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Why Do Girls Open Up To Some Guys But Not Others? by theGigolo: 11:40pm On Dec 23, 2017 |
This is a question that has made me wonder why do women or girls rather open up to a guy who is not their romantic interest but don't do same to guys they date or have a crush on. Nl ladies what's your take?. |
Re: Why Do Girls Open Up To Some Guys But Not Others? by Nobody: 11:41pm On Dec 23, 2017 |
theGigolo: confusion 2 Likes |
Re: Why Do Girls Open Up To Some Guys But Not Others? by LessNoise: 11:45pm On Dec 23, 2017 |
They open up to guys who have been friend zoned (BESTIE) 15 Likes |
Re: Why Do Girls Open Up To Some Guys But Not Others? by habsydiamond(m): 11:54pm On Dec 23, 2017 |
They feel secured with guys who is not of interest to them cos they know, those guys will advice them on how to overcome challenges, how to make their relationship better if not perfect 6 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Why Do Girls Open Up To Some Guys But Not Others? by greatnaija01: 12:27am On Dec 24, 2017 |
go n register for tutorials under those guys... ladies have trust-keys and only guys with those keys can have access to their secrets. and sex is not involved. Communication is not TALK theGigolo: 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Why Do Girls Open Up To Some Guys But Not Others? by MrBrownJay1(m): 4:36am On Dec 24, 2017 |
unless a woman is COMFORTABLE around (or with) you, there is no way she will open up to you... so if she doesnt, then blame yourself for not emotionally connecting on the right level with her. btw, do you open to any woman you date?!?! do you tell your woman about your fears/worries etc?!?! men should stop being hypocrites and instead look at the mirror for answers. the majority of you dudes will never open up to your women, not even your wife. get real! 20 Likes 5 Shares |
Re: Why Do Girls Open Up To Some Guys But Not Others? by ubunja(m): 7:15am On Dec 24, 2017 |
MrBrownJay1:its not about hypocrisy. when men open up society sees that as a weakness. feminity and masculinity are viewed differently in the world. eg TEARS: when a woman cries-everyone wana know why and punish whoever made her tears flow. noone wants to know if the tears were deserved or not. when a man cries-what a wimp.dude grow some balls and man up.dont be a mama's baby. 9 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Why Do Girls Open Up To Some Guys But Not Others? by MrBrownJay1(m): 9:02am On Dec 24, 2017 |
ubunja: listen to the hypocrisy in what you are saying....so its ok for you to NOT open up to YOUR woman that you supposedly love, so that you could please society?!?!?!?!?!?! no wonder women dont open up to men like you.... love is a two way street, and when women meet men like you they can NEVER be comfortable because you will always remain a STRANGER. so keep trying to satisfy society... 11 Likes 5 Shares |
Re: Why Do Girls Open Up To Some Guys But Not Others? by pocohantas(f): 9:07am On Dec 24, 2017 |
MrBrownJay1: MrBrownJay1: Smackdown! ![]() ![]() 3 Likes |
Re: Why Do Girls Open Up To Some Guys But Not Others? by makydebbie(f): 9:11am On Dec 24, 2017 |
pocohantas:Are you a wwe fan like me? ![]() |
Re: Why Do Girls Open Up To Some Guys But Not Others? by Macgreat(m): 9:13am On Dec 24, 2017 |
LessNoise: Not true. It depends on the guys attitude. If you are a Listener and Not Judgemental she'll tell you things that will shock your destiny. ![]() 14 Likes 4 Shares |
Re: Why Do Girls Open Up To Some Guys But Not Others? by pocohantas(f): 9:14am On Dec 24, 2017 |
makydebbie: Not a fan o, but I watch when I stumble on it. I like as he gives it to them hot, if na woman im be...them for done dash am title by now...feminist ![]() Happy Sunday babe. |
Re: Why Do Girls Open Up To Some Guys But Not Others? by ubunja(m): 9:31am On Dec 24, 2017 |
MrBrownJay1:since u so hung up on the word Hypocrisy; why dont u call your inlaws hypocrites when they expect u to pay bride price when marriage benefits both groups? while u are at it call out the hypocrisy of why the government can print money and u cant! remember to call out the hypocrisy of society in giving u your father's surname and not your mother's since your mother actually gave birth to u. how about reminding the politicians of their hypocrisy that they can get Diplomatic Immunity when they commit crimes abroad and u cant. you think life is 50/50? u think what is expected from women will be expected from men?u think what is expected from children will be expected from parents?LOOOL. call out the hypocrisy of women who expect to be toasted but dont toast. lets see how long u will stay without a woman. oh remember When u rape a woman its Rape but when a woman rapes u its sexual harrasment. how is THAT for hypocrisy ![]() ![]() ![]() 12 Likes |
Re: Why Do Girls Open Up To Some Guys But Not Others? by makydebbie(f): 9:36am On Dec 24, 2017 |
pocohantas:No mind them. ![]() Once you've an opinion, you're a feminist. Happy sunday dear. ![]() 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Why Do Girls Open Up To Some Guys But Not Others? by LessNoise: 9:42am On Dec 24, 2017 |
Macgreat: No need to sugar coat it there's no way you can be close friends with a girl without feeling a tiny winy tin tin Lin something for that girl....when she feels so comfortable to tell u shii bout her sexcapedes means you've been friend zoned 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Why Do Girls Open Up To Some Guys But Not Others? by MrBrownJay1(m): 9:49am On Dec 24, 2017 |
ubunja: bro, you must be mistaking me for someone else, my parents NEVER EVER believed in this garbage called bride price, and anybody who believes in such tradition can NEVER be valued as a sane/intelligent/smart person to marry. but hey, if you meant to say that the Nigerian society is hypocrite, then you may be right.....does that mean you should openly do something you fully well know aint RIGHT?!?!?! i dont think so... while u are at it call out the hypocrisy of why the government can print money and u cant! because they are the government and i am not, duh! why would you even want to compare yourself with the government? are you ok bro?!? remember to call out the hypocrisy of society in giving u your father's surname and not your mother's since your mother actually gave birth to u. people like you are confused sheep... who said that having your father's name was a necessity?!?! you can have your neighbor's surname on your birth certificate if you want to, does not change the fact about who your damn parents are. so focus on important issues of life instead of using such rubbish to stand by your hypocritical state of mind. how about reminding the politicians of their hypocrisy that they can get Diplomatic Immunity when they commit crimes abroad and u cant. i do feel sorry for people like you who think that committing crimes abroad is a good thing, and we should all be concerned that politicians get away with them and we cant....how about getting a righteous life? have you ever thought about that?!?!?!?! you think life is 50/50? u think what is expected from women will be expected from men?u think what is expected from children will be expected from parents?LOOOL. why would you expect from a child what you expect from an adult?! are you ok?!?!? why should i expect the same from a gf as i would expect from a friend? are you ok?! of course, life is not 50/50, but the minute you decide to share you life with someone then it becomes 50/50, and if you are not willing to give your all, then you will remain a loser party in this issue call out the hypocrisy of women who expect to be toasted but dont toast. unless someone makes the 1st move, you will never meet the right woman and will remain and bitter man who cant find women to open up to you. but hey, after reading all your above issues, no wonder women run away from men like you... lets see how long u will stay without a woman. lol, i didnt come here for a dikc waving contest... i am here to give you some advices to be better with women... either take them or remain clueless. your call... oh remember When u rape a woman its Rape but when a woman rapes u its sexual harrasment. how is THAT for hypocrisy if you get raped by a woman then you have been raped...no question about it....unless you live in a jungle. rape is rape, whether by male or female! 6 Likes 4 Shares |
Re: Why Do Girls Open Up To Some Guys But Not Others? by ubunja(m): 10:04am On Dec 24, 2017 |
MrBrownJay1:you see what u just did? the brideprice hypocrisy u dodged by making it personal to you.since your own parents dont believe in it its not hypocrisy.so if i get to love for 20yrs with Aids then "aids doesnt kill"hooray. if i survive a gunshot then "guns dont kill" hooray. the diplomatic immunity u hypocrisy u dodged by saying dont commit crimes abroad.yet dont explain why its accepted. and since u cant explain why your father gets to give u your surname u have to say even your neigbhour can give u his surname.and u then talk about "rubbish". and u say rape is rape.but we all know thats not true. i could go on.but i see you only see what u want to see.u seem to think we are all equal.which is a dreamy way of viewing the world.men and women are different and society will never look at u the same way. here is a little excercise for you: go stand on the highway and look at 2 people trying to get a lift from strangers.a man and a woman. see who gets a ride faster. or have 2 people carry a baby gal in the middle of the city at night.one a man and the other a woman. see who the police will stop to question and even arrest. it can be called hypocrisy. 12 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: Why Do Girls Open Up To Some Guys But Not Others? by IamLucy(f): 10:11am On Dec 24, 2017 |
Wrong assertions. |
Re: Why Do Girls Open Up To Some Guys But Not Others? by ubunja(m): 10:28am On Dec 24, 2017 |
women only open up emotionally to people they are not involved with emotionally.coz opening up makes them vulnerable should someone they are attached to use that same information against them.some things people say can go thru one ear and out the other ear.no fuss..but the same things said by someone you have emotional links with hurts to death.coz we value their view and opinions of us. when a woman is in love a word or a look from the one they love has the power to make or break her.coz she has let that person deep into her heart that that person is literally holding her heart in his hand.he can toy with it as he wants.and thats so much power to give someone.what if he abuses it! so women try to avert such an outcome by controlling the flow of sensitive information to the one they love. over time this changes thou.the longer a man proves his fidelity and the woman becomes more and more trusting the more a woman will be willing to open up to her man. 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Why Do Girls Open Up To Some Guys But Not Others? by MrBrownJay1(m): 10:28am On Dec 24, 2017 |
ubunja: i blamed the bride price issue on SOCIETY and dumbasses who gladly sell themselves to the highest bidder. get real! so if i get to love for 20yrs with Aids then "aids doesnt kill"hooray. what has the above rubbish got to do with the subject of this thread and hypocrisy?! bro, are you ok?!?!?!? if i survive a gunshot then "guns dont kill" hooray. what has the above rubbish got to do with the subject of this thread and hypocrisy?! bro, are you ok?!?!?!? the diplomatic immunity u hypocrisy u dodged by saying dont commit crimes abroad.yet dont explain why its accepted. the more you write, the more i understand why woman never open up to "strange" people with your state of mind. here is something to think about: if you commit any crime, you deserve to be punish, and just because some have found tools to get away with these crimes, should certainly NOT be a reason for people to now view such lifestyle as something to base our lives upon. some people are born rich while other are born poor, but guess what, they are BOTH equally happy, yet we dont see you complaining about that. a set of twins can have one with cancer and the other perfectly healthy, yet we dont see you see anything about that. two brothers get educated, one get to become a lawyer while the other a road side mechanic, do you raise up your arm in the air to complain. you are the definition of an hypocrite, who poorly try to use deluded issues of life to make a silly point and since u cant explain why your father gets to give u your surname u have to say even your neigbhour can give u his surname.and u then talk about "rubbish". smart brotha, show us all the law that states that you MUST have your father's name... or stop writing clueless ignorant rubbish. and u say rape is rape.but we all know thats not true. smart brotha, show us the law that states that if a man gets raped by a woman it is automatically sexual harrassment... or stop writing clueless ignorant rubbish i could go on.but i see you only see what u want to see.u seem to think we are all equal.which is a dreamy way of viewing the world.men and women are different and society will never look at u the same way. you are so confused in your mind that you dont even understand what i am writing.... no wonder women dont understand men like you. here i will write it one more time (as if i was talking to a 2yr old): IN ROMANCE, when you start dating someone, you must treat that person as your equal and share everything with that person.... your happiness AND sadness, your joy AND sorrows etc. if your foolish ego is in the way then you will never succeed in life and will remain a stranger in this woman's life. here is a little excercise for you: you write so much confused deluded garbage irrelevant to the issue at hand... let me guess, so because people who date should be fully open and honest to one another, equal in A ROMANTIC R/SHIP, so now you understand that every men and women on earth are equal in life?!?!?! i do feel sorry for what you are writing.... its sunday bro, you do need jesus. 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Why Do Girls Open Up To Some Guys But Not Others? by ubunja(m): 10:35am On Dec 24, 2017 |
MrBrownJay1:its OK.chill. no need to get emotional and call things "confused deluded gabbage" you have your view and i have mine. you will insult to assert yours but i wont.i thought we are countering each other's points in a healthy debate.but i was wrong. you are right. i am wrong. 5 Likes |
Re: Why Do Girls Open Up To Some Guys But Not Others? by Nobody: 10:37am On Dec 24, 2017 |
Lol. when u think a girl is opening up to you, are being played deeper. she us making you feel you are her confidant whereas u are just a pon. "Na who get preek wet dey woman t0t0 nai woman dey tell truth" |
Re: Why Do Girls Open Up To Some Guys But Not Others? by fuckboys: 10:40am On Dec 24, 2017 |
ubunja and MrBrownJay1, I see say una don chop belleful ![]() 3 Likes |
Re: Why Do Girls Open Up To Some Guys But Not Others? by Nobody: 10:41am On Dec 24, 2017 |
I am not a lady. Thus, I wouldn't be able to answer this question properly, but judging from the men's perspective, I will say it has a lot to do with comfort and fear. It depends on how much the lady trust the man in question. Some ladies don't feel comfortable telling a potential husband all about their past because they revere the guy may try to run away from commitment or pass unfair judgments on them. The same theory applies to some men. The reason why fear plays a role is because some of the those men and women may even be willing to divvy up this information about their past with those they feel less comfortable with, instead of their potential spouse. |
Re: Why Do Girls Open Up To Some Guys But Not Others? by MrBrownJay1(m): 11:02am On Dec 24, 2017 |
ubunja: bro, my apologies if you get offended by what i wrote, but what you wrote is indeed confused deluded garbage..... thats not an insult, thats a fact. i am explaining to you that men and women who are dating should be equal, thus open up to one another AS ONE, and you then come back and then tell me about men and women in general not being equal. we are having an healthy discussion, and if you say something stoopid, then there is no sugarcoating in my book, and will tell you just that. look at all the irrelevant garbage you wrote above.... what do you want me to call it, if not confused deluded garbage?! 2 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Why Do Girls Open Up To Some Guys But Not Others? by Blackhawk03(f): 11:07am On Dec 24, 2017 |
I don't know where some nairaland dudes get the rubbish to feed on but I'm sure they're getting full satisfaction. A man is weak when he opens up to his partner? Don't be surprised, these are guys that would run to mama at the slightest change of things. Abi a woman opens up to a guy that has been friendzoned only? ![]() ![]() MrBrownJay1, may Christmas blessings be upon you and your household. ![]() ![]() All these lil boys that know close to nothing be forming boss on top woman matter on nairaland... Hahahaha ![]() ![]() ![]() 5 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Why Do Girls Open Up To Some Guys But Not Others? by ubunja(m): 11:09am On Dec 24, 2017 |
MrBrownJay1:do u see how u are so intent on asserting your view?even when someone tells u its OK u have won ; u just keep insulting. do u see the issue?how u cant even accept a win.? 4 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Why Do Girls Open Up To Some Guys But Not Others? by MrBrownJay1(m): 11:23am On Dec 24, 2017 |
ubunja: you see it as some competition, while i am simply pointing out to the arrant nonsense you wrote above. you cant expect me to sit here and not call the deluded garbage you wrote other than what it is... here is a clue: next time you want to have a discussion, come with valid SANE point to the table, instead of thinking this is some online competition |
Re: Why Do Girls Open Up To Some Guys But Not Others? by ubunja(m): 11:25am On Dec 24, 2017 |
MrBrownJay1:ok u have pointed. and u right its not a competition. i can live with that. 3 Likes |
Re: Why Do Girls Open Up To Some Guys But Not Others? by snaiper: 11:26am On Dec 24, 2017 |
Macgreat:very true! Most girls perceived as angels have gory secrets. |
Re: Why Do Girls Open Up To Some Guys But Not Others? by MrBrownJay1(m): 11:27am On Dec 24, 2017 |
Blackhawk03: bro thanks, all the best wishes to you and your family too can you imagine what this man wrote....kai! our sistas are suffering. |
Re: Why Do Girls Open Up To Some Guys But Not Others? by Macgreat(m): 11:30am On Dec 24, 2017 |
LessNoise: Not with my experience. |
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