Guys get this straight inside your head, women with high sexual marketing value will always have the upper hand when it comes to dating because at that time they have lots of options. There are so many nice guys who literally beg women to reply their message, to go on a date with them, for her attention. As long as these men exist, those women will continue to have the upper hand.

Many men have been told beautiful lies which has become a psychological precondition in their mind that they have to play nice, try not to offend her, otherwise they will not get her sexual reward and this is why most men beg women for a date that will cost them money, time and attention. A woman knows that she has to earn the right to a date with the man who knows what he's doing, but takes pride in knowing that many men are ignorance. She celebrate this ignorance of men and use it against them.

A Date is a post reward for her offering you a great sex, NOT a pre-reward. A Date is AFTER not BEFORE! Why take her on a Date when she has not earned it? That's like trying to buy or bribe her to like you because you're not good enough. If you so desperate to take her out BEFORE reward, then go for a hangout.

There are many ways I would love to share with you about how not to run out of what to say when you are with a woman but it's better I talk about two ways in this essay, a comprehensive essay on this will still be publish on an upcoming material.

1. Question Her Belief or Notion

Now, many nice guys say the usual sweet talk, that she's heard over and over again and this is like watching the same story in a movie but different title. Because she's heard all this sweet words, complement before, she already have an already made answers for you. This happens to all of us, our subconscious have already created a default answer to questions people ask us regularly, that's why we don't think about the answers when we respond. For example, some one ask you 'how far', you already know the response without thinking about it. This makes you not interesting , just one of the random the same set of guys she always bump into.

The right way not to be that same type of guy is for example, she tells you something about herself like “I visit this place sometimes” probe her further, ask her why? What do you like about this place? There are a lot of other place you could visit and so on...Now she's going to respond because you're talking about her, everyone is motivated by self interest and you're giving her an opportunity to talk about herself and also make her think about the reason, idea, motives of why she does what she does.

She will feel a special connection with you and notice how you made her think differently from all the guys she has met, she's going to feel a sense of maturity from you because you asked questions that probed her beliefs and she didn't have an already made answers for, this made her defenseless and expanded the scope of your conversations.

2. Only Reward Bit by Bit as She Earns it:

Here is the difference between the WEAK & STABLE guys (beta) and the STRONG & UNPREDICTABLE guys (alpha).

WEAK & STABLE: This guys take every opportunity to reward the woman without her earning it, he begs to do this because he's made to believe it's the right thing to do. Don't get me wrong, this is not to say you should treat ladies poorly, NO! (My aim is for you to understand the sexual dynamics of men and women, how women use your ignorance as strength to oppress you ).

STRONG & UNPREDICTABLE: Basically what the strong and unpredictable guys do is the same exact thing the nice guys does ONLY this time the reward come after she's earned it, so he's still saying the same thing, still offering complements but only when she does or say something to earn it. He makes her feel like she has to work for it.
When she's with you and say something nice, you only complement that singular 'act' this is to encourage the conversation to continue. When you praise people and make them feel smarter than they are, they feel more confident and relaxed to further the conversation.



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When I sense rigidity in a girl's chat tone, I decline sharp-sharp followed by auto-delete.

Life is too short to enter relationship with mini-hyenas. When there are tender pet pups in d same world.

RadicallyBlunt:
When I sense rigidity in a girl's chat tone, I decline sharp-sharp followed by auto-delete.

Life is too short to enter relationship with mini-hyenas. When there are tender pet pups in d same world.

You've said it all. It's only a few percent of girls that would really engage u in a conversation.

The rest just wait for u to do the asking, then they reply.

iykekelvins:
You've said it all. It's only a few percent of girls that would really engage u in a conversation.

The rest just wait for u to do the asking, then they reply.

Exactly. Not many girls are sensitive enough to imagine that he has to think like 4 sentences ahead before he says d sentence that will sound well to them at the present.

They're not perceptive..most of them.

RadicallyBlunt:

Exactly. Not many girls are sensitive enough to imagine that he has to think like 4 sentences ahead before he says d sentence that will sound well to them at the present.

They're not perceptive..most of them.

Most of them are just wired like that. I always think of what to say, to keep the conversation flowing

iykekelvins:
Most of them are just wired like that. I always think of what to say, to keep the conversation flowing

And despite the thinking to keep it flowing, they just wont break outta that shell of being used to themselves.

RadicallyBlunt:

And despite the thinking to keep it flowing, they just wont break outta that shell of being used to themselves.

You have ojo on your signature. Your base?

And u say this at their presence

iykekelvins:
You have ojo on your signature. Your base?

Yeah. Lasu area.

Ontop girls? O ga oh.

RadicallyBlunt:

Yeah. Lasu area.

Hmm, you're 15 minutes away from my area, Iba Estate.

iykekelvins:
Most of them are just wired like that. I always think of what to say, to keep the conversation flowing

How will you feel, after thinking of what to say and she drops "kk or k"?

makydebbie:
How will you feel, after thinking of what to say and she drops "kk or k"?

Don't even know. At least it was expected. But when I see her..

makydebbie:
How will you feel, after thinking of what to say and she drops "kk or k"?

End Of Chat.

iykekelvins:
Hmm, you're 15 minutes away from my area, Iba Estate.

Really?

I actually stay in Ijanikin/agbara axis. But many non-Lagosians don't know areas beyond Lasu road.. That's why I put Ojo.

I'll PM you.

RadicallyBlunt:

Really?

I actually stay in Ijanikin/agbara axis. But many non-Lagosians don't know areas beyond Lasu road.. That's why I put Ojo.

I'll PM you.

Lol, I've had people ask me if iba meant Ibadan.

Okay bro.

iykekelvins:
Don't even know. At least it was expected. But when I see her..

Lmao.

ERORR404:

End Of Chat.

Lol, sure. It really turns off conversations.

makydebbie:
Lmao.


Lol, sure. It really turns off conversations.

personally i have been in that situation, I just ended the chat there. haven't had any luck with chat based conversations with girls coz i myself don't even know how to keep the chat flowing

iykekelvins:
Lol, I've had people ask me if iba meant Ibadan.

Okay bro.

You're on whatsapp na?

ERORR404:

personally i have been in that situation, I just ended the chat there. haven't had any luck with chat based conversations with girls coz i myself don't even know how to keep the chat flowing

Lol. The person youre quoting seem to enjoy d kk stuff and wants to know why she shd do it more.

RadicallyBlunt:

Really?

I actually stay in Ijanikin/agbara axis. But many non-Lagosians don't know areas beyond Lasu road.. That's why I put Ojo.

I'll PM you.

Nairalanders are closer than we think. This is my location too.

ayesco202:
Nairalanders are closer than we think. This is my location too.

Nice one!

Where exactly?

RadicallyBlunt:

You're on whatsapp na?

Yes. Should I drop number?

Nice


Fine girl,ayam coming

ERORR404:

personally i have been in that situation, I just ended the chat there. haven't had any luck with chat based conversations with girls coz i myself don't even know how to keep the chat flowing

I don't think it's hard keeping a conversation if you've a topic already.

iykekelvins:
Yes. Should I drop number?

Yeap.

RadicallyBlunt:

Yeap.

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RadicallyBlunt:

Nice one!

Where exactly?

I stay somewhere around Iyana Era.

makydebbie:
I don't think it's hard keeping a conversation if you've a topic already.

true.. but most times my topics never seem to interest them and vice versa. and that is why I'm alone.(story of my life)

From experience, all these long talk just gets one stuck in his head over thinking sh!t. They are just women, if the chit chats is not flowing, then you both are just not connecting.

Learn not to force things, be comfortable with the silence and awkwardness. Place the damn onus on her to make and the conversations interesting. Women love talking anyways.

ERORR404:

true.. but most times my topics never seem to interest them and vice versa. and that is why I'm alone.(story of my life)

Lol, name some of your topics.

If it's football, I'll understand.

makydebbie:
Lmao.


Lol, sure. It really turns off conversations.

Maky do you do that?