Fkforyou:
Strangely enough I don't see anything wrong with what she did, maybe because I'm not married yet.

Or I guess the major issue is that she didn't seek your approval....

But, does it mean you always seek her approval before you dash anyone money?

Just asking....

Ztittude:


Her husband spiritual level is low but he will be the one to bear the physical responsibilities shey...
Jesus wept
This case is where wisdom is profitable to direct... being highly spiritual and physical useless is still a sin.
She should have told the husband so that the husband will adjust and prepare for more financial burden carrying.
Wisdom she lacked

Martin0:



Mr man married or not!I don't see anything wrong in what she did!

Follow me ask op ooo!

I don't care if op seeks her permission or not before dashing out money!
That woman is not a slave to her and she doesn't own him any form of order before doing such!

Martin0:



There is nothing called a fool in what the woman did!

ubunja:

isnt this the same Martin women gave First Place in the ArseLicking Awards 2017?

Martin0:



You re now beginning to sound deluded!

Fkforyou:


I don't think it has to do with his wife being a slave or not.

Mr man read my comment!I did not say the wife is a slave! I only said men are kind of feeling their wives are more life slaves to them! Nobody! We are one human though men are more seen as the head of the family oo and sometimes we kind of feel our wives should seek permission from us before doing anything!but to me I don't think so,it totaly wrong!



I think it has to do with him feeling like She held her pastor in high esteem more than him.

Well that for the man! To me that man is insecure!


His ego is bruised.

Martin0:



You re now beginning to sound deluded!

Lionbite:

Martin0 chairman asslickers association

ubunja:

enough with the meanderings, answer the question i asked you.

sekxyqueen:
over spirituality

Fkforyou:
Strangely enough I don't see anything wrong with what she did, maybe because I'm not married yet.

Or I guess the major issue is that she didn't seek your approval....

But, does it mean you always seek her approval before you dash anyone money?

Just asking....

ubunja:
if i were you i would be filing for divorce. she respects the pastor's dick more than your own dick. her and the pastor deserve each other

lawman88:

Yes. She is trying to conceive. The marriage is just four months

Espada10:
hmm..This OP..I am going to tell you the truth...don't listen to all this refurbished oloshos that are projecting their miserable private lives on yours....I won't tell you to divorce your wife because I believe cheating is the only thing in a marriage, that calls for a divorce even the Bible( that believe in better or worse) says so, and made exception for that.

Now, your wife is is a banker and she Gave Her December Salary As Seed To a Rev. Father Without your Knowledge. ....Experience shows that type of woman has another side - dick, she is sponsoring or may do so in the future. A woman that can give away money meant for the development of a family without batting an eyelid can do anything..I do not care if that person is an Oracle...And believe me, it is not because she is looking for a child ..that excuse is rubbish....start now to count your lose and prepare your mind that your marriage is on countdown. A good woman will never give another man such huge amount of money without discusing it with her husband...that kind of woman can kill you and bring her lover to your house..Don't divorce her "for now"but do not trust her with anything again..start now to be vigilant . Don't say I didn't warn you , unless you want to come back here with another stupid article on how you discovered your wife did that and bla bla bla. My reaction will be like this

donnaD:

U see ur life?? take a break bro.

lawman88:


In my tradition, you must tell your husband before you give money to another man, especially when you are given it as gift or gesture

pocohantas:


I knew it. You better talk to your wife, listen to her and support her. Next thing, they tell her it's your mother that tied her womb.
The main trouble will start.

It's too early to be under such pressure.
Is this pressure internal or external? Never mind.

Just, talk to her. You both should be aware of such spending.

donnaD:

lady she is a Catholic .pls stop been a fanatic.u just spoilt everything with this singular comment.

lawman88:


Nobody is even pressurizing her. I told her to relax and prepare to go back to school. I'm a Ph.D. student and if pregnancy doesn't come now, I don't have wahala for that. I married early because I don't want to fornicate anymore not really to get children now

Pierohandsome:
Spiritual obedience is sensitive and personal. She acted based on the knowledge of ur spiritual level, decisions like that doesnt require any consultation frm third party especially if she knows the spiritual level of the person she is trying to confide with is low.

She did the right thing, be happy with Her and move on

Fkforyou:
Strangely enough I don't see anything wrong with what she did, maybe because I'm not married yet.

Or I guess the major issue is that she didn't seek your approval....

But, does it mean you always seek her approval before you dash anyone money?

Just asking....

AnodaIT:
It's a bad precedent
We must never allow emotional or religious sentiments obstruct clear Bible teachings

In Ephesians 5:23, the Bible clearly states the order of hierarchy : Christ > husband > wife, therefore whatever the Priest who is representing Christ is due, it must be through the husband

Vs 24 explicitly states that wife must be submit to the husband in EVERYTHING

Therefore as a woman, you must understand this when accepting your husband. Be sure that his beliefs are yours cos you must be subject to them

The priest to accept this offer without representation by the husband is wrong. My pastor doesn't collect any gift from a married woman, you must come with your husband and it doesn't matter whether the husband is a member of that particular church or not

donnaD:

may God bless u.

ubunja:

if a man spent his whole salary on Pr0stitutes you women would be spitting fire.
but its OK that a woman spent her whole salary on a P0stor? and you think thats normal?
you crazy. no woman can play that stupid game in my presence. if you love your pastor go give him that pvssy.but money for the children's food? i will behead a hoe and castrate a pastor. im a christian but that pastor is not acting on behalf of heaven.i will take him out.

donnaD:

person whey do u this tin e no go beta for am.

davbaba:
U don't know if she sow that seed for sake .stop complaining it is for your good ...
I don't see anything wrong if ur wife decide to give her December salary to his God.

Pierohandsome:
ur spiritual level is also low

ubunja:

just remember who you promised to cherish and to honour on your wedding day when you took your vows.