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What You Sow Is What You Reap. by owolabiza(m): 7:12am On Dec 26, 2017 |
Morning Team. Let's read the below story as it is worth reading. In 2010 I was a senior manager in a nice firm, my future was bright in the company and I was highly recommended for head of my department. There was a rising star as well, his name is Jacob. I tutored him and tried to manage his excesses because he was exceptionally brilliant. But, he was lazy and carefree. Hardly would he take corrections and rarely would he apologise. My other colleagues wondered what I saw in him, but they weren’t working directly with him. I knew his type: he hated structure and would never last under a corporate environment. Still, he was a brilliant strategist. I handled him well and our results together with others on my team was highly commendable. There came a time I was having marital issues and for this reason, I had little patience with Jacob and his shenanigans. I was short-tempered with him but he had gotten used to me managing his excesses, he didn’t take my anger seriously. In two weeks, I had given him 3 queries. This meant dismissal and when I was asked by HR if I truly wanted to let him go, I could not care less. I had my own problems and was not in the mood to babysit anyone. Three years later, I lost my job because the company was downsizing and top management was affected. I foolishly assumed I would get a job anywhere so initially, I wasn’t worried. But 12 months in, I was still searching and my savings was dwindling fast. I decided, since I wasn’t getting any job, I’d drive my SUV as a cab to those commuting from the airport. This was better than waiting around for nothing… The cab job surprisingly was not doing badly as I was picking up and dropping off esteemed clients. It wasn’t a lot of money but it was steady. In July 2016, an esteemed client asked me to pick up his friend from the airport because his driver had flaked on him. This person I was to pick up would turn out to be Jacob. When he called to confirm his location, I instantly recognised his voice. My heart plunged but I wasn’t going to reject the job and disappoint a long-term client. Jacob exited the airport with only a hand luggage so there was no need for me to alight from the car. As he got in the car, I looked back from the driver’s seat to greet him but he was distracted on the phone and never looked up to notice me. He only answered my greeting and asked me to get going As I drove him all the way to a hotel on the Island, I had tears in my eyes. He looked like he was doing well, his conversations on the phone also showed that he was in control. Jacob had done well for himself and I was now driving him. Life is tricky and has a way of making you the butt of its joke. I cannot lie that I was ashamed but I would never forgive myself if I let him go without letting him know I was proud of him. We got to the hotel and I quickly got down from the car to open his door. This was when he noticed me. He was speechless for a while then he said in Yoruba “Oga you have been the one driving me since?” He was shocked at first but then he hugged me tight. The tears finally poured, I can’t really say what I felt but I know I didn’t expect his reaction. “I heard you were let go, I sent you a message on my other number to find out how you were but you never responded”He said while still holding on to my shoulders I remember receiving a message from him but he was one out of many that called or texted to pity me. I didn’t want anyone’s pity so I never responded. Jacob made me park my car and took me in to his room to talk. He immediately told me about his new gig. After he was laid off, he got a consultation deal with a multinational which opened doors for him in other multinationals. Now, he has 15 people working for him but he was in desperate need of someone who does the same as him and he didn’t have to worry about their competence. He just wanted to focus more on bringing business to the company. My life changed that day. I resumed work with Jacob in one week and I have made sure since then to treat his company as if it were mine. I don’t know why he treated me so nicely after what I did to him but as men, we have never talked about it. I am sure though, that he can feel my gratitude in the way I work and my zeal in doing all I can to make sure he doesn’t have to worry about the back-end. I hope someone learns from this. lf the world turns upside down, you may end up cleaning for your cleaner. Please always remember this when you act without consideration of the other person’s future. ANONYMOUS copied from OAO. 69 Likes 8 Shares |
Re: What You Sow Is What You Reap. by MetroBaba1(m): 7:58am On Dec 26, 2017 |
What An Advice!! REMEMBER; The Rice At The Top, Was Once At The Bottom Of The Pot. Be NICE To Every Living Soul 17 Likes 4 Shares
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Re: What You Sow Is What You Reap. by dahmie2013: 9:58am On Dec 26, 2017 |
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Re: What You Sow Is What You Reap. by wunmi590(m): 11:48am On Dec 26, 2017 |
Hmm, what an epistle of advice. That's why I just pity some boss and some recruiters the way they behave sometimes. Wherever you are, if good, never asume that's all, and you will never need someone's help, anything can happen. May this coming year 2018 favour all of us IJN (Aamen). Cc: lalasticlala 35 Likes |
Re: What You Sow Is What You Reap. by owolabiza(m): 11:51am On Dec 26, 2017 |
wunmi590: it is the reality my sister. God would see us through. cc:lalastica 3 Likes |
Re: What You Sow Is What You Reap. by Emeritus001(m): 3:20pm On Dec 26, 2017 |
All is well 2 Likes |
Re: What You Sow Is What You Reap. by Promismike(m): 3:21pm On Dec 26, 2017 |
Truth! Nigeria has sown buhari and are reaping hardship. 4 Likes |
Re: What You Sow Is What You Reap. by Vickiweezy(m): 3:22pm On Dec 26, 2017 |
It's inevitable. |
Re: What You Sow Is What You Reap. by AngelicBeing: 3:22pm On Dec 26, 2017 |
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Re: What You Sow Is What You Reap. by arixsto2(m): 3:23pm On Dec 26, 2017 |
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Re: What You Sow Is What You Reap. by rawtouch: 3:24pm On Dec 26, 2017 |
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Re: What You Sow Is What You Reap. by dollyjoy(f): 3:24pm On Dec 26, 2017 |
Congratulations on your new job 1 Like |
Re: What You Sow Is What You Reap. by Nobody: 3:25pm On Dec 26, 2017 |
Wow,lesson well learnt....sometimes people become carefree and arrogant,before firing critisms at them,observe,or even better,talk to them...situations turn's peoples behavioural structure upside down....when i dont have cash,i'm either down,or i'm being arrogant. 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: What You Sow Is What You Reap. by sureheaven(m): 3:26pm On Dec 26, 2017 |
I never planted vegetable and I used to harvest them free in my compound whenever I want. 9 Likes |
Re: What You Sow Is What You Reap. by Uyi168: 3:27pm On Dec 26, 2017 |
Be nice to people on ur way up,who knws,u miqht need them on ur way dwn.. 1 Like |
Re: What You Sow Is What You Reap. by tuscani: 3:27pm On Dec 26, 2017 |
Jacob knew you sacked him for good reason. At least he knew as well that you tolerated him, even when others did not, if Jacob had not employed you, you could still have gotten something my dear 13 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: What You Sow Is What You Reap. by SexyCrixus25(m): 3:28pm On Dec 26, 2017 |
Lesson learnt 2 Likes |
Re: What You Sow Is What You Reap. by chijioke17(m): 3:28pm On Dec 26, 2017 |
Lesson really learnt 2 Likes |
Re: What You Sow Is What You Reap. by EWAagoyin(m): 3:29pm On Dec 26, 2017 |
Wetin karma go serve my ex girlfriend Ehn ...she go wan die but death won't come .... What you do today determine what happens to you tomorrow. 2 Likes |
Re: What You Sow Is What You Reap. by safarigirl(f): 3:29pm On Dec 26, 2017 |
This one is for all those Prefects in Secondary School, all those University lecturers that take delight in harassing students, all those SARS officers that useless you for working towards a better life and all the slay queens that tossed a good man aside because his bank account wasn't shining. Everything in Life is just a passing phase 15 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: What You Sow Is What You Reap. by bukhety(f): 3:30pm On Dec 26, 2017 |
Life! |
Re: What You Sow Is What You Reap. by HeyCorleone(m): 3:30pm On Dec 26, 2017 |
Super Story. This one is WAEC question. English essay. "Write a short story ending with 'what you sow is what you reap'" But I don't understand exactly what the Narrator reaped. Definitely not what he sowed. 4 Likes |
Re: What You Sow Is What You Reap. by lordcyno: 3:32pm On Dec 26, 2017 |
Thats why we should be very careful with the way we relate with others because what goes round comes round |
Re: What You Sow Is What You Reap. by 9japrof(m): 3:34pm On Dec 26, 2017 |
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Re: What You Sow Is What You Reap. by Utchaykuku(m): 3:35pm On Dec 26, 2017 |
Wow... |
Re: What You Sow Is What You Reap. by Nobody: 3:35pm On Dec 26, 2017 |
Why not post the link to the article? Why're u people always trying to pass on others' works as ur own? 1 Like |
Re: What You Sow Is What You Reap. by Wallade(m): 3:37pm On Dec 26, 2017 |
@Op! That was a nice story and it is well received by me. 2 Likes |
Re: What You Sow Is What You Reap. by tstx(m): 3:39pm On Dec 26, 2017 |
wow |
Re: What You Sow Is What You Reap. by jamp: 3:42pm On Dec 26, 2017 |
Touching story 1 Like |
Re: What You Sow Is What You Reap. by symbianDON(m): 3:43pm On Dec 26, 2017 |
that's life for us all....never take away the ladder went you get to the top...you may eventually need it to climb back down!! |
Re: What You Sow Is What You Reap. by Nobody: 3:51pm On Dec 26, 2017 |
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Re: What You Sow Is What You Reap. by mazimee(m): 3:59pm On Dec 26, 2017 |
I think Jacob knew that you took all his excesses and stomached it when others wouldn't have. You sacked him, yes but he still wanted to Pay you back for the tolerance 1 Like |
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