all she's saying. Don't jump into something that will distabilize ur finances in 2018. If she's willing to drop half of the money, then go ahead.

thanks bro.... but she kp crying

Arthurwinner:


she's old enough to understand, I just don't know her pro

understanding doesn't come with age brother. Its a gift, just as wisdom

Arthurwinner:


thanks bro.... but she kp crying

tears is a trick women use to get what dey want. Don't be easily deceived

thanki410:
Shebi you will still marry her , relax baba..
Dont do marriage nw if you dont want to trekk bck from village o.
Have something worth to keep you and your wife after the t.marriage

exactly what I'm telling her

dollyjoy:
So he should leave her? Do you know what they have been through? What about appealing to her conscience, to be more patient?

Why are nairalanders so quick to advice others to leave their partners? Will you give them a "better" companion if they do??

A broken engagement they say is better than a broken marriage

LuvSwollenPussy:
The medicine for her sickness is very simple! Tell her to leave you if she cannot be patient shikena!

What she sees in u that wants to make her quickly gum you would make her calm down till next yr when ure ready.

perhaps she think I'm gonna c anoda gal

I hate desperate women. Instead of her to plan with you and make it memorable she's forcing you.


Cant marry such woman.

Remember when my ex was pressurizing me to get her pregnant. I was shocked. She was dead serious I swear..

Use your head

Arthurwinner:
hello Nls I'm Gona make this quick.... at the middle of 2017 me and my galfrnd of yrs talked about marriage and I told her that I will marry her but she should give me a Lil time....fst forward to this month...since we entered December she av been disturbing me to come and do some marital ryts, in fact shes pressuring me to make our trad this December.... I have always been beging her to just calm down alitle, perhaps by next year I'm coming to marry her than making all this expenses on this rough December but the problem is that she cant just understand rather all she does is to invite me to all her friends wedding, or to always talk about marriage anytime we see.... the type of trad she want cost 1.2m, so is abit high for me this Christmas but she thinks that I'm lying to her....my colleagues at work are all busy this December so they wunt attend much.... av told her all this but she just keep crying here... pls I know some of u here might av witnessed such too... pls how did u settle it cos I can't just jump into Wat dat will disturb my savings in 2017.

Maintain your stand as a man and do what you know is best for you , her and your future. Don't be pushed around cos marriage is a long journey without any stopover at 'Ore' or 'Lokoja'

My brother, while I won't advise u to go against ur wishes, I want u to know that ur wife maybe feeling insecure, or the waiting is Kong overdue for her especially having dated for sometime now.

How knows what might happen? She wants u and wants to be sure about that!

So pls, while u do what u think its best business, don't see her as lacking understanding as some are putting it.

After all, she is but a woman.

ClitoPen:

Maintain your stand as a man and do what you know is best for you , her and your future. Don't be pushed around cos marriage is a long journey without any stopover at 'Ore' or 'Lokoja'

I tried telling her

smithsydny:
I hate desperate women. Instead of her to plan with you and make it memorable she's forcing you.


Cant marry such woman.

Remember when my ex was pressurizing me to get her pregnant. I was shocked. She was dead serious I swear..

Use your head

Lol u sure say she never grab then wan take style pin it on u

dingbang:
tears is a trick women use to get what dey want. Don't be easily deceived

aii bro

Arthurwinner:


exactly what I'm telling her

her tears are manipulative.
Act like you are not feeling fine out of too much thinking. And let her knw its because of her everyday ranting. She go reschedule the thing whance!

Talk to her and make her see reasons why you can't do it this December. She is a human being,so she will understand you. Except you re doing something to her which is making her feel in secure? Don't you ever allow the cry of a woman make you do things you re not ready for,if not,you will be the one to blame.

dingbang:
understanding doesn't come with age brother. Its a gift, just as wisdom

thanks slot... I think I should just stop seen her for now

ClitoPen:

Lol u sure say she never grab them wan take style PIN it on u

lol.. She never grab at all.. But she cheated on me while we were dating with one stupid hotel manager then. She practically told me about it. I forgave her we moved on. I can be very patient but its a No, theres is no force that can change my mind. I was extremely careful.

She almost got pregnant I was lucky. I had to end it

LuvSwollenPussy:
The medicine for her sickness is very simple! Tell her to leave you if she cannot be patient shikena!

What she sees in u that wants to make her quickly gum you would make her calm down till next yr when ure ready.

Jeez! See moniker!... I can only imagine what happened

thanki410:

her tears are manipulative.
Act like you are not feeling fine out of too much thinking. And let her knw its because of her everyday ranting. She go reschedule the thing whance!

I'm already sick for real but she won't hear

thanki410:

her tears are manipulative.
Act like you are not feeling fine out of too much thinking. And let her knw its because of her everyday ranting. She go reschedule the thing whance!

I'm already sick for real but she won't hear ni

smithsydny:
lol.. She never grab at all.. But she cheated on me while we were dating with one stupid hotel manager then. She practically told me about it. I forgave her we moved on. I can be very patient but its a No, theres is no force that can change my mind. I was extremely careful.

She almost got pregnant I was lucky. I had to end it

Lol...

Kennyprince:
My brother, while I won't advise u to go against ur wishes, I want u to know that ur wife maybe feeling insecure, or the waiting is Kong overdue for her especially having dated for sometime now.

How knows what might happen? She wants u and wants to be sure about that!

So pls, while u do what u think its best business, don't see her as lacking understanding as some are putting it.

After all, she is but a woman.

thanks bro

Arthurwinner:


I'm already sick for real but she won't hear ni

this wan really gan o.
Stop talking to her abt marriage.
Watch her very well.
All this desperate marriage thingy , watch bf you waka o. Dobt allow any one manipulate you with tears

Break up with her asap. Desperation is the mother of all crime

Kennyprince:
My brother, while I won't advise u to go against ur wishes, I want u to know that ur wife maybe feeling insecure, or the waiting is Kong overdue for her especially having dated for sometime now.

How knows what might happen? She wants u and wants to be sure about that!

So pls, while u do what u think its best business, don't see her as lacking understanding as some are putting it.

After all, she is but a woman.

Sissy spotted