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Re: At 22 I've Never Had A Girlfriend. Is This A Problem? by goziem1982(m): 9:11pm On Dec 25, 2017 |
Bro don't feel bad you still have all it takes to be successful,try and mix-up with the right people,especially in the church,also make good friends it helps in life. |
Re: At 22 I've Never Had A Girlfriend. Is This A Problem? by mctowel01: 9:18pm On Dec 25, 2017 |
VoltageDivida:He is gay.. lol... don't even envy him 1 Like |
Re: At 22 I've Never Had A Girlfriend. Is This A Problem? by osayuwamwen(m): 9:19pm On Dec 25, 2017 |
Re: At 22 I've Never Had A Girlfriend. Is This A Problem? by menwongo(m): 9:20pm On Dec 25, 2017 |
Date a girl now at your age and watch as someone else marry her in less than two years. Date when you are ready to marry |
Re: At 22 I've Never Had A Girlfriend. Is This A Problem? by Small080(m): 9:34pm On Dec 25, 2017 |
It's possible, it is the way you're raised, you living location and environment. no friend/ brother to teach you . but my advice is this..... start making female friend from your school / church move with some guys but not notorious guys a responsible one can teach you what you don't know ... not your fault, you don't just know how 1 Like |
Re: At 22 I've Never Had A Girlfriend. Is This A Problem? by Nobody: 9:35pm On Dec 25, 2017 |
Re: At 22 I've Never Had A Girlfriend. Is This A Problem? by Ikmontana1: 9:37pm On Dec 25, 2017 |
makky555:am Godwin..cud u send ur watsapp number to me..?? |
Re: At 22 I've Never Had A Girlfriend. Is This A Problem? by habsydiamond(m): 9:42pm On Dec 25, 2017 |
U don have any problem jare....u are only experienci g change just like nigeria government....as time goes on change will change again...... |
Re: At 22 I've Never Had A Girlfriend. Is This A Problem? by omolorlarh: 9:52pm On Dec 25, 2017 |
Vibesking:Nothing is wrong with you |
Re: At 22 I've Never Had A Girlfriend. Is This A Problem? by Phoniex23: 9:58pm On Dec 25, 2017 |
Hmmm.... Not compulsory and necessary.. Keep ur E-cards coming... Just tap the link on my signature |
Re: At 22 I've Never Had A Girlfriend. Is This A Problem? by Nobody: 10:01pm On Dec 25, 2017 |
U seem like a nice guy, I think u need that female companion, even if u don't date her, I think u need to have a close female friend and also improve on ur activities like hanging out with ur friends more. Just improve ur social life. But don't abandon ur studies too. |
Re: At 22 I've Never Had A Girlfriend. Is This A Problem? by KinzyeWriter(m): 10:01pm On Dec 25, 2017 |
[quote author=Vibesking post=63551105] Throughout my teenage years I never indulged in anything that is remotely considered as youthful exuberances. No parties.. No hangouts.. No rebellion.. No fun.. No girls. I'm what you'll consider as a pretty decent kid. Been always studious and devote. I felt those stuff were distractions and a waste of time. so I was always buried in books and church activities. I thought being uptight and serious would make me "successful" . Unfortunately.... It appears I might have been wrong. I see my friends who practically live in orgies and revelries enjoy life and still have things work fine for them. So I guess screw seriousness! Recently I've been having a strange feeling of emptiness. I read up some books and most suggested that lack of love/companionship can be a major reason for feelings of emptiness. It then dawned on me that I've never asked a girl out in my entire life. I've never dated. I never thought it was a big deal and I pretty enjoy my company alone. I assumed I'll get a girl when am ready for marriage. But hey... I don't even know if I'll be alive that long (tomorrow isn't guaranteed). |
Re: At 22 I've Never Had A Girlfriend. Is This A Problem? by Bayurzx: 10:04pm On Dec 25, 2017 |
Well you need to look deep and ask yourself the question: who are you and what do you want. In the end when you look back and have regrets or not you will only have yourself to blame or praise not others, whatever the case may be |
Re: At 22 I've Never Had A Girlfriend. Is This A Problem? by Nobody: 10:05pm On Dec 25, 2017 |
I'm just like you,but I don't feel lonely,being serious and focusing on the most important things in life pays in the long run,you may not necessarily see it too soon but it's very much rewarding. I can't say I haven't had a crush before,but at a certain point in my life I discovered it was just a big waste of time.Put all your energy in improving yourself,and stop prioritizing having the so-called "healthy" social life. As long as I'm not up to the marriage age,I don't give a damn about relationships.I find happiness in being successful and achieving great feats,not something so irrelevant to me at this age. |
Re: At 22 I've Never Had A Girlfriend. Is This A Problem? by habdolleez: 10:09pm On Dec 25, 2017 |
[quote author=Vibesking post=63551105] Throughout my teenage years I never indulged in anything that is remotely considered as youthful exuberances. No parties.. No hangouts.. No rebellion.. No fun.. No girls. I'm what you'll consider as a pretty decent kid. Been always studious and devote. I felt those stuff were distractions and a waste of time. so I was always buried in books and church activities. I thought being uptight and serious would make me "successful" . Unfortunately.... It appears I might have been wrong. I see my friends who practically live in orgies and revelries enjoy life and still have things work fine for them. So I guess screw seriousness! Recently I've been having a strange feeling of emptiness. I read up some books and most suggested that lack of love/companionship can be a major reason for feelings of emptiness. It then dawned on me that I've never asked a girl out in my entire life. I've never dated. I never thought it was a big deal and I pretty enjoy my company alone. I assumed I'll get a girl when am ready for marriage. But hey... I don't even know if I'll be alive that long (tomorrow isn't guaranteed). I've recently been feeling very lonely .. do you think it's a problem I've never experienced relationship with a girl at my age? I'll be 23 next year. I don't care about intimacy cus you can easily get that without dating no . Bro seriously u don't have any problem, we are in the same shoe the only difference is that I have many female friends I relate with. The worst thing is to look down on urself. Feel free to relate with anybody. Sometime when I feel lonely I will go to environment of informal people just to make myself happy for a while,i laugh and go back to my home. I don't worry about anything I just focus on my goal and pray to God. Just focus and don't get distracted when the time come u will surely have ur wife. 116... Believe. That's my motto. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: At 22 I've Never Had A Girlfriend. Is This A Problem? by habdolleez: 10:11pm On Dec 25, 2017 |
Bro seriously u don't have any problem, we are in the same shoe the only difference is that I have many female friends I relate with. The worst thing is to look down on urself. Feel free to relate with anybody. Sometime when I feel lonely I will go to environment of informal people just to make myself happy for a while,i laugh and go back to my home. I don't worry about anything I just focus on my goal and pray to God. Just focus and don't get distracted when the time come u will surely have ur wife. 116... Believe. That's my motto |
Re: At 22 I've Never Had A Girlfriend. Is This A Problem? by FromZeroToHero(m): 10:24pm On Dec 25, 2017 |
life of an introvert. I was once in your shoes. |
Re: At 22 I've Never Had A Girlfriend. Is This A Problem? by pawesome(m): 10:25pm On Dec 25, 2017 |
Do u play bet9ja? |
Re: At 22 I've Never Had A Girlfriend. Is This A Problem? by makky555(f): 10:26pm On Dec 25, 2017 |
Ikmontana1: No I couldn't Godwin dear |
Re: At 22 I've Never Had A Girlfriend. Is This A Problem? by kengodson: 10:42pm On Dec 25, 2017 |
Vibesking:Op merry xmas and happy new year 2 Likes |
Re: At 22 I've Never Had A Girlfriend. Is This A Problem? by kengodson: 10:44pm On Dec 25, 2017 |
Vibesking:Op dating a girl will not make u full..............thank you and loneliness?? baba roll with your friends na who knows, maybe one of their sister may cite you. |
Re: At 22 I've Never Had A Girlfriend. Is This A Problem? by chidekings(m): 10:52pm On Dec 25, 2017 |
1samm: Story ,until she do you strong thing. As for me it's always good to be a good bad boy. |
Re: At 22 I've Never Had A Girlfriend. Is This A Problem? by Jelal0007(m): 10:52pm On Dec 25, 2017 |
I'm 29yrs old I don't have a GF let alone a serious relationship. Its no curse dude,its a decision. 1 Like |
Re: At 22 I've Never Had A Girlfriend. Is This A Problem? by Nobody: 10:53pm On Dec 25, 2017 |
Ezechinwa: I'm also like you bro, currently in 400L, I love coding, in fact am a web developer, and I aspire for more when I graduate. Can I get your email? 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: At 22 I've Never Had A Girlfriend. Is This A Problem? by Ikmontana1: 10:59pm On Dec 25, 2017 |
makky555:ok den..cud u tell me ur Facebook acct name..? |
Re: At 22 I've Never Had A Girlfriend. Is This A Problem? by watchindelta(m): 11:40pm On Dec 25, 2017 |
My first bang i was a 14yrs old boi but am still cool n doing wel it depend on you life is all about capacity |
Re: At 22 I've Never Had A Girlfriend. Is This A Problem? by stanliwise(m): 12:00am On Dec 26, 2017 |
Vibesking:With all advise given. If you still don't feel it is cool. Go get your own experience and your story. This is one thing you can collect/get/borrow from anyone. |
Re: At 22 I've Never Had A Girlfriend. Is This A Problem? by ahmedbanj(m): 12:33am On Dec 26, 2017 |
22 years? even if U wait till u're 40 dat doesnt guaranty U gonna be succesful dan dose havin gf's even b4 ur age... so what's d fuss all about? y'all been waiting till U're 28-30, 'Who E Epp? |
Re: At 22 I've Never Had A Girlfriend. Is This A Problem? by Nobody: 1:04am On Dec 26, 2017 |
haymekus:I decided to venture into programming during my 200 level, funny enough, I could spend my feeding money buying books, although my GPA dropped from a 2.1 to a 2.2, i was able to simultaneously learn Java, Php, IOS and Android Development and also finish with a 2.1. So, always stay positive and work hard, don't let anyone tell you, you cannot do something. Having worked with various top IT companies, Here are some key areas you need to learn Arrays, Computation Time, Functions and return types, JSON APIs, Database Nominalization, Designs (Web/Mobile). Cheers. if you need any advice. Let me know. 1 Like |
Re: At 22 I've Never Had A Girlfriend. Is This A Problem? by Lalas247(f): 1:12am On Dec 26, 2017 |
DanseMacabre: Oshey ...... who girlfriend help ... I will trade any boyfriend Or potential for early retirement nonsense 1 Like |
Re: At 22 I've Never Had A Girlfriend. Is This A Problem? by Nobody: 2:12am On Dec 26, 2017 |
DanseMacabre:Billions of dollar fall on us in 2018. 1 Like |
Re: At 22 I've Never Had A Girlfriend. Is This A Problem? by Nobody: 2:17am On Dec 26, 2017 |
Vibesking:Hope u're not ugly. Because girls don't go for ugly guys o..... Even very worwor girls dey pray 4 wizkid..... |
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