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My Wife Gave Her December Salary As Seed To Rev. Father Without My Knowledge by lawman88(m): 8:49am On Jan 02, 2018 |
Happy new year Nairalanders, My wife is very churchy and spiritual. I love her for that but she told me this morning that the spirit ministered to her to sow something huge to a reverend father, so she carried all her December salary and gave to a reverend father. I asked her why she didn't notify me before she undertook it and she said such instructions should be carried out without anybody's knowledge. I'm not a catholic member, I'm RCCG. catholic members in the house, is that how your doctrine is? We are young couple and I wish we don't have any serious disagreement for now. 27 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: My Wife Gave Her December Salary As Seed To Rev. Father Without My Knowledge by pocohantas(f): 8:53am On Jan 02, 2018 |
She didn't notify you, because she did not want you to stop her. I don't think it's always about doctrine, your wife is the typical Nigerian wife, the church is their only relief from the pains and challenges that comes with marriage. Is she trying to conceive? 351 Likes 19 Shares |
Re: My Wife Gave Her December Salary As Seed To Rev. Father Without My Knowledge by Nne5: 8:56am On Jan 02, 2018 |
pocohantas:Lol this poco girl ehn 60 Likes 4 Shares |
Re: My Wife Gave Her December Salary As Seed To Rev. Father Without My Knowledge by ubunja(m): 8:56am On Jan 02, 2018 |
if i were you i would be filing for divorce. she respects the pastor's dick more than your own dick. her and the pastor deserve each other 45 Likes 6 Shares |
Re: My Wife Gave Her December Salary As Seed To Rev. Father Without My Knowledge by pocohantas(f): 9:01am On Jan 02, 2018 |
Nne5: I dare say, I am yet to see any happily married woman: I mean one who loves, respects and listens to her husband, while he reciprocates, doing extreme things for pastors. The most unhappy married Nigerian women are found in the church. They are the easiest to brainwash. They see things in their pastors that they wish to see in their husbands, they automatically give him the respect that should be given to their husbands. The pastors on their part are trained to listen, something most husbands don't do. So, she pours out her mind to him. If they are not praying and sowing seeds against sidechics, it's for a child, against troublesome in-laws, for their husband's love, their husband/children's progress...etc. They won't stop, a miracle must happen in this 2018. 456 Likes 40 Shares |
Re: My Wife Gave Her December Salary As Seed To Rev. Father Without My Knowledge by Partnerbiz(f): 9:01am On Jan 02, 2018 |
nawao. the poster above. see below 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: My Wife Gave Her December Salary As Seed To Rev. Father Without My Knowledge by Pierohandsome: 9:01am On Jan 02, 2018 |
Spiritual obedience is sensitive and personal. She acted based on the knowledge of ur spiritual level, decisions like that doesnt require any consultation frm third party especially if she knows the spiritual level of the person she is trying to confide with is low. She did the right thing, be happy with Her and move on 81 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: My Wife Gave Her December Salary As Seed To Rev. Father Without My Knowledge by AnodaIT(m): 9:02am On Jan 02, 2018 |
It's a bad precedent We must never allow emotional or religious sentiments obstruct clear Bible teachings In Ephesians 5:23, the Bible clearly states the order of hierarchy : Christ > husband > wife, therefore whatever the Priest who is representing Christ is due, it must be through the husband Vs 24 explicitly states that wife must be submit to the husband in EVERYTHING Therefore as a woman, you must understand this when accepting your husband. Be sure that his beliefs are yours cos you must be subject to them The priest to accept this offer without representation by the husband is wrong. My pastor doesn't collect any gift from a married woman, you must come with your husband and it doesn't matter whether the husband is a member of that particular church or not 192 Likes 24 Shares |
Re: My Wife Gave Her December Salary As Seed To Rev. Father Without My Knowledge by nenergy(m): 9:02am On Jan 02, 2018 |
No extra allowance for the next 3 months. Sebi she's a giver 8 Likes |
Re: My Wife Gave Her December Salary As Seed To Rev. Father Without My Knowledge by lawman88(m): 9:02am On Jan 02, 2018 |
pocohantas:Yes. She is trying to conceive. The marriage is just four months 122 Likes 5 Shares |
Re: My Wife Gave Her December Salary As Seed To Rev. Father Without My Knowledge by lawman88(m): 9:06am On Jan 02, 2018 |
nenergy: Lol....even this morning I gave her 4k as she was going to work. She works with FCMB and I was thinking of stopping her so that she go for postgraduate studies 17 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Wife Gave Her December Salary As Seed To Rev. Father Without My Knowledge by nenergy(m): 9:08am On Jan 02, 2018 |
lawman88:I pray to have your kind of patience and love. Chai! 35 Likes |
Re: My Wife Gave Her December Salary As Seed To Rev. Father Without My Knowledge by nenergy(m): 9:09am On Jan 02, 2018 |
She doesn't trust or respect you enough. My neighbor's in-laws return the dowry after the wedding due to pregnancy out of wedlock, he gave the wife the money to keep pending resolution. Can you believe that this woman lent another man the Money? My brother, give her strong lecture that will make her cry...then forgive her 10 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Wife Gave Her December Salary As Seed To Rev. Father Without My Knowledge by pocohantas(f): 9:11am On Jan 02, 2018 |
lawman88: I knew it. You better talk to your wife, listen to her and support her. Next thing, they tell her it's your mother that tied her womb. The main trouble will start. It's too early to be under such pressure. Is this pressure internal or external? Never mind. Just, talk to her. You both should be aware of such spending. 131 Likes 7 Shares |
Re: My Wife Gave Her December Salary As Seed To Rev. Father Without My Knowledge by free2ryhme: 9:12am On Jan 02, 2018 |
lawman88: Just four months she is becoming scared why are Christians just getting unnecessary high blood pressure she shld calm down 58 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Wife Gave Her December Salary As Seed To Rev. Father Without My Knowledge by internationalman(m): 9:12am On Jan 02, 2018 |
And she's probably calling the pastor daddy too. When I'm married; the day my wife calls her pastor daddy is d day she will b last seen in my house. 78 Likes 6 Shares |
Re: My Wife Gave Her December Salary As Seed To Rev. Father Without My Knowledge by Ztittude(m): 9:13am On Jan 02, 2018 |
Pierohandsome: Her husband spiritual level is low but he will be the one to bear the physical responsibilities shey... Jesus wept This case is where wisdom is profitable to direct... being highly spiritual and physical useless is still a sin. She should have told the husband so that the husband will adjust and prepare for more financial burden carrying. Wisdom she lacked 30 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Wife Gave Her December Salary As Seed To Rev. Father Without My Knowledge by makydebbie(f): 9:15am On Jan 02, 2018 |
See how singles with no knowledge about how marriage works are telling op to divorce his wife. Can you imagine the irony? So when he leaves his wife, what next? He should come for your sister's hand abi? If that's how marriage work, I wonder how many couples we'll see. 112 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: My Wife Gave Her December Salary As Seed To Rev. Father Without My Knowledge by cerowo(f): 9:16am On Jan 02, 2018 |
pocohantas:Very true poco. Nigeria women/ moms are somehow the head of the family, with all those workload they carries 5 Likes |
Re: My Wife Gave Her December Salary As Seed To Rev. Father Without My Knowledge by lawman88(m): 9:18am On Jan 02, 2018 |
pocohantas: Nobody is even pressurizing her. I told her to relax and prepare to go back to school. I'm a Ph.D. student and if pregnancy doesn't come now, I don't have wahala for that. I married early because I don't want to fornicate anymore not really to get children now 41 Likes 4 Shares |
Re: My Wife Gave Her December Salary As Seed To Rev. Father Without My Knowledge by Ztittude(m): 9:19am On Jan 02, 2018 |
pocohantas: I don't know of her church but mine will refer anything marriage related and young couples to marriage counsellors, there are doctors in the team also, they will use wisdom to treat matters |
Re: My Wife Gave Her December Salary As Seed To Rev. Father Without My Knowledge by pocohantas(f): 9:19am On Jan 02, 2018 |
lawman88: Nigerian women are naturally under pressure, I wouldn't doubt you if you say no one is pressurising her. The womb-watchers are timing us, how else do we prove to them that we're not refurbished oloshos? You sef put yourself in our shoes... 74 Likes 4 Shares
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Re: My Wife Gave Her December Salary As Seed To Rev. Father Without My Knowledge by eezeribe(m): 9:22am On Jan 02, 2018 |
pocohantas:You would understand better when you wear the shoes... 9 Likes |
Re: My Wife Gave Her December Salary As Seed To Rev. Father Without My Knowledge by Nne5: 9:23am On Jan 02, 2018 |
pocohantas:Very very correct. I think the op and his wife need to start communicating now better than before.Or else very soon we'll start hearing/reading another story. 4 Likes |
Re: My Wife Gave Her December Salary As Seed To Rev. Father Without My Knowledge by Nne5: 9:23am On Jan 02, 2018 |
eezeribe:But she's right. 13 Likes |
Re: My Wife Gave Her December Salary As Seed To Rev. Father Without My Knowledge by lawman88(m): 9:30am On Jan 02, 2018 |
Nne5:Well, we talk alot. She is my best friend. I took her out to many places even this Christmas. Only her banking work keep her away from me during the day time on working days. I have lots of freedom where I'm working so I have lots of time for her 3 Likes |
Re: My Wife Gave Her December Salary As Seed To Rev. Father Without My Knowledge by lawman88(m): 9:38am On Jan 02, 2018 |
pocohantas:Even before we marry, I told her she will be going to school immediately after marriage and finish her course work as postgraduate student before we even talk of pregnancy but she said she wants to give birth to a child first. My parents don't even put any pressure on her and her own parents are already dead. So I don't know where pressure is coming from 4 Likes |
Re: My Wife Gave Her December Salary As Seed To Rev. Father Without My Knowledge by MetroBaba1(m): 9:44am On Jan 02, 2018 |
This 1 Na Stupidity Fa
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Re: My Wife Gave Her December Salary As Seed To Rev. Father Without My Knowledge by Fkforyou(m): 9:48am On Jan 02, 2018 |
Strangely enough I don't see anything wrong with what she did, maybe because I'm not married yet. Or I guess the major issue is that she didn't seek your approval.... ![]() But, does it mean you always seek her approval before you dash anyone money? Just asking.... 32 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: My Wife Gave Her December Salary As Seed To Rev. Father Without My Knowledge by ubunja(m): 9:49am On Jan 02, 2018 |
if my brother allowed his wife to pull that stunt i will murder a hoe. no woman will take my brother for a fool as long as i live 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Wife Gave Her December Salary As Seed To Rev. Father Without My Knowledge by Martin0(m): 10:00am On Jan 02, 2018 |
I don't see anything wrong if ur wife decide to give her december salary to his pastor/Rv father! Op it seems u re insecure 8 Likes |
Re: My Wife Gave Her December Salary As Seed To Rev. Father Without My Knowledge by Martin0(m): 10:00am On Jan 02, 2018 |
ubunja: There is nothing called a fool in what the woman did! 17 Likes 2 Shares |
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