Heart Broken I Feel Cheated Despite Showing Her So Much Love

My wife still communicate and send picture to her former boy friend. even after i have warned her


This year March, I traveled outside Nigeria to look for greener pastures and I came back home by December I and my family was happy until when I saw I love message she has always sent to a certain man and i was angry. I questioned her. she said she was joking with the man and I told her that I am not happy about it. She promised not to do it again, I was able to read her message because we exchanged our phone and her messenger was in my phone.

Some days after, when I was ready to go back to my base, we prepared and she accompanied me to the park where i boarded a vehicle to Lagos and she went back home, while I was in the vehicle I notice a message from the messenger it was I love message from the guy and my wife responded the she love her to and they communicated and exchanged pictures.

I am heart broken I never knew that she could continue cheating on me. I asked her who was the guy she is charting with she told me that he is a colleague that he is making some inquiry. My wife lied to me. Before I could take the screenshot she has deleted the messages. I want to divorce her for this but we have 3 kids they are very young 6, 4 and 2 years how will this kids cope?

Take heart bro...

That's sad Bro.

She needs to know how bad her actions are hurting you.

If nothing changes, let me know. I'd assist you in teaching that Ex a lesson, nobody would tell him to not only lose her number but change his sim card and cut off every form of communication.

Sometimes, violence is the only way.

Cheers!

emwyy:




I'm very sure you're an assassin/hired killer

The way some of you jump into conclusions eh?
What have I said that made you conclude I'm a killer?

your destiny might be to represent Nigeria at the next Olympics in the long and high jumps.

If you are one of those going after your married exes, better stop. If I catch you near mine, I'd castrate you. That's how I detest guys who sleep with married women.

this year march i traveled outside Nigeria to look for greener pastures. and i came back home by December I and my family was happy until when i saw i love message she has always sent to a certain man. and i was angry I questioned her she said she was joking with the man and I told her that I am not happy about it. she promise not to do it again, I was able to read her message because we exchange our phone and her messenger was in my phone. some days after When i was ready to go back to my base we prepared and she accompany me to the park where i board a vehicle to Lagos. and she went back home while i was in the vehicle i notice a message from the messenger it was i love message from the guy and my wife responded the she love her to and they communicated and exchanged pictures. i am heart broken i never knew that she could continue cheating on me. i ask her who was the guy she is charting with she told me that he is a colleague that he is making some inquiry. my wife lied to me. before i could take the screenshot she has deleted the messages. i want to divorce her for this but we have 3 kids they are very young 6, 4 and 2 years how will this kids cope

Dump the cheating ediot nah abi she use juju for you.

There is a massive gap in your marriage that can only be filled if you can both live together.




And who are you shagging over there? Do you have a girl shinning your stuff at your qbroad base? Cos I dont know how you guys manage all this long distance relationship /marriage.

MrBottle:
There is a massive gap in your marriage that can only be filled if you can both live together.




And who are you shagging over there? Do you have a girl shinning your stuff at your qbroad base? Cos I dont know how you guys manage all this long distance relationship /marriage.

we have been together all these years it was only this year that i travelled if not for the kids i will not even think of her any more

I would like to hear from your wife before I can judge. you can give me her digits . make I hear from the both parties before I judge

zealblinks:
I would like to hear from your wife before I can judge. you can give me her digits

Oga get serious nah....this is the family section not romance...


@op....i can deal with any thing thrown at me by a woman...but cheating...nah

its a complete no no....the decision is entirely yours.

You had better take drastic measures now to save yourself from that woman.

And why are you thinking as if you can't still love and care for your kids without her Who said that divorce can stop a man from caring for his kids.

Op, your wife continued cheating on you because you didn't do anything serious when you first caught her. She now sees you as a cuckold.

MrBottle:
There is a massive gap in your marriage that can only be filled if you can both live together.




. And who are you shagging over there? Do you have a girl shinning your stuff at your qbroad base? .
Cos I dont know how you guys manage all this long distance relationship /marriage.

@op,

Kindly answer the bold question...

Mznaett:


@op,

Kindly answer the bold question...

since i married her i have never met another woman. except recently as i am trying to calm my self i just got hooked up but i am not happy about it

morgan844:
since i married her i have never met another woman. except recently as i am trying to calm my self i just got hooked up but i am not happy about it

Hallelujah... Both of you are guilty..I was almost on a sympathetic mood..I was about to wear my combat boots ready to attack on your behalf ... Thanks for clearing the air..

Now the question is what are you going to do about this?

Richy4:


Hallelujah... Both of you are guilty..I was almost on a sympathetic mood..I was about to wear my combat boots ready to attack on your behalf ... Thanks for clearing the air..

Now the question is what are you going to do about this?

i only did it to pay her back, and keep my self out of the thought

OK both of you are cheating


I am.waiting for insults landing on the woman leaving the cheating man behind

morgan844:
i only did it to pay her back, and keep my self out of the thought

I'm not trying to judge you but just pause for a moment bro and listen to how this your comment sounds....

I bet you won't even realize that you were the one that made such a childish mistake

But Now that the mistake has been made, what is the way forward.. what do you want to do?

morgan844:
we have been together all these years it was only this year that i travelled if not for the kids i will not even think of her any more

Who are you rvcking on the side over there? Do not go all sanctimonious on us here sir?

Gloryr:


Oga get serious nah....this is the family section not romance...

@op....i can deal with any thing thrown at me by a woman...but cheating...nah
its a complete no no....the decision is entirely yours.

brother you have to hear from the both parties before you judge..

morgan844:
since i married her i have never met another woman. except recently as i am trying to calm my self i just got hooked up but i am not happy about it

Who calms himself down by hooking up with another woman? well, that's a question for another day.

Having a frivolous sex to calm yourself down is a fleeting phase... at the end, you'll be face with reality.

The way you handle a cheat can help you heal and recover...

Everyone deserves to be happy and healthy in their relationship.
I know the trust is no longer there, but I think it's left for both of you to reestablished it or not... although, it'll take time, communicate with each other. And if it's not working, don't force it to continue. End it...

junnyjake:
That's sad Bro.

She needs to know how bad her actions are hurting you.

If nothing changes, let me know. I'd assist you in teaching that Ex a lesson, nobody would tell him to not only lose her number but change his sim card and cut off every form of communication.

Sometimes, violence is the only way.

Cheers!

Don't complicate things bro.

This guy is a weakling. So infantile at that.
If she were your girlfriend, that would have been another case. But your wife...

When they tell u distant creates a great gap in relationship u guys wont listen. The truth is that in as much as what ur wife did is really bad ,i mean betraying u like that u still have to know she has blood flowing through her veins . Try to find out if they have taken it above mere words or if they are now physically seeing themselves.

Hian! This is so mind unfriendly!

Your wife didn't just give her body to another, she gave her heart...lobatan.
You sef went to play away march...lobastart.

I'm so sorry, you two may not be able to salvage this since loving a third party don enter am. Whew, it is well o. Just go back home and face the issue squarely, the thirdy isn't going anywhere anytime soon. Pele.

Why do these people still get involved in this scam called marriage?

You get married to her to tie her down legally, ba?

Funny people!

The heart wonders to where it pleases, my people!

Use your heads people! Some even send their people to get a wife for them. After getting the wife for you the way you get Condom from a Pharmacy, what's the sense in it when you start living like cat and dogs for the rest of your lives hoping for either a divorce or the death of your spouse in order to be free.

Come on, you could have kept your freedom and still live your life to the fullest while having him or her as a companion and mother or father of your kids.

If you think about marriage critically, you will see that there is no use. 5 years into marriage, it's well known that most couples hardly have regular sex. Why? Basic psychology!

But those 2 could have been dating for 15 years and having the best of moments. No, it's not about the right person! We've seen this stuff play out again and again.

Most are married and lonely and can't even divorce because that's not enough ground for divorce! You are practically messed up because there's no more love in the bucket! But you could have taken a walk away if that were to occur in a relationship.

Just separate from her and file for divorce before she poison you and elope with her love bird.

all I could see is distance barriers

Was she actually sleeping with the guy or were they just chatting inappropriately?

While you have made the situation significantly worse by sleeping with someone else. What’s your complaint again?

cococandy:
Was she actually sleeping with the guy or were they just chatting inappropriately?

While you have made the situation significantly worse by sleeping with someone else. What’s your complaint again?

i like to take revenge that was why i sleep with some one else and posted it on facebook. she is crying now and begging I plan to make her take out that she will not cheat again. but if she accept we will come back and i will love her but if she say no then i have no option than to continue with other women and not look in her direction

morgan844:
i like to take revenge that was why i sleep with some one else and posted it on facebook. she is crying now and begging I plan to make her take out that she will not cheat again. but if she accept we will come back and i will love her but if she say no then i have no option than to continue with other women and not look in her direction

You are not even remorseful for committing the same sh!t you are accusing her of. What's wrong with peeps this days? Nobody forced you to cheat you cheated cos you wanted to....enough of that revenge stuff. If she is aware that you cheated on her and then raising hell that she did same then you are lucky to be alive. Hell has no fury like a scorned woman ...beware.

morgan844:
i like to take revenge that was why i sleep with some one else and posted it on facebook. she is crying now and begging I plan to make her take out that she will not cheat again. but if she accept we will come back and i will love her but if she say no then i have no option than to continue with other women and not look in her direction

Hmmm!! Excuse me sir, are u telling US that you cheated and you went ahead to post it on facebook? How old are you 16?

You should have opened this thread on romance section... I guess they would have understood it better.. Because right now, u have confused me the more and I'm trying to think on how a matured man with kids can post his sexual escapade on social media.. in my opinion which is not really important, I don't think you were matured enough for marriage.. Goodluck bro.

@morgan844 u r very childish, infantile and very stupiid. U r not yet matured for marriage.
I'm amazed a kid like u could open ur Wife's leg and harvest 3 kids of 2,4 and 6 and still act like one of ur kids.
U r a shame and disgrace.
Continue living in ur fool's paradise.





Who believes this concocted bullshiiit? Nobody.
Just engage the fool in his folly

Newboss:
Why do these people still get involved in this scam called marriage?

You get married to her to tie her down legally, ba?

Funny people!

The heart wonders to where it pleases, my people!

Use your heads people! Some even send their people to get a wife for them. After getting the wife for you the way you get Condom from a Pharmacy, what's the sense in it when you start living like cat and dogs for the rest of your lives hoping for either a divorce or the death of your spouse in order to be free.

Come on, you could have kept your freedom and still live your life to the fullest while having him or her as a companion and mother or father of your kids.

If you think about marriage critically, you will see that there is no use. 5 years into marriage, it's well known that most couples hardly have regular sex. Why? Basic psychology!

But those 2 could have been dating for 15 years and having the best of moments. No, it's not about the right person! We've seen this stuff play out again and again.

Most are married and lonely and can't even divorce because that's not enough ground for divorce! You are practically messed up because there's no more love in the bucket! But you could have taken a walk away if that were to occur in a relationship.

Just separate from her and file for divorce before she poison you and elope with her love bird.

Yes o so many of us are gradually taking the red pill.

J0hnTrevolt:
@morgan844 u r very childish, infantile and very stupiid. U r not yet matured for marriage.
I'm amazed a kid like u could open ur Wife's leg and harvest 3 kids of 2,4 and 6 and still act like one of ur kids.
U r a shame and disgrace.
Continue living in ur fool's paradise.





Who believes this concocted bullshiiit? Nobody.
Just engage the fool in his folly

i wanted her to feel the pain she caused me i have already pull down the picture. i never knew she will cry like a baby