gbosaa:



So she showed a might seed to the Catholic Church using her December salary because she wants to conceive?

I think you should sow another mighty seed to RCCG using your January salary.

Tell her you did it so she can deliver twins.

gbosaa:



So she showed a might seed to the Catholic Church using her December salary because she wants to conceive?

I think you should sow another mighty seed to RCCG using your January salary.

Tell her you did it so she can deliver twins.

pocohantas:


I dare say, I am yet to see any happily married woman:
I mean one who loves, respects and listens to her husband, while he reciprocates, doing extreme things for pastors.

The most unhappy married Nigerian women are found in the church. They are the easiest to brainwash. They see things in their pastors that they wish to see in their husbands, they automatically give him the respect that should be given to their husbands. The pastors on their part are trained to listen, something most husbands don't do. So, she pours out her mind to him.

If they are not praying and sowing seeds against sidechics, it's for a child, against troublesome in-laws, for their husband's love, their husband/children's progress...etc.

They won't stop, a miracle must happen in this 2018.

dirtydiva:
pastor was not mentioned but priest..
I understand where you're going to but you need to understand that you don't give offering and tithe to priest or pastor rather to God but what they do with it should not bother you unless you were forced to do so...

Guysses:
OP pls take ur marriage off social media if u really want to enjoy it.. ur wife may be looking for something nd decide to sow a seed for that, i dnt see any thing wrong wt it nd she must nt tell u to sow seed... she didnt give a gift bt seed

makydebbie:
See how singles with no knowledge about how marriage works are telling op to divorce his wife. Can you imagine the irony? So when he leaves his wife, what next? He should come for your sister's hand abi?

If that's how marriage work, I wonder how many couples we'll see.

pocohantas:
She didn't notify you, because she did not want you to stop her.

I don't think it's always about doctrine, your wife is the typical Nigerian wife, the church is their only relief from the pains and challenges that comes with marriage.

Is she trying to conceive?

eeewise:
“If a woman living with her husband makes a vow or obligates herself by a pledge under oath 11 and her husband hears about it but says nothing to her and does not forbid her, then all her vows or the pledges by which she obligated herself will stand. 12 But if her husband nullifies them when he hears about them, then none of the vows or pledges that came from her lips will stand. Her husband has nullified them, and the LORD will release her. 13 Her husband may confirm or nullify any vow she makes or any sworn pledge to deny herself. a 14 But if her husband says nothing to her about it from day to day, then he confirms all her vows or the pledges binding on her. He confirms them by saying nothing to her when he hears about them.

pocohantas:
She didn't notify you, because she did not want you to stop her.

I don't think it's always about doctrine, your wife is the typical Nigerian wife, the church is their only relief from the pains and challenges that comes with marriage.

Is she trying to conceive?

pocohantas:


I dare say, I am yet to see any happily married woman:
I mean one who loves, respects and listens to her husband, while he reciprocates, doing extreme things for pastors.

The most unhappy married Nigerian women are found in the church. They are the easiest to brainwash. They see things in their pastors that they wish to see in their husbands, they automatically give him the respect that should be given to their husbands. The pastors on their part are trained to listen, something most husbands don't do. So, she pours out her mind to him.

If they are not praying and sowing seeds against sidechics, it's for a child, against troublesome in-laws, for their husband's love, their husband/children's progress...etc.

They won't stop, a miracle must happen in this 2018.

pocohantas:


I knew it. You better talk to your wife, listen to her and support her. Next thing, they tell her it's your mother that tied her womb.
The main trouble will start.

It's too early to be under such pressure.
Is this pressure internal or external? Never mind.

Just, talk to her. You both should be aware of such spending.

maxwell767:




Emmm.. Abeg are u sure she gave it to the rev. Or she decided to save on her own for important occasion..
Maybe u always ask her about her income and this time she doesn't wanna share...

Am a catholic and there is no way a priest can ask someone to bring his salary or even mention money except the church needs a donation for church project! And every donations goes to the church account not rev. Acct.

lawman88:
Happy new year Nairalanders,

My wife is very churchy and spiritual. I love her for that but she told me this morning that the spirit ministered to her to sow something huge to a reverend father, so she carried all her December salary and gave to a reverend father. I asked her why she didn't notify me before she undertook it and she said such instructions should be carried out without anybody's knowledge.

I'm not a catholic member, I'm RCCG. catholic members in the house, is that how your doctrine is? We are young couple and I wish we don't have any serious disagreement for now.

lawman88:

Yes. She is trying to conceive. The marriage is just four months

okimba13:
Bro, this is marriage it's not about the doctrine. It all depends on how u run your family, may be you have never asked about her salary and that's why she used it thinking u would not have need to ask about it as usual.
To my own understanding offering to God is always a personal thing, if you re giving offering to God your left hand should not know what u are giving to him that was what we were taught in catechism classes. But as I earlier stated it all depends on weda u do ask about her salary before now or not.
Finally no the carry your marriage matter come social media. Marriage no b for 3rd parties...
Basket ball no be dwarfs.

Pierohandsome:
Spiritual obedience is sensitive and personal. She acted based on the knowledge of ur spiritual level, decisions like that doesnt require any consultation frm third party especially if she knows the spiritual level of the person she is trying to confide with is low.

She did the right thing, be happy with Her and move on

africanusvu:
.Don't know why u have started this ur lies so early again this yr.u now want to incite rccg against Catholics for fun of it?poor u

Nne5:
Lol this poco girl ehn

Pierohandsome:
ur spiritual level is also low. If she told her husband and his faith is not strong enough to accommodate the move what do u think wil Happen? He wil stop her frm obeying the divine instruction and deny her the blessing God prepared for her at that point.

As for carrying responsibility, leave that for God and see hw marvelous God is. Spiritual obedience comes with a cost bt the end product is glory

Daeylar:


Lol, disaster waiting to happen.
What she did is very wrong, op has every right to be pissed off.

cerowo:

Very true poco.
Nigeria women/ moms are somehow the head of the family, with all those workload they carries