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Re: Her Boss Wants To Sleep With Her. by golor(m): 7:44am On Dec 28, 2017
Write2018:
Not again. Is there an agency or authorized body that can pick up such case. What nonsense! She won't get paid because she didn't agree to have sex with him? Arrant nonsense and most of these men are supposedly married. Loosing my cool sad
*Breathes*
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Re: Her Boss Wants To Sleep With Her. by ASAMPETE1: 7:47am On Dec 28, 2017
She should go ahead after all, she's no longer a virgin. She may even be sleeping around.
Re: Her Boss Wants To Sleep With Her. by ASAMPETE1: 7:47am On Dec 28, 2017
ASAMPETE1:
She should go ahead after all, she's no longer a virgin. She may even be sleeping around.
Re: Her Boss Wants To Sleep With Her. by jaxxy(m): 7:50am On Dec 28, 2017
viktohmarkz:
I really don't know the section to send this to but I think crime should be the best.
A friend of mine asked for my help on a situation she is currently facing and she needs help,at her place of work her boss has been approaching her and she has turned him down a couple of times but he doesn't want to be cool about it.
She told me that he (her boss) said if she doesn't sleep with him she isn't going to receive her December pay all efforts to plead with him has fallen on deaf ears.
Am clueless about this and I would love to get suggestions from everyone and anyone who can help out.
Thanks.

Watever she does she mustn't sleep with her boss it's ethically and morally wrong also if such boss is married. She has to make it solidly clear to him dat she can't do such. She can claim to be a virgin if she seems
Like one or its against her religious principles or she has aids or tell her parents about it if the are civil enough to handle it. Then also she shud plan to leave there wether he pays her or not. Unless she's ready to play along with him some day cos its only a matter of time In such situations. Cheers
Re: Her Boss Wants To Sleep With Her. by Nobody: 7:52am On Dec 28, 2017
viktohmarkz:
I really don't know the section to send this to but I think crime should be the best.
A friend of mine asked for my help on a situation she is currently facing and she needs help,at her place of work her boss has been approaching her and she has turned him down a couple of times but he doesn't want to be cool about it.
She told me that he (her boss) said if she doesn't sleep with him she isn't going to receive her December pay all efforts to plead with him has fallen on deaf ears.
Am clueless about this and I would love to get suggestions from everyone and anyone who can help out.
Thanks.
what state/city is this friend of yours working so i can advice you accordingly.
Re: Her Boss Wants To Sleep With Her. by Nobody: 7:53am On Dec 28, 2017
viktohmarkz:
I really don't know the section to send this to but I think crime should be the best.
A friend of mine asked for my help on a situation she is currently facing and she needs help,at her place of work her boss has been approaching her and she has turned him down a couple of times but he doesn't want to be cool about it.
She told me that he (her boss) said if she doesn't sleep with him she isn't going to receive her December pay all efforts to plead with him has fallen on deaf ears.
Am clueless about this and I would love to get suggestions from everyone and anyone who can help out.
Thanks.
Every disappointment is an opportunity in disguise. She should not give in to such advances perhaps she might find even another better job if she quits this one. This might just be a temptation that God has allowed to pass.

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Re: Her Boss Wants To Sleep With Her. by LadyVv(f): 7:56am On Dec 28, 2017
[color=#770077]There is possibility of her not being paid or losing the job even if she gives in.

Please tell her not to do it
She should rather resign
Believe me, God will give her a better job immediately and make provisions for her because of this single act.
Let her try and see for herself
Be a good friend to her please
Re: Her Boss Wants To Sleep With Her. by aloyin(m): 7:59am On Dec 28, 2017
my advice is simple, let her arrange wit her fiance, or her boyfriend if she doesnt hav fiance. Then she tel d boss to arrange 4 d hotel or anywhere they wnt to use but nt in d ofiz. Afta dat, she wil in4m her guy dat he shud nok d door afta 1min+ of been in d rum, afta open d door, d guy wil only shout at d lady and cal her all sort of names den left and she wil jst cry.
I knw d boz wil ask who is d guy and she wil blame d boz of distroyed r relatnshp dat sopoz to lead to marriage in few mnths and even tel him dat he married to beutifu wyf bt ruin her life....
Re: Her Boss Wants To Sleep With Her. by Nobody: 8:01am On Dec 28, 2017
andymofia:
from The way the story sounds, she’ll surely sleep with the man. She’s just looking for justification to do so. If a few nairalanders say there’s nothing wrong, she’ll sleep with him. If she has the morals not to sleep with him, she won’t xome to Nairaland to ask for advice. She knows what to do.
From the story... She has been sleeping with already...
Re: Her Boss Wants To Sleep With Her. by LadyVv(f): 8:01am On Dec 28, 2017
Am clueless about this and I would love to get suggestions from everyone and anyone who can help out.
Thanks.[/quote]

There is possibility of her
not being paid or losing the job even if
she gives in.
Please tell her not to do it
She should rather resign
Believe me, God will give her a better job
immediately and make provisions for her
because of this single act.
Let her try and see for herself
Be a good friend to her please

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Re: Her Boss Wants To Sleep With Her. by eyinjuege: 8:02am On Dec 28, 2017
It's a real pity we have lost it in Nigeria.
Later the same people agreeing she not be paid until she sleeps with the man will come out complaining of how evil their leaders are.
The average Nigerian is evil, and that's why there's a reflection of such evil in their leaders.
She has worked for her wages. If she can get a hidden camera to record the conversation including his threat, she should. If he truly doesnt pay her, she should take the recorded tape to one of these NGOs that handle cases of victimization/sexual harrassment (I hope there's such). She should also be ready to leave the place

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Re: Her Boss Wants To Sleep With Her. by Enemyofpeace: 8:04am On Dec 28, 2017
The thing no dey read metre now, let her allow him to do it but she should be as cold as dead body while doing it,so that he doesn't come back for more
Re: Her Boss Wants To Sleep With Her. by crisisexpert321(m): 8:05am On Dec 28, 2017
Talk to us now
Re: Her Boss Wants To Sleep With Her. by Emmahunk(m): 8:13am On Dec 28, 2017
viktohmarkz:
I really don't know the section to send this to but I think crime should be the best.
A friend of mine asked for my help on a situation she is currently facing and she needs help,at her place of work her boss has been approaching her and she has turned him down a couple of times but he doesn't want to be cool about it.
She told me that he (her boss) said if she doesn't sleep with him she isn't going to receive her December pay all efforts to plead with him has fallen on deaf ears.
Am clueless about this and I would love to get suggestions from everyone and anyone who can help out.
Thanks.

Sexual harassment at work places have continued to thrive but efforts have been on to at least curb it.
Please send me a mail.
Re: Her Boss Wants To Sleep With Her. by VictorRomanov: 8:21am On Dec 28, 2017
MrHistorian:
Is she a virgin?


This is a very stupid and moronic question to ask.
Re: Her Boss Wants To Sleep With Her. by VeeVeeMyLuv(m): 8:21am On Dec 28, 2017
eyinjuege:
It's a real pity we have lost it in Nigeria.
Later the same people agreeing she not be paid until she sleeps with the man will come out complaining of how evil their leaders are.
The average Nigerian is evil, and that's why there's a reflection of such evil in their leaders.
She has worked for her wages. If she can get a hidden camera to record the conversation including his threat, she should. If he truly doesnt pay her, she should take the recorded tape to one of these NGOs that handle cases of victimization/sexual harrassment (I hope there's such). She should also be ready to leave the place
Thanks bro for your comment.
Truly lot of people have lost it eve here on nairaland.

The people are just full of SHITE

It is quite unfortunate
Re: Her Boss Wants To Sleep With Her. by Jackipapa: 8:24am On Dec 28, 2017
2 options: 1. Give in or 2. Resign
Re: Her Boss Wants To Sleep With Her. by agarawu23(m): 8:25am On Dec 28, 2017
andymofia:
from The way the story sounds, she’ll surely sleep with the man. She’s just looking for justification to do so. If a few nairalanders say there’s nothing wrong, she’ll sleep with him. If she has the morals not to sleep with him, she won’t xome to Nairaland to ask for advice. She knows what to do.
she might have been sleeping with hi m already but trying to be a saint in front of her bf in case kasala burst. That's how cunning ladies are lipsrsealed
Re: Her Boss Wants To Sleep With Her. by whale123: 8:27am On Dec 28, 2017
What she need is prayer and let her watch over her dressing. It could be that one that attract the boss
Re: Her Boss Wants To Sleep With Her. by barnny(m): 8:27am On Dec 28, 2017
gratieao:
Op i know it's you, my advice is there is nothing wrong in fvcking with ur boss

See person
Re: Her Boss Wants To Sleep With Her. by Desyner: 8:35am On Dec 28, 2017
Use phone recording and get audio, if possible get video.
Re: Her Boss Wants To Sleep With Her. by Xisnin(m): 8:39am On Dec 28, 2017
donsimo:
Every problem is an opportunity in disguise, but only if you tilt the perspective.
This is an opportunity to the lady, set the guy up, there are cheap hidden cams to buy, she can " give in" and capture the guy, you her "boyfriend" can catch them in the act and threaten to ruin the man.

Watch her get promotions and a raise in salary.
But she should find another job with his recommendation.
You have no idea how much further she can go with him in her pocket. Unless there are different circumstances.

She can also play the rape card, black mail card. E.tc


# to all the idiots posting idotic things here, op asked a question, if you can contribute meaningfully, shut the F up.

Very smart.
She should document everything.

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Re: Her Boss Wants To Sleep With Her. by Nobody: 8:39am On Dec 28, 2017
I don't know how to say this but what difference does it make, u giving it to some bleep boys who are even jobless

At least this is a pure case of trading what you have to get what you need.

Provided he is not raping her, pls tell her to consent ooo

To get job dey hard dis day except if you have a skill at hand/ Receive Sense IJN
Re: Her Boss Wants To Sleep With Her. by Nwaze28(m): 8:44am On Dec 28, 2017
Lets look on a bright side here, the question is if she is a virgin or not and she does not feel like loosing it on this platform but if she isn't a virgin then I suggest she should do it cos this thing called sex is jst a thing of the mind cos we do it for different reasons sometimes that isn't even worth it, but it in this case it's worth it cos she stands a chance of gaining grounds in the company but people will ask me if it's your wife or girlfriend will you give her this advice or allow it? But the truth is "Yes" i will cos if i was not able to get her a Job or be in a position to help her and i couldn't because of one reason or the other and another man is taking advantage of that then you call a truce that will be worth the sacrifice. This is my humble opinion.
Re: Her Boss Wants To Sleep With Her. by begwong: 8:47am On Dec 28, 2017
She should tell him she is on HIV drugs!

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Re: Her Boss Wants To Sleep With Her. by Xisnin(m): 8:49am On Dec 28, 2017
Emeskhalifa:
[s]I don't know how to say this but what difference does it make, u giving it to some bleep boys who are even jobless

At least this is a pure case of trading what you have to get what you need.

Provided he is not raping her, pls tell her to consent ooo

To get job dey hard dis day except if you have a skill at hand[/s]

Rubbish
Re: Her Boss Wants To Sleep With Her. by ivolt: 8:49am On Dec 28, 2017
Emeskhalifa:
I don't know how to say this but what difference does it make, u giving it to some bleep boys who are even jobless

At least this is a pure case of trading what you have to get what you need.

Provided he is not raping her, pls tell her to consent ooo

To get job dey hard dis day except if you have a skill at hand

Choice, it makes all the difference.
Trading involve two people who are willing to exchange goods and services.
When one party is threatening hell if you refuse to comply, that is not a trade, it
is an extortion and stealing that must be tackled using extreme means if necessary.

If she was interested in trading her body, she could have done that on allen avenue,
where she won't have to worry about being late to work or meeting up deadlines.

All these stupid bosses are lucky that most of their lady victims aren't callous, I could
think of a dozen ways to make him regret being born.
Re: Her Boss Wants To Sleep With Her. by Oluwatosin98(m): 8:53am On Dec 28, 2017
What a generation!!. My advice will be, get in touch with individuals with more higher qualification and issue a report, the set him up by given him a false impression that you will play along. on the long run choose a place, but before then relate with trust worthy people who will have been at the agree place few hours to set everything up and even try hiding(This must be done with extreme care and wisdom). Capture enough evidence and allow them catch he pant down .Wisdom is profitable to direct. Enough of Bleep Nigga who think with their balls. Peace
Re: Her Boss Wants To Sleep With Her. by Nobody: 8:55am On Dec 28, 2017
MrHistorian:
Is she a virgin?
in essence
Re: Her Boss Wants To Sleep With Her. by WebSurfer(m): 9:02am On Dec 28, 2017
gratieao:
Op i know it's you, my advice is there is nothing wrong in fvcking with ur boss
Such a fool
Re: Her Boss Wants To Sleep With Her. by WebSurfer(m): 9:03am On Dec 28, 2017
Nwaze28:
Lets look on a bright side here, the question is if she is a virgin or not and she does not feel like loosing it on this platform but if she isn't a virgin then I suggest she should do it cos this thing called sex is jst a thing of the mind cos we do it for different reasons sometimes that isn't even worth it, but it in this case it's worth it cos she stands a chance of gaining grounds in the company but people will ask me if it's your wife or girlfriend will you give her this advice or allow it? But the truth is "Yes" i will cos if i was not able to get her a Job or be in a position to help her and i couldn't because of one reason or the other and another man is taking advantage of that then you call a truce that will be worth the sacrifice. This is my humble opinion.
These are the problems of Nigeria, such fools
Re: Her Boss Wants To Sleep With Her. by WebSurfer(m): 9:04am On Dec 28, 2017
Wazza92:
I don't know how to say this but what difference does it make, u giving it to some bleep boys who are even jobless

At least this is a pure case of trading what you have to get what you need.

Provided he is not raping her, pls tell her to consent ooo

To get job dey hard dis day except if you have a skill at hand/ Receive Sense IJN

Compound fool. Poverty is speaking through you

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