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Re: Should I Tell Her To Wait For Me? by majesty29(m): 11:50pm On Dec 21, 2017 |
Passy089: God go judge u after fucking her pussy like mad u now want to leave her I pray dey will also do d same for ur sister. idiot. |
Re: Should I Tell Her To Wait For Me? by Moshlaw(m): 12:02am On Dec 22, 2017 |
just follow ur heart... |
Re: Should I Tell Her To Wait For Me? by AreaFada2: 3:04am On Dec 22, 2017 |
Safiaa:Lol. Many out there happening. If I wanted to marry a girl of 18 sef, even as a second or third wife I'd have no problem getting one. As first wife is easy peasy. She might even be a Level 100 or 200 university student. Like I said only her family might object. Convince the family and you are good to go. Not bragging o. You do not even have to be rich. I personally do not like marrying a girl that young as they can change later and feel they missed out by marrying too early. And a personal experience years back: they can be manipulated by people, the mum in particular. Everyone can be manipulated but the young inexperienced ones even more so. I cannot elaborate but spotting that likelihood quickly enough helped me avoid such a scenario. A personal experience. Do you know how many female students and youth corpers under 25 are married? Not as few as you think. Some married ones even still mess around in NYSC camp. Look there are things we men see out there. The word marriage is quite magical for many girls still. At 19 or 20 the only thing she might ask for is to allow her complete her studies before having kids. Surprisingly not all such girls come from a poor background or just want to escape poverty by marrying early. |
Re: Should I Tell Her To Wait For Me? by Gerrard59(m): 3:33am On Dec 22, 2017 |
AreaFada2: Thank you Sir. Why Safiaa doesn't seem to understand this is mind-boggling. I finished from a department with a high preponderance of females, and the vast majority are itching to get married (majority in their early twenties and few in mid-twenties). Ditto for my mates in secondary school. Some even got pregnant (yes, including the pious ones) while in school, engaged and married. Others had kids in school, my set was notorious for having mothers, would-be mothers and pregnant women during classes and practical sessions. Others are just waiting by the sidelines. None, absolutely, wants to hear anything about career or further education. Additionally, like you said, any stable and comfortable guy who proposes gets a positive response pronto! I've even resolved not to personally purchase materials for traditional dresses as I expect uniform from them. Hopefully, I don't get to attend more weddings than interviews in the coming months. However, I cannot blame them considering how the society looks down on single ladies above a certain age. 2 Likes |
Re: Should I Tell Her To Wait For Me? by hpymoment(f): 5:16am On Dec 22, 2017 |
vingeophysicist: If that is your only reason, to me, no problem. I tot it is something else more serious. Numbers of dick penetration to the promise land according to u is something someone can easily control nah. |
Re: Should I Tell Her To Wait For Me? by David160(m): 5:34am On Dec 22, 2017 |
Thats why I am never dating |
Re: Should I Tell Her To Wait For Me? by Nobody: 6:31am On Dec 22, 2017 |
hpymoment:if as a lady you can control that you have nothing to worry about. |
Re: Should I Tell Her To Wait For Me? by Nobody: 7:58am On Dec 22, 2017 |
Passy089:my dear u and I are in the same boat, this is the same situation am into right now, am 28 and my girl is 25 by the time I will want to settle down she might look older than I which I don't want |
Re: Should I Tell Her To Wait For Me? by RuffRuggedRaw(m): 8:37am On Dec 22, 2017 |
Passy089: My friend, stop this all rubbish and go love that woman with all your heart jor! |
Re: Should I Tell Her To Wait For Me? by Safiaa(f): 8:40am On Dec 22, 2017 |
Gerrard59:Yeah. This probably only happens in Nigeria. Sorry to say. |
Re: Should I Tell Her To Wait For Me? by Nobody: 8:48am On Dec 22, 2017 |
Passy089:
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Re: Should I Tell Her To Wait For Me? by Walesat1625(m): 9:53am On Dec 22, 2017 |
Nacoss25: lol, but your WCW is 35 years old,(Nicki minaj, Tiwa Savage). you crush on celebrities in their 30s still glowing, so by the time you want to settle down with a girl in her early 20s, once she is 30, you divorce and marry someone else in her 20s again Your Logic tho! weh done sir! |
Re: Should I Tell Her To Wait For Me? by uniqueogo(f): 12:37pm On Dec 22, 2017 |
Passy089: Guy if you are buoyant enough get married, you won't regret it, you said your self she's the perfect wife material don't loose a good woman just cus you want to flex some more. if you wait till you are ready you might not find someone like her again and then regret sets in |
Re: Should I Tell Her To Wait For Me? by Nobody: 12:42pm On Dec 22, 2017 |
Luukasz: Precisely...10years...gosh..i want to cry for her....even if it was on and off...why didnt he just let go.. he was only using her to while away time... |
Re: Should I Tell Her To Wait For Me? by Nobody: 12:46pm On Dec 22, 2017 |
Walesat1625: lolzzz the thing is...the dude is confused...or he wouldnt even seek for advice in the first place.... |
Re: Should I Tell Her To Wait For Me? by Nobody: 12:54pm On Dec 22, 2017 |
hpymoment: and not all ladies are promiscuous. Some ladies are virgins at 30 sef...while some girls have really really done the unimaginable before 18...so...it has nothing whatsoever to do with age. 1 Like |
Re: Should I Tell Her To Wait For Me? by Nobody: 1:07pm On Dec 22, 2017 |
Passy089: Before you back off....ask yourself these questions so you dont give yourselves unnecessary pains that will last... 1. Why did you go into the relationship in the first place? that is, what was the attraction? Do you still find this attraction appealing or not? 2. Why do you keep going back to her? Can you really forget her FOREVER ? They say love never dies. Think this through well...Let me tell u d truth....no one can advice u on this platform better than you. You knw why? You know 'you' better+ we dont even knw d gal...Dont make a costly mistake you will regret for a life time simply because of the age barrier...remember the devil you know is better tgan the angel you dont know...though nobody says you shld marry the devil. Wishing you both the best in your choices and a life time of happiness. |
Re: Should I Tell Her To Wait For Me? by Nobody: 1:20pm On Dec 22, 2017 |
slawomir: lolzz she heaves a sigh of relief because judgement day never come....its more like shutting out reality and enjoying the moment till reality hits you like a bad blow on the face...If you're not going to marry her...you might end up writing a similar piece like passy. At least guys like you and passy are civil enough to have a considering heart...some guys wld just walk away....Hmmm here's the problem with falling in love with your best friend. |
Re: Should I Tell Her To Wait For Me? by Nobody: 1:27pm On Dec 22, 2017 |
vingeophysicist: fallacy...wrong theory...av seen virgins at 30 and really bad girls at 18...age has nothing to do with promiscuity...also some girls aint hooked for various reasons...maybe education, parental interference (tribe, religion)....being an introvert...etc.. |
Re: Should I Tell Her To Wait For Me? by samwise99(m): 1:32pm On Dec 22, 2017 |
dollyjoy:I see standing booby |
Re: Should I Tell Her To Wait For Me? by samwise99(m): 1:36pm On Dec 22, 2017 |
slawomir: FOR ur mind na |
Re: Should I Tell Her To Wait For Me? by Nobody: 1:52pm On Dec 22, 2017 |
fayte341:young lady I am just stating the reason why guys prefer younger ladies.They believe the lesser the age, the lower the number of dick the lady has explored.The issue is more of a psychological one, ask guys around why they prefer younger ladies and hear their answers.Don't be surprise. |
Re: Should I Tell Her To Wait For Me? by lazygal: 9:14pm On Dec 22, 2017 |
zero8zero: are you saying it inst possible ? Very possible .just becasue morals have gonecdown the drain don't mean we don't have people who respect themselves I marvel at the shamelessness of people who openly discuss going to their boy friends house to spend weekend ,pple who see nothing wrong in sleeping withba man before marriage.... We have people who have manners and fear God |
Re: Should I Tell Her To Wait For Me? by zero8zero(m): 9:55pm On Dec 22, 2017 |
lazygal:Ma'am, we are talking 10yrs!, what would they be doing for 10 yrs ? well, if you have your morals intact then you're my kind of woman. |
Re: Should I Tell Her To Wait For Me? by Nobody: 10:45pm On Dec 22, 2017 |
vingeophysicist: Most of the time...their reasons are not sex related..I think it has more to do with...d woman eventually looking older than the man over time..Referring to responsible serious guys now..not some randy Billy. |
Re: Should I Tell Her To Wait For Me? by forreelinc(m): 3:56pm On Dec 26, 2017 |
iamteegee: Na your papa be starved angry and stupid beast. Why you want my junior sis? You don tire for your own? |
Re: Should I Tell Her To Wait For Me? by forreelinc(m): 3:57pm On Dec 26, 2017 |
GeneralOjukwu: I'm only trying to help |
Re: Should I Tell Her To Wait For Me? by Nobody: 4:20pm On Dec 26, 2017 |
Jupxter:dude no get money.better he let her go.this one of the fallouts of serious relationships. |
Re: Should I Tell Her To Wait For Me? by safiaaBUTTHOLE: 1:09am On Jan 05, 2018 |
Safiaa: Did you miss me baby? |
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