Safiaaa:
Im not down lol.

emusmithy:


Let someone know. I put up this thread because I know we are not in Nairaland by coincident.

Somehow, someway... there's something good here for us.

Blackfyre:


Guess what? You will have to use violence to keep it.

The Israelites wasn't by force, it was by the appointed time of God. If they had forced their way, they would have perished and never fulfilled what God had for them.

When you do things out of desperation, it most times ends badly and that is because the time is not yet right for that thing to be done. When the time is right, it will happen with little to no effort with far less cost than if you had forced your way with it.

Safiaaa:
hmm i like that analogy. very nice

Jupxter:



Kk

dumo1:

Be there looking for sparks, connections and electric shock you will tell me whether you want to date a mechanic who changes spark plugs or an electrician who deals with wires and connections. Sister make up your mind before you turn aunty Gwegs

Kingdov:

bae are u sure dis one is comin from d most fertile part of ur heart

Safiaaa:
na fight...

lexy2014:
tnx. Its late here in Nigeria(dont how it is @ ur end)and I must retire 2 bed. Let me take ur case 2 our meeting 2 night so we can continue this discussion. Is that OK by u?

emusmithy:


I think there's this "freedom" attached to being single that's hard to let go.

Jupxter:



Haba. I had to respond nah. Kk means Okay !

dafeyankee:
Well.

I think in my own case I am just plain selfish. I have everything any young man wishes for,and then some.

But my brother, each day you see a woman you think is better than the one of yesterday.

So much women out there, it is so difficult to pick one out especially when you are a comfortable guy and don't know if they are pretending around you because of your comfort.

Anyway 2018 is not going to escape me.

Kpatakpata I go village go marry village girl.

Divay22:
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Okay
Now that you've guessed right, what can i do with it...
My being single is a personal thing, I am doing it deliberately..


Single or not, what i wrote in the other thread is true.... And this your moniker, hope it's not someone I have vowed to ignore no matter his words or what he does

And for the bolded, lol it's not a sure thing.

dstar01:


Amen Bro, cos I'm really tired of a single life (I'd be 33 next year April) and beginning to have sleepless nights. I no dey wealthy but I know say that no be reason to dey single

Yuneehk:
For me to get into a relationship, there's got to be atleast some sortta spark, likeness, and connection with that special someone. I'm yet to find that person who my heart connects with. Hopefully, come 2018, I'll meet him.

emusmithy:


STOP blowing all those grammars. If you are single and you want to get someone here in Nairaland, get them. Cheers.

Jupxter:



You sound overly optimistic. I like the zing in your flow. Wished life made things this easy. I think i'll just spectate

Blackhawk03:



I reject evil!

Safiaaa:
sounded like u were angry but okay..

emusmithy:


Not so. I mean, you declaring your relationship status thus inviting suitable ladies to file in.

Love is a word that has so many responsibilities.
Without those responsibilities, there's no love.

Just meet someone first, love can grow from there. It works all the time.

emusmithy:


Yh Bro. I have missed my chances like you. I know how it feels. She told me later after she has said YES to him.

I became a lifetime Friend of hers. She was a motivation to me.

Jupxter:



True @ thee's no reason to be single. I'm having this exact feeling now. But we need to be prayerful about our relationship o !

realoscar84:
This guy sef, kukuma kill me with laughter na. If I tell U say life never tire me eh, na lie I dey lie. Sometimes I look in the mirror n I can't recognise myself anymore. As i no fit toast woman again, na im I know say village people are on top of my situation. Everything I say to people, both male n female throughout this year is interpreted in wrong way. I reminisce my life during my undergraduate days n I remember, though I was neither in premiership nor champions league but I was a top striker in Coca-Cola championship. Then what went wrong? I know I don't look like TREY SONG but I'm not ARISTIDE BANCE too. Folks, I tire no be small.

uote author=biggie10 post=63634533]Omo our Village people have tried this year ooo

Asin they were in top form,

every calamity was a hit back to back, from not having any reasonable savings since January to not having a reasonable relationship with God or Man.

Hats off to those guys, they really tried

Silumi:

Yeah I think this is my own problem! The freedom of being accountable to no one but yourself and freedom to have friends off all gender as you like

emusmithy:


My bro, it's that easy. I've lived a melancholic life for years. It ain't gonna get you the best.

Sometimes, you just have to take some steps, towards your goal

Jupxter:



Lol. Not in the mood to date o. Just kidding myself

dafeyankee:
Well.

I think in my own case I am just plain selfish. I have everything any young man wishes for,and then some.

But my brother, each day you see a woman you think is better than the one of yesterday.

So much women out there, it is so difficult to pick one out especially when you are a comfortable guy and don't know if they are pretending around you because of your comfort.

Anyway 2018 is not going to escape me.

Kpatakpata I go village go marry village girl.

Silumi:

The growth is for how long because sometimes it just never comes.experience

dstar01:


Yea we need to be...still I'm not not happy at all

the fact that when things get tough, there's no partner by my side to comfort me and encourage me makes it worse.

Mynd44:

No GF.

Single to stupor

You know it's totally normal and not in the least surprising seeing as it's you.

Safiaaa:
Why