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Re: Why Women Cheat by ubunja(m): 9:19pm On Dec 26, 2017 |
LadyMarionette:really now? i told OP men own cheating and women own reproduction coz nature gifts us differently as genders.then i qouted u. which made u enter the debate. now im asking What was wrong with my assertion that u had to enter to oppose and What have u said to prove my statement wrong. |
Re: Why Women Cheat by Martin0(m): 9:20pm On Dec 26, 2017 |
Re: Why Women Cheat by ubunja(m): 9:29pm On Dec 26, 2017 |
LadyMarionette:c'mon now are u gona go every post we have exchanged? this is getting boring its late marionette say what u must say and we go to bed. its now 10:30 pm c'mon gal |
Re: Why Women Cheat by Martin0(m): 9:32pm On Dec 26, 2017 |
__________ She feels underappreciated, neglected, or ignored. A woman who feels more like a housekeeper, financial provider, or nanny than a wife or girlfriend is more vulnerable to finding an external situation that brings attention and appreciation for who she is rather than the functions she performs. __________ She craves intimacy. More so than men, women feel valued and connected to their relationship partner through non-sexual emotional interaction such as touching, kissing, cuddling, gift-giving, being remembered, and most of all meaningful communication. Women who aren’t getting their intimacy needs met by a primary partner may look elsewhere, trying to meet those needs through sexual/ romantic relationships. Some of these same women may also engage in alcohol/ drug abuse, compulsive spending, binge or consistent overeating, etc., to compensate for the emptiness they feel. __________ She is bored and/or lonely. Women who find themselves alone at home for long periods of time, perhaps when caring for young children or even after children are grown and gone, can feel that their lives lack meaning, and they may use casual sex or deeper romantic affairs to fill the void. Women who have spouses or partners who are absent for long periods of time related to work (military service, for example) may also turn to sex and affairs to fill what feels like an untenable emptiness. _________ She never feels fully loved and appreciated. Some women have unrealistic expectations about what a long- term spouse or partner should offer them emotionally and in other ways. Those who are more narcissistic and emotionally immature may expect a significant other to meet their every single need, and also to be a mind-reader in terms of knowing what those needs are. When their human and imperfect partner inevitably fails them, they feel justified in seeking attention elsewhere. _________________ In truth, some women cheat because they receive little sex or physical intimacy from their spouse. After all, healthy adult women enjoy the physical act of sex as much as men do. They’re not martyrs, and a sexless relationship may not be acceptable for some, even if the lack of sexual interaction is due to the male partner’s medical or related issues. For these women, going outside the relationship for sex may be a logical, even healthy answer. That said, women also enjoy the feelings of being wanted, needed, and desired that partner-sexuality can evoke, and a woman is more likely to break her vow of monogamy because she’s seeking this type of emotional connection than for purely sexual reasons. Sadly, some women may not realize how profoundly their secretive sexual or romantic behavior can affect the long-term emotional life of a trusting male spouse or partner. Infidelity hurts a betrayed man by damaging his sense of home, safety, and self. The keeping of secrets, especially sexual secrets, ruins relationship trust, and betrayal causes pain regardless of gender and regardless of the woman’s reasons for breaking her vow or commitment. If a couple chooses to address the situation together, couples counseling can turn a relationship crisis into a growth opportunity. If the woman in question turns out to have a problem with sex or love addiction, she will require specialized treatment to address both past trauma and her adult sexual behavior patterns. Unfortunately, even with experienced therapists on board working with people committed to healing, some couples (post- betrayal) are unable to regain the necessary sense of trust and emotional safety required to continue together. For these couples, solid, neutral relationship therapy can help ease the pain of a long overdue separation. I guess you all should understand my point now! |
Re: Why Women Cheat by LadyMarionette(f): 9:32pm On Dec 26, 2017 |
ubunja: And so, I let the matter rest. Until you said this...... ubunja: Here's my response to that.... I'm tempted to leave it alone since you're using qualifications like "so beautifully put it". But maybe that's the intention: to butter me up, while pointing out the supposed lapses in my argument? In your last post you stated that this argument wasn't about a woman's importance over a man in the continuation of the species, but instead about man's perceived "advantage" over women to be promiscuous. And I didn't respond. Because, true, I have been arguing a different case. But it started on the the post where you cited that the facts that millions of sperms were deployed to fertilize one egg, and that one man could get several women pregnant at once, as natures indicators alluding to the fact that men were born to cheat. And I said that these were rather indicators that every man, after the first, was redundant. Hence my argument, and assertion that women are the paramount beings in nature. And therefore, I don't believe that it is objective to refer to a woman's usefulness to a man, but instead a man's usefulness to a woman. It's absurd to refer to a man's usefulness to a muffin; it's rather a muffin's usefulness to a man. And from here you started arguing the issue of self sufficiency. ![]() ubunja: And I have responded specifically to the points you've raised...... Most women find it easier to climax through masturbation. Others may have hang-ups over it because masturbation has got a bad rap culturally. Masturbation is age old, and before the variety of toys at a girl's disposal today, the hand would suffice. intimacy gadgets made for women by men egoistically copy the dick. If the real one is not getting it done...... And I have clarified to you several times that: The first time you made the assertion that the debate (for you) was not about taking instruction from nature to determine the roles of men and women (which is what I assumed by your deductions from their biology to proclaim men "born cheats", to make the different deduction of men operating by numbers on a level of inefficiency) I opted not to pursue the debate any further. But when you mentioned me in your response to the OP to state how badly I'd missed the point, I felt compelled to explain how I arrived at the perspective I had chosen to debate. And since then you have stayed on my turf, trying to poke holes in my rationale. So it's fair to say that we have been debating my matter since then, so the argument was no longer irrelevant. You're trying to hide behind the dead argument now because you're not winning this one. At least, by not responding to that post, I showed enough respect for facts to know when my argument does not support the issue in focus. |
Re: Why Women Cheat by LadyMarionette(f): 9:34pm On Dec 26, 2017 |
ubunja: It's for your sake. You're the one who can't seem to remember. ![]() |
Re: Why Women Cheat by LadyMarionette(f): 9:41pm On Dec 26, 2017 |
Ubunja, it's clear you've got nothing no more to contribute to your argument and that's why you're now resorting to a this expedition of discovering the relevance of an argument to which you've dedicated hours of your day. Like I said, you're adopting the strategy to be slippery and evasive and that's just not an intelligent approach to anything. |
Re: Why Women Cheat by ubunja(m): 9:48pm On Dec 26, 2017 |
LadyMarionette:now when u joined the debate which points of yours did u feel needed clarification by u? 1.female sufficiency? 2.different gifting of genders? 3.women built more for cheating than men? and as for 3 i put that arguement to bed with these points -women get preg from cheating.men lose sperm -women have hymen that makes men see if she is taken hence women built for one man. -women are designed to dream of Prince Charming and thats 1. while men sing of fvcking hoes and thats plural. which u responded by telling me of sex styles for pregnant women. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Why Women Cheat by LadyMarionette(f): 9:51pm On Dec 26, 2017 |
ubunja: Ubanja, READ. Read the thread. I cannot do that for you. I've been operating under the assumption that reading and comprehension aren't difficulties for you. |
Re: Why Women Cheat by ubunja(m): 9:55pm On Dec 26, 2017 |
LadyMarionette:and the issue is neatly side stepped. ![]() when u cant answer just give excuses. typical. ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() good nite. im tired of this. signing off thread. OFFICIALLY. dont mention when im gone coz u failed to mention me while i was here waiting for it. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Why Women Cheat by LadyMarionette(f): 9:58pm On Dec 26, 2017 |
ubunja: The only way to communicate is to type and have you read. It doesn't matter how many times a point is made, if you refuse to read it what else is to be done? If I could I would force it into you but that's unfortunately not a possibility. So just read the answers to those questions if you really want them. Stop evading them. |
Re: Why Women Cheat by kense88: 11:27am On Dec 28, 2017 |
WORDWORLD:Its ladies and there stupid egos. Yes i said it, ladies these days have far more egos than guys. 1 Like 1 Share |
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