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Re: At 22 I've Never Had A Girlfriend. Is This A Problem? by Archbishop88: 8:22pm On Dec 25, 2017
Probably u are a virgin.. I plead with u to exercise more patience, Bible doesn't recognize boyfriend and girl, but if u are desperate, then look for a lady to marry so as to avoid fornication. God BLESS YOU

Re: At 22 I've Never Had A Girlfriend. Is This A Problem? by oluwashedy: 8:22pm On Dec 25, 2017
Place your happiness in goals not girls

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Re: At 22 I've Never Had A Girlfriend. Is This A Problem? by Edonojie007(m): 8:28pm On Dec 25, 2017
bigpicture001:
...gloria..y don't you tell him the honest truth,that all you gals nid him to do in order to like him very much mur than you like even your parents is for him to go get money: it's a shame that gals in nigeria now sell love...
Chai..! This Is The Big Picture.
Op Learn.
Right Now,demons Are Speaking And Angels Are Speaking.
Re: At 22 I've Never Had A Girlfriend. Is This A Problem? by haylegbede1(m): 8:28pm On Dec 25, 2017
EsotericMonk:

You've gotta take a chill pill man, how would you handle the irritating behavior and constant nagging of ladies if you can't a man friend's banter in good faith.
Perhaps you should wait till 28 before getting one, else we may be reading your stories on NL soon.

Sighs*

You shouldn't have said all this
You didn't need to say all this




WTF

Why did you have to say this?
Re: At 22 I've Never Had A Girlfriend. Is This A Problem? by MizMyColi(f): 8:29pm On Dec 25, 2017
LoJ:

Hey sweerie

wanna take a ride? grin

2 possible destinations tongue
l

grin grin
Lol, dearie.
Of course I want a ride.

I saw you in the astral realm and you told me one of the possible destinations is KuvukiLand...

Let's go there alreadygrin
Re: At 22 I've Never Had A Girlfriend. Is This A Problem? by nelsonebby(m): 8:31pm On Dec 25, 2017
Arijude:
I'm 26 and I have never had any girlfriend and it doesn't bother me. So, relax bro.
this is a lie ooo!
Re: At 22 I've Never Had A Girlfriend. Is This A Problem? by Geofavor(m): 8:32pm On Dec 25, 2017
Idrismusty97:
You think having girlfriend at a age when you are not ready to marry is fun abi? You want to carry another person problems when you haven't finished solve yours? You are seeing "Happy" couples walking, Laughing and holding hands about and you think that's the reality right? One thing i have learnt in life is never to compare your life with anyone, Why do you think lack of girlfriend is what is making you feel empty? Have you tried eating pizza? Many people who are/were in a relationship wish they shouldn't have made that mistake and enjoyed their life to the fullest, A time for relationship will come. Focus on improving yourself and making money.
10000likes.

Lolol. I love this post.

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Re: At 22 I've Never Had A Girlfriend. Is This A Problem? by Nasir123(m): 8:32pm On Dec 25, 2017
Vibesking:
Read my post mongrel.. Sex isn't my priority.!

Why u come dey lie now?
Re: At 22 I've Never Had A Girlfriend. Is This A Problem? by Omelette21: 8:35pm On Dec 25, 2017
Vibesking:

Throughout my teenage years I never indulged in anything that is remotely considered as youthful exuberances. No parties.. No hangouts.. No rebellion.. No fun.. No girls.

I'm what you'll consider as a pretty decent kid. Been always studious and devote. I felt those stuff were distractions and a waste of time. so I was always buried in books and church activities.

I thought being uptight and serious would make me "successful" . Unfortunately.... It appears I might have been wrong. I see my friends who practically live in orgies and revelries enjoy life and still have things work fine for them. So I guess screw seriousness!

Recently I've been having a strange feeling of emptiness. I read up some books and most suggested that lack of love/companionship can be a major reason for feelings of emptiness.

It then dawned on me that I've never asked a girl out in my entire life. I've never dated. I never thought it was a big deal and I pretty enjoy my company alone. I assumed I'll get a girl when am ready for marriage. But hey... I don't even know if I'll be alive that long (tomorrow isn't guaranteed).

I've recently been feeling very lonely .. do you think it's a problem I've never experienced relationship with a girl at my age? I'll be 23 next year.

I don't care about intimacy cus you can easily get that without dating no body.

Constructive suggestions please
Bro I am younger than you and I have had about 3 short relationships.
Baba it is rubbish,, time wasting, focus on building value instead.

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Re: At 22 I've Never Had A Girlfriend. Is This A Problem? by haylegbede1(m): 8:37pm On Dec 25, 2017
Vibesking:

Throughout my teenage years I never indulged in anything that is remotely considered as youthful exuberances. No parties.. No hangouts.. No rebellion.. No fun.. No girls.

I'm what you'll consider as a pretty decent kid. Been always studious and devote. I felt those stuff were distractions and a waste of time. so I was always buried in books and church activities.

I thought being uptight and serious would make me "successful" . Unfortunately.... It appears I might have been wrong. I see my friends who practically live in orgies and revelries enjoy life and still have things work fine for them. So I guess screw seriousness!

Recently I've been having a strange feeling of emptiness. I read up some books and most suggested that lack of love/companionship can be a major reason for feelings of emptiness.

It then dawned on me that I've never asked a girl out in my entire life. I've never dated. I never thought it was a big deal and I pretty enjoy my company alone. I assumed I'll get a girl when am ready for marriage. But hey... I don't even know if I'll be alive that long (tomorrow isn't guaranteed).

I've recently been feeling very lonely .. do you think it's a problem I've never experienced relationship with a girl at my age? I'll be 23 next year.

I don't care about intimacy cus you can easily get that without dating no body.

Constructive suggestions please

The one good advantage I see in dating girls at this age is that you tend to experience some issues and learn when one or two things before eventually getting married,, the experience would actually shape you in termms of maturity and reactions. If yu will be getting married very soon I will advice you date one or two girls b4 then
Re: At 22 I've Never Had A Girlfriend. Is This A Problem? by Nobody: 8:40pm On Dec 25, 2017
Arijude:
I'm 26 and I have never had any girlfriend and it doesn't bother me. So, relax bro.
dis ur own weak me oooo
Re: At 22 I've Never Had A Girlfriend. Is This A Problem? by Jodeci25(m): 8:41pm On Dec 25, 2017
Come to South Africa bro
Re: At 22 I've Never Had A Girlfriend. Is This A Problem? by Rhodiumic(m): 8:41pm On Dec 25, 2017
bleskid:
iAM 56 BUT IAM STILL..SINGLE SO RELAX
blesKID 56? Hmm
Re: At 22 I've Never Had A Girlfriend. Is This A Problem? by nelsonebby(m): 8:42pm On Dec 25, 2017
Iscoalarcon:
at 23 I have never even think of having a girlfriend in my entire life not that I I dont want but I I think it is not the right time for me now
stop lying please
Re: At 22 I've Never Had A Girlfriend. Is This A Problem? by Alariiwo: 8:42pm On Dec 25, 2017
Your case is similar to that of a small boy using spirit to grow beards only to grow up.and discover the beards to be a burden afterall.

My advice for you is to man up and approach those ladies you like.. But be careful of STIs and HIV/AIDS.
Always play safe and don't be too naive or in a rush to get every girl laid.

Some 40 + uncles that have suffered several heartbreaks and still single will just be reading your thread like.. o ma se o
Re: At 22 I've Never Had A Girlfriend. Is This A Problem? by Nobody: 8:43pm On Dec 25, 2017
MizMyColi:

I saw you in the astral realm and you told me one of the possible destinations is KuvukiLand...

Let's go there alreadygrin
grin grin
e be like say madness dey your head angry

I neva know any kuvuki place. I only have 2 possible destinations sad angry
Re: At 22 I've Never Had A Girlfriend. Is This A Problem? by purples25(f): 8:46pm On Dec 25, 2017
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Re: At 22 I've Never Had A Girlfriend. Is This A Problem? by Ikmontana1: 8:47pm On Dec 25, 2017
makky555:


Lol winch grin
hi..u are beautiful.. wats ur name..?
Re: At 22 I've Never Had A Girlfriend. Is This A Problem? by purples25(f): 8:47pm On Dec 25, 2017
There's so many disadvantages. And pain and loneliness . Amongst young people. Yes, amongst young people, having relationships. You shouldn't envy those having them. There's so much pain in it, little gain. But as they want you to join them in the pain, they'll continue to rub it in your face, only show you the lovely side.

Don't be decieved, face your books before some girls turn you to a psycho dropout.
Re: At 22 I've Never Had A Girlfriend. Is This A Problem? by Nobody: 8:47pm On Dec 25, 2017
Try and get that girlfriend. Have frenzied sex sessions and get an experience or at least some foolish memories. I'm telling you, don't listen to those saying not to.
Re: At 22 I've Never Had A Girlfriend. Is This A Problem? by nelsonebby(m): 8:48pm On Dec 25, 2017
justmi1:
From personal experience I think you should be worried. I would be 29 in some months and trust me I have never been in a relationship. I was serious with studies, I finished with good grades, got a job and a fairly decent apartment. I think I have what I "need" but I wish I could be with someone. I feel so lonely. I didn't see it as an issue at 22. Don't take life too seriously, nothing is more fulfilling in life than good relationship with people.
this is another lie
Re: At 22 I've Never Had A Girlfriend. Is This A Problem? by Richardabbey(m): 8:48pm On Dec 25, 2017
Edonojie007:

If You Say His Finish,then You Are So...Gone. Just Believe Me.
Shey , Aye E Fe Ba Je Ni angry
Re: At 22 I've Never Had A Girlfriend. Is This A Problem? by folly2003: 8:49pm On Dec 25, 2017
I never had a relationship until I was 33yrs.Now,i have a wonderful family.[color=#000099][/color]
Re: At 22 I've Never Had A Girlfriend. Is This A Problem? by Geofavor(m): 8:50pm On Dec 25, 2017
harriet412:
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gringringrin

Hey, I saw it before you wiped it off. You did right, though. The comment gave off a wrong impression of you, I suppose. smiley
Re: At 22 I've Never Had A Girlfriend. Is This A Problem? by Juliusdking(m): 8:52pm On Dec 25, 2017
Guy I'm 30 but no get baby no be problem na wish
Re: At 22 I've Never Had A Girlfriend. Is This A Problem? by Geofavor(m): 8:54pm On Dec 25, 2017
Alariiwo:
Your case is similar to that of a small boy using spirit to grow beards only to grow up.and discover the beards to be a burden afterall.
Hahahaha
Re: At 22 I've Never Had A Girlfriend. Is This A Problem? by Dirkcoyt: 8:57pm On Dec 25, 2017
I'm older than you and I haven't a girlfriend once but I've got some random bootycalls .

I will advice you to focus on building your brand cause emotions will fück you up real bad. and the way to have emotions is getting entangled with females.

feelings and passion ruin everything. try to bed women to have a taste of what having sex looks like.
Re: At 22 I've Never Had A Girlfriend. Is This A Problem? by MizMyColi(f): 8:57pm On Dec 25, 2017
LoJ:

grin grin
e be like say madness dey your head angry

I neva know any kuvuki place. I only have 2 possible destinations sad angry


You're a clown! grin cheesy cheesy
Hahahahahahaha

Lol

I wan go kukukiland tongue

Okay, where are the destinations cool
Re: At 22 I've Never Had A Girlfriend. Is This A Problem? by makky555(f): 9:01pm On Dec 25, 2017
Ikmontana1:
hi..u are beautiful.. wats ur name..?

Makky grin
Re: At 22 I've Never Had A Girlfriend. Is This A Problem? by churchkilo(m): 9:02pm On Dec 25, 2017
I AM IN MY EARLY THIRTIES NEVER HAD A GIRL FRIEND, NOT BOTHERED. HAVING A GIRL FRIEND DOES NOT GUARANTEE HAPPINESS AND SATISFACTION IN LIFE, PURSUE YOUR DREAM AND YOU WILL BE HAPPY AT WHAT YOU MAKE OUT OF LIFE
Re: At 22 I've Never Had A Girlfriend. Is This A Problem? by Hussainvictor12: 9:05pm On Dec 25, 2017
I'm 18years and never had a galfrend too. I mix with gals very well buh don't wanna date yet, I feel you should try different things in life, try new innovations, learn new things, mix with ladies. I'm a programmer studying agriculture in school. Diversification is good. Don't get stucked up in one particular thinking or thought. Try interesting things. Don't roll with boring people. Be lyk me. No be by force to have galfrend for now. �
Re: At 22 I've Never Had A Girlfriend. Is This A Problem? by Uhomanbulus110(f): 9:07pm On Dec 25, 2017
What matter must is that you are doing the right thing before God and man

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