RoyalBlak007:

Non-virgin's will answer NO

Virgin's will answer YES

bitchcrafts:
Personally, it's nothing. What's d enjoyment of being silly Hot on your wedding night and having to go slow just cos your "virgin wife" need some extra lessons before you stressfully enter the promise land? However, in this case , the man is justified for his actions if the woman had lied about it in the first place. It's stark deception and outrightly fuuuulish. In this 21st century , it's stoopid and highly unnecessary to lie about the status of cheap vagin.a .

MatricNumber:

if it requires me just a night of 'going slow'. Then i'm so satisfied. Even if it a week of 'going slow'. Its better i 'go slow' for the first time and enjoy tight sex with my wife henceforth. Than entering borehole all the time. The space in some ruined vag1nas is enough to hide samsung galaxy tab.

ifyan:
It's a big deal and pride to a lady that if she is not receiving from the back or mouth.
As for the man in question l support his move because of deciet by the woman.

MatricNumber:

if it requires me just a night of 'going slow'. Then i'm so satisfied. Even if it a week of 'going slow'. Its better i 'go slow' for the first time and enjoy tight sex with my wife henceforth. Than entering borehole all the time. The space in some ruined vag1nas is enough to hide samsung galaxy tab.

ubunja:
the reason why nature put security features like the Hymen to verify virginity is becoz virginity and the lack thereof has physical tangible real-world ramifications and consequencies.nature didnt go thru all this trouble with hymens to just protect a hole. its a huge deal.here are 2:

1.oxytocin- its a bonding hormone that acts like human super-glue.its produced especially by the female during Childbirth, Breast Feeding and Sex.it helps the woman form bonds (with her baby and lover)a woman produces this hormone during sex and the less men its produced with the deeper will the woman's bond with those men.and the first ever sex partner the woman has gets bonded to her in ways that cant be even be scientifically explained.thats why women never forget their first.too many lovers and the hormonone loses its effectiveness.thats why a virgin gets attached to the first few guys she sleeps with but a 30yr hoe can fvck and go just like that.her ability to bond with a lover has died.

2.male microchimerism- you wont find it on Wikipedia.but google will point u to sites that are not afraid to tell it like it is.this phenomenon is hotly debated coz it angers a lot of women. the gist of it is that the sperms of all the men a woman has sex with eventually find their way to a woman's brain and stay there active even after death.scientists operating on dead women's brains report finding lots of sperm material in there. while Michrochimerism is the science that a woman retains genetic material of her male babies even after birth and is accepted worldwide (and wikipedia explains it) its the male Michrochemirism that pisses women off (and that wikipedia is mute on).even those websites that acknowledge MM soften the blow by saying its sperm DNA not actual sperms that live on in a woman's brain.but the truth is as a woman your body still retains the sperms of all your lovers in the brain.Eeuww
and some scientists are even going a step further to investigate the possible effects these stored sperms have on a woman's future pregnancies.the very hot question being: if those sperms are stronger can they beat the new sperms to the egg? or atleast cause effects to the growing embroy? its scary stuff.
virgins get my vote on any day.too much stuff going on.

MatricNumber:

if it requires me just a night of 'going slow'. Then i'm so satisfied. Even if it a week of 'going slow'. Its better i 'go slow' for the first time and enjoy tight sex with my wife henceforth. Than entering borehole all the time. The space in some ruined vag1nas is enough to hide samsung galaxy tab.

Linux007:


That shi.t is Scarry, to think that a woman’s male
sexual partners have male cells that de facto become part of their
body is utter ridiculous but its true.

DerahAlex:
I was shocked when I heard the story of a man who ended his marriage with his new wife because he found out she wasn't a virgin as he had thought. I was baffled and I thought, when a woman loses her virginity before marriage, has she also lost her capacity to love and care for her husband and family or the ability to be a good wife and helpmate to her husband?.
I know some guys who say they must get married to virgins and I always ask them who would marry the ones they have screwed.
Virginity they say is the pride of a woman. I'm not going to argue that and I'm really proud of those that are able to keep theirs till marriage. Still, I have seen men who had terrible marriages even though they married virgins and I have also seen men who ended up in blissful marriages even though they got married to non virgins. Virginity has nothing to do with a woman's attitude. That she is not a virgin doesn't make her a LovePeddler or doesn't mean she has slept with a hundred men and have had a hundred abortions.
Girls lose their virginities to men not ghosts under different circumstances. Some were deceived, some were raped, some gave it up out of love, some just lost it because they wanted to. None of these make non virgins bad people or potential bad wives. Its all in the attitude.
I honestly do not think virgins have any advantage over non virgins or what do you think?

DerahAlex:
I was shocked when I heard the story of a man who ended his marriage with his new wife because he found out she wasn't a virgin as he had thought. I was baffled and I thought, when a woman loses her virginity before marriage, has she also lost her capacity to love and care for her husband and family or the ability to be a good wife and helpmate to her husband?.
I know some guys who say they must get married to virgins and I always ask them who would marry the ones they have screwed.
Virginity they say is the pride of a woman. I'm not going to argue that and I'm really proud of those that are able to keep theirs till marriage. Still, I have seen men who had terrible marriages even though they married virgins and I have also seen men who ended up in blissful marriages even though they got married to non virgins. Virginity has nothing to do with a woman's attitude. That she is not a virgin doesn't make her a LovePeddler or doesn't mean she has slept with a hundred men and have had a hundred abortions.
[b]Girls lose their virginities to men not ghosts [/b]under different circumstances. Some were deceived, some were raped, some gave it up out of love, some just lost it because they wanted to. None of these make non virgins bad people or potential bad wives. Its all in the attitude.
I honestly do not think virgins have any advantage over non virgins or what do you think?

ubunja:

since gals lose their virginity to men not ghosts WHY DONT YOU ASK THOSE EXACT MEN YOU GAVE YOUR VIRGINITY TO MARRY YOU?
were they only good enough to get your virginity to but not good enough to marry you?
any man that marries a woman not a virgin is a loser who is paying for what others got for free.

IamHeWrites:


Trying to justify yourself for losing your virginity?

MatricNumber:

if it requires me just a night of 'going slow'. Then i'm so satisfied. Even if it a week of 'going slow'. Its better i 'go slow' for the first time and enjoy tight sex with my wife henceforth. Than entering borehole all the time. The space in some ruined vag1nas is enough to hide samsung galaxy tab.

BenShammer:
Spot on. I wonder why people lay so much emphasis on virginity not chastity. The presence of a hymen does not prevent a girl from giving countless guys blowjobs, being fingered, humping her private part on a guy's organ or even taking it from the back. If a guy's obsession with virginity is to be with a girl that hasn't been intimate with many guys, then he's just deceiving himself

bitchcrafts:
For somebody with my kind of mentality, don't you think I will have test run the package before I agree to put a ring on it?

DerahAlex:
And what if the girl was raped. Your mind is so closed.

ubunja:

if she was raped then she is worse.coz she can never trust a man again or feel safe with a man.she is damaged beyond repair.in her mind a man is the devil.
if i walk from sluts,then i run from rape victims.they have been psychologically massacred. i cant be with a woman who gets rape flashbacks when i touch her.or freezes when i suprise her with a hug from behind coz she still has rape visions and issues. i really cant.i need someone with a fresh outlook on men and life.

DerahAlex:
In other words, rape victims should go hang themselves. Or they can't have a chance to get married and be happy because someone decided to take it by force.

DerahAlex:
I hope you ain't having sex with any girl now and contributing to the enlargement of her 'borehole'.

DerahAlex:
I was shocked when I heard the story of a man who ended his marriage with his new wife because he found out she wasn't a virgin as he had thought.

sweetetlove:
am very sure the man didn't break up the marriage because she isn't a virgin he broke it up because she lied she was one , that's marriage by deception

ubunja:

and there it is ! the point that OP will never get in a million years. the story wasnt about the virginity.
well done.