Blackhawk03:


You should change your title and stop making it look like only women are guilty of such utterance... Guess you've not been reading from the guys on how women are only needed for sexual satisfaction. It's a two way thing, we need each other but we both enjoy denying the obvious.

Come here U deserve a kiss

thedondada:


Well majority of men have fails in their tasks. Like bees and ants we have hunters and gatherers as well as those who look after the hives.

Men are supposed to be hunters and gatherers. But as the world moved on some became hunters and gatherers. ( up equality rights).

Brother i agree with all that you wrote. Only chose to edit your post as to draw our intention to the VERY TRUTH as you have made a similitude with NATURE and derailment from TRADITION "as the world moved on". Better explained in a recent comment of mine as to the crux of our problems. There is no doubt that there are guys who are ASS-HOLES.

WORDWORLD:


I get your point here which is psychology. But i must tell you its way beyond that if TRUTH must be told. You see, there is a NATURAL ORDER of things upon which traditional laws were built. The beginning of all this mess is with the conception of the ideology called Humanism which sprang no fear at all during the time of "Renaissance (Greek) and that summarize the whole advance of Modern civilization". The mess we are in today is as a result of turning away and with ARROGANCE from LAWS THAT ARE SUPRA-RATIONAL WISDOM NOT BY HUMAN TO PHILOSOPHY WHICH IS HUMAN WISHFUL THINKING. And unless we trace our steps back to UNIVERSAL PRINCIPLES FROM HIGH, our movement will never change, it will be a continous movement strictly downwards into the mire of confussion as it is today, a world so confused. The biological reality of the genders is to compliment each other. Distinction should not mean opposition. Women are created to do what a man cannot do. What is all this unhealthy rivalry all about. Abi greboy?!

greiboy:
hmmm

When it comes to fear in relationships men are slightly favored because we don't loose much in a failed relationship.

Women on the hand, may suffer more and go through hell. I have sisters and cousins who are ladies, I have discuss this issues with them. I know these things

I am not writing it to spite anyone, or feel superior.
.

Grey, handling emotions doesn't have to do with gender. If you're going to back up your point by using your FAM, I'm left with no choice but to back mine up with majority of male nairalanders. You've seen how these guys handled rejections, minor heartbreaks... Have your siblings stooped as low as them just because they're suffering from heartbreaks and disappointment? Why haven't threads been created on how to help these guys or teach them on how to appreciate the need of a woman?

Blackhawk03:


Grey, handling emotions doesn't have to do with gender. If you're going to back up your point by using your FAM, I'm left with no choice but to back mine up with majority of male nairalanders. You've seen how these guys handled rejections, minor heartbreaks... Have your siblings stooped as low as them just because they're suffering from heartbreaks and disappointment? Why haven't threads been created on how to help these guys or teach them on how to appreciate the need of a woman?

I'm waiting on greiboy like...

profolaolu:
Come here U deserve a kiss

Wey the kiss?

greiboy:

You dey feel the song abi? I go enter studio soon. #Vision2018

Blackhawk03:




No mind me jawe, the thread just vex me nii...

I need a man oooo

*Singing in Puff daddy's voice*
I need a man to wash my ride
I need a man to wash my pyant
I need a man who's mine oh mine
I need a man in my lifeeeeeeeeee

SHUOO!!! Man wey do the first and second no be man again nah

Blackhawk03:


Grey, handling emotions doesn't have to do with gender. If you're going to back up your point by using your FAM, I'm left with no choice but to back mine up with majority of male nairalanders. You've seen how these guys handled rejections, minor heartbreaks... Have your siblings stooped as low as them just because they're suffering from heartbreaks and disappointment? Why haven't threads been created on how to help these guys or teach them on how to appreciate the need of a woman?

ok
You are right, men are more likely to show emotions when suffering rejection, but they are quick to move on.. That is how most guys are wired. Although, I must maintain some guys can be too childish in their approach.

Ladies on the other hand, don't show much emotions, but take longer to heal.
Nonetheless, that is just emotional damage..

what about the damage to physical body most ladies suffer? Some might even have to make difficult life choices like keeping an unwanted pregnancy, dropping out of school etc.


The trauma is definitely more on most occasions.

bluetrails7:



I agree. But bad past relationships, bad relationships around them, upbringing, association, bad family values that seemingly makes headlines before successful relationships makes the minds of folks rest upon a negative posture. These days, it trends, " the red flags ". Even Adam and Eve had no red flags initially, but what happened down the line? Yet na God introduce them to one another, if we deal with the fears, we can find the will and strength to move forward rather than oscillate and vacillate without positive forward momentum.


Cc : Ubunja

Cc: Lefulefu

Cc: Martin0

Cc: Hasbydiamond

Hmmm mm na wa ooo..
As far as am concern the only thing I believe that makes a relationship works more and wish I admire is the love that goes with peace

pocohantas:


I'm waiting on greiboy like...

I have to go somewhere now

pocohantas:


I'm waiting on greiboy like...

Me sef dey wait am. They should stop carrying our matter for shoulder like Xmas chicken. For every single girl that says she needs no man, there are 20 girls that would kill for a man... Let them just look for those ones and let the #Noman babez be. Hian!

Blackhawk03:


Me sef dey wait am. They should stop carrying our matter for shoulder like Xmas chicken. For every single girl that says she needs no man, there are 20 girls that would kill for a man... Let them just look for those ones and let the #Noman babez be. Hian!

LOL. I believe there are people who genuinely see no special need for the opposite sex. If they are all homosexuals is what I can't tell. Nah, you all must need men.

greiboy:
I have to go somewhere now

It's okay. So, when do you guys advise yourselves? Seeing that the ratio of such female to male advice in this section is 8:2...

WORDWORLD:
3. I KNOW A WOMAN’S WORTH DOESN’T COME FROM A MAN but WOMEN WANT LOVE ABOVE ALL ELSE.

the problem is that women love differently from men.and a woman will never love a man the way a man wants to be loved.thats why to this day the slogan says " a mother's love is the best" coz the love that men crave is that type of love only mothers can give.a love without conditions and competition.u are never gona hear "a wife's love is the best" NEVER.EVER. EVER.
man: "i love you"
girl: *checks his footwear and phone*

working man to a barefoot girl in the village: "i love u"
barefoot girl : "i love you too"


barefoot village boy to a working girl : " i love you"
working girl : " know your class"

the love of a man for a woman is the love that qualifies a woman and loves her as she is. the love of a woman for a man seeks only the qualified and requires a set of standards to be fullfilled first before it can be granted. we call it Hypergamy. the desire of every girl to marry a man of higher class/status than her.it works like magic under patriarchy coz all men are given advantages over women. but under an Equal Society it leads to huge problems.like today when so many women are doing so well and find it so hard to meet qualifying men.the bad side of the hypergamy instinct in a feminist world is that the number of men who can qualify to date these successful women is very small. WOMEN LOVE DIFFERENTLY COZ THEY LOVE WITH THEIR WOMBS.
why is women's love tied to money?
one word: BABIES. when women get pregnant thats almost a year of being unproductive and they will need a provider.when the baby comes its more costs.
TRUE UNCONDITIONAL LOVE IS A LUXURY WOMEN CANT AFFORD. true love cant pay bills and feed the kids .who they love must double as who can support them. and many women marry for support than for love.any gal that tells u otherwise she is playing you.coz lose your job and u will see her love for you grow cold.
MONEY MAKES THE PVSSY WET.

pocohantas:


LOL. I believe there are people who genuinely see no special need for the opposite sex. If they are all homosexuals is what I can't tell. Nah, you all must need men.


It's okay. So, when do you guys advise yourselves? Seeing that the ratio of such female to male advice in this section is 8:2...

Thanks for the advice maam

greiboy:

Bro wetin she write make you laugh abi, me sef laugh wan kill me. That is why ladies demand for head high this days o! Even if smell wey dey commot from inside some of dem PINK TACCO fit make you gag three fit away dem go still demand because they see is as. "Yes see as him kneel down the worship me" Is what is dancing inside the heads of MOST of them. Pressing your the back of your head so the nose on the front of your face gets the full stench. And with one of her legs raised, rest on your back for comfort and a show of HER HIGHNESS. "Oya lick, i say lick am well-well Mr. Man". Wash pant ko wash bikini ni.......................hehehehe. Iya Ramata

Blackhawk03:

Wey the kiss?

Am coming let me eat garlic because the kiss must be solid

Nawa

Martin0:




Hmmm mm na wa ooo..
As far as am concern the only thing I believe that makes a relationship works more and wish I admire is the love that goes with peace

Ladyhippolyta88:
Nawa

Wetin make u say "nawa"

I was just wondering whether you were being sincere.

Martin0:


Wetin make u say "nawa"

Ladyhippolyta88:
I was just wondering whether you were being sincere.

Oh I see

So what was my comment like after u finished wondering

ubunja:

the problem is that women love differently from men.and a woman will never love a man the way a man wants to be loved.thats why to this day the slogan says " a mother's love is the best" coz the love that men crave is that type of love only mothers can give.a love without conditions and competition.u are never gona hear "a wife's love is the best" NEVER.EVER. EVER.
man: "i love you"
girl: *checks his footwear and phone*

working man to a barefoot girl in the village: "i love u"
barefoot girl : "i love you too"


barefoot village boy to a working girl : " i love you"
working girl : " know your class"

the love of a man for a woman is the love that qualifies a woman and loves her as she is. the love of a woman for a man seeks only the qualified and requires a set of standards to be fullfilled first before it can be granted. we call it Hypergamy. the desire of every girl to marry a man of higher class/status than her.it works like magic under patriarchy coz all men are given advantages over women. but under an Equal Society it leads to huge problems.like today when so many women are doing so well and find it so hard to meet qualifying men.the bad side of the hypergamy instinct in a feminist world is that the number of men who can qualify to date these successful women is very small. WOMEN LOVE DIFFERENTLY COZ THEY LOVE WITH THEIR WOMBS.
why is women's love tied to money?
one word: BABIES. when women get pregnant thats almost a year of being unproductive and they will need a provider.when the baby comes its more costs.
TRUE UNCONDITIONAL LOVE IS A LUXURY WOMEN CANT AFFORD. true love cant pay bills and feed the kids .who they love must double as who can support them. and many women marry for support than for love.any gal that tells u otherwise she is playing you.coz lose your job and u will see her love for you grow cold.
MONEY MAKES THE PVSSY WET.

Bro you have once again painted TRUTH in its ABSOLUTE colour on a vast canvas for those who have eyes to see our REALITIES. Hmmm........... Now let me share a true life story to butress your point.

Once upon a time, a very beautiful lady, so rich for she's got a job that fetches her cool Benjamins. She has her own classy Car, her own house a Duplex, in short she is RICH, very comfortable but one thing bothers her a lot, SHE'S GOT NO HUSBAND. And she is starting to approach that age, which biological programming human female makes her become of NO VALUE AT ALL to a male, MAN as long as all that he wants is for her to bear him children.

So, she told her, friends, cousins almost everybody to hook her up with a man she could get married to.

A friend of hers who is at all NOT as privilege as she is, told her she's got a man for her. And so a date was fixed for both to meet. The venue was the lady's house. The Man arrived on bike and paid the bike-man who had brought him. Upon knocking, lady opens the door, and realized that this man transported himself to her house of a bike which this bike is not even his own, hence most likely have not a bike let alone a car. GUESS WHAT SHE DID UBUNJA?! SHE BANGED THE DOOR ON HIS FACE!!!

"This is not my class" She yield angrily to her friend who was seat at a corner inside the house. Unknown to her, this man OUT-CLASSES her in all ramification. He is stinkingly rich, he had planned his coming as so.

Today he is married to that friend who hoped to hook her rich friend with another rich man. Sure she looked for 'A QUALIFIED MAN' because she understands the woman feminity like you have explained, "the love of a woman seeks only the qualified and requires as set of standard to be fulfilled first before it can be granted. It is called hypergamy. THE DESIRE OF EVERY GIRL TO MARRY A MAN OF HIGHER CLASS/STATUS THAN HER. It works like magic during the patriarchy cos all men were given advantages over women. But in equal society it leads to a huge problem. Like today when so many women are doing so well, and find it so hard to meet qualified men".

She slammed the door on his face thinking he was a church rat. Till date she is still single and searching.

So, what is my point?! Systems rule our world and all systems have what the produce. The ways of Patriarchy, TRADITION which men have greater advantage over women had women with husbands while the ways of Equal society MODERN where women are a complete package on their own are struggling to have a husband.

Ubunja, i leave you with the link to an article by Amanda chatel title 'Women getting married less and less and the reason why might shock you' and a quote by a foremost mentor of mine Eric Hoofer.

www.bolde.com/women-getting-married-less-less-reason-might-shock/

"Were history mainly a record of accidental and deliberate experiments performed on mankind, it would be to an understanding of human nature what laboratory experiments are to and understanding of nature. Such history could be an aid to an understanding of ourselves" (Eric Hoffer, Reflection on the Human Condition)

What is it that we do not understand?! The records by TRADITION Patriarchy society or the records today by transgressing traditional values which is the base which the MODERN WORLD we are living in today functions? I personally call it A SO CALLED MODERN WORLD for anybody who have been studying the two worlds, knows that our life today is not a leap forward in HUMAN PROGRESS BUT A SINKING DEEPER AND AND DEEPER INTO THE MIRE OF DECAY, ONLY A LITTLE GOOD CAN BE JUSTIFIED.

Amanda Chatel is a Fanatical Feminist yet she's got facts to backing her fanatism. You will learn alot from her if you read her articles.

And like your illustration, the rich lady's friend who ended up becoming the rich man's wife is like the VILLAGE GIRL approached by a WORKING CLASS MAN. What a so called modern world, a people who keep fighting against THEIR OWN INHERENT NATURE.

Blackhawk03:




No mind me jawe, the thread just vex me nii...

I need a man oooo

*Singing in Puff daddy's voice*
I need a man to wash my ride
I need a man to wash my pyant
I need a man who's mine oh mine
I need a man in my lifeeeeeeeeee

You no well, lol

It was amazing.

Martin0:

Oh I see
So what was my comment like after u finished wondering

Ladyhippolyta88:
It was amazing.

Oh I most greet u then
I hail u ooo

We need each other to survive... Finito

Martin0:

Oh I most greet u then
I hail u ooo

I hail you.

greiboy:
ok
You are right, men are more likely to show emotions when suffering rejection, but they are quick to move on.. That is how most guys are wired. Although, I must maintain some guys can be too childish in their approach.

Ladies on the other hand, don't show much emotions, but take longer to heal.
Nonetheless, that is just emotional damage..

what about the damage to physical body most ladies suffer? Some might even have to make difficult life choices like keeping an unwanted pregnancy, dropping out of school etc.


The trauma is definitely more on most occasions.

You still haven't answered my question, why don't you guys fix yourselves instead of fixing others if it was that easy? And is it going to kill someone like op to understand that this affects both genders? You don't get how nauseating this is, do you? So, it's cool for guys to imply they only need girls for sexual satisfaction because they've been hurt but a lady can't say she needs no man because she's been hurt too and luckily for her, she can easily substitute the usefulness of man?

Blackhawk03:



You still haven't answered my question, why don't you guys fix yourselves instead of fixing others if it was that easy? And is it going to kill someone like op to understand that this affects both genders? You don't get how nauseating this is, do you? So, it's cool for guys to imply they only need girls for sexual satisfaction because they've been hurt but a lady can't say she needs no man because she's been hurt too and luckily for her, she can easily substitute the usefulness of man?

I was simply trying to say that I understand why some ladies have so much fear. I am not mocking them for being scared.

ok, They can do whatever pleases them. It will not hold back the world from revolving around its axis. Majority of men and ladies will still give love a chance.

Don't worry I will open a thread, on why men should appreciate ladies, when I am able to find a girl friend

Ladyhippolyta88:
I hail you.

Blackhawk03:


Grey, handling emotions doesn't have to do with gender. If you're going to back up your point by using your FAM, I'm left with no choice but to back mine up with majority of male nairalanders. You've seen how these guys handled rejections, minor heartbreaks... Have your siblings stooped as low as them just because they're suffering from heartbreaks and disappointment? Why haven't threads been created on how to help these guys or teach them on how to appreciate the need of a woman?

May Abraham's blessings be yours IJN.

Blackhawk03:


Grey, handling emotions doesn't have to do with gender. If you're going to back up your point by using your FAM, I'm left with no choice but to back mine up with majority of male nairalanders. You've seen how these guys handled rejections, minor heartbreaks... Have your siblings stooped as low as them just because they're suffering from heartbreaks and disappointment? Why haven't threads been created on how to help these guys or teach them on how to appreciate the need of a woman?

lol Blackhawk03 so you mean threads are not been created and being created to teach these guys how to appreciate the need for a woman? BLACKHAWK03 AND WHAT HAVE YOU BEEN DOING ABOUT IT?!!!

Is it POSSIBLE for a miss

Blackhawk03:
I need no fvckin man!


Walks out of thread...

to come up with lofty ideas to teach these guys how to appreciate the need of a woman? And why should you feel bothered about such thread not existing if you yourself "need no fvckin man". I believe that you are only joking any way about "i need no fvcking man". If "NO", then this particular thread is DEDICATED to you. Or is it that the thread has been able to influence your prespective some how, hence your aggitation? If still "NO" it remains the same SONG by the so called 'MODERN WOMEN' who wants to eat her cake and still have. Abi greiboy.

LadyMarionette:




May Abraham's blessings be yours IJN.

Amennnnnnn! And you too, my lady.