19. It is rare, very rare, that a woman does not seek LOVE as her end. Spin this truth however you need to. Whether you feel more comfortable saying LOVE is my end instead of MEN are my end, whatever, the bottom line is still the same. MEN ARE A WOMAN’S END and WOMEN WANT TO BE A MAN’S END.

THE PROBLEM IS FEAR

Most of those ladies claiming they don't need men are frightened by rejection

They don't necessarily want to accept it, but if you quiz them further you will realize they harbor great fear of unknown in their naive mind.

Some of them also feed on junk recycled stories of how terrible men can be. You hear them make statements like " men are the worst".

Although, some might have been involved in an unfortunate relationship in past where they suffered betrayal and rejection.


Either way, they should recognize that life is a learning process and finding love is like learning to walk as a child.

We didn't acquire it at the first time, but the excitement never stops us from learning how to walk and eventually walking.

The same analogy can be applied to love and romantic relationships

And remember

the words of Franklin Delano Roosevelt (RDv) "There is nothing to fear but fear itself"

WORDWORLD:
19. It is rare, very rare, that a woman does not seek LOVE as her end.
Spin this truth however you need to.
Whether you feel more comfortable saying
LOVE is my end instead of MEN are my end,
whatever, the bottom line is still the same.
MEN ARE A WOMAN’S END and WOMEN
WANT TO BE A MAN’S END.

On point. But the over-fixation on chasing vain ideologies is one of the core problem with both sexes !

greiboy:


THE PROBLEM IS FEAR

Most of those ladies claiming they don't need men are frightened of rejection

They don't necessarily want to accept it, but if you quiz them further you will realize they harbor great fear of unknown in their naive mind.

Some of them also feed on junk recycled stories of how terrible men can.be. You hear them make statements like " men are the worst".

Although, some might have been involved in an unfortunate relationship in past where suffered betrayal and rejection.


Either way, they should recognize that life is learning process and finding love is like learning to walk as a child.

We didn't acquire it at the first time, but the excitement never stops us from learning how to walk and eventually walking.

And remember

the words of Franklin Delano Roosevelt (RDv) "There is nothing to fear but fear itself"

....

Blackhawk03:
I need no fvckin man!

Walks out of thread...

Becareful of what you wish for

..

WORDWORLD:


Good! My dear blackhawk03 kindly suggest a better title. And i will change it as long as it is profound.

Do I need to suggest a title for you? The thread is yours, get a non gender stereotypical title.

Cladez:
Becareful of what you wish for

My wish is non of your business, Sir.

Lol.. Well said...

Women don't understand just how much they need men. That is why most of them have turned to social media prostitutes to show the world how they don't need men, yet it's these same men that pay their bills. They sleep around, befriend older rich men, but still claim to "not need a man". I laugh anytime I hear such useless statements. Funny thing is it's the ones who refuse to settle down that depend on so many men.

They're all claiming feminism rubbish.

Feminism is the 21st century joke few people have the balls to laugh at for fear of being call chauvinistic pigs.

Blackhawk03:


Do I need to suggest a title for you? The thread is yours, get a non gender stereotypical title.

Okay and thank you. Anyway all credits goes to that WOMAN OF SUBSTANCE, that will stop at nothing to see that MEN and WOMEN unite in TRUTH. My mentor Kelly Marceau. My dear there is nothing stereotypical about the title. The thread is only addressing our realities today which is "Heterosexual women who talk about MEN like they don’t need or want men but can’t stop obsessing about them are LYING". .

bluetrails7:




BOTH SEXES HAVE THE SAME PROBLEM. WHICH IS FEAR !




Some of them also feed on junk recycled stories of how terrible men can.be. You hear them make statements like " men are the worst".

Although, some might have been involved in an unfortunate relationship in past where suffered betrayal and rejection.


The fear inturn makes them bitter,hard, and creates pent-up emotions and insecurities that become seemingly too difficult to deal with, Innocent guys suffer the bitter tragedy of fighting through the walls of insecurities built up in their heads.


Guys reject it, don't bear the burden of some girl's father's errors. If her father was a casanova and emotionally abused his family, it shouldn't be your burden to bear ! You're also not the ex that left her used and damaged !



What's worst, they don't know that tearing down each walls of insecurities brought upon them by fear leaves an emotional toll on males..To them, it's normal, but breaking down walls after walls, leaves even a giant tired after a while creating huge vacuums in the guys !

Yeah, I understand guys also have their fears, but because of the nature of woman. I.e. some might have the problem of unwanted child and so on, which guys don't really have. The lady might suffer more than a guy in a failed relationship.

I believe if two enter into a romantic relationship with each other . They must be ready to accept the the shortcomings of each other.i.e the terrible past and co. Don't forget everyone has a past.


Also how did you learn how to type so fast ?

greiboy:


THE PROBLEM IS FEAR

Most of those ladies claiming they don't need men are frightened by rejection

They don't necessarily want to accept it, but if you quiz them further you will realize they harbor great fear of unknown in their naive mind.

Some of them also feed on junk recycled stories of how terrible men can be. You hear them make statements like " men are the worst".

Although, some might have been involved in an unfortunate relationship in past where they suffered betrayal and rejection.


Either way, they should recognize that life is a learning process and finding love is like learning to walk as a child.

We didn't acquire it at the first time, but the excitement never stops us from learning how to walk and eventually walking.

The same analogy can be applied to love and romantic relationships

And remember

the words of Franklin Delano Roosevelt (RDv) "There is nothing to fear but fear itself"

And the men?

Blackhawk03:

My wish is non of your business, Sir.

Sorry for prying

greiboy:
Yeah, I understand guys also have their fears, but because of the nature of woman. I.e. some might have the problem unwanted child and so on, which guys don't really have. The lady might suffer more than a guy in a failed relationship.

I believe if two enter into a romantic relationship with each other . They must be ready to accept the the shortcomings of each other.i.e the terrible past and co. Don't forget everyone has a past.


Also how did you learn how to type so fast ?

...

HeyCorleone:
Lol.. Well said...

Women don't understand just how much they need men. That is why most of them have turned to social media prostitutes to show the world how they don't need men, yet it's these same men that pay their bills. They sleep around, befriend older rich men, but still claim to "not need a man". I laugh anytime I hear such useless statements. Funny thing is it's the ones who refuse to settle down that depend on so many men.

They're all claiming feminism rubbish.

Feminism is the 21st century joke few people have the balls to laugh at for fear of being call chauvinistic pigs.

..y ..

Blackhawk03:


And the men?

Yes we have our fears, but ladies suffer emotional and physical trauma trauma in an abusive or failed relationship, some of which last for a long time. On the other hand, most men only suffer emotional scar

So most men quickly get over their fears, ladies hardly get over such fears.

Cladez:
Sorry for prying

Apology accepted.

greiboy:
Yes we have our fears, but ladies suffer emotional and physical trauma trauma in an abusive or failed relationship, some of which last for a long time. On the other hand, most men only suffer emotional scare

So most men quickly get over their fears, ladies hardly get over such fears.

...

bluetrails7:




No denial Sir, but guys never go into relationships with fears from past relationships. Guys go with experiences of past failed relationships, ladies mould them into fear, which inhibits intimacy and creates stunted growth....

I've been using PC since way back nah...Before 1994....Lol, why does everyone say i type fast, i'm doing lots of thigns actually @ the moment sha !

You maybe right. Some guys turn the whole situation into life experience, but they might still have some trust issues.

Anyways, that was the whole point of my initial post.


Bro come teach me hoe to type fast ooo

greiboy:
You maybe right. Some guys turn the whole situation into life experience, but they might still have some trust issues.

Anyways, that was the whole point of my initial post.


Bro come teach me hoe to type fast ooo

...

bluetrails7:



The worst is happeneing, many are building defenses against men in their heart, making themselves emotionally numb, a psychological barrier they created in their minds against fear....Guys have lots of burden to bear as time goes oh..

Like one of my lecturers back then once said

"For so long women have been oppressed and now they look for ways to further oppress themselves".

The biggest oppressors of women today are women.

I don't see anything wrong with a woman managing her business while focusing on her duties as a wife and a mother. After all the man battles work also but still has time for his family..

So I don't really understand the 21st century women. Whether they just want to be mere sex objects I don't understand.

bluetrails7:



Word !

The indoctrination of the unimportance of men in the lives of women is one that's been bought by so many of their species...Hence they channel their existence to work, money, ambitions and act like all's cool !

The unimportance of men is like a trophy now, so you get to see pen-up emotions, bottled up feelings, they act so tight, and lock themself off in a false reality because of the fear of i don't want to have my heart shattered !

Instead of healing their emotional wounds assuming it's a heart once shattered. They pour their energy to loathing men. Though not all women choose such a path of cowardice like this.

Woman matter again?

Blackhawk03:

Apology accepted.

Nawao for una see as you rush wan bite me

greiboy:
Yes we have our fears, but ladies suffer emotional and physical trauma trauma in an abusive or failed relationship, some of which last for a long time. On the other hand, most men only suffer emotional scare

So most men quickly get over their fears, ladies hardly get over such fears.

Good!

I don't care about the time duration guys use in getting over their fears. The point is, we're both scared of unseen circumstances, of the future, of our imaginary dooms in relationships. Now, you either think of solution to both genders' fears or y'all mind your fvckin business and solve yours.

You don't go about painting yourselves saints when you're not in any way better than the women.

HeyCorleone:



Like one of my lecturers back then once said

"For so long women have been oppressed and now they look for ways to further oppress themselves".

The biggest oppressors of women today are women.

I don't see anything wrong with a woman managing her business while focusing on her duties as a wife and a mother. After all the man battles work also but still has time for his family..

So I don't really understand the 21st century women. Whether they just want to be mere sex objects I don't understand.

...

WORDWORLD:
1. If I hear one more woman tell me that she doesn’t need a man or that a man isn’t her end, I am going to get on a megaphone and call BULLSHIT across the fucking globe.

Well majority of men have fails in their tasks. Like bees and ants we have hunters and gatherers as well as those who look after the hives.

Men are supposed to be hunters and gatherers. But as the world moved on some became hunters and gatherers. ( up equality rights).

Now women compete with men on an equal scale. Also many men are ass holes. Because you provide for your family you decide to treat them with contempt forfeiting that's your primary role and women these days cannot accept it and I do t blame them.

So it has come to the point that man has become a sperm donor for the sole role of procreation to these new generation of power house females.

Do they need us anymore? not really. Depends on the mindset.

It's not an issue of equality or supremacy it's about not being an ass hole.

Granted there be a lot of bitches too rhses days so you have to be careful too on your voyage of discovery.

WORDWORLD:


Instead of healing their emotional wounds assuming it's a heart once shattered. They pour their energy to loathing men. Though not all women choose such a path of cowardice like this.

...

thedondada:


Well majority of men have fails in their tasks. Like bees and ants we have hunters and gatherers as well as those who look after the hives.

Men are supposed to be hunters and gatherers. But as the world moved on some became hunters and gatherers. ( up equality rights).

Now women compete with men on an equal scale. Also many men are ass holes. Because you provide for your family you decide to treat them with contempt forfeiting that's your primary role and women these days cannot accept it and I do t blame them.

So it has come to the point that man has become a sperm donor for the sole role of procreation to these new generation of power house females.

Do they need us anymore? not really. Depends on the mindset.

It's not an issue of equality or supremacy it's about not being an ass hole.

Granted there be a lot of bitches too rhses days so you have to be careful too on your voyage of discovery.

...

Blackhawk03:

Good!

I don't care about the time duration guys use in getting over their fears. The point is, we're both scared of unseen circumstances, of the future, of our imaginary dooms in relationships. Now, you either think of solution to both genders' fears or y'all mind your fvckin business and solve yours.

You don't go about painting yourselves saints when you're not in any way better than the women.

hmmm

When it comes to fear in relationships men are slightly favored because we don't loose much in a failed relationship.

Women on the hand, may suffer more and go through hell. I have sisters and cousins who are ladies, I have discussed this issues with them. I know these things

I am not writing it to spite anyone, or feel superior.
.

Cladez:
Nawao for una see as you rush wan bite me

No mind me jawe, the thread just vex me nii...

I need a man oooo

*Singing in Puff daddy's voice*
I need a man to wash my ride
I need a man to wash my pyant
I need a man who's mine oh mine
I need a man in my lifeeeeeeeeee

Blackhawk03:




No mind me jawe, the thread just vex me nii...

I need a man oooo

Singing in Puff daddy's voice*
I need a man to wash my ride
I need a man to wash my pyant
I need a man who's mine oh mine
I need a man in my lifeeeeeeeeee