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Re: My Wife Gave Her December Salary As Seed To Rev. Father Without My Knowledge by Iamzik: 7:35pm On Jan 02, 2018 |
gbosaa: And then drink Garri till end of February. Wicked! 1 Like |
Re: My Wife Gave Her December Salary As Seed To Rev. Father Without My Knowledge by bosunayoola: 7:35pm On Jan 02, 2018 |
My brother , thank God for the kind of woman he gave u.she did right thing,may be she thought if she told u ,u may not approve it. The seed is not only for her but both of u and she was ministered to by the holy ghost and actrd based on instruction of the spirit. On.those of u asking the guy to file for divorce, it shows the kind of person u re and thats why u can get a virtuos woman like that but i thank God for such a great blessing from God to this man. Thank God for and embrace her for shes the best. |
Re: My Wife Gave Her December Salary As Seed To Rev. Father Without My Knowledge by Osashalom: 7:35pm On Jan 02, 2018 |
It's wrong somehow but not entirely wrong. That you are here complaining can go a long way to tell us why she didn't tell you. Bros it is more blessed to give than to receive. |
Re: My Wife Gave Her December Salary As Seed To Rev. Father Without My Knowledge by JKisOK(m): 7:36pm On Jan 02, 2018 |
If it would affect the home, then she owed a duty to seek your permission or cooperation. Check out this Bible passage. NUMBERS 30 1 ¶ And Moses spake unto the heads of the tribes concerning the children of Israel, saying, This is the thing which the LORD hath commanded. 2 If a man vow a vow unto the LORD, or swear an oath to bind his soul with a bond; he shall not break his word, he shall do according to all that proceedeth out of his mouth. {break: Heb. profane} 3 ¶ If a woman also vow a vow unto the LORD, and bind herself by a bond, being in her father's house in her youth; 4 And her father hear her vow, and her bond wherewith she hath bound her soul, and her father shall hold his peace at her: then all her vows shall stand, and every bond wherewith she hath bound her soul shall stand. 5 But if her father disallow her in the day that he heareth; not any of her vows, or of her bonds wherewith she hath bound her soul, shall stand: and the LORD shall forgive her, because her father disallowed her. 6 And if she had at all an husband, when she vowed, or uttered ought out of her lips, wherewith she bound her soul; {she vowed: Heb. her vows were upon her} 7 And her husband heard it, and held his peace at her in the day that he heard it: then her vows shall stand, and her bonds wherewith she bound her soul shall stand. 8 But if her husband disallowed her on the day that he heard it; then he shall make her vow which she vowed, and that which she uttered with her lips, wherewith she bound her soul, of none effect: and the LORD shall forgive her. 9 But every vow of a widow, and of her that is divorced, wherewith they have bound their souls, shall stand against her. 10 And if she vowed in her husband's house, or bound her soul by a bond with an oath; 11 And her husband heard it, and held his peace at her, and disallowed her not: then all her vows shall stand, and every bond wherewith she bound her soul shall stand. 12 But if her husband hath utterly made them void on the day he heard them; then whatsoever proceeded out of her lips concerning her vows, or concerning the bond of her soul, shall not stand: her husband hath made them void; and the LORD shall forgive her. 13 Every vow, and every binding oath to afflict the soul, her husband may establish it, or her husband may make it void. 14 But if her husband altogether hold his peace at her from day to day; then he establisheth all her vows, or all her bonds, which are upon her: he confirmeth them, because he held his peace at her in the day that he heard them. 15 But if he shall any ways make them void after that he hath heard them; then he shall bear her iniquity. 16 These are the statutes, which the LORD commanded Moses, between a man and his wife, between the father and his daughter, being yet in her youth in her father's house. |
Re: My Wife Gave Her December Salary As Seed To Rev. Father Without My Knowledge by Obason22(m): 7:37pm On Jan 02, 2018 |
well, as a couple we all have different desire in terms of spiritual life, even as u become one flesh ,but the truth is that as husband and man who is carrying all d load even though she is working class, she does not suppose to act without your consent, And secondly u are a member of RCCG while she is Catholic, to me my wife most belong to my religion. |
Re: My Wife Gave Her December Salary As Seed To Rev. Father Without My Knowledge by bosunayoola: 7:37pm On Jan 02, 2018 |
My brother , thank God for the kind of woman he gave u.she did right thing.may be she thought if she told u ,u may not approve it. The seed is not only for her but both of u and she was ministered to by the holy ghost and acted based on instruction of the spirit. On those of u asking the guy to file for divorce, it shows the kind of person u re and thats why u cant get a virtuos woman like that but i thank God for such a great blessing from God to this man. Thank God for and embrace her for she's the best. |
Re: My Wife Gave Her December Salary As Seed To Rev. Father Without My Knowledge by Daeylar(f): 7:37pm On Jan 02, 2018 |
gbosaa: LMAO ![]() |
Re: My Wife Gave Her December Salary As Seed To Rev. Father Without My Knowledge by okimba13: 7:38pm On Jan 02, 2018 |
Bro, this is marriage it's not about the doctrine. It all depends on how u run your family, may be you have never asked about her salary and that's why she used it thinking u would not have need to ask about it as usual. To my own understanding offering to God is always a personal thing, if you re giving offering to God your left hand should not know what u are giving to him that was what we were taught in catechism classes. But as I earlier stated it all depends on weda u do ask about her salary before now or not. Finally no the carry your marriage matter come social media. Marriage no b for 3rd parties... Basket ball no be dwarfs. |
Re: My Wife Gave Her December Salary As Seed To Rev. Father Without My Knowledge by Rhea(f): 7:39pm On Jan 02, 2018 |
pocohantas: True talk. Priests and pastors are the naija equivalent of shrinks |
Re: My Wife Gave Her December Salary As Seed To Rev. Father Without My Knowledge by deltapikin(m): 7:39pm On Jan 02, 2018 |
Yes. She is trying to conceive. The marriage is just four months I will advice you to talk to your wife instead of bringing your family issue to the social media. Your marriage is just four months, it is better to discuss with her and make her understand that both of you are married as husband and wife. There is no catholic doctrine that mandate a wife/husband to give his/her salary as seed offering. 2 Likes |
Re: My Wife Gave Her December Salary As Seed To Rev. Father Without My Knowledge by ubunja(m): 7:40pm On Jan 02, 2018 |
dirtydiva:its not about giving its about 1.the secrecy 2.the amount. no matter what,the wife's act to conceal the whole thing was wrong.and for her to give the whole salary without consulting her husband was wrong on so many levels.disrespect to her husband being one of those. people need to understand that God is not glorified in such disorderly acts. even the lying couple Annanias and Saphirra acted in agreement in what they did. marriage is about 2 becoming 1.if one party still acts like she is single then its better to make her single. divorce her 2 Likes |
Re: My Wife Gave Her December Salary As Seed To Rev. Father Without My Knowledge by skubido(m): 7:41pm On Jan 02, 2018 |
Guysses: i tire oo, here b say na anyhow pple dey, na im u dey carry ur family mata cum. |
Re: My Wife Gave Her December Salary As Seed To Rev. Father Without My Knowledge by TheUbermensch: 7:41pm On Jan 02, 2018 |
makydebbie: God bless you for this. The problem with Nairaland is everyone seems all knowing. That is how they go about deceiving poor folks in matters they have no knowledge about. But I don't blame them fully. I blame the ones who bring very private matters to the internet. |
Re: My Wife Gave Her December Salary As Seed To Rev. Father Without My Knowledge by drnoel: 7:45pm On Jan 02, 2018 |
pocohantas: Well said bros, has nothing to do with catholic doctrines. The catholic church will not approve sef if they are aware of what she did 1 Like |
Re: My Wife Gave Her December Salary As Seed To Rev. Father Without My Knowledge by Iamzik: 7:45pm On Jan 02, 2018 |
eeewise: Bible verse please sir |
Re: My Wife Gave Her December Salary As Seed To Rev. Father Without My Knowledge by Nobody: 7:45pm On Jan 02, 2018 |
That's a nice move of her... But at last she told you na.. So just take things easy and advice her to always let you in on her move next time. |
Re: My Wife Gave Her December Salary As Seed To Rev. Father Without My Knowledge by hopefulLandlord: 7:47pm On Jan 02, 2018 |
pocohantas: pocohantas: pocohantas: I'm impressed |
Re: My Wife Gave Her December Salary As Seed To Rev. Father Without My Knowledge by lawman88(m): 7:48pm On Jan 02, 2018 |
maxwell767:The problem you have is that you don't read or you don't understand even if you read. Read what I posted, I didn't say reverend father asked her. And I don't ask her for money. She just felt like telling me this morning may be her mind was condemning her I guessed |
Re: My Wife Gave Her December Salary As Seed To Rev. Father Without My Knowledge by Andy2274: 7:50pm On Jan 02, 2018 |
lawman88:. I was about concluding what to tell your wife before your last paragraph and I am convinced that such thing didn't happen at all. How does giving to a priest has to do with doctrine? What about your G.O that is requesting for 1billion naira? Is that your doctrine? Treat issues the way it suppose to be treated and leave sentiment if you really call yourself a christian. As far as I am concerned you lied. You just cooked up the story. RCCG condemning seed sowing when people even sell their houses and cars to sow seed to Adeboye. 1 Like |
Re: My Wife Gave Her December Salary As Seed To Rev. Father Without My Knowledge by ezzyoj(m): 7:50pm On Jan 02, 2018 |
Pls talk her nothing should be done without ur consent. |
Re: My Wife Gave Her December Salary As Seed To Rev. Father Without My Knowledge by redsun(m): 7:50pm On Jan 02, 2018 |
Are sure she is not having some kind intimate relationship with the father?How on earth can somebody willing give away his/her hard earned money to an obvious freeloader in that hellish nigeria? She will be forgiven if she had given it to homeless or the sick that needs money for treatment. 1 Like |
Re: My Wife Gave Her December Salary As Seed To Rev. Father Without My Knowledge by Nobody: 7:51pm On Jan 02, 2018 |
You guys should probably have a serious conversation about this, before it’s your life’s savings that she will give to another man of God 5years from now. Everything should be done in moderation. The reason I can’t marry someone that is too religious is because of something like this. They are hardly logical in their reasoning. How would you guys have survived if you were dependent on her salary alone? She has given hers away, what if you did same with yours? Except your marriage isn’t one where you discuss how you both spend your money. Your marriage, so you should know what approach will work best with your partner. 1 Like |
Re: My Wife Gave Her December Salary As Seed To Rev. Father Without My Knowledge by Analee(f): 7:51pm On Jan 02, 2018 |
lawman88:as she has finish emptyn her acct,shud n case nothn works out advice her to go OPM.tank me later 1 Like |
Re: My Wife Gave Her December Salary As Seed To Rev. Father Without My Knowledge by Iamzik: 7:51pm On Jan 02, 2018 |
okimba13: Bros forget that right and left hand talk. In marriage there is no right and left hand. Bible says the two are now one. What of their rent is due and the husband also decides to go sow his rent to daddy GO and the landlord throws them out? God is a God of orderliness. The woman should run such decisions by her husband. Even if just for information sake before not after. 1 Like |
Re: My Wife Gave Her December Salary As Seed To Rev. Father Without My Knowledge by mceze(m): 7:51pm On Jan 02, 2018 |
Pierohandsome: Spiritual obedience my a*rse..That woman does not respect her husband..Take it or leave it |
Re: My Wife Gave Her December Salary As Seed To Rev. Father Without My Knowledge by lawman88(m): 7:51pm On Jan 02, 2018 |
africanusvu: ![]() Your delusion has reached its crescendo. So you think I will lie about my marital issues |
Re: My Wife Gave Her December Salary As Seed To Rev. Father Without My Knowledge by mechanics(m): 7:53pm On Jan 02, 2018 |
Nne5:hahaha. |
Re: My Wife Gave Her December Salary As Seed To Rev. Father Without My Knowledge by robotix: 7:53pm On Jan 02, 2018 |
Pierohandsome: Look at people I share a country with. So you need someone else to get blessing from God? 1 Like |
Re: My Wife Gave Her December Salary As Seed To Rev. Father Without My Knowledge by Richy4(m): 7:57pm On Jan 02, 2018 |
Daeylar: I was surprised a lot of people saw nothing wrong with what she did.. as if marriage was not between the two of them.. Assuming she has no saving, whose salary and income will she be depending on till the next pay package comes..? Since they are young couples, assuming the man got no house of his own and was planning to start doing a housing project with half of his income with the hope that the wife will contribute, that means the plan will not materialize because she has handed her pay to a priest.. 1 Like |
Re: My Wife Gave Her December Salary As Seed To Rev. Father Without My Knowledge by Ladyhippolyta88(f): 8:01pm On Jan 02, 2018 |
cerowo:It is not some how they are. |
Re: My Wife Gave Her December Salary As Seed To Rev. Father Without My Knowledge by adexpa(m): 8:05pm On Jan 02, 2018 |
My dear brother, I am sorry to start with this note ......' I am disappointed in your action for coming here to rubbish yourself and your family'. you mentioned you are a PhD student so, I expected some level of maturity in you. Your wife is a human, she is bound to make a mistake and that is why you are there to correct her. What she has done was not bad but she had only done it without process which you can simply correct her against for her not to repeat such next time other than coming to nairaland for childish advice. You are calling parties already which will bring loophole to your family by having wrong advice. 1 Like |
Re: My Wife Gave Her December Salary As Seed To Rev. Father Without My Knowledge by IkpuMmadu: 8:05pm On Jan 02, 2018 |
Catholics don't accept tithe but can accept seed faith but why you go different church with your wife |
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