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Re: Thread For All Those Still Single In 2017: What's The Way Forward? by Nobody: 12:05am On Dec 29, 2017
Safiaaa:
Im not down lol.


Kk
Re: Thread For All Those Still Single In 2017: What's The Way Forward? by dstar01(m): 12:05am On Dec 29, 2017
emusmithy:


Let someone know. I put up this thread because I know we are not in Nairaland by coincident.

Somehow, someway... there's something good here for us.


Amen Bro, cos I'm really tired of a single life (I'd be 33 next year April) and beginning to have sleepless nights. I no dey wealthy but I know say that no be reason to dey single

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Re: Thread For All Those Still Single In 2017: What's The Way Forward? by Nobody: 12:06am On Dec 29, 2017
Blackfyre:


Guess what? You will have to use violence to keep it.

The Israelites wasn't by force, it was by the appointed time of God. If they had forced their way, they would have perished and never fulfilled what God had for them.

When you do things out of desperation, it most times ends badly and that is because the time is not yet right for that thing to be done. When the time is right, it will happen with little to no effort with far less cost than if you had forced your way with it.

STOP blowing all those grammars. If you are single and you want to get someone here in Nairaland, get them. Cheers.

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Re: Thread For All Those Still Single In 2017: What's The Way Forward? by lexy2014: 12:06am On Dec 29, 2017
Safiaaa:
hmm i like that analogy. very nice smiley
tnx. Its late here in Nigeria(dont how it is @ ur end)and I must retire 2 bed. Let me take ur case 2 our meeting 2 night so we can continue this discussion. Is that OK by u?
Re: Thread For All Those Still Single In 2017: What's The Way Forward? by Nobody: 12:06am On Dec 29, 2017
na fight...
Jupxter:



Kk
Re: Thread For All Those Still Single In 2017: What's The Way Forward? by Nobody: 12:06am On Dec 29, 2017
dumo1:

Be there looking for sparks, connections and electric shock you will tell me whether you want to date a mechanic who changes spark plugs or an electrician who deals with wires and connections. Sister make up your mind before you turn aunty Gwegs


grin grin grin
I still d laff
I can't stop laughing
About to stop laughing
My chest oooooooooooo
I no fit stop to d laff...............

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Re: Thread For All Those Still Single In 2017: What's The Way Forward? by Divay22(f): 12:07am On Dec 29, 2017
Kingdov:

bae are u sure dis one is comin from d most fertile part of ur heart
If it's not, my( imaginary) relationship should be going to 2 years now.
My being single is a personal choice. (some walks in life, you have to take alone)
Re: Thread For All Those Still Single In 2017: What's The Way Forward? by Nobody: 12:07am On Dec 29, 2017
Safiaaa:
na fight...


Haba. I had to respond nah. Kk means Okay !
Re: Thread For All Those Still Single In 2017: What's The Way Forward? by Nobody: 12:07am On Dec 29, 2017
lexy2014:
tnx. Its late here in Nigeria(dont how it is @ ur end)and I must retire 2 bed. Let me take ur case 2 our meeting 2 night so we can continue this discussion. Is that OK by u?
thats fine
Re: Thread For All Those Still Single In 2017: What's The Way Forward? by Silumi(f): 12:07am On Dec 29, 2017
emusmithy:


I think there's this "freedom" attached to being single that's hard to let go.
Yeah I think this is my own problem! The freedom of being accountable to no one but yourself and freedom to have friends off all gender as you like
Re: Thread For All Those Still Single In 2017: What's The Way Forward? by Nobody: 12:07am On Dec 29, 2017
Jupxter:



Haba. I had to respond nah. Kk means Okay !
sounded like u were angry but okay..
Re: Thread For All Those Still Single In 2017: What's The Way Forward? by nkemdi89(f): 12:08am On Dec 29, 2017
dafeyankee:
Well.

I think in my own case I am just plain selfish. I have everything any young man wishes for,and then some.

But my brother, each day you see a woman you think is better than the one of yesterday.

So much women out there, it is so difficult to pick one out especially when you are a comfortable guy and don't know if they are pretending around you because of your comfort.

Anyway 2018 is not going to escape me.

Kpatakpata I go village go marry village girl.
You are not selfish, just that you have not meet the right person, with the right connection, when it clicks you will overlook most of those flaws giving you concern at the moment. Most women including me look out for comfortable men, not because they (we) are lazy, but there is always a psychological attachment to financial security, our parents in those days had little and no gadget, but they managed themselves. Most of our girls will never have that patience especially with the advents of social media, a struggling woman or a working won't like to go below the present standard she is and funny enough most decent girls are not privileged to have men spending on them and the other categories of girls( which I won't like to downgrade as hoes) are always after spending and they get the good guys because unlike poles always attract

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Re: Thread For All Those Still Single In 2017: What's The Way Forward? by 4words: 12:08am On Dec 29, 2017
Divay22:
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Okay
Now that you've guessed right, what can i do with it...
My being single is a personal thing, I am doing it deliberately.. smiley


Single or not, what i wrote in the other thread is true.... And this your moniker, hope it's not someone I have vowed to ignore no matter his words or what he does undecided

And for the bolded, lol it's not a sure thing.


Lol

You will hardly find me commenting on nairaland posts. I don't know what got into me tonight. We'll my commenting comes with season cheesy . So I am sure not the someone.

And as for your being single, your comment on the other trend was quite subjective. Though I read all other comments and I couldn't agree more and that's why I had to modify.

Right now, I am guessing you're going to be... grin
Re: Thread For All Those Still Single In 2017: What's The Way Forward? by Nobody: 12:09am On Dec 29, 2017
dstar01:


Amen Bro, cos I'm really tired of a single life (I'd be 33 next year April) and beginning to have sleepless nights. I no dey wealthy but I know say that no be reason to dey single


True @ thee's no reason to be single. I'm having this exact feeling now. But we need to be prayerful about our relationship o !

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Re: Thread For All Those Still Single In 2017: What's The Way Forward? by Nobody: 12:09am On Dec 29, 2017
Yuneehk:
For me to get into a relationship, there's got to be atleast some sortta spark, likeness, and connection with that special someone. I'm yet to find that person who my heart connects with. Hopefully, come 2018, I'll meet him.
This your spark and connection na hin one gal dy talk yesterday.... It's good sha if you eventually find it

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Re: Thread For All Those Still Single In 2017: What's The Way Forward? by Nobody: 12:09am On Dec 29, 2017
emusmithy:


STOP blowing all those grammars. If you are single and you want to get someone here in Nairaland, get them. Cheers.

Na wah oh....see me see trouble oh

Na loneliness dey worry people like this? Looking for a companion for life is not as casual as most of you all are making it seem oh....undecided

Anyways, i leave thread for una..
Re: Thread For All Those Still Single In 2017: What's The Way Forward? by Nobody: 12:10am On Dec 29, 2017
Jupxter:



You sound overly optimistic. I like the zing in your flow. Wished life made things this easy. I think i'll just spectate

My bro, it's that easy. I've lived a melancholic life for years. It ain't gonna get you the best.

Sometimes, you just have to take some steps, towards your goal
Re: Thread For All Those Still Single In 2017: What's The Way Forward? by Nobody: 12:11am On Dec 29, 2017
Blackhawk03:



I reject evil!
Re: Thread For All Those Still Single In 2017: What's The Way Forward? by Nobody: 12:11am On Dec 29, 2017
Safiaaa:
sounded like u were angry but okay..


Lol. Not in the mood to date o. Just kidding myself
Re: Thread For All Those Still Single In 2017: What's The Way Forward? by Silumi(f): 12:11am On Dec 29, 2017
emusmithy:


Not so. I mean, you declaring your relationship status thus inviting suitable ladies to file in.

Love is a word that has so many responsibilities.
Without those responsibilities, there's no love.

Just meet someone first, love can grow from there. It works all the time.
The growth is for how long because sometimes it just never comes.experience
Re: Thread For All Those Still Single In 2017: What's The Way Forward? by Nobody: 12:11am On Dec 29, 2017
emusmithy:


Yh Bro. I have missed my chances like you. I know how it feels. She told me later after she has said YES to him.

I became a lifetime Friend of hers. She was a motivation to me. embarassed

Re: Thread For All Those Still Single In 2017: What's The Way Forward? by dstar01(m): 12:12am On Dec 29, 2017
Jupxter:



True @ thee's no reason to be single. I'm having this exact feeling now. But we need to be prayerful about our relationship o !

Yea we need to be...still I'm not not happy at all

the fact that when things get tough, there's no partner by my side to comfort me and encourage me makes it worse.

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Re: Thread For All Those Still Single In 2017: What's The Way Forward? by Nobody: 12:12am On Dec 29, 2017
realoscar84:
This guy sef, kukuma kill me with laughter na. If I tell U say life never tire me eh, na lie I dey lie. Sometimes I look in the mirror n I can't recognise myself anymore. As i no fit toast woman again, na im I know say village people are on top of my situation. Everything I say to people, both male n female throughout this year is interpreted in wrong way. I reminisce my life during my undergraduate days n I remember, though I was neither in premiership nor champions league but I was a top striker in Coca-Cola championship. Then what went wrong? I know I don't look like TREY SONG but I'm not ARISTIDE BANCE too. Folks, I tire no be small.

uote author=biggie10 post=63634533]Omo our Village people have tried this year ooo

Asin they were in top form,

every calamity was a hit back to back, from not having any reasonable savings since January to not having a reasonable relationship with God or Man.

Hats off to those guys, they really tried

grin
Re: Thread For All Those Still Single In 2017: What's The Way Forward? by Nobody: 12:12am On Dec 29, 2017
Silumi:

Yeah I think this is my own problem! The freedom of being accountable to no one but yourself and freedom to have friends off all gender as you like

But how long?
Re: Thread For All Those Still Single In 2017: What's The Way Forward? by Nobody: 12:12am On Dec 29, 2017
emusmithy:


My bro, it's that easy. I've lived a melancholic life for years. It ain't gonna get you the best.

Sometimes, you just have to take some steps, towards your goal


Okay, so are you single? Tell us your love story
Re: Thread For All Those Still Single In 2017: What's The Way Forward? by Nobody: 12:13am On Dec 29, 2017
Jupxter:



Lol. Not in the mood to date o. Just kidding myself
Why
Re: Thread For All Those Still Single In 2017: What's The Way Forward? by Coldfeets: 12:13am On Dec 29, 2017
dafeyankee:
Well.

I think in my own case I am just plain selfish. I have everything any young man wishes for,and then some.

But my brother, each day you see a woman you think is better than the one of yesterday.

So much women out there, it is so difficult to pick one out especially when you are a comfortable guy and don't know if they are pretending around you because of your comfort.

Anyway 2018 is not going to escape me.

Kpatakpata I go village go marry village girl.

Rubbish.

You go still talk this same nonsense by this time next year, mark my words.

The truth be say you already know wetin be your true problem.

But for your own good and intetest, make I no talk am here.
Re: Thread For All Those Still Single In 2017: What's The Way Forward? by dstar01(m): 12:13am On Dec 29, 2017
Silumi:

The growth is for how long because sometimes it just never comes.experience

Madam pls try to fix a pix on your profile, Thanks in advance
Re: Thread For All Those Still Single In 2017: What's The Way Forward? by Nobody: 12:13am On Dec 29, 2017
dstar01:


Yea we need to be...still I'm not not happy at all

the fact that when things get tough, there's no partner by my side to comfort me and encourage me makes it worse.


I can imagine. But there's difference between been bored and being lonely. Have a relationship with the Lord, pray about it and then search

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Re: Thread For All Those Still Single In 2017: What's The Way Forward? by CentaurXLV(m): 12:13am On Dec 29, 2017
Mynd44:

No GF.

Single to stupor

You know it's totally normal and not in the least surprising seeing as it's you. undecided

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Re: Thread For All Those Still Single In 2017: What's The Way Forward? by jclassiq(m): 12:14am On Dec 29, 2017
I sincerely need a wife this coming year. May God in his infinite mercy provide me a Humble and Good natured woman to settle down with.

I can't wait
Re: Thread For All Those Still Single In 2017: What's The Way Forward? by Nobody: 12:14am On Dec 29, 2017
Safiaaa:
Why


I think i need to find myself first ! May July, i could try. Work is imperative to me at the moment

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