Silumi:

The growth is for how long because sometimes it just never comes.experience

Jupxter:



I can imagine. But there's difference between been bored and being lonely. Have a relationship with the Lord, pray about it and then search

Joislim:
I was too heartbroken this year to think of relationship.

Secondly, I'm broke. It discourages me a lot from relationship.
2018 won't pass me by tho

iamJ:
and it was finished


bar man, my check pls

bouncing out of here like
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dstar01:


Thanks Bro, I'll do just that and I pray things turns out well for us in all aspects of our lives as we step into the new year

Jupxter:



I think i need to find myself first ! May July, i could try. Work is imperative to me at the moment

Jupxter:



Okay, so are you single? Tell us your love story

emusmithy:


My love story is...

I'm single and searching.

Safiaaa:
whats your age range

Jupxter:



Early 30

Jupxter:



Amen, I suggest you start saving up for marriage while you expect the lady to come

Jupxter:



Wow. With this enthusiasm, i could have assumed you found love !

Safiaaa:
Wow okay. I hope you find what you're looking for

Disneylady:
I don't even know why I'm still single sef......

Disneylady:
I don't even know why I'm still single sef......

Divay22:


(some walks in life, you have to take alone)

Safiaaa:
I just want real love

Jupxter:



Nah, It's work the first half of the year. 13 hours a day. I need money jare, once i hit gold, i'll start searching

IFearGod:
Hey

Disneylady:
I don't even know why I'm still single sef......

Safiaaa:
hey

Safiaaa:
Just look after yourself in the process. Your health comes first.

nkemdi89:

You are not selfish, just that you have not meet the right person, with the right connection, when it clicks you will overlook most of those flaws giving you concern at the moment. Most women including me look out for comfortable men, not because they (we) are lazy, but there is always a psychological attachment to financial security, our parents in those days had little and no gadget, but they managed themselves. Most of our girls will never have that patience especially with the advents of social media, a struggling woman or a working won't like to go below the present standard she is and funny enough most decent girls are not privileged to have men spending on them and the other categories of girls( which I won't like to downgrade as hoes) are always after spending and they get the good guys because unlike poles always attract

emusmithy:
The year is about to end and some of us have not yet found that special one.

It's not funny �. Work, work and work but no real lady or guy to call at the end of the day's job to tell how your day went, without the fear that they're not 'karashikas' or 'playboys'.

What's stopped you from kick-starting that relationship?


- Low income
- Not too cute
- Fear of getting on with the wrong guy/girl
- Your village people
- Too choosy
- Too much shakara(forming)
- Waiting for the perfect man



DO YOU BELIEVE YOU CAN FIND YOUR SOUL-MATE here as you would in your workplace, church, neighborhood etc?

Let's stop seeing ourselves as 'virtual beings'- I believe you could meet someone here and actually start something that will culminate into marriage.


Well, I'm just thinking aloud. I even heard Mynd44 is still "available", if you know what I mean. I think lalasticlal.a is still searching too.

You see a cute, prospective and hardworking guy and the next thing you hear, he is single. Same for the ladies. Igwe must hear this!!!


Let's analyse this menace and profer the way forward. Next Year 2017; We've got to have lots of weddings.


Pass the ball...

Jupxter:



When a nail seven zeros monthly i'll attend to that, i don't care if i thin-out first. When i hit seven zeros monthly, maybe i'll start focusing on myself.

Safiaaa:
money is important but its not everything. You'll probably realise that when you reach your goal.

emusmithy:


Maybe you're too choosy...just maybe

biggie10:

I'm coming