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Re: My Wife Gave Her December Salary As Seed To Rev. Father Without My Knowledge by AreaFada2: 6:50pm On Jan 02, 2018 |
pocohantas: Funny things is very many pastors are not particularly good husbands themselves. Many shine congos of choir girls. Ladies generally want attention. I realised that at university. I had so many female friends of all races that you'd assume I was a gigolo. I just listened attentively to them. Even girl friends of my friends. A lot of our guys still consider listening to women too much as being a woman wrapper. But there is one important thing about listening to women: you must be very disciplined. If not feelings can easily develop between a listening guy and the woman. Over time. Even married ones. Pastors included. See them as your sisters first of all. 3 Likes |
Re: My Wife Gave Her December Salary As Seed To Rev. Father Without My Knowledge by Nobody: 6:50pm On Jan 02, 2018 |
lawman88: So she sowed a mighty seed to the Catholic Church using her December salary because she wants to conceive? I think you should sow another mighty seed to RCCG using your January salary. Tell her you did it so she can deliver twins. 5 Likes |
Re: My Wife Gave Her December Salary As Seed To Rev. Father Without My Knowledge by DONFASZY(m): 6:51pm On Jan 02, 2018 |
First of all In marriage Any tin dey do mus b together and agreed upon bfor dey do it She might do it as prayer sacrifice and lied to d Priest cos I no A priest or faithful priest will Niva collect full salary frm married couple |
Re: My Wife Gave Her December Salary As Seed To Rev. Father Without My Knowledge by lekonso: 6:53pm On Jan 02, 2018 |
eeewise:You need deliverance |
Re: My Wife Gave Her December Salary As Seed To Rev. Father Without My Knowledge by mastermaestro(m): 6:53pm On Jan 02, 2018 |
AnodaIT: I find your last assertion stupid and your pastor very ignorant. Absolute nonsense! Hey! Women are neither mere objects nor slaves. I sincerely wonder what your pastor teaches about marriage. Toxic teachings! |
Re: My Wife Gave Her December Salary As Seed To Rev. Father Without My Knowledge by 1nigeriamyfoot: 6:54pm On Jan 02, 2018 |
lawman88:Well, there's nothing bad with what she did but I don't like women who believes so much in religion and the rev father or pastor or whatever. You need to sit her down, talk to her and let her realize that you are not pleased with what she did. She owns her money and she's free to spend it anyhow she like as long as not using it on evil things. There's no need stopping her from going to work just because of PG because she can do that while working. Let her realize that what both of you needs now is to plan your future and make everything available for your unborn children. As regard the marriage, 4months is too early to be thinking of inability to conceive although African believes that a married woman should conceier the same month that she got married of which is completely wrong. Relax bro, no cause for alarm but please handle everything with maturity. |
Re: My Wife Gave Her December Salary As Seed To Rev. Father Without My Knowledge by winnerz: 6:56pm On Jan 02, 2018 |
lawman88: Don't mind most peoples opinion. She is both right and wrong. Biblically Jesus said when giving alms, d right hand shouldn't know what the left is doing. Matthew 6:4 So she is right with that. Again men are logical in thinking, you would have calculated the amount if she had told you and scream to high heaven. That could have caused a friction and even if she did it after that it might not be acceptable as the former. Also as a family you could have presented it together. Since you are one flesh. But she is uncertain about your spiritual maturity that is the reason she did it before telling you. Going forward, don't scold her for it @ least not now that it is still hot. And give her the notion that next time you won't stand against her if she had told you about it. Finally be rest assured that your finances will turn around this 2018. Coz God is going to surprise you. Happy new year! 1 Like |
Re: My Wife Gave Her December Salary As Seed To Rev. Father Without My Knowledge by Martinez19(m): 6:56pm On Jan 02, 2018 |
Espada10:you no well. Why the picture na? |
Re: My Wife Gave Her December Salary As Seed To Rev. Father Without My Knowledge by maxwell530(m): 6:57pm On Jan 02, 2018 |
Its very sad how some women have crossed the path between common sense and the "Feminism" they rant on social Media. @Op, I just want you to remember the story of a lady that went to a pastor all the way from Lagos to Ado-Ekiti in her quest to have a baby. The pastor slept with her and rubbed her pucci with a "Spiritual Oil", the lady pucci gets rotten and smells before she died 3 weeks ago,the thread even made nairaland front page. Tho some will say it hasn't gotten to that yet but desperation can make it get to it in the future. If she can go behind her husband back to give a priest some money, I don't see that same lady not sleeping with the same priest or any other guy in the future for her to get pregnant, besides the marriage is just 4months old and she is this desperate. |
Re: My Wife Gave Her December Salary As Seed To Rev. Father Without My Knowledge by Nobody: 6:59pm On Jan 02, 2018 |
ubunja: But Why will you never marry for love? |
Re: My Wife Gave Her December Salary As Seed To Rev. Father Without My Knowledge by skubido(m): 7:04pm On Jan 02, 2018 |
uniqueman:must u comment. Radaada |
Re: My Wife Gave Her December Salary As Seed To Rev. Father Without My Knowledge by rose54321: 7:05pm On Jan 02, 2018 |
motionz: But its her salary, its her prerogative to use as she pleases. That my opinion sha. From the OPs comment they are well to do and not poor. So she's at pleasure to spend the money as she wishes. 1 Like |
Re: My Wife Gave Her December Salary As Seed To Rev. Father Without My Knowledge by Sheunma: 7:05pm On Jan 02, 2018 |
postmann:seriously is this how Christianity is done nowadays; this " we better than them" mentality? This guy even spiritualised it 1 Like |
Re: My Wife Gave Her December Salary As Seed To Rev. Father Without My Knowledge by echodrum(m): 7:07pm On Jan 02, 2018 |
pocohantas:your assumptions are not completely accurate. You failed to understand that both married and unmarried Christians are going through the same deception by the so called men of God. Nigerians are the most gullible people I have seen in my life. Both the educated and uneducated are equally brainwashed easily by men of God. It has little to do with marriage. To blame our marriage you have to blame our criticize our culture first. Donating all she earned was an act of bravery but executed foolishly. 1 Like |
Re: My Wife Gave Her December Salary As Seed To Rev. Father Without My Knowledge by eeewise(m): 7:08pm On Jan 02, 2018 |
“If a woman living with her husband makes a vow or obligates herself by a pledge under oath 11 and her husband hears about it but says nothing to her and does not forbid her, then all her vows or the pledges by which she obligated herself will stand. 12 But if her husband nullifies them when he hears about them, then none of the vows or pledges that came from her lips will stand. Her husband has nullified them, and the LORD will release her. 13 Her husband may confirm or nullify any vow she makes or any sworn pledge to deny herself. a 14 But if her husband says nothing to her about it from day to day, then he confirms all her vows or the pledges binding on her. He confirms them by saying nothing to her when he hears about them. 1 Like |
Re: My Wife Gave Her December Salary As Seed To Rev. Father Without My Knowledge by postmann: 7:09pm On Jan 02, 2018 |
Sheunma: Who is better than who? Was that the understanding you came away it? |
Re: My Wife Gave Her December Salary As Seed To Rev. Father Without My Knowledge by ubunja(m): 7:12pm On Jan 02, 2018 |
3nim:love gets you doing dumb stuff. when men are in love they are stupid. like how men on this thread think its OK for a woman to give the whole salary to a pastor without even telling the husband. if it was their own mother or young sister who did that they would be saying its wrong. but coz its a woman they love... 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: My Wife Gave Her December Salary As Seed To Rev. Father Without My Knowledge by ddjay: 7:14pm On Jan 02, 2018 |
lawman88:PROSPERITY TINS BROS,the catholics better know now that they are gradually becoming like pentecostal churches,no be today ds kind of copy copy start na,so make dem drop d beef and harmonise. As per u bros, ur wife went to so seed to the "man of God" so just ask her what she aims to achieve, may be for your success, political ambition and etc. |
Re: My Wife Gave Her December Salary As Seed To Rev. Father Without My Knowledge by Nobody: 7:14pm On Jan 02, 2018 |
postmann: I found the comment a little weird... Do you mean that RCCG is clearly better than the Catholic churches? Or should it before easy for people to switch for love? |
Re: My Wife Gave Her December Salary As Seed To Rev. Father Without My Knowledge by Sheunma: 7:19pm On Jan 02, 2018 |
postmann:oh! Maybe I was too forward then. But pray tell what u meant by " bringing his wife under his spiritual fortress and fact that he's rccg and the wife a Catholic. |
Re: My Wife Gave Her December Salary As Seed To Rev. Father Without My Knowledge by Nobody: 7:20pm On Jan 02, 2018 |
ubunja: Hmmm Lots of people are stupid in love, really. 1 Like |
Re: My Wife Gave Her December Salary As Seed To Rev. Father Without My Knowledge by maxwell767(m): 7:21pm On Jan 02, 2018 |
lawman88: Emmm.. Abeg are u sure she gave it to the rev. Or she decided to save on her own for important occasion.. Maybe u always ask her about her income and this time she doesn't wanna share... Am a catholic and there is no way a priest can ask someone to bring his salary or even mention money except the church needs a donation for church project! And every donations goes to the church account not rev. Acct. 3 Likes |
Re: My Wife Gave Her December Salary As Seed To Rev. Father Without My Knowledge by Nobody: 7:25pm On Jan 02, 2018 |
maxwell767: He implied that his wife was "led by the spirit" and not asked by the priest. |
Re: My Wife Gave Her December Salary As Seed To Rev. Father Without My Knowledge by africanusvu(m): 7:25pm On Jan 02, 2018 |
lawman88:.Don't know why u have started this ur lies so early again this yr.u now want to incite rccg against Catholics for fun of it?poor u |
Re: My Wife Gave Her December Salary As Seed To Rev. Father Without My Knowledge by postmann: 7:27pm On Jan 02, 2018 |
3nim: Sheunma: There was no direct or implied comparison between both churches in my post. A simpler narrative would read thus; a man is the spiritual head of his home. A situation where a man and his wife worship at different churches is a fundamental marital error, which I place squarely at the table of the man being the head. |
Re: My Wife Gave Her December Salary As Seed To Rev. Father Without My Knowledge by jaggedboi(m): 7:27pm On Jan 02, 2018 |
stanliwise:I am not God. I do not have the ultimate right to state categorically if her seed is null and void. Thanks for the correction 1 Like |
Re: My Wife Gave Her December Salary As Seed To Rev. Father Without My Knowledge by Aarenaija: 7:29pm On Jan 02, 2018 |
If the intention is right, trust me, she did the right thing. For it to even be a reverend father, she has sowed right. Expect blessings. Pray along with her. |
Re: My Wife Gave Her December Salary As Seed To Rev. Father Without My Knowledge by Eleganza33(f): 7:30pm On Jan 02, 2018 |
internationalman:haha i tink say na only me hates dat 1 Like |
Re: My Wife Gave Her December Salary As Seed To Rev. Father Without My Knowledge by Nobody: 7:30pm On Jan 02, 2018 |
ubunja:pastor was not mentioned but priest.. I understand where you're going to but you need to understand that you don't give offering and tithe to priest or pastor rather to God but what they do with it should not bother you unless you were forced to do so... |
Re: My Wife Gave Her December Salary As Seed To Rev. Father Without My Knowledge by oruma19: 7:31pm On Jan 02, 2018 |
Numbers 30:10-12. Reject that vow and call back that money sharp sharp. Ur wife is an idiot and a disobedient fool. She serves her pastor and not God. My wife can't try that because I already warned her that if she does its a sin against the God she claims to honor with the vow. Any vow a woman makes must be with the consent of the husband. If she doesn't bring back the money arrest the pastor for 419. Responsible pastors ask questions when women bring things to them. Simple and short. |
Re: My Wife Gave Her December Salary As Seed To Rev. Father Without My Knowledge by miceroms: 7:32pm On Jan 02, 2018 |
lawman88: The fear of being stopped should not be a reason not to at least discuss that with the husband. That is clearly wrong and negates spiritual authority. If the Spirit actually ministered to the woman to do so, he can also convince the husband about it. The story of the woman who housed the Prophet Elisha is a clear example. She discussed with the husband the Ed to build him a house. 2nd Kings 4: 8-37. |
Re: My Wife Gave Her December Salary As Seed To Rev. Father Without My Knowledge by Daeylar(f): 7:33pm On Jan 02, 2018 |
Richy4: Lol, disaster waiting to happen. What she did is very wrong, op has every right to be pissed off. 1 Like |
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