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Re: I Have The Worst Mother In The World ,I Need Help by EfemenaXY: 10:41pm On Dec 29, 2017 |
okotv: At 21, he should start making plans to be independent rather than diss the only parent who cares enough to feed, clothe and school his ungrateful bottom. 1 Like |
Re: I Have The Worst Mother In The World ,I Need Help by okotv(m): 10:45pm On Dec 29, 2017 |
EfemenaXY:Are those not his right ? 1 Like |
Re: I Have The Worst Mother In The World ,I Need Help by EfemenaXY: 10:46pm On Dec 29, 2017 |
okotv: At 18, he is legally an adult and the mother has every right to kick him out. |
Re: I Have The Worst Mother In The World ,I Need Help by Nobody: 10:47pm On Dec 29, 2017 |
Diamond23:You're very welcome. 1 Like |
Re: I Have The Worst Mother In The World ,I Need Help by okotv(m): 10:49pm On Dec 29, 2017 |
EfemenaXY:Definitely not in Nigeria... nothing like that exists. When I wanted to join the armed forces at 20 some years back, they still requested for parental agreement.... |
Re: I Have The Worst Mother In The World ,I Need Help by EfemenaXY: 10:52pm On Dec 29, 2017 |
okotv: Okay, so what then is the legal age at which one is considered an adult in Nigeria? 30? And at what age is one able to vote? |
Re: I Have The Worst Mother In The World ,I Need Help by okotv(m): 10:53pm On Dec 29, 2017 |
EfemenaXY:18... but it doesn't apply at all. |
Re: I Have The Worst Mother In The World ,I Need Help by Nobody: 10:54pm On Dec 29, 2017 |
faggins:My colleague. We share same type of mother. Thank God im not d only one |
Re: I Have The Worst Mother In The World ,I Need Help by EfemenaXY: 11:09pm On Dec 29, 2017 |
okotv: Why doesn’t it apply? If he’s man enough to bite the hand that feeds him, he should be man enough to strike it out in the world himself - and discover how easy it is. Maybe he’ll be a bit more appreciative then. |
Re: I Have The Worst Mother In The World ,I Need Help by okotv(m): 11:12pm On Dec 29, 2017 |
EfemenaXY:Totally agree though 1 Like |
Re: I Have The Worst Mother In The World ,I Need Help by armyofone(m): 12:36am On Dec 30, 2017 |
I wonder! No end in sight for an 18 years old and above adult to behave as one (an adult) and leave the nest. The only thing is whining all over the place. Op, you are old enough to find your paths in life. Look at it this way, your mama is stressed up. If I were you, I will stay in school, financially support her etc. Financial burden is wearing off your mom hence your present experience with her. If mama gives you 50k, tell her mama I have a small job to support so keep the money or give me only 30k. Ease her burden and watch the changes in your relationship. EfemenaXY: 2 Likes |
Re: I Have The Worst Mother In The World ,I Need Help by eyinjuege: 9:09am On Dec 30, 2017 |
okotv: The girl in question is an adult in 300L. The mother is not obliged to sponsor her/his university education but she still does. The non Africans you mentioned earlier understand that fact well. They kick their kids out by age 18, especially a child with an attitude. A non afeican child would probably be living on her own, working menial jobs in factories, stores by now to make ends meet. In as much as I support the fact that parents are reponsible for any child they birth, their reponsibility ends once the child attains the legal status of an adult. Any thing they do after that is done strictly out of love and nothing else. OP faggins, Work on your attitude towards your mum. Take a step backwards and start LISTENING. Don't be in a rush to do things. Start spending time with your mum, don't try to be stubborn with her. Just calm down and actually start listening to her. You are no longer a child. She's probably worried about you that you won't be able to cope in the world out there because of your attitude. Start helping out more in the house, even before she requests for help/tells you to clean up the house. Dont wait for your younger ones to do things. If you can't do the things/cleaning the house yourself, then learn to supervise your younger ones to do so. |
Re: I Have The Worst Mother In The World ,I Need Help by okotv(m): 9:12am On Dec 30, 2017 |
eyinjuege:Its your opinion and I respect it |
Re: I Have The Worst Mother In The World ,I Need Help by Nobody: 11:32pm On Jan 07, 2018 |
crackhaus: For a moment I was thinking you were giving relationship advice until I saw the title of the thread. Never knew you can be such a good boy. ![]() |
Re: I Have The Worst Mother In The World ,I Need Help by crackhaus: 11:39pm On Jan 07, 2018 |
Mindfulness:It comes and goes...I'm volatile, what can I say ![]() |
Re: I Have The Worst Mother In The World ,I Need Help by Nobody: 11:41pm On Jan 07, 2018 |
crackhaus: Or ... maybe ... you are clocking 50 and discovering your feminine side. ![]() ![]() ![]() |
Re: I Have The Worst Mother In The World ,I Need Help by crackhaus: 11:52pm On Jan 07, 2018 |
Mindfulness: ![]() Yep that reminds me. Henceforth every time you come accross me on this platform, start with Good morning/afternoon/evening as appropriate...and don't forget to put Sir somewhere before the fullstop. |
Re: I Have The Worst Mother In The World ,I Need Help by Nobody: 11:57pm On Jan 07, 2018 |
crackhaus: I need to see your picture first and your list of accomplishments ![]() |
Re: I Have The Worst Mother In The World ,I Need Help by crackhaus: 12:08am On Jan 08, 2018 |
Mindfulness:Not a problem, make available your contact information and I'll have someone give you a call to fix an appointment with my biographer. She will sort you out. Now please. ![]() |
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