lawman88:

Well, it's not to God directly, she didn't put it in church offering bag. She told the reverend father that she wants to see him after church mass within the church compound and she gave him the money and he prayed for her

Sounds more understanble..so its nothing serios and bad.. also understand that catholic churches are not so hell bent on collecting tithes like others(not condemning any church )


So be clam and forgiv n love ur boo. Kiss her well well o.
Happy new year.

Martin0:
I don't see anything wrong if ur wife decide to give her december salary to his pastor/Rv father!

Op it seems u re insecure

And seems you're thinking with your anus. Do you know what is marriage?? Two people who become one have to discuss every issue before a decision is reach. She isn't suppose to take that decision without his knowledge.
If the wife can do this without the consent of the husband, then you begin to wonder the very many other things she is doing secretly.

pocohantas:


She is catholic, so? And how does being a fanatic come in here, I am not the one that gave a Rev my whole Dec salary without my husband's consent or awareness.

Some of you throw words around, here.

Hahahaha



Welcome to nairaland

Martin0:



Mr man married or not!I don't see anything wrong in what she did!

Follow me ask op ooo!

I don't care if op seeks her permission or not before dashing out money!
That woman is not a slave to her and she doesn't own him any form of order before doing such!

I totally disagree with you on this it is not a matter of slavery but before taking such a major decision she ought to have consulted from her husband before doing such,couples should try and consult each other before making some major decisions.

pocohantas:


I dare say, I am yet to see any happily married woman:
I mean one who loves, respects and listens her husband, while he reciprocates, doing extreme things for pastors.

The most unhappy married women are found in the church. They are the easiest to brainwash. They see things in their pastors that they wish to see in their husbands, they automatically give him the respect that should be given to their husbands. The pastors on their part are trained to listen, something most husbands don't do. So, she pours out her mind to him.

If they are not praying and sowing seeds against sidechics, it's for a child, against troublesome in-laws, for their husband's love, their husband/children's progress...etc.

They won't stop, a miracle must happen in this 2018.

So knowledgeable of you. You must have learnt a lot from life.
Most of these women won't even take what the husband offers (advise) they just believe the solution is buried in the pastor. And most of these pastors are emotion triggers.

Sad... too spiritual is bad... next tin the pastor will say is dat ur mother is d witch beacause u are not a member of her church

See oo

A whole month salary
If am d man na to tell her say I don give my church my own month salary too na

If she can do this
She can also keep a side boo outside nd u won't knw
Even b sponsoring d guy sef
When she's suppose to add small nd augment d house income



I dnt knw how u guys see it buh its absolutely bad

Oga dnt worry nxt tym na una house documents she go use sow seed

If she can believe d pastor dat much
Gues what will happen when. D pastor tells her ur mother is a witch , or dat u are a occultic
She no go even doubt am one bit
Oga congrats oo


Have u thought of this , those women who are usually cauggt pants down with their pastors ,how e take deh start

Fkforyou:


Strangely enough I don't see anything wrong with what she did, maybe because I'm not married yet

Or I guess the major issue is that she didn't seek your approval....

But, does it mean you always seek her approval before you dash anyone money?

Just asking....

Call a spade a fuvking spade.

Pierohandsome:
Spiritual obedience is sensitive and personal. She acted based on the knowledge of ur spiritual level, decisions like that doesnt require any consultation frm third party especially if she knows the spiritual level of the person she is trying to confide with is low.

She did the right thing, be happy with Her and move on

Story for the gods !

You people should continue brainwashing gullible Nigerians especially women.

I wish i could meet a pretty atheist but logical lady for marriage.

lawman88:

Even before we marry, I told her she will be going to school immediately after marriage and finish her course work as postgraduate student before we even talk of pregnancy but she said she wants to give birth to a child first. My parents don't even put any pressure on her and her own parents are already dead. So I don't know where pressure is coming from

Oh my you're a caring husband if only all Nigerian men can be like you keep the good work sir

pocohantas:
She didn't notify you, because she didn't want you to stop her.

I don't think it's always about doctrine, your wife is the typical Nigerian wife, the church is their only relief from the pains and challenges that comes with marriage.

Is she trying to conceive?

Respect!!

lawman88:


In my tradition, you must tell your husband before you give money to another man, especially when you are given it as gift or gesture

Which tradition is that..... do you also inform her before you give out gift's.....

Ladyhippolyta88:
I totally disagree with you on this it is not a matter of slavery but before taking such a major decision she ought to have consulted from her husband before doing such,couples should try and consult each other before making some major decisions.

Waow finally!

Don't mind me jor! Some women here would agree!

I thought I will see them agree!

U are a wise smart girl! I like ur way of reasoning

FunkyAlhaji2015:


And seems you're thinking with your anus. Do you know what is marriage?? Two people who become one. She isn't suppose to take that decision without his knowledge.

Ok!sorry I don't know!
Am just 10year old as u can see!
And remember am an asslicker!

Purebeerry:
Call a spade a fuvking spade.

Fvcking Spade....

Is that all?....

Pierohandsome:
Spiritual obedience is sensitive and personal. She acted based on the knowledge of ur spiritual level, decisions like that doesnt require any consultation frm third party especially if she knows the spiritual level of the person she is trying to confide with is low.

She did the right thing, be happy with Her and move on

see as u just dey roll words from ur mouth like person wey dey lick sweet.person pack all im salary go give one person all in d name of seed. @ op.. Op if i was u i for don carry the matter go meet d reverend fada make he bring back that money. And besides na pastors dey carry this seed matter for head and not catholic priests. Are u sure no be pastor she pack all d money give? By the way where is daddy freeze when we need him most.

Thegeneralqueen:
Which tradition is that..... do you also inform her before you give out gift's.....

Are u saying is right for a woman to give out gifts like such "money" to a pastor without telling her husband about it

FunkyAlhaji2015:


And seems you're thinking with your anus. Do you know what is marriage?? Two people who become one. She isn't suppose to take that decision without his knowledge.

please tell them

internationalman:
And she's probably calling the pastor daddy too.
When I'm married; the day my wife calls her pastor daddy is d day she will b last seen in my house.

never trust a married woman that is too close to her pastor. Anytime u with her and she always mentioning daddy this and dat then u should begin to be afraid .

Martin0:



Are u saying is right for a woman to give out gifts like such "money" to a pastor without telling her husband about it

Will you inform your your wife if you want to give out money to somebody

lawman88:

Thanks. I'll never divorce my wife even if she do worse than this. I'm simply asking for enlightenment on catholic doctrine but some people are taking it to a whole new level

God for you but as I said don't come back here with another stupid article to lament on how you discovered your wife did that and bla bla bla. Another of my reaction will be like this

lawman88:

Thanks. I'll never divorce my wife even if she do worse than this. I'm simply asking for enlightenment on catholic doctrine but some people are taking it to a whole new level

Wow. Nice response.

True gentleman

A woman who gave out her salary to a pastor in this economic climate is capable of more stupid things.

She needs reorientation asap.

lawman88:

Thanks. I'll never divorce my wife even if she do worse than this. I'm simply asking for enlightenment on catholic doctrine but some people are taking it to a whole new level

there is nothing like giving seed in the catholic church.yes u pay tithes but dat a catholic priest will pray for u and u will give seed dat doesn't happen...and she used all her salary for the seed. Na wao.u sure no be venza she use the salary buy for her sugarboy? . Brother u gotta investigate deep.

Blackhawk03:


Hahahaha



Welcome to nairaland

Imagine, as January dey tight reach...she get mind give out December Salary? Chai!!! Which fanatic pass that one?

Make we thank God OP hasn't been initiated by menist in this section. She for go bring the money back or he'll divorce her

Thegeneralqueen:
Will you inform your your wife if you want to give out money to somebody

Not when I wanna give out to a girlfriend

Martin0:


Not when I wanna give out to a girlfriend

Don't ask for what you can't give

nenergy:

I pray to have your kind of patience and love. Chai!

how are we sure he's not under the powerful influence of decimal 10:10.

lefulefu:
there is nothing like giving seed in the catholic church.yes u pay tithes but dat a catholic priest will pray for u and u will give seed dat doesn't happen...and she used all her salary for the seed. Na wao.u sure no be venza she use the salary buy for her sugarboy? . Brother u gotta investigate deep.

Hahahahahahah na wa ooo

Even if she use am take buy venza na bad tin!
Abi e concern u

Thegeneralqueen:
Don't ask for what you can't give

What tha hell do you mean?

lefulefu:
how are we sure he's not under the powerful influence of decimal 10:10.

Come lemm ask u again?

Dem do use decimal 10:10 for u b4?

Martin0:



Hahahahahahah na wa ooo

Even if she use am take buy venza na bad tin!
Abi e concern u

e get dat time for my school dept den when i was in 100 level there was this female lecturer dating one final year guy codedly.na married lady oo.na so dis lady dey spend on d guy even buy clean camry for d guy.when dis guy guy graduate na so he steal d woman money then Carry d car waka.na somethin wey we come dey use gossip and laugh d woman dat time...it was just an open secret then.anyway d matter no concern me sha but then i dey suspect dis op wife go get sugar boy wey she dey maintain .no catholic priest will will urge a person to use a huge amount for seed and besides women wey dey look for fruit of the womb na mostly olumba olumba or white and white dem dey attend.since when catholic church don dey give women fruit of d womb.d wife dey lie jor.one bad port Harcourt guy or warri guy ist using dat salary now to flex for club.