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Re: My Wife Gave Her December Salary As Seed To Rev. Father Without My Knowledge by jaggedboi(m): 6:13pm On Jan 02, 2018 |
She did not do the right ting. From my bible I've learnt that the husbands blessing upon his wife supersides that of any pastor upon the same Lady. Chat me up. "Christ is the head of the man,and the man is the head of the woman". This is a very spiritual order. It has nothing to do with being the boss at home. Understand the spiritual aspect and you will know your wife is wrong. I'd send you a shot message you can listen to. 1 Like |
Re: My Wife Gave Her December Salary As Seed To Rev. Father Without My Knowledge by Nobody: 6:13pm On Jan 02, 2018 |
Onliie:i love this 1 Like |
Re: My Wife Gave Her December Salary As Seed To Rev. Father Without My Knowledge by Sunmolar(m): 6:13pm On Jan 02, 2018 |
pocohantas:how can woman be happy with these ego of been at the receiving end. They never get satisfy with receiving. You have to possess a contentment attitude to be happy. why go out of your way to sow without your husband knowing, maybe she forgot the husband is her Lord. There should be an element of trust in a relationship. No amount of excuses is enough to play intelligently on her husband. I will suggest the husband sow is January salary as seed without her consent. pocohantas:how can woman be happy with these ego of been at the receiving end. They never get satisfy with receiving. You have to possess a contentment attitude to be happy. why go out of your way to sow without your husband knowing, maybe she forgot the husband is her Lord. There should be an element of trust in a relationship. No amount of excuses is enough to play intelligently on her husband. I will suggest the husband sow is January salary as seed without her consent. |
Re: My Wife Gave Her December Salary As Seed To Rev. Father Without My Knowledge by stanliwise(m): 6:14pm On Jan 02, 2018 |
Pierohandsome:In case of next time I will advise you say "I think she did the the right thing". Remember you're dealing with someone else issue here. Don't mind me if I sound annoying. |
Re: My Wife Gave Her December Salary As Seed To Rev. Father Without My Knowledge by pocohantas(f): 6:14pm On Jan 02, 2018 |
Sanchez01: Naso. So, why do they give it? Is it not for the windows of heaven to open and shower them with blessings...? ? I'm still waiting for you to point out the off point. |
Re: My Wife Gave Her December Salary As Seed To Rev. Father Without My Knowledge by postmann: 6:14pm On Jan 02, 2018 |
Sanchez01: Not all protestant practice the first fruit offering. Catholics in general don't practice first fruit offering. Morever, first fruit offering ought to be January salary or income, marking the first fruit of the year, i.e. for those that practise it. 2 Likes |
Re: My Wife Gave Her December Salary As Seed To Rev. Father Without My Knowledge by Harrynight(m): 6:15pm On Jan 02, 2018 |
pocohantas: ���� ur comment is everything |
Re: My Wife Gave Her December Salary As Seed To Rev. Father Without My Knowledge by stanliwise(m): 6:15pm On Jan 02, 2018 |
jaggedboi:Hmmm, and there cannot be any exceptions. |
Re: My Wife Gave Her December Salary As Seed To Rev. Father Without My Knowledge by sammylink: 6:16pm On Jan 02, 2018 |
Yes she doesn't have to inform you because she knows you are her ATM Machine. 1 Like |
Re: My Wife Gave Her December Salary As Seed To Rev. Father Without My Knowledge by ubunja(m): 6:16pm On Jan 02, 2018 |
lekonso:even annanias and saphira made their offering (and stealing) as a husband and wife team. |
Re: My Wife Gave Her December Salary As Seed To Rev. Father Without My Knowledge by labelle123(f): 6:17pm On Jan 02, 2018 |
lawman88:Nobody is force to sew seed she did it willingly without the consent of the priest. 1 Like |
Re: My Wife Gave Her December Salary As Seed To Rev. Father Without My Knowledge by lekonso: 6:17pm On Jan 02, 2018 |
Oga husband there is nothing wrong in what your wife has done. I'm surprised you said you are RCCG and does not know what is sacrifice. For your information when Pastor Adeboye retired from University of Lagos, he collected his gratuity, the whole sum without touching a dime from it and God told him to divide the whole money into 3 parts and instructed him (Pastor Adeboye) to give the whole money to 3 different ministries, which he did. Look at what God has done in his life today. I warn you very seriously if you do anything to that your wife because of what she has done, you will see the anger of God. In any case i'm very sure you will come back to this platform to share the testimony of what God has done in the life of your wife. She does not need to tell you before she obeys God, so that you will not prevent her. If she has told you, you will not allow her to obey God. |
Re: My Wife Gave Her December Salary As Seed To Rev. Father Without My Knowledge by Harrynight(m): 6:18pm On Jan 02, 2018 |
pocohantas: 1 Like
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Re: My Wife Gave Her December Salary As Seed To Rev. Father Without My Knowledge by cooldude62(m): 6:18pm On Jan 02, 2018 |
pocohantas: You're spot on! 1 Like |
Re: My Wife Gave Her December Salary As Seed To Rev. Father Without My Knowledge by ubunja(m): 6:18pm On Jan 02, 2018 |
begwong:say what you will. nothing remains changed 1 Like |
Re: My Wife Gave Her December Salary As Seed To Rev. Father Without My Knowledge by ushafe(m): 6:18pm On Jan 02, 2018 |
ubunja:I THINK YOU LACK DIRECTION 1 Like |
Re: My Wife Gave Her December Salary As Seed To Rev. Father Without My Knowledge by onlyme07(m): 6:18pm On Jan 02, 2018 |
postmann: And who says she will not give to her pastor if she attends RCCG.? The issue looks somehow though. There is no justification for the woman doing suxh but she's the best to tell her husband the reason behind her action. Marriage is always clumsy so,op,thread sofly and don't tag it along religion. It might have been her plans while growing or a promise to God for a loving husband or God's faithfulness to her household or her new year resolution. A yoruba adage says,if you see a home without rancour,ask the woman the magic. Don't judge her and don't let ego set in. The lord you serve will direct you on what to do and see the reason behind her action |
Re: My Wife Gave Her December Salary As Seed To Rev. Father Without My Knowledge by fuckpro: 6:18pm On Jan 02, 2018 |
lawman88:...you did the right thing by not reacting ...bottom line is whatever she did was from a heart filled with love ...pay no attention to divisive suggestions 1 Like |
Re: My Wife Gave Her December Salary As Seed To Rev. Father Without My Knowledge by Richy4(m): 6:18pm On Jan 02, 2018 |
can you just imagine OP opening a joint account with the wife in future? 3 Likes |
Re: My Wife Gave Her December Salary As Seed To Rev. Father Without My Knowledge by morereb10: 6:19pm On Jan 02, 2018 |
lol |
Re: My Wife Gave Her December Salary As Seed To Rev. Father Without My Knowledge by AlphaStyles(m): 6:19pm On Jan 02, 2018 |
aaaah this one dem dy spine am easily God help us ooo |
Re: My Wife Gave Her December Salary As Seed To Rev. Father Without My Knowledge by IMASTEX: 6:21pm On Jan 02, 2018 |
pocohantas:Very brilliant analysis, went through all your remarks to ops. I second your thought line. 2 Likes |
Re: My Wife Gave Her December Salary As Seed To Rev. Father Without My Knowledge by ubunja(m): 6:21pm On Jan 02, 2018 |
ushafe:no wonder feminists are killing nigerian men u just nothing but brainwashed robots who just go YES YES to everything women do. lmfaoooooooooo |
Re: My Wife Gave Her December Salary As Seed To Rev. Father Without My Knowledge by itsandi(m): 6:21pm On Jan 02, 2018 |
if its her money, she can do anyhow but if its your money, tell her to vomit it for you |
Re: My Wife Gave Her December Salary As Seed To Rev. Father Without My Knowledge by Sanchez01: 6:21pm On Jan 02, 2018 |
pocohantas:Why they give it rests with teachings of the Scriptures. It is deeply rooted in faith and those who practice it believe it works for them. Your off points as mentioned were 1. Assuming their home isn't smooth. Hence, women as the OP's wife would always find it easier to listen to pastors or priests. I find it rather conclusive, owing to the fact the OP never mentioned anything as such. 2. Assuming that she is without a child yet. Hence, the reason for giving. My point is, this is a marital issue at hand and every comment here might just end up fuelling discord between the OP and the wife. One cannot be too careful. |
Re: My Wife Gave Her December Salary As Seed To Rev. Father Without My Knowledge by AdesuyiVictor: 6:21pm On Jan 02, 2018 |
I am sure you also did not inform her before bringing a private matter that can be reasonably resolved at home to the public. Also, it was wrong for her to have done that without your consent but I'm sure you know why she must have made such decision without your knowledge for a purpose. Listen, though it was given to a Reverend father, but see it as a first fruit in her own understanding, given to God, and not man. Forgot what the money will be used for. Do you know that everything sown will b reaped? It will surely, and it is your family that will enjoy the reward. I'm sure you will not come here in public asking questions if you saw an instant reward of what she did. Please understand. Please it is not about one church doctrine, don't give chance to the devil by allowing people to tarnish the image of God. A church is not a building, it is a body of Jesus Christ himself, He is the head of it, so giving is not a one church thing, it is a principle that even atheist and other religion adopt, and it works be it RCCG or Jehovah witness. Mind you, I also attend RCCG. Finally, please as young couples, discuss private matters like this in bed with your wife, you will become more confused bringing it to the public, especially nairaland.com. Stay blessed. |
Re: My Wife Gave Her December Salary As Seed To Rev. Father Without My Knowledge by jaggedboi(m): 6:22pm On Jan 02, 2018 |
stanliwise:No exceptions. spiritually a girl is under her parents. At once she is married she is under the man. If you don't get your husbands blessings the pastors blessings null and void( NOTE: this does not apply when the man is a drunk or wayward) based on what the OP wrote,his wife's seed is void because the spiritual head did not know about it. I have given my 50k to give to my pastor. He collected it and still approached me afta a Sunday service to be sure I know about it. Because he believes if I do not approve of it then it's useless. This topic is a bit deep. I can send u a shot message u can decide afta listening to it. 2 Likes |
Re: My Wife Gave Her December Salary As Seed To Rev. Father Without My Knowledge by Ournolly: 6:23pm On Jan 02, 2018 |
pocohantas:I like your reasoning, so true! As a man at the stage of marriage, I don't look towards religious women. Your above point is one of the numerous reasons. Don't want a woman that will be married to church and not me. |
Re: My Wife Gave Her December Salary As Seed To Rev. Father Without My Knowledge by Sanchez01: 6:23pm On Jan 02, 2018 |
postmann:Quite true and I agree with the latter part of your post. However, I might be that of increase since a handful of people experience pay rise and other bonuses during December. It could have been any kind of First fruit offering. |
Re: My Wife Gave Her December Salary As Seed To Rev. Father Without My Knowledge by uniqueman(m): 6:25pm On Jan 02, 2018 |
Fkforyou: It is really sad that you don't see anything wrong with what she did. |
Re: My Wife Gave Her December Salary As Seed To Rev. Father Without My Knowledge by Harrynight(m): 6:25pm On Jan 02, 2018 |
lawman88: why is the making of babies prime reason for getting married thatz #005 wrong reasons why ppl getting married u xpect ur marriege to last wen marrying for wrong reason? |
Re: My Wife Gave Her December Salary As Seed To Rev. Father Without My Knowledge by eeewise(m): 6:26pm On Jan 02, 2018 |
that's an example of a moronic Christian!
you give your salary as if u are not under authority
she is her own boss,no rev for her husband sadly the husband does not see anything wrong with it smh |
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