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Re: I Am Turning Into A Tenant In My Husband's House by bedspread: 10:24pm On Dec 25, 2017 |
Topestbilly:SECONDED 1 Like |
Re: I Am Turning Into A Tenant In My Husband's House by Oyebee91(m): 10:25pm On Dec 25, 2017 |
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Re: I Am Turning Into A Tenant In My Husband's House by Bsokera1: 10:26pm On Dec 25, 2017 |
Just go on your knees and pray to God, he is the only one that can save you, tell God to minister into his heart and check yourself, are you lifely at home? Stop complaining about him and watch yourself,marriage is not a bed of roses Life itself is not smooth Am sure it all didn't start like this God help you |
Re: I Am Turning Into A Tenant In My Husband's House by Nobody: 10:27pm On Dec 25, 2017 |
Did you cheat on him and think he didn't find out? Have you started to become unkempt? Are you lazy? So many questions need to be answered here. His attitude to you is not right though. 4 Likes |
Re: I Am Turning Into A Tenant In My Husband's House by pawesome(m): 10:28pm On Dec 25, 2017 |
basmur:hian!!! |
Re: I Am Turning Into A Tenant In My Husband's House by Nobody: 10:28pm On Dec 25, 2017 |
Caprigal:how did u know d bolded... Have u heard from d man... U must be a bad judge... Please if u have children or u plan to have don't judge like that in ur home... U must hear from both parties before u judge... Remember who first judge matter, no dey ever do wrong... Op did not even say from d first year of marriage if d husband showed her love and care and how it started going down.. nothing... Just my husband don't show me love n care... Then u conclude d man is evil? Ask d op questions, u need more info to be able to draw a reasonable conclusion since u don't have d husband here to tell his part of the story...hence those plenty questions directed at d op... Unfortunately she has failed to answer any of the questions... That alone is a signal that d op is hiding alot of info 11 Likes |
Re: I Am Turning Into A Tenant In My Husband's House by InvertedHammer: 10:28pm On Dec 25, 2017 |
favouredAda: It seems that you married late. May be the potency of what you used to nail him for marriage has dwindled. Perhaps, it is time to pay baba another visit. 6 Likes |
Re: I Am Turning Into A Tenant In My Husband's House by gnykelly(m): 10:28pm On Dec 25, 2017 |
GraGra247: she knows the cause just feigning ignorance she most probably have trapped him with pregnancy. |
Re: I Am Turning Into A Tenant In My Husband's House by Boss13: 10:30pm On Dec 25, 2017 |
MZTEMAR: No she did not forget. She deliberately ignored it and portrayed a story to describe the husband as the wicked one. These are the whips of women; to obscure facts and present fictions in order to attract sentiments. Don’t wallow in pity for this woman, she is the architect of her own situation. When you hear from the husband on this same matter, you may regret the comments you have previously made. 3 Likes |
Re: I Am Turning Into A Tenant In My Husband's House by 400billionman: 10:30pm On Dec 25, 2017 |
biggie10: Best advice. She is obviously full of herself. Since she cannot talk to her husband. We should set up a committee to go talk to her husband. |
Re: I Am Turning Into A Tenant In My Husband's House by JustCryptos: 10:32pm On Dec 25, 2017 |
favouredAda: Hello Op, I didn't bother reading all the advise people may have given above, but trust me, o have seen your case first hand. Your husband does not value or respect you, and do not be surprised if he cheats. He is probably ashamed of you. What you need to do is start taking your stand on things. If you do not have a job and have a remarkable stream of income, get one. Stop depending so much on him, get things done yourself, learn a new skill, learn a new language, and while at it, flaunt it at his face. And like someone said above, pray. 8 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: I Am Turning Into A Tenant In My Husband's House by Maj196(m): 10:32pm On Dec 25, 2017 |
The man is probably punishing u for something u've done knowingly or unknowingly its left for u to decipher wat it is... For starters you can talk to him. 1 Like |
Re: I Am Turning Into A Tenant In My Husband's House by curvilicious: 10:34pm On Dec 25, 2017 |
MrIjapa: The judge will say: madam is that your only complaint? Woman: yes Judge: abeg go home nd mend your marriage. You have no reason to divorce. Moreover, there are too many girls out there that will marry your husband! Case closed(Divorce in Nigeria) 1 Like |
Re: I Am Turning Into A Tenant In My Husband's House by pweeryambre: 10:34pm On Dec 25, 2017 |
Seriously something is very wrong with Nigerians way of thinking according to Nairaland, its just horrible. my dear op divorce is always an option, you can always start over again if gets too bad. 1 Like |
Re: I Am Turning Into A Tenant In My Husband's House by Lomprico2: 10:34pm On Dec 25, 2017 |
Did u trap him with pregnancy? |
Re: I Am Turning Into A Tenant In My Husband's House by mecc: 10:35pm On Dec 25, 2017 |
He said you are nagging hmmm, is it true? What did the Bible say about a nagging woman. Bia enyia change your character and build your home. See the way your comparing your self with him brother, you be like trouble maker self. Make I come dey go jor ![]() 1 Like |
Re: I Am Turning Into A Tenant In My Husband's House by Nobody: 10:37pm On Dec 25, 2017 |
favouredAda:did u lie to him dat u are a virgin before ur marriage.. and after d marriage , he discovered it was a well? If na so I no go blame ham... We can even report to EFCC and they will take it up 3 Likes |
Re: I Am Turning Into A Tenant In My Husband's House by millionboi2: 10:37pm On Dec 25, 2017 |
dafeyankee:you said it all. Boldly talk to him.. .....but wait ooo Did u noticed d side he calls other girls his wife,d man is mentally derail. |
Re: I Am Turning Into A Tenant In My Husband's House by crisisexpert321(m): 10:38pm On Dec 25, 2017 |
Communication. The key! |
Re: I Am Turning Into A Tenant In My Husband's House by enemyofprogress: 10:38pm On Dec 25, 2017 |
That's what happens when you force yourself on a man for marriage |
Re: I Am Turning Into A Tenant In My Husband's House by ben4ever(m): 10:38pm On Dec 25, 2017 |
As a man,i empathize with your situation, but the last time i gave my heart to a woman,i became a private pr.operty. That made me scared of settling down. |
Re: I Am Turning Into A Tenant In My Husband's House by poseidon12: 10:38pm On Dec 25, 2017 |
Sit him down and have serious discussion of your concerns with him. Find out why he is treating you bad. Did you guys date before marriage? If yes, was he like this? Are you out of shape now? Are you still taking good care of yourself like you did before marrying him? I ask these questions because it is common for Nigerian ladies to become careless with themselves after marriage, especially after a child is in the picture. From what you said about him not wanting to walk beside you, it shows that he is not proud of you. Find out why by talking to him. |
Re: I Am Turning Into A Tenant In My Husband's House by MakeADifference: 10:38pm On Dec 25, 2017 |
Can I say "I love you"? Whoever you are please save this comment of yours. I recommend it for all ladies. Sure you are mature and speak from knowledge & experience. @favouredAda this is what you can start with right here. peacettw: 1 Like |
Re: I Am Turning Into A Tenant In My Husband's House by Nobody: 10:42pm On Dec 25, 2017 |
The man probably didn't want the marriage in the first place. Talking won't change him. |
Re: I Am Turning Into A Tenant In My Husband's House by Bimpe29: 10:44pm On Dec 25, 2017 |
From all indications, many things are wrong in your marital life. Without his side of the story, it is of utmost importance to redefine your relationship. I wish you better moments in your home. |
Re: I Am Turning Into A Tenant In My Husband's House by curvilicious: 10:46pm On Dec 25, 2017 |
emmyluizzz: Ptssss gimme one bottle there |
Re: I Am Turning Into A Tenant In My Husband's House by 400billionman: 10:47pm On Dec 25, 2017 |
Lovelywings: I am not even happy people are talking about pregnancy. That is unfair. But the lady has not even responded to anybody. But I find it so funny that women of today equate themselves to men using manipulation and bottom power. Since she cannot find out the heart of her husband, she doesn't qualify to be a wife. Ladies, before you marry, read the book of PROVERBS, SONGS OF SOLOMON in the bible to know what your duties to your husband are. Stop listening to your fellow girls who are unmarried. Shamefully some mothers were not even well trained so they cannot train their daughters to fit into marriage life. 1 Like |
Re: I Am Turning Into A Tenant In My Husband's House by Fezzolee: 10:48pm On Dec 25, 2017 |
STOP POSTING PRE WEDDING PICTURES MAKE VILLAGE PEOPLE NO SEE WHERE TO START, YOU LAUGH ON PRE WEDDING PICTURES AND BE SAD IN THE REAL DEAL.. SORRY O, GOD HELP YOU IN JESUS NAME AMEN. 1 Like |
Re: I Am Turning Into A Tenant In My Husband's House by Mariangeles(f): 10:49pm On Dec 25, 2017 |
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Re: I Am Turning Into A Tenant In My Husband's House by curvilicious: 10:50pm On Dec 25, 2017 |
mecc: Don't talk like dat joor Woman dey sick the man didn't boda much but stood by the broda thru the broda's wife ailment. Who wont feel bad abt dat? 1 Like |
Re: I Am Turning Into A Tenant In My Husband's House by Toluensdollars(m): 10:50pm On Dec 25, 2017 |
Judging by what u posted here, i think u are d cause of d problems u r facing in ur marriage. With what i read, it doesn't look like ur character or attitude is d cause, no its not. D cause of these problem is U and only U can solve it. Check yourself, is there anything u've stopped doing which attracts him to u since u guys are married?, Have u lost ur taste for dressing and looking attractive since u r married? Are u d type of woman who doesn't care abt her stature, beauty, weight and dress code since u r married? If u can change, i think u r going to win him back to yourself. |
Re: I Am Turning Into A Tenant In My Husband's House by Unitedabby(m): 10:52pm On Dec 25, 2017 |
Memories12411:Not a bad point that just that i disagree on the "...generate income for the family..."part as not all men want their wives' financial contribution in marriage and tbh i will not like that either. |
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