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Re: I Am Turning Into A Tenant In My Husband's House by curvilicious: 10:53pm On Dec 25, 2017 |
400billionman: I feel the equality issue came into play the day men chose to start looking at women financially. In the good ol days only foolish men will sit & wait for their wife's money. Real men earn money and cater for their wife & children that actually make them the man 3 Likes |
Re: I Am Turning Into A Tenant In My Husband's House by Daboomb: 10:53pm On Dec 25, 2017 |
Memories12411: Dumb azz! I am sure that in your femminazzi-mind, you think the Bible was referring to a MALE, when that phrase was used? ![]() ![]() ![]() FYI, the use of "MAN" in the Bible refers to creations of God, both Male and Female. and it is "man", not "men" that was used in the Bible. Go and read again pleaze. ![]() ![]() Sebi heart of woman is not wicked and one just stabbed her husband in his blockus, just because he was talking to his first wife, a Muslim for that matter! ![]() ![]() 3 Likes |
Re: I Am Turning Into A Tenant In My Husband's House by Nobody: 10:54pm On Dec 25, 2017 |
![]() I have been seeing this in the movies but now happening in the reality just makes me sober. You don't need a suitsayer to tell you that your marriage is heading for a rock. IMO, your husband is not to be blamed cos from your narration, it shows you have one bad attitude that is making him to react. Personally, I dislike ladies that nag...Op, look into yourself in a crystal mirror and adjust. |
Re: I Am Turning Into A Tenant In My Husband's House by eagleonearth(m): 10:54pm On Dec 25, 2017 |
favouredAda:topestbilly took the words outta my mouth. Also, I just discovered that women grow stupid when you try loving them openly. I am talking from experience. 1 Like |
Re: I Am Turning Into A Tenant In My Husband's House by pennywys(m): 10:55pm On Dec 25, 2017 |
favouredAda:try to look more beautiful for him, visit hair spars, make over studios and dress fine. Try to grow intellectually, look modern all for him. God bless ur union 1 Like |
Re: I Am Turning Into A Tenant In My Husband's House by Mariangeles(f): 10:56pm On Dec 25, 2017 |
dafeyankee:but of course he knows he's hurting her, it's quite clear he's doing it on purpose, but the question is why... |
Re: I Am Turning Into A Tenant In My Husband's House by Ladyhippolyta88(f): 10:57pm On Dec 25, 2017 |
[quote author=pweeryambre post=63608364]Seriously something is very wrong with Nigerians way of thinking according to Nairaland, its just horrible. my dear op divorce is always an option, you can always start over again if gets too bad.[/quote I agree. |
Re: I Am Turning Into A Tenant In My Husband's House by peacettw: 10:57pm On Dec 25, 2017 |
MakeADifference: Thanks dear. We ladies should look out for ourselves especially those in young marriages. And yes, Time was and still is my best friend in my marriage. Looking back, I know now that I acted quite foolishly in certain situations... For those screaming divorce, trust me that doesn't solve a damn thing. Work on what you must in your marriage and learn to ignore what you can live with. I consider the op's concerns as non-issues nevertheless she is worried about them and that's OK. I know that with time though, things can only get better so hang in there. 2 Likes |
Re: I Am Turning Into A Tenant In My Husband's House by APL33: 10:57pm On Dec 25, 2017 |
If HEmarried u AFTER u got pregnant, He might be lashing out, in his own way trying to say HIM no want. but if not, visit the nearest native doctor to correct his head. |
Re: I Am Turning Into A Tenant In My Husband's House by CheedyJ(m): 10:58pm On Dec 25, 2017 |
Calm down madam but if u wanna cheat on him just DM OK since he's already calling a girl on ur street ' my love'.. |
Re: I Am Turning Into A Tenant In My Husband's House by Nobody: 10:58pm On Dec 25, 2017 |
favouredAda: Like a poster has just advised you here, check your interaction with him carefully, there is something you are doing that consistently irritates him. What he has done here, is that he has 'tuned you out' of his periods of happiness. This is what most wise men do to avoid emotional friction, & ultimately physical violence in marital relationships. If you were still dating, I assure you that man would have broken up with you, but since he can't get away anymore because of his kids, he keeps you at an emotional distance so you don't keep messing with his head ![]() Please check yourself very well 1 Like |
Re: I Am Turning Into A Tenant In My Husband's House by curvilicious: 10:58pm On Dec 25, 2017 |
I get really irritated when i hear men looking for a financially stable woman nd expect to be well respected. You NL men keep saying maybe she has nothing to offer. I can't remember my grandma offering my grandpa financial support. All she used to do was advice him in the right direction nd take care of the home with what he provides. The Bible didn't call the woman who cannot provide for her family as worse than an infidel but the man. Na wa o shame on today's men tueh! 8 Likes |
Re: I Am Turning Into A Tenant In My Husband's House by Daboomb: 10:59pm On Dec 25, 2017 |
curvilicious: But even women of today, if you the husband caters for all their financial needs and ask them not to work, they would start shouting "wife abuse"! ![]() ![]() You would hear things like "he wants to make you financially dependent on him so he can control you". ![]() ![]() What is that definition of woman sef: Someone who does not know what she wants, does not know how to get it but blames a man for not getting it! ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() But l agree with you, any man who cannot meet the (reasonable) needs of his wife (without expecting a contribution from her) should not even marry in the first place. he can have Girl friends though. ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() |
Re: I Am Turning Into A Tenant In My Husband's House by coputa(m): 11:00pm On Dec 25, 2017 |
Newboss:Go and live in Jupiter,that's where you belong. |
Re: I Am Turning Into A Tenant In My Husband's House by Unitedabby(m): 11:00pm On Dec 25, 2017 |
Evablizin:I love harmattan pass you ![]() 1 Like |
Re: I Am Turning Into A Tenant In My Husband's House by curvilicious: 11:02pm On Dec 25, 2017 |
Re: I Am Turning Into A Tenant In My Husband's House by Daboomb: 11:03pm On Dec 25, 2017 |
curvilicious: Some times, l feel like slapping th eheck out of some of our young men of today! Among their list of "wife material" is that she must be working in a coirporate environment...when they themselves dont even have a job! ![]() ![]() Foolish Gigolo, l call them. Why wont their wife turn them to "collect-wrapper-hold-for-me"? Everything is so upside down nowadays, it is so annoying. 1 Like |
Re: I Am Turning Into A Tenant In My Husband's House by Ladyhippolyta88(f): 11:04pm On Dec 25, 2017 |
curvilicious:You must be living in 1521 this is 2017 and we are almost in 2018.The truth is times have changed. 2 Likes |
Re: I Am Turning Into A Tenant In My Husband's House by Unitedabby(m): 11:05pm On Dec 25, 2017 |
Jman06:guy,sounds like you wouldn't mind your wife doing bread-winning for your family... |
Re: I Am Turning Into A Tenant In My Husband's House by ABSTRUSE: 11:06pm On Dec 25, 2017 |
Apparently, he never loved you. He only wanted to have some fun with you when the baby came calling. Your pregnancy made him lose 'his life'. |
Re: I Am Turning Into A Tenant In My Husband's House by maklelemakukula(m): 11:06pm On Dec 25, 2017 |
kill him |
Re: I Am Turning Into A Tenant In My Husband's House by Mariangeles(f): 11:07pm On Dec 25, 2017 |
MrBrownJay1:If she is still interested in the marriage, at least she should try fixing things first before walking out. 2 Likes |
Re: I Am Turning Into A Tenant In My Husband's House by Unitedabby(m): 11:07pm On Dec 25, 2017 |
byemx06:yeah most likely!nice one! |
Re: I Am Turning Into A Tenant In My Husband's House by coputa(m): 11:07pm On Dec 25, 2017 |
curvilicious:That was the life of yore,when a penny was a penny.. The home is being run by both parties now,due to the changes that has occurred in the global economy. Even the wife of Dangote works,ditto first ladies. |
Re: I Am Turning Into A Tenant In My Husband's House by adaxxy: 11:08pm On Dec 25, 2017 |
favouredAda:Babe he won't change, I know their type if you like give him your soul he sees you as his baby factory but he loves another, He married you for the image... I don't see why you should be in a relationship when you are not happy, If you are working class please be hard working and if you are a business woman dont stop Separate from him,live your life and you have to be happy for yourself and your child/children, Life is too short , He is constantly banging other women outside. 2 Likes |
Re: I Am Turning Into A Tenant In My Husband's House by Mariangeles(f): 11:09pm On Dec 25, 2017 |
Rosarie:on her knees for what exactly...? 2 Likes |
Re: I Am Turning Into A Tenant In My Husband's House by Ladyhippolyta88(f): 11:10pm On Dec 25, 2017 |
Unitedabby:Well if your wife says she wants to assist you please let her but don't force her against her will and if she agrees with your line of thought no problem. |
Re: I Am Turning Into A Tenant In My Husband's House by Daboomb: 11:11pm On Dec 25, 2017 |
curvilicious: maybe we should strip him of that one sef, since he wont even be able to provide her with those things we use to "entice and confirm" our affection for ladies in those days! ![]() When my lady comes to visit me at the University in those days, the soup l prepare for her sef, (before her arrival), even my collagues in the hostel will be wondering whether na queen of England dey come visit me! ![]() ![]() As in "Soup made to order", `not Eatery rubbish they eat nowadays! I was not very rich then but my dignity would not allow me to even allow her pay for her transport back to her place. I have t pay the taxi driver in advance, with instructionn to drive carefully or eelse he would have to contend with me if l hear kpenken. We even do Holiday jobs just to get extra money to trip our babes but guys of nowadays are wasting away their time, playing lottery (Baba Ijebu or NairaBet or wetin dem dey call am sef) and engaging in unproductive, idle talk... and still dem dey use whistle dey call women'a attention! In my days, you deck heavily, with your Boogie Heels shoe, Afro hair-do and tight shirts to match and even the ladies will look at you twice before carrying-on with their shakara! ![]() ![]() But last-last, you know she is already tripping for you but as a man, you still have to strutt and win her over. Charming smile, decked up attire and nice perfume at to the glamour. ![]() ![]() Abi, l lie my sister? 3 Likes |
Re: I Am Turning Into A Tenant In My Husband's House by MakeADifference: 11:12pm On Dec 25, 2017 |
![]() Hope more people will learn from what you posted here today (am going to save it and share it off NL too). Thanks and wish you the best on the "two become one" journey. peacettw: |
Re: I Am Turning Into A Tenant In My Husband's House by Daboomb: 11:12pm On Dec 25, 2017 |
Ladyhippolyta88: Yea, it has changed for the WORSE! ![]() ![]() Its a shame the people of today dont have no shame! 1 Like |
Re: I Am Turning Into A Tenant In My Husband's House by Mariangeles(f): 11:12pm On Dec 25, 2017 |
favouredAda:You have to interact with the people here, answer some questions, make some things clear so they'll know how to help...instead of keeping quiet |
Re: I Am Turning Into A Tenant In My Husband's House by Mauriceeshiet: 11:12pm On Dec 25, 2017 |
I concor nut more or less biggie10: |
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