BlackDBagba:
Tell her I said Happy New year.

BenShammer:
This question is very interesting. OP what d'you think she should do?

frozen70:

If life is better for her after separation, let it be. Domestic violence has led many to early grave. Separation comes in where couple's can no longer find love in between themselves. Lwa of survival is me first.

frozen70:

If life is better for her after separation, let it be. Domestic violence has led many to early grave. Separation comes in where couple's can no longer find love in between themselves. Lwa of survival is me first.

ubunja:
while we shout Equal Rights we still expect men to be the sole provider.and if the man fails to deliver he is driven out.
smh.no wonder feminism is never going places.
if tha guy did the equivalent ; by discovering the wife cant give birth and chased her out he would be called lucifer himself. but since its a woman, its all sympathy for her.coz men really cant be victims.
take your equal rights and shove them where the sun dont shine.

ubunja:
while we shout Equal Rights we still expect men to be the sole provider.and if the man fails to deliver he is driven out.
smh.no wonder feminism is never going places.
if tha guy did the equivalent ; by discovering the wife cant give birth and chased her out he would be called lucifer himself. but since its a woman, its all sympathy for her.coz men really cant be victims.
take your equal rights and shove them where the sun dont shine.

ibkayee:

Lol this guy your points would make sense if he’d been described as a decent character just down on his luck job wise or something, the husband is allegedly lazy, jealous and wicked

ubunja:

my points still make sense even if the husband is lazy jealous and wicked. so the man must be homeless just coz he's not perfect? are women themselves perfect? i know many wives who cant cook for sh!t,some who cant even keep a house tidy and fresh.most dont even have respect. yet they are not driven out. but men's short-comings are always Unpardonable Sins. must men always be perfect?

ubunja:
while we shout Equal Rights we still expect men to be the sole provider.and if the man fails to deliver he is driven out.
smh.no wonder feminism is never going places.
if tha guy did the equivalent ; by discovering the wife cant give birth and chased her out he would be called lucifer himself. but since its a woman, its all sympathy for her.coz men really cant be victims.
take your equal rights and shove them where the sun dont shine.

yeyerolling:
Both of them are mad. Seems ur sis forced him to marry her cos she don dey old. Nonsense

makydebbie:
What made her endure for so long...?

ibkayee:

Lol guy you made it seem like he was driven out just because he wasn’t the sole provider, we’re talking about his character. If a wife was also wicked, lazy etc I wouldn’t blame the husband for driving her out either

There’s a difference between not being perfect and being ‘wicked’, like I said if he wasn’t wicked, lazy etc and the issue was that he couldn’t find a job I would understand your initial points. Women aren’t driven out? Men’s shirt comings are always unpardonable lol you must be talking about a different Nigeria

frozen70:

Thanks for understanding, the issue here is not that he is not working, he works but he is jealous of the wife progress and because he has a bad heart, he wish to control her resources. All the money the wife is making goes to the running of their home. Worst still he is lazy he doesn't believe that as a man he should over labour himself to fend for his family. Giving her a threats that he will kill her and later told her he will frustrate her that was the last straw that brakes the camel back.
Uptill now he his the issues from his mother put of all his brothers only one is aware and what he wants is for him to reconcile with the wife with out third parties, but the wife insisted that his family must hear the matter then both families can come Roger to hear their stories and get them settled if their is any need for them to get together again

ubunja:
while we shout Equal Rights we still expect men to be the sole provider.and if the man fails to deliver he is driven out.
smh.no wonder feminism is never going places.
if tha guy did the equivalent ; by discovering the wife cant give birth and chased her out he would be called lucifer himself. but since its a woman, its all sympathy for her.coz men really cant be victims.
take your equal rights and shove them where the sun dont shine.

khiaa:


Stop making excuses for him because he is a boy, if someone threatens to kill you he has to go.

ubunja:

like women diont make threats and are perfect creatures...get out of here.
u seem to have gotten it all twisted coz i seen women in abusive relationships with men who actuallly beat them up and threaten to kill them return to these men until the man really does them in.
the issue here is the guy is broke.if the guy had money it would be a diferent story

khiaa:


Well the issue is the guy was a lazy azz from the start, who leached off of his wife, yes she is part of the blame because she married the guy knowing what kind of person he was. Your comment about women leaving their abusive husbands then returning to them only to be murdered by them should be an eye opener to you to why this guy needed to go. The guy is broke because he chose to be that way simply because he didn't want to work. If the guy would try to contribute to the finances they would be building together.