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My Sister Beats My Mum, Guys What I'm I To Do? by Nobody: 1:56pm On Dec 28, 2017 |
Hello Fellow Nlanders, Compliments of the season. As this may be the season of happiness, not everyone partakes in the joy of the festivity, I am one of those. Let me cut the chase and go straight to the point. I'm a 400 level student of civil engineering, I've got a younger sister, I'm older than her with a couple of years although she's yet to gain admission despite the fact that she has tried severally. she decided to start working pending whenever she gains admission. Along the line, she became a cultist and she suddenly became a heavy smoker, drinker and a drug addict (tramadol, rephnol, codine,etc). At this point my mum (she's a single mother, my dad died a couple of years back) did she least she could do by scolding, reporting her to the leaders in the church, kinsmen and everyone whom she thought she(my sister) would listen to but all these efforts proved abortive as she deteriorated further as she graduated to bringing men to the house at odd hours of the night. As at last week, my mum called me and was sobbing over the phone, she told me that my younger sister beat her up because she confronted her about her behavior. right now I'm confused, in order not to act rashly, i decided to seek for advice from this noble forum. Please guys i need your matured advice here 7 Likes 5 Shares |
Re: My Sister Beats My Mum, Guys What I'm I To Do? by COFOLAND(m): 1:59pm On Dec 28, 2017 |
Go home and teach her some lesson like her father, you know what I mean. 220 Likes 10 Shares |
Re: My Sister Beats My Mum, Guys What I'm I To Do? by Nobody: 2:02pm On Dec 28, 2017 |
COFOLAND: thanks bro, but she's a cultist like I said earlier, I've tried beating her but it's as good as flogging a dead horse, she's hardened 54 Likes 4 Shares |
Re: My Sister Beats My Mum, Guys What I'm I To Do? by lifezone247(m): 2:07pm On Dec 28, 2017 |
splenzard:guy you be Man at all? Man, as in MAN? So cos she’s cultists that na why you no fit beat the cultist out of her for beating your beloved mom? Dey there Dey form good boy while she keeps pounding the old woman, you hear me ![]() 182 Likes 7 Shares |
Re: My Sister Beats My Mum, Guys What I'm I To Do? by Hashimyussufamao(m): 2:07pm On Dec 28, 2017 |
I will deal with her for you. Tell her to send her account details together with her BVN. 13 Likes |
Re: My Sister Beats My Mum, Guys What I'm I To Do? by lumzybo: 2:08pm On Dec 28, 2017 |
Why do I think the op is kinda scared of confronting her sis? ![]() If u can't handle her alone, report her to the nearest SARS/anti cult dept of NPF. ![]() Thank me later 282 Likes 15 Shares |
Re: My Sister Beats My Mum, Guys What I'm I To Do? by dahmie2013: 2:10pm On Dec 28, 2017 |
Y don't u & ur mum embark on a fasting & prayer session 4 her. Dere is nothing God cannot do, prayer changes things & people. Pls I will recommend u get dis book by Bishop David Oyedepo, "Walking in the newness of life" & "Conquering Controlling Powers". She has started beating ur mum, dis is no more a battle u can fight physically, take it 2 God, she herself will come begging. It is well. 86 Likes 7 Shares |
Re: My Sister Beats My Mum, Guys What I'm I To Do? by lalanice(f): 2:10pm On Dec 28, 2017 |
There's something you guys have missed right from the start, now it will be hard to go back there and fix it. The part I hate most is when a disobedient child starts bringing people home who also join in encouraging their disobedience. 21 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Sister Beats My Mum, Guys What I'm I To Do? by Nobody: 2:12pm On Dec 28, 2017 |
lifezone247: Baba i didn't say I'm scared. I've done that countlessly. even in medicine, once a bactaria is used to a drug, it becomes resilient. same scenario is happening, only that it's in my family 27 Likes |
Re: My Sister Beats My Mum, Guys What I'm I To Do? by Nobody: 2:14pm On Dec 28, 2017 |
dahmie2013: Trust me bro, that old woman has had sleepless nights praying for her daughter 12 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Sister Beats My Mum, Guys What I'm I To Do? by bethmartin031(f): 2:14pm On Dec 28, 2017 |
We should love and protect our parents especialy our mother. 11 Likes |
Re: My Sister Beats My Mum, Guys What I'm I To Do? by MrBrownJay1(m): 2:23pm On Dec 28, 2017 |
as an elder sista, you should have gone there and straighten that lil foolish sista of yours, who had the audacity to lay hands on her maker.... in some part of the world, you dont live to tell the tale after doing such abomination! not even the bible accept such crap! 12 Likes |
Re: My Sister Beats My Mum, Guys What I'm I To Do? by COFOLAND(m): 2:24pm On Dec 28, 2017 |
splenzard:involve police now 8 Likes |
Re: My Sister Beats My Mum, Guys What I'm I To Do? by mamachildren: 2:35pm On Dec 28, 2017 |
she is lost don't fight her don't beat her show her love more than ever tell your mum to show her love it's is hard but turn a blind eye on her issues and then talk to God he will take it from there. She will find her way back on her own because it no more your battle it's of the Lord. You will be surprised. It has worked in many families I know 65 Likes 4 Shares |
Re: My Sister Beats My Mum, Guys What I'm I To Do? by lifezone247(m): 2:38pm On Dec 28, 2017 |
splenzard:so help you God brother. 2 Likes |
Re: My Sister Beats My Mum, Guys What I'm I To Do? by Eastboi(m): 2:39pm On Dec 28, 2017 |
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Re: My Sister Beats My Mum, Guys What I'm I To Do? by dahmie2013: 2:40pm On Dec 28, 2017 |
splenzard:Somethings only answer 2 prayer & fasting, not prayers alone. Wen praying, u ask God 4 d soultn & healing. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Sister Beats My Mum, Guys What I'm I To Do? by Nobody: 2:42pm On Dec 28, 2017 |
mamachildren: Thanks, I appreciate 5 Likes |
Re: My Sister Beats My Mum, Guys What I'm I To Do? by guru03(m): 2:53pm On Dec 28, 2017 |
Guy dealing with her in a hurtful manner will make her go wild the more, visit her where she stays with her cult guys, asked her what her problem is, plead with her to rethink the harm she is doing to her self, if possible go with someone she respect the more, she will have a second thought. 7 Likes |
Re: My Sister Beats My Mum, Guys What I'm I To Do? by Oyindidi(f): 2:57pm On Dec 28, 2017 |
Let your mother throw her out of the house. 18 Likes |
Re: My Sister Beats My Mum, Guys What I'm I To Do? by Richy4(m): 3:40pm On Dec 28, 2017 |
Simply ask your mother if she will be miserable and angry if your sister moves out of the house... if she says no, you should then take it from there...I believe she is above 18, she is working, old enough to bring boys home.. She is also old enough to live on her own... you guys should let her go.. (I mean by force using security ) Don't be scared....it is an honourable thing to defend one's mother even when confronted with danger and your dad will be proud of you wherever he is.. 41 Likes |
Re: My Sister Beats My Mum, Guys What I'm I To Do? by northvietnam(m): 4:00pm On Dec 28, 2017 |
use her for money retual then use the proceeds and get ur mom a Rover 2018 46 Likes 6 Shares |
Re: My Sister Beats My Mum, Guys What I'm I To Do? by johnstar(m): 4:00pm On Dec 28, 2017 |
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Re: My Sister Beats My Mum, Guys What I'm I To Do? by FTrebirth(m): 4:00pm On Dec 28, 2017 |
bring your sister to us...let's teach the bitch some discipline. ![]() ![]() 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Sister Beats My Mum, Guys What I'm I To Do? by DrToche: 4:01pm On Dec 28, 2017 |
Chai...while some wish there mum was still alive this 1 is beating hers Love your mothers except she is making you pass through hell then.... 6 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Sister Beats My Mum, Guys What I'm I To Do? by AnodaIT(m): 4:01pm On Dec 28, 2017 |
First of all, your mother is not a single mother, she is a widow Second, the girl's case is a goner, only prayers can change her situation, while at it, tell your mom to stay clear of the born throwaway child 15 Likes |
Re: My Sister Beats My Mum, Guys What I'm I To Do? by Bibidear(f): 4:01pm On Dec 28, 2017 |
Take ur mum away from the house,she might kill ur mum and then again.......was there any problem while she was bringing u guys up 8 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Sister Beats My Mum, Guys What I'm I To Do? by Draei: 4:01pm On Dec 28, 2017 |
Your YOUNGER sister? and you never start dey handle her as a man? Police nko? Mtcheeeew. |
Re: My Sister Beats My Mum, Guys What I'm I To Do? by nawtyme: 4:02pm On Dec 28, 2017 |
Be careful not to let the advice of strangers cost you the life of your mum. When a child raises his /her hand on a parent, it should be treated with utmost caution. You will not always be there to protect your mother and your no matter what you think, your mum still has love for her daughter. My opinion. If it is possible take your mother out of your sister's reach. Then go ahead and do whatever you think is right. All the best. 19 Likes |
Re: My Sister Beats My Mum, Guys What I'm I To Do? by mrlaw93(m): 4:02pm On Dec 28, 2017 |
Confront ur mum.. She didn't birth her for ur father. 1 Like |
Re: My Sister Beats My Mum, Guys What I'm I To Do? by Archangel15: 4:02pm On Dec 28, 2017 |
Oyindidi: Too harsh. 2 Likes |
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